I will try and make it short.

I have a friend that I'm in love with, I fell in love with her even before we become friend, we were course mate, we are very close and people even think we are in a relationship, she has a boyfriend so I didn't bother asking her out or give her any sign that I'm in love with her because I don't want to be barrier to their religion. but I really love her, all my years in the University I didn't fall in love with any girl except her, I do gave her financial assistance and also help her secure a job during the period of the lock down, though I have not met her parents but she has told her parents a lot about me. her dad has called me some time to appreciate my help for their family.

Now something happened this week, she had a friend and I'm falling in love with that her friend, me and her friend are doing well, first she was shock about my closeness with her friend when she discovered but after some time she then encourage me to date her friend, So this week as we were discussing she asked me when am going to take her out if I travel to benin, ( I'm in Delta) she then pick on new year day I told her I will be engaged on new year day, she said okay but the next day she asked me what will engage me on new year day? I told her I will be going out with that her friend but she can join us so that three of us can go together. she suddenly get angry to my surprise. she said she is not going because I didn't include her in outing.

I tried convincing her to join us but she insist I take her out separately, after I take her friend out, I will now take her out separately, she has never acted in this manner, we joke s lot, we laugh a lot, we have never disagree about anything before. she is my very good friend and I respect her so much that I don't want to offend her so I agreed. This issue is giving me concern, I don't just want to date her friend I want to marriage her after I round up my school next year. But could it be she is jealous or she just want to give us privacy? should I go ahead with her friend or I should face some where else?

This her last statement go me thinking.

Good friends always make the best partners.
There is no gainsaying in the fact that your platonic girlfriend wants more than just a friend from you. Yoruba adage says' Silence is the beginning of man's misfortune '

I know that your mind still desires this girlfriend over your new-found heartthrob. Since no one was courageous enough to express your feelings at the right time. It means that she needs to be told her position as just a friend and not a future partner. It would end in catastrophe if the idea of taking the two friends out at the same time comes to reality. I will suggest you give your future partner the best treat on a special day. This is very important before you decide the fate of her friend. Caution must be taken so as not to lose both friends. To kill two birds at a time in this situation is dicey.

Tread softly

That is where most of the girls got it all wrong..friend zoning a guy,when in actual sense..she is dying inside..jealous or not.she missed it.

All these niggarrrrs that fall in love every time, una matter tire person.

Nawa o, my brother since you are still in the university, please sir enroll into one of those GST classes. You are welcome in advance.

Simp spotted.

This girl had a boyfriend, but you were in love with her. You spent on her and helped her get a job yet she couldn't date you, she even suggested her friend for you. So why the fuçk are you still friends with this girl?

This girl doesn't give a fuçk about you, she just wants validation from you and wants you to keep spending on her. She probably doesn't have any one to take her out and spend on her on the 1st so she's using style to book you.

I'm actually concerned with how quickly you rush to reply this girl's messages. It's as if you are waiting every second for her to text so you will reply. You say she isn't your girlfriend so why the fuçk are you investing so much of your time on her?

Sending good morning messages around 6am, double texting and explaining your decisions to a girl, especially one you aren't even dating is simp behavior.

Stop simping and cut that girl from your life.

BigJoe19:
All these niggarrrrs that fall in love every time, una matter tire person.

Bro, I just tire.

Imagine this Single guy, facing what men with two wives are facing.

OP you better sort out your feelings. Ned Nwoko has the formula to this problem, ask him.

SimpDetector:
Simp spotted.

This girl had a boyfriend, but you were in love with her. You spent on her and helped her get a job yet she couldn't date you, she even suggested her friend for you. So why the fuçk are you still friends with this girl?

This girl doesn't give a fuçk about you, she just wants validation from you and wants you to keep spending on her. She probably doesn't have any one to take her out and spend on her on the 1st so she's using style to book you.

I'm actually concerned with how quickly you rush to reply this girl's messages. It's as if you are waiting every second for her to text so you will reply. You say she isn't your girlfriend's so why the fuçk are you investing so much of your time on her.

Sending good morning messages around 6am, double texting and explaining your decisions to a girl, especially one you aren't even dating is simp behavior.

Stop simping and cut that girl from your life.

You want him to die? If he cuts her off he might lose his life.

