debbydams:
Op u are right..but my bf can't come visiting nd I won't cook for him even if my female friend is I will cook for her.. Cooking � is not part of it.. The some occasions u cn wash your partner wears too

I don't know you,but you are matured ladies not all this girls...keep it up..

pocohantas:


And you know Naija guys, once you do certain things for them- they either start seeing a future or suspecting you. Nigga please, I am not even seeing you. Eat the damn food and bounce. It is just food mahn!

Start seeing future cos i made food for you to eat? what a joke

Tyewolove:
You're very right but I disagree with number 1, it's better I marry an old man then a young man that won't give me peace of mind.

That doesn't mean you should marry old man now.. Look at the future and old age...There are many real man and responsible man outside there..that can gave their wife peace of mind...It all depend how you attract them and chat with them..they are so many sister..

LegendaryLover:

Very true. My former neighbour cohabitated with his girlfriend for some years before marrying her.
It's time we all put away some archaic mindset. Cohabiting can be good, sometimes.

it is a probability, and not directed to a point, what if it turns out bad?

Olaideolayemi:
I don't know you,but you are matured ladies not all this girls...keep it up..

if u want to keep a man cooking � good food is part of it o..nobi only sex.. What do u chioma used to win davido's hrt

Sarita01:


God bless you my sister,especially washing of clothes, who does that, I once knew a girl that was already washing clothes 2 weeks into the relationship, shame catch me for her matter.

Y shame catch you?Is it a crime for a ladies to help their boyfriend to wash cloth and other stuff?if tomorrow the same guy appreciate her for her gesture, I believe you be the first jealous of the kind ladies..the next things is to pressure your guy that,he need do this or that...change your mindset..

Olaideolayemi:
Y shame catch you?Is it a crime for a ladies to help their boyfriend to wash cloth and other stuff?if tomorrow the same guy appreciate her for her gesture, I believe you be the first jealous of the kind ladies..the next things is to pressure your guy that,he need do this or that...change your mindset..

Haha, appreciate ke, that relationship didn't last up to 2months, that's when I knew you can never please a man,just do the one you can and leave the rest for him, no come kee yourself o.

I'm changing no shit my brother, I'm not washing anybody's clothes,it's the only thing I can't and won't compromise,it's either he accepts me like that or I move on

When I read number three, I had to stop to check ur moniker before continuing to the next one....

shashaperry:


Start seeing future cos i made food for you to eat? what a joke

Why can't he see a future, do you intend to date who you cannot marry? As for me o, I don't think it's proper to propose to who you know you cannot marry, or to accept such proposal. That's why some youth are being force into marriage this dispensation, after getting pregnant. Even if their is no love link between both of them, people will say since she's pregnant for him, that's his wife automatically. But marriage should not be because of pregnancy but because of readiness to carry some responsibilities, procreate, e.t.c

It's now I admit that truly women are the enemies of women
Some of them are bragging here as if they have never done any of the above mentioned before and it's a lie.
And for those that are saying they can never cook, watch cloth, for their boyfriends I KNOW SOME OF YOU LACK GOOD HOME TRAINING and it's because you don't know how to do it and you don't want him to know you weaking area that's why you are hiding it.
And I can't be surprise seeing you at age 30 still living with your parent because you attitude is not mature enough to become a house wife and no man will prefer quantity to quality
.
And I know in some decades to come women will be the one to be luring men in marriage as it already happening in eaurope and America

Sarita01:


Haha, appreciate ke, that relationship didn't last up to 2months, that's when I knew you can never please a man,just do the one you can and leave the rest for him, no come kee yourself o.

