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U r mad, unless u have kids or she can take care of herself 70 percent

Wetin u want make we do?

Do Charlie Charlie

If she spends her money on you, there's a 99.36% chance she loves you. Female humans would rather eat a glass sandwich than spend their own money.�

Prophet Sule

positivevibez:
The sugar go sweet for two years after that e go sour

Bola146:
Go for her if you love her, just check yourself if you are financially okay to be responsible

see them this is how this one will ruin someone life thinking that she is giving advise pele o adviser.

It's not worth it bro. Not even close

They never learn

. May she not succeed in turning your place into a mini orphanage..

Aye e ti eventually baje niyen






Your life has eventually ruined





Read this to yourself and louder





Omokomo

GOFRONT:
Inside Life......

This is coming at a time when DNA and paternity fraud is rife....

Maybe her two kids were not from her first husband ( paternity fraud); hence the separation......

Read before responding. Op said she hasn't been married before now.

On topic...be ready to assume fatherly responsibilities before you sire your own children and be prepared to take the children as yours until they grow up and search out their father.

Decision is yours to make.

My advise, remain good friends.

visijo:
If she spends her money on you, there's a 99.36% chance she loves you. Female humans would rather eat a glass sandwich than spend their own money.�

a mother with two kids spend money on who?
na game nau!

Na Big lust dey worry u...U need Jesus to set u free from the Spirit of lust..Stop deceiving yourself an focus...����

There's nothing wrong with getting married to a mom of two.

It's mostly the in-laws (in this case your mom) who naturally frown at their sons getting married to a single mom and it's with good reason.

The issue is that most of the single moms out there have gone through a rough event or were wild at some point which led to the involvement of kids.

Their maturity in the real world is by far superior to a single guy especially in the event of marriage. it can be a good/bad thing.

My advice to you is, take your time, heed the advice of family and elders and do a lot of background checks as to when, how and what led to the lady being a single mom of two and how is the relationship with the father of her children.

Very important to also go in with an open mind.


Goodluck!.

BabaIbo:
I am a young man in my thirties and she should be in the same range(I didn't ask her about her age because I don't really lay emphasis on age). We are from neighbouring towns.

As my heading reads, recently I met a lady online and we have been communicating well and I noticed she ticked most of the boxes of what I want in a woman.

Prior to now, I told myself I will stay away from anything woman because I just started a business last year and I want it to grow and balance before thinking of any thing women or marriage.

Recently, I noticed I am developing strong feelings for her, strong enough to lead to the alter.

Now the problem is, she is a single mother of two, we don't stay in the same city and the father of those kids seems to live in a neighbouring city to where she lives(although to a good extent the father of those kids is not a problem).

My question is what will you advice me to do in this situation?
*Go on and start a relationship with her.
*Keep her as a friend, although she may get hooked by another man along the line.

Anybody here who have been in similar situation, should help share their experiences too.

Note: She has never been married.
She is working and comfortable, money a problem is not a problem, i.e no unnecessary billing associated with some relationships.

May be real love but check if vegetable is not involved first of all.

baralatie:
a mother with two kids spend money on who? na game nau!

hahaha true

BabaIbo:
I am a young man in my thirties and she should be in the same range(I didn't ask her about her age because I don't really lay emphasis on age). We are from neighbouring towns.

As my heading reads, recently I met a lady online and we have been communicating well and I noticed she ticked most of the boxes of what I want in a woman.

Prior to now, I told myself I will stay away from anything woman because I just started a business last year and I want it to grow and balance before thinking of any thing women or marriage.

Recently, I noticed I am developing strong feelings for her, strong enough to lead to the alter.

Now the problem is, she is a single mother of two, we don't stay in the same city and the father of those kids seems to live in a neighbouring city to where she lives(although to a good extent the father of those kids is not a problem).

My question is what will you advice me to do in this situation?
*Go on and start a relationship with her.
*Keep her as a friend, although she may get hooked by another man along the line.

Anybody here who have been in similar situation, should help share their experiences too.

Note: She has never been married.
She is working and comfortable, money a problem is not a problem, i.e no unnecessary billing associated with some relationships.

Marry Her If U Want, No Problem.

I was once in your shoes,I dated this girl,she had two girls ,I a single guy it was perfect infact she was the first girl that spent hercash on me,the problem is that she talk carelessly and I hate that,secondly I had a rethink when she said she gonna bare me just two kids,that means she would have 4,while I have just two but aromatically I would have to take care of the 4 not good, secondly,if her own 2 make error and you spank them she would say coz you are not thier father,if you don't spank she would say coz it's not yours so e no go too sweet like that.my bro it's not worth the stress just use her catch trips like I did I finally got engaged of recent to the love of my life single and AA

EzegeNdiigbo:
Hmmm you're under a spell, go for a deliverance

how can a full grown man be thinking of settling down with a second-class-woman with a kids
Think twice.

This is a very foolish way of thinking

The woman in question is here and she's saying you should come and marry her

Bola146:
Go for her if you love her, just check yourself if you are financially okay to be responsible

Does she have a dog or cat?Just bear in mind that you will be the last person in her hierarchy of care i.e after her two kids and her dogs/cat or both.

interesting....u re not very far away from self destruction...

nitt:
There's nothing wrong with getting married to a mom of two.

It's mostly the in-laws (in this case your mom) who naturally frown at their sons getting married to a single mom and it's with good reason.

The issue it that most of the single moms out there have gone through a rough event or were wild at some point which led to the involvement of kids.

Their maturity in the real world is by far superior to a single guy especially in the event of marriage. it can be a good/bad thing.

My advice to you is, take your time, heed the advice of family and elders and do a lot of background check as to when, how and what led to the lady being a single mom of two and how is the relationship with the father of her children.

Very important to also go in with an open mind.


Goodluck!.

egbon!
he said "in love o"

he didn't say he wan marry o

Even one child, i cannot marry not to talk of two

Do u know why she is not with the father of her children? If u truly love her and her children and if she gives you peace, go ahead and marry her

You made up your mind to focus on your business...so how did you end up sliding into her dm online?

Go and huzzle.

Leave her alone before you complicate her life for her.

Abimbola29:
I was once in your shoes,I dated this girl,she had two girls ,I a single guy it was perfect infact she was the first girl that spent hercash on me,the problem is that she talk carelessly and I hate that,secondly I had a rethink when she said she gonna bare me just two kids,that means she would have 4,while I have just two but aromatically I would have to take care of the 4 not good, secondly,if her own 2 make error and you spank them she would say coz you are not thier father,if you don't spank she would say coz it's not yours so e no go too sweet like that.my bro it's not worth the stress just use her catch trips like I did I finally got engaged of recent to the love of my life single and AA

when!
I talk am!
she is play baba ijebu!
use #50 to make #100000

No need for advice....... if u love her... go for her...

From my experience, I would say run. They normally seem nicer until you fall into their sinkhole then your eye go clear.

If you don't want wahala, abort