Let the simp be, he is so much turmoil already.

Plus, no matter what you say he won't listen till he gets burned.

If you want me to read, put your post in paragraph.

I'm out.

SimpDetector:
Simp spotted.

This girl had a boyfriend, but you were in love with her. You spent on her and helped her get a job yet she couldn't date you, she even suggested her friend for you. So why the fuçk are you still friends with this girl?

This girl doesn't give a fuçk about you, she just wants validation from you and wants you to keep spending on her. She probably doesn't have any one to take her out and spend on her on the 1st so she's using style to book you.

I'm actually concerned with how quickly you rush to reply this girl's messages. It's as if you are waiting every second for her to text so you will reply. You say she isn't your girlfriend's so why the fuçk are you investing so much of your time on her.

Sending good morning messages around 6am, double texting and explaining your decisions to a girl, especially one you aren't even dating is simp behavior.

Stop simping and cut that girl from your life.

Funny you, it's not like that, if you read my text I said she is my close friend, loving her does not mean she must be my girlfriend, moreover I didn't ask her out in anyway and she turn it down.
on spending on her: I don't spend on her because I love because she is my friend. I'm the kind of person that try to make life easy to the people around me because God has made life easy for me. I spend on my male friend too. it does really mean it only the girl you are dating that you should take care of.

Anytime I try to give a relationship advice, my brain just go blank

Wetin concern arsenal and Top four(4)

jidamsel43:
Good friends always make the best partners.
There is no gainsaying in the fact that your platonic girlfriend wants more than just a friend from you. Yoruba adage says' Silence is the beginning of man's misfortune '

I know that your mind still desires this girlfriend over your new-found heartthrob. Since no one was courageous enough to express your feelings at the right time. It means that she needs to be told her position as just a friend and not a future partner. It would end in catastrophe if the idea of taking the two friends out at the same time comes to reality. I will suggest you give your future partner the best treat on a special day. This is very important before you decide the fate of her friend. Caution must be taken so as not to lose both friends. To kill two birds at a time in this situation is dicey.

Tread softly

Thanks brother, I really appreciate your advice.
much respect.

chocboi78:
Anytime I try to give a relationship advice, my brain just go blank

Wetin concern arsenal and Top four(4)

Lolzzzzz,
Don't mock my Arsenal o.
Why is your brain going blank?

Irijosa777:


Lolzzzzz,
Don't mock my Arsenal o.
Why is your brain going blank?

don't have relationship history as I have only been In one...

I just believe in bang and move on

yomi007k:


You want him to die? If he cuts her off he might lose his life.

Let the simp be, he is so much turmoil already.

Plus, no matter what you say he won't listen till he gets burned.

You are very funny, I can't cut my friend off.
The business I'm doing today she was the one that give me the ideal, today I'm not even bother about what I will do after school, if not for her I won't have be doing the business I'm doing today, all credit to her... I don't just want her to be jealous of my relationship with her friend. apart from that she is a wonderful friend

chocboi78:
don't have relationship history as I have only been In one...

I just believe in bang and move on

Lolzzzzz
I don't want anything like "my ex" I have only been in one is what want, that is why I am being careful.

PIC 3


You: it would have been better, but I think I am engaged on that day except otherwise.
[ shot blocked ]


Her: What will you be doing on that day? ehh
[ In possession and attacking, space open for a shot ; CHANCE ]


You: Me and favor will be meeting on that day and we may go on outing if there is time, you can join us
[ deflected shot poorly saved, VAR check on ball position saved on the goal line ]

You : Make I kill two birds with one stone.
[ VAR confirmed : Own goal, just passed the goal line before it was poorly saved ]

(Note: if I were a girl and you tell me that, that's the end of the relationship/crush.)


Her: Not joining because I wasn't included before.

[ shot on target ]




PIC 4


You: lozzzz [ shot saved ]


You: Susu [ In possession, exchanging passes ]


You: you are included [ Shot hits the cross bar, so close]


Her: I don't want to [ In possession, counter attack ]


Her : I will go my own way separately, you guys should have a nice time together as it is supposed to be.
[ Through ball, offside ]


You: You are not serious. [ shot off target ]




PIC 4

Possession; [ 53 : 47 ]
Goal; [ 1 : 0 ]


You: I know you would have accepted assume it was she that asked you to join us.
[ pass intercepted, dispossessed ]

Her: I will not [ dribbling and in possession ]


Injury time; + 3


Her: (last message) [ Goal from outside the box ]

FT : 2 - 0



Why would you tell her this ; Make I kill two birds with one stone.