I'm changing no shit my brother, I'm not washing anybody's clothes,it's the only thing I can't and won't compromise,it's either he accepts me like that or I move on

Hope you are still a virgin sha? cos if a man can be able to penetrate you once anything that later happen we don't count it as loss ooo
and you are the one that will keep moving till you develop grey hairs because you lack attitude and you're the type that will later be going from mountain to hills in searching for husband

NasMaleeq:
Hope you are still a virgin sha? cos if a man can be able to penetrate you once anything that later happen we don't count it as loss ooo
and you are the one that will keep moving till you develop grey hairs because you lack attitude and you're the type that will later be going from mountain to hills in searching for husband

Wow, all this for someone who refuses to wash a fully grown and able bodied man's clothes? So now, I lack attitude cos I refuse to be a washer woman? I'm not understanding

Shortyy:



Bruh i ain't cooking no washing clothes for anyone that I'm not married to. Only low self-esteem and pick me women do that.

The fact that y'all assume every unmarried lady is unhappy baffles me lmao. You're so misinformed.

Marriage is not and will never be an achievement. Mercy Johnson's life isn't better than any unmarried woman's life. Trust me sweetheart.

Ofcus darling you're entitled to your principles & choices buh remember only people with low esteem do so much to keep it bloating, same way gurls with small boobs av to keep up with pushup bra & mouka foam bras high esteem is when you go really down low n still keep ur headup not feeling intimidated.
some gurls are naturally homely, doing house chores is more of an hobby than a duty, they are not fools and its not a bad idea if you decide to impress your man.
Maybe not every single lady is sad, buh show me a single lady in her 30's without a suitor that is happy then i go burst ur bubble.
Maybe marriage is not an achievement, buh remember achievement could be anything you term it.
i don't know what defines your better, buh believe me when i say there is nothing better than having it all, she has it all. kids, money, career, fame & a husband. why have some when you can have it all sweetie

Sarita01:


Wow, all this for someone who refuses to wash a fully grown and able bodied man's clothes? So now, I lack attitude cos I refuse to be a washer woman? I'm not understanding

but you'll expect me to pay some bills on you rights?
and you are expecting me to pay ur bride price when you've not been useful to me?
why do you think courting is necessary before getting married if not for us to study each other
If you cant do it while we are dating Definitely you won't find it easier to do wen we get married
So, you just want to come to my house spend my money, eat my food, have fun and that's all
NA ME BORN YOU?

3,5,6,7 all garbage opinions.

Stop this 3rd world shit people are inventing alternative energy you are here policing peoples relationship choices.

virginprincess:
My dear you are very correct, i really pity ladies that do such stuff, how can you move in with a man that is not yet your husband, if that man marries such lady i bet you he will never value the lady, and again i still wonder why girls fight themselves because of a man, assuming is even a responsible man i will understand, it is always useless boys they are fight for, seriously it is really pathetic.

*Coughs* Bullshet

Sarita01:


Haha, appreciate ke, that relationship didn't last up to 2months, that's when I knew you can never please a man,just do the one you can and leave the rest for him, no come kee yourself o.

I'm changing no shit my brother, I'm not washing anybody's clothes,it's the only thing I can't and won't compromise,it's either he accepts me like that or I move on

The fact that,it doesn't work for A does not mean it won't work for others...All men are not the same..know that..During dating my ex cooked for me,wash my cloth and do other stuff,but the relationship don't work..Till today we are still communicating, even planning by next yr,I may request for her account detail,note ooo.She is married ooo.but whenever I think about the past,I wish to appreciate her for sacrifice towards me..That is y..All men are not the same..I don't look for sex in a woman,beauty,or others stuff..What I need is good character, understanding and peace of mind..That is y I don't chase woman,immediately I talk to you and you reject me..I will just go,because I know my role in a relationship.. That is y,my attitude to woman depends on your character not sex or other stuff...No problem.. It is your choice..

debbydams:
if u want to keep a man cooking � good food is part of it o..nobi only sex.. What do u chioma used to win davido's hrt

Not all ladies understand this,A ladies just reply a comment,and she is telling me y,we won't cook or wash a man cloth..Although, she generalize all men,but not all men reject commitment ladies..it may not lead to marriage because of one reason to another.. but let have good memories to each other.. That is y since I started dating in my life..I don't hurt any woman,unless u don't understand me or you don't just have Patience.. Because I don't do things in hurry,rather than steps and procedure.. But many woman have hurt me in my life due to some nice guy principle.. I don't give up,rather I updates myself to become the kind of man I want to be..gradually I will be there..thanks..

