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Re: Help, I Am In Love With A Single Mother Of Two. by composure: 4:18pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
BabaIbo:Interpretation... It means you are a lovely simp and a creative fv.ck tard |
Re: Help, I Am In Love With A Single Mother Of Two. by praiseneo(m): 4:21pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
FalseProphet1:chai God 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Help, I Am In Love With A Single Mother Of Two. by Joeoluoma(m): 4:21pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Love is not in the feeling you are having for her. Check that feeling very well, you may find out that it is lust you are lusting after her. To have her and sleep with her. I will advise you to rather concentrate on developing your business, draw closer to God in fervent prayers and holiness. The Lord will direct you. 1 Like |
Re: Help, I Am In Love With A Single Mother Of Two. by MyOpinion1(f): 4:21pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
soundOsonic:A father is not who gave birth to a child but who was responsible for that child. Likewise a mother. If you love a child genuinely, it is you he will recognized as his father. Coming to claim a child you are not responsible for will only give you depression coz the child doesn't have any bond with you... It doesn't happened again, women are now wiser, ones you are a deadbeat father, you remain one forever.. |
Re: Help, I Am In Love With A Single Mother Of Two. by Atticusxsz(m): 4:23pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
generationz:This your question weak me, i swear! Note* The two kids are both twins. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Help, I Am In Love With A Single Mother Of Two. by sylve11: 4:23pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
visijo: sense dey here. 1 Like |
Re: Help, I Am In Love With A Single Mother Of Two. by Peterus604: 4:23pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
U are finished finally 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Help, I Am In Love With A Single Mother Of Two. by FalseProphet1(m): 4:23pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Udokamadi:She's not wife material period. When you have good character men will give anything to be with you. When men start avoid committing to you then u should know that you have a problem. |
Re: Help, I Am In Love With A Single Mother Of Two. by obawinner(m): 4:23pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
If you eventually get married to her, ensure you are 100% in good books of her children. Because any argument one day, irrespective of how much you've spent on them(her kid ) they will disown you in one sentence. They may even nurse feeling of resentment because their real dad is rich while you're pretty trying to cater for them. |
Re: Help, I Am In Love With A Single Mother Of Two. by vickydevoka(m): 4:25pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
visijo:Jesus!!!! I don't know y most especially fine ones are like dat. Sometimes I act good to ladies n bad to ladies dat are bad irrespective of dere look 1 Like |
Re: Help, I Am In Love With A Single Mother Of Two. by GindoX(m): 4:25pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
This op dey contradict himself... I think he needs slap to reset his head! Shoooo, no be you wey start business last year and wan balance am up and running? Bro I dey ya shoe before... When I calculated the card and unnecessary stuff i do for her in the name of luff..m oh boi, na two brand infinix new phones. Kwontinu.. Your eyes go clear soon |
Re: Help, I Am In Love With A Single Mother Of Two. by razible5384(m): 4:25pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
SavageResponse:words laced with wisdom |
Re: Help, I Am In Love With A Single Mother Of Two. by MyOpinion1(f): 4:26pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
soundOsonic:Yes, the ones with the mother only escape orphanages because the woman choose not to abandoned her. Did you know maybe the one you are giving your money to in the orphanage is the one drop by your wife in the bush.. |
Re: Help, I Am In Love With A Single Mother Of Two. by Dosmideenda: 4:26pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Baba just try to think it all over again I mean aw all get started and rethink very well |
Re: Help, I Am In Love With A Single Mother Of Two. by Duru009(m): 4:26pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Atticusxsz: Thanks bro Noted !! |
Re: Help, I Am In Love With A Single Mother Of Two. by goshen26: 4:27pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
BabaIbo: He means that wat you have is list, after some times you will realise those flaws of her e.g her Children. |
Re: Help, I Am In Love With A Single Mother Of Two. by Theboss100(m): 4:27pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
BabaIbo:Guy you funny abeg. This one funny die. Let me laugh small. 1 Like |