[ so not necessary ]

Stephenmoka4:
PIC 3


You: it would have been better, but I think I am engaged on that day except otherwise.
[ shot blocked ]


Her: What will you be doing on that day? ehh
[ In possession and attacking, space open for a shot ; CHANCE ]


You: Me and favor will be meeting on that day and we may go on outing if there is time, you can join us
[ deflected shot poorly saved, VAR check on ball position saved on the goal line ]

You : Make I kill two birds with one stone.
[ VAR confirmed : Own goal, just passed the goal line before it was poorly saved ]

(Note: if I were a girl and you tell me that, that's the end of the relationship/crush.)


Her: Not joining because I wasn't included before.

[ shot on target ]




PIC 4


You: lozzzz [ shot saved ]


You: Susu [ In possession, exchanging passes ]


You: you are included [ Shot hits the cross bar, so close]


Her: I don't want to [ In possession, counter attack ]


Her : I will go my own way separately, you guys should have a nice time together as it is supposed to be.
[ Through ball, offside ]


You: You are not serious. [ shot off target ]




PIC 4

Possession; [ 53 : 47 ]
Goal; [ 1 : 0 ]


You: I know you would have accepted assume it was she that asked you to join us.
[ pass intercepted, dispossessed ]

Her: I will not [ dribbling and in possession ]


Injury time; + 3


Her: (last message) [ Goal from outside the box ]

FT : 2 - 0



Why would you tell her this ; Make I kill two birds with one stone.

[ so not necessary ]

Relationship analyst, I like your analysis. I can't help but keep laughing as read through. you really tried for the write up.

On why I said I want to used one stone to kill two birds is base on our friendship, the purpose of the outing is purely for fun, just for fun nothing more, again I'm not always around and I will be returning back to delta on the 3rd so I just deem it fit for her to join us instead of a separate outing.
Again, I'm not trying to woo her, I have had countless opportunity to do that, me and her do sleep in the same room when I come to Benin, but the guilt of taking someone girlfriend will not allow me to woo her, I just see it that she belong to someone else, so we should just remain in the friend zone but I don't know if she feel the same.

Op if you ask me I will say you are over thinking this thing... It might just be that she doesn't want to feel like the third wheel in the outing... Just leave am at that, she no get feelings for you

All these niggarrrrs that fall in love every time, una matter tire person.

padi94:
Op if you ask me I will say you are over thinking this thing... It might just be that she doesn't want to feel like the third wheel in the outing... Just leave am at that, she no get feelings for you

Okay, I pray so
Thanks for your contribution.
Happy Christmas to you

SimpDetector:
Simp spotted.

This girl had a boyfriend, but you were in love with her. You spent on her and helped her get a job yet she couldn't date you, she even suggested her friend for you. So why the fuçk are you still friends with this girl?

This girl doesn't give a fuçk about you, she just wants validation from you and wants you to keep spending on her. She probably doesn't have any one to take her out and spend on her on the 1st so she's using style to book you.

I'm actually concerned with how quickly you rush to reply this girl's messages. It's as if you are waiting every second for her to text so you will reply. You say she isn't your girlfriend's so why the fuçk are you investing so much of your time on her.

Sending good morning messages around 6am, double texting and explaining your decisions to a girl, especially one you aren't even dating is simp behavior.

Stop simping and cut that girl from your life.

I read your first sentence, then read your username....let's just say I got up from the floor after Rollin in laughter for 2 minutes....Una no go kill person

alphaNomega:
I read your first sentence, then read your username....let's just say I got up from the floor after Rollin in laughter for 2 minutes....Una no go kill person

hahahahaha

Na Jealousy, She Likes U Too. Na Form She Just Dey Form.