Lol

debbydams:
if u want to keep a man cooking � good food is part of it o..nobi only sex.. What do u chioma used to win davido's hrt

Sorry let me divert to other issues,I saw a post you posted around Nov,that you hate love...Sister don't hate love..Men are not the same,the fact A that A attend to you badly,does not mean B will do the same..This is story relate to mine small..That was my school days.. The ladies is given me money, wash my plate,brought food for me..do some crazy help for me...Initially I help her in all her courses and she is doing well,because of what I did for her,I get close to me a lot to extend that friends notice her..And deep inside me..love don carry me go...She understand me die, Are only weakness is that, she is stubborn and materialistic in nature..during that time,am very broke,and let say there is poverty,because I only depend on my mum for survive. I graduated before her,immediately she graduated, she change,she said I don't buy her anything,that are should go and look for a job..before you know,she set me up with her friend..sister I cried that day,I things pain me,the girl I dated for two good years with understanding.. Since that time,I don't believe in love again..rather I believed in understanding and peace of mind..immediately I notice a ladies is requesting what I don't have the capacity I quickly withdrawn, before what my ex did to me to happen again...After some years,she want to come back I said No..She send a friend request to me on Facebook this yr,but due to some policy am using in my life,I neglect till next yr by the Grace of God... But today..Her rejection have taken me to a blessed life..Today am comfortable, all her materialistic intention are under my foot..But want me,but I decided I don't want them until I achieved the last one..I won't tell you that, so that I won't be proud or Arrogance. Am telling you this, because of your formal post..just give up..if she has Patience, she would have been enjoying her sacrifices she did for me then. because me I like Appreciation to people that help me during the hard period of my life..Sister thanks and take Care..

debbydams:
if u want to keep a man cooking � good food is part of it o..nobi only sex.. What do u chioma used to win davido's hrt

Sorry let me divert to other issues,I saw a post you posted around Nov,that you hate love...Sister don't hate love..Men are not the same,the fact that A attend to you badly,doesn't mean B will do the same..This your story relate to mine small..That was my school days.. The ladies is given me money, wash my plate,brought food for me..do some crazy help for me...Initially I help her in all her courses and she is doing well,because of what I did for her,She get close to me a lot to extend that friends notice her..And deep inside me..love don carry me go...She understand me die, Are only weakness is that, she is stubborn and materialistic in nature..during that time,am very broke,and let say there is poverty,because I only depend on my mum for survival. I graduated before her,immediately she graduated, she change,she said I don't buy her anything,that are should go and look for a job..before you know,she set me up with her friend..sister I cried that day,the things pain me,the girl I dated for two good years with understanding.. Since that time,I don't believe in love again..rather I believed in understanding and peace of mind..immediately I notice a ladies is requesting what I don't have the capacity I quickly withdrawn, before what my ex did to me to happen again...After some years,she want to come back I said No..She send a friend request to me on Facebook this yr,but due to some policy am using in my life,I neglect till next yr by the Grace of God... But today..Her rejection have taken me to a blessed life..Today am comfortable, all her materialistic intention are under my foot..Today ladies want me,but I decided I don't want them until I achieved the last one..I won't tell you that, so that It won't be proud or Arrogance. Am telling you this, because of your formal post..just give up..if she has Patience, she would have been enjoying her sacrifices she did for me then. because me I like Appreciation to people that help me during the hard period of my life..Sister thanks and take Care..the first post has some little mistake.. Am sorry for that..

Shortyy:
You see that begging of a thing ehn! And cooking for him, someone you're not married to? Jeez. And moving in with him like some Desperado!

I always feel pity for women who do these.
They have no class, no esteem and they're emotionally weak.

imagine go and ask ur parent hw the meet and produce u that have esteem;witout doin some of the those points mention above,wat is courtship for if not for some those points

Sarita01:


lol, unfortunately I don't have any sister for you, and I never said I can't clean my man's house or cook for him,I said I can't wash his clothes, I don't wash people's clothes, never.

Are you trying to tell me that there are no girls in your whole neighbourhood, that are romantic and like washing clothes to marry, you want me to sacrifice my sister, bros why na

Lol..Na babes like you full here .That is one of the reasons why guys like us are still single

Jodha:

K

better...

Olaideolayemi:
Y shame catch you?Is it a crime for a ladies to help their boyfriend to wash cloth and other stuff?if tomorrow the same guy appreciate her for her gesture, I believe you be the first jealous of the kind ladies..the next things is to pressure your guy that,he need do this or that...change your mindset..

thank u very much this type of ladies will turn out to be slay mamas if they re not already...and we be look for who to accuse of bewitching them,they should ask their parents how they came together without doing some of those points above then ask their selves what is courtship for or means

virginprincess:
My dear you are very correct, i really pity ladies that do such stuff, how can you move in with a man that is not yet your husband, if that man marries such lady i bet you he will never value the lady, and again i still wonder why girls fight themselves because of a man, assuming is even a responsible man i will understand, it is always useless boys they are fight for, seriously it is really pathetic.

See who is taking
1 quarter of those shit up there is what you do
We don’t just know you to confirm

Sarita01:


Haha, appreciate ke, that relationship didn't last up to 2months, that's when I knew you can never please a man,just do the one you can and leave the rest for him, no come kee yourself o.

I'm changing no shit my brother, I'm not washing anybody's clothes,it's the only thing I can't and won't compromise,it's either he accepts me like that or I move on

pray very well even if you re wealthy with this mentality n atitude men will neva accept that from you what is courtship for in a relationship? u can't do some of the points above but it's the guy responsibility to cater for u financially when he has not marry you

Easyluv2live:
pray very well even if you re wealthy with this mentality n atitude men will neva accept that from you what is courtship for in a relationship? u can't do some of the points above but it's the guy responsibility to cater for u financially when he has not marry you

Lol, I don't wanna trade words with you kind sir, but mind you, that entitlement mentality you're tryna imply, is the same thing the man would exhibit, when he feels that since I'm taking care of her needs, I'm entitled to a free washer woman and it isn't up for debate. We're all guilty of the entitlement mentality accusation. Peace out

Olaideolayemi:
That doesn't mean you should marry old man now.. Look at the future and old age...There are many real man and responsible man outside there..that can gave their wife peace of mind...It all depend how you attract them and chat with them..they are so many sister..

Life is by choice not by force, it's my choice and not yours,my life and my happiness. Old man is good for me.

Tyewolove:


Life is by choice not by force, it's my choice and not yours,my life and my happiness. Old man is good for me.

okay...

anslem04:




Ofcus darling you're entitled to your principles & choices buh remember only people with low esteem do so much to keep it bloating, same way gurls with small boobs av to keep up with pushup bra & mouka foam bras high esteem is when you go really down low n still keep ur headup not feeling intimidated.
some gurls are naturally homely, doing house chores is more of an hobby than a duty, they are not fools and its not a bad idea if you decide to impress your man.
Maybe not every single lady is sad, buh show me a single lady in her 30's without a suitor that is happy then i go burst ur bubble.
Maybe marriage is not an achievement, buh remember achievement could be anything you term it.
i don't know what defines your better, buh believe me when i say there is nothing better than having it all, she has it all. kids, money, career, fame & a husband. why have some when you can have it all sweetie

You're just making baseless points. Low self-esteem women always want to be accepted by men. Women with no self respect, or self confidence. They do anything for them just to be accepted and picked. At the end of the day they'll still either leave them, cheat on them, or both.

A woman that knows what she wants won't waste her time washing or cooking for any man in the name of boyfriend just to be accepted.

Y'all just want women to be worshipping you so as to massage your bloated ego. To hell with y'all.

Mypeople2:
Lol..Na babes like you full here .That is one of the reasons why guys like us are still single

Ehya, sorry o, many babes dey wey like to dey wash clothes, e be like Say you dey search in the wrong places, change your search location, you go jam your spec. Wish u luck