But guy don't try to phuck dat new one but just reserve ya sef for d earlier one

Irijosa777:


You are very funny, I can't cut my friend off.
The business I'm doing today she was the one that give me the ideal, today I'm not even bother about what I will do after school, if not for her I won't have be doing the business I'm doing today, all credit to her... I don't just want her to be jealous of my relationship with her friend. apart from that she is a wonderful friend

you sound like you truly love the first one. and ideas are worth a dime. what matters is execution. so I'll give you more credits for starting the business and not the gal.

back to your problem, that initial babe wants to have you inside of her. the signs are written all over. She already has a bf so it'll be easier for u. no strings attached.

u go try shine the 2 congos. it'll give u better clarity

Quality20:
But guy don't try to phuck dat new one but just reserve ya sef for d earlier one

I feel the same way, something tells me I should be patient.

CandyOps:


you sound like you truly love the first one. and ideas are worth a dime. what matters is execution. so I'll give you more credits for starting the business and not the gal.

back to your problem, that initial babe wants to have you inside of her. the signs are written all over. She already has a bf so it'll be easier for u. no strings attached.

u go try shine the 2 congos. it'll give u better clarity

lolzzzzz

Thanks for the first paragraph.

SimpDetector:
Simp spotted.

This girl had a boyfriend, but you were in love with her. You spent on her and helped her get a job yet she couldn't date you, she even suggested her friend for you. So why the fuçk are you still friends with this girl?

This girl doesn't give a fuçk about you, she just wants validation from you and wants you to keep spending on her. She probably doesn't have any one to take her out and spend on her on the 1st so she's using style to book you.

I'm actually concerned with how quickly you rush to reply this girl's messages. It's as if you are waiting every second for her to text so you will reply. You say she isn't your girlfriend so why the fuçk are you investing so much of your time on her?

Sending good morning messages around 6am, double texting and explaining your decisions to a girl, especially one you aren't even dating is simp behavior.

Stop simping and cut that girl from your life.

for a thorough reading the op is even a student, what stops them girl from taking him out to appreciate all he has done for her

Irijosa777:
I will try and make it short.

I have a friend that I'm in love with, I fell in love with her even before we become friend, we were course mate, we are very close and people even think we are in a relationship, she has a boyfriend so I didn't bother asking her out or give her any sign that I'm in love with her because I don't want to be barrier to their religion. but I really love her, all my years in the University I didn't fall in love with any girl except her, I do gave her financial assistance and also help her secure a job during the period of the lock down, though I have not met her parents but she has told her parents a lot about me. her dad has called me some time to appreciate my help for their family.

Now something happened this week, she had a friend and I'm falling in love with that her friend, me and her friend are doing well, first she was shock about my closeness with her friend when she discovered but after some time she then encourage me to date her friend, So this week as we were discussing she asked me when am going to take her out if I travel to benin, ( I'm in Delta) she then pick on new year day I told her I will be engaged on new year day, she said okay but the next day she asked me what will engage me on new year day? I told her I will be going out with that her friend but she can join us so that three of us can go together. she suddenly get angry to my surprise. she said she is not going because I didn't include her in outing.

I tried convincing her to join us but she insist I take her out separately, after I take her friend out, I will now take her out separately, she has never acted in this manner, we joke s lot, we laugh a lot, we have never disagree about anything before. she is my very good friend and I respect her so much that I don't want to offend her so I agreed. This issue is giving me concern, I don't just want to date her friend I want to marriage her after I round up my school next year. But could it be she is jealous or she just want to give us privacy? should I go ahead with her friend or I should face some where else?

It is a normal jealousy dont take it too personal, giving other person your attention endangers her company with you particularly when you are helping her financially

SimpDetector:
Simp spotted.

This girl had a boyfriend, but you were in love with her. You spent on her and helped her get a job yet she couldn't date you, she even suggested her friend for you. So why the fuçk are you still friends with this girl?

This girl doesn't give a fuçk about you, she just wants validation from you and wants you to keep spending on her. She probably doesn't have any one to take her out and spend on her on the 1st so she's using style to book you.

I'm actually concerned with how quickly you rush to reply this girl's messages. It's as if you are waiting every second for her to text so you will reply. You say she isn't your girlfriend so why the fuçk are you investing so much of your time on her?

Sending good morning messages around 6am, double texting and explaining your decisions to a girl, especially one you aren't even dating is simp behavior.

Stop simping and cut that girl from your life.

ON GOD!......