Re: Help, I Am In Love With A Single Mother Of Two. by realoscar84(m): 4:28pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Don't try it bro. I'm speaking from experience. A single mother of 2 who happened to be my first love when we were younger. She cheated on me by hooking up with another dude when I was preparing for admission into tertiary institution then. Fast forward to last 2years, the dude didn't marry her but left her with 2 kids who are in secondary schools but she was desperate to fulfil lifelong aspiration; marriage. She is financially independent, doing well as a business lady and taking care of her kids well. Me nko, after service, no tangible job barely surviving. Man too insecure economically to talk about serious relationship. The two condition makes for perfect match n she grab it both hands. She lived in distance city from mine but always flew in to give me free unlimited pekus with good foods. Taking me out n spending from her pockets without care. I began to wonder wether tbis isn't naija lady. I was enjoying it and out of excitement started proposing. U know what it feel like for a jobless broke guy getting hooked to financially independent lady who isn't complaining. Pregnancy showed with much doubt wether it was mine though but she swore, ready for DNA test after childbirth though. Unfortunately she lost the baby because she started disobeying my advice to be careful about hectic business trip. She was disrespecting me eh. Summary of it all is that till today she is still desperate to get hooked to me despite the fact that she knows I'm preparing for my wedding to my new lady now. Most of them are trouble. Watch well before you take the next step with her. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help, I Am In Love With A Single Mother Of Two. by iyke648(m): 4:28pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
BabaIbo:If y really love her, go for her my brother. You said she is financially independent, meaning she can comfortably take care of her twins even without you marrying her. However you should be prepared to love the kids as though they are urs. Wish you d best 1 Like |
Re: Help, I Am In Love With A Single Mother Of Two. by kapelvej: 4:29pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
You came out to ask because you know it is not the best thing to do |
Re: Help, I Am In Love With A Single Mother Of Two. by alizma: 4:29pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
BabaIbo:From your description of her, one can say she is a wonderful woman but when a perfect gift is rejected by someone, the first thing to do before you consider accepting it is to find out why was such a good gift rejected by someone Secondly I want you to know that every relationship is always like something made in heaven when it's just starting, especially when both of you are not in the same place to allow for *see finish* Thirdly and base on experience, you may like the mother but dislike the children, that will eventually cause problem between you and their mother Finally are you prepared to play the role of a father now? 1 Like |
Re: Help, I Am In Love With A Single Mother Of Two. by Udokamadi(f): 4:30pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
FalseProphet1:Do you know what's disgusting about this comment, it makes it sound as though women are the only ones who should cultivate good characters for marriage. If a man also has good character, women will give anything to be with them. If a person has good character, another person will give anything to be with them. I trust you're one of those men, who'll see nothing wrong if the gender's in this post were reversed. Clearly the man is not avoiding commitment to her, he desires it, that's why he's asking for another's opinion. Don't try to force your s**t beliefs that a single mother is not a good woman down the poor man's throat, eat the s**t yourself. P.S, your name suits your thinking and personality like a second skin. 1 Like |
Re: Help, I Am In Love With A Single Mother Of Two. by Shaev7(m): 4:31pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
BabaIbo:Well, just play along, you'll get to fade after sometime. Don't focus your mind there like you said, concentrate on your business. I have been in your shoes, probably still in. They are not difficult to leave, just have a side check younger and sometimes front jokes about your girl.... Wish you well.... 1 Like |
Re: Help, I Am In Love With A Single Mother Of Two. by Wininlight(m): 4:33pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
I personally don't like being entangled with single mothers but you my friend have to understand that life works out differently for everyone. What guarantee do you have that you would've been successful in marriage even if she were single with no children Single mothers are human beings...this life has been a twist for some. Thank God who doesn't consult our uncles or the world before blessing us... It doesn't matter what advice you get here, whether you'll be successful or not, the answer to your question is right with you starring into your eyes...afterall at the end life is what we really make of it! |
Re: Help, I Am In Love With A Single Mother Of Two. by sylve11: 4:33pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
LordErrk: |
Re: Help, I Am In Love With A Single Mother Of Two. by Xxx123xxx(m): 4:34pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
BabaIbo:.Trouble dey sleep Jew wan wake am, if you know say you fit handle the drama from the girl her two children plus the two baby daddies and then balance am with your unbalanced business make you carry on. This is my wisdom. |
Re: Help, I Am In Love With A Single Mother Of Two. by Hassanmaye(m): 4:35pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
SmellySperm:Hahha |
Re: Help, I Am In Love With A Single Mother Of Two. by Hassanmaye(m): 4:36pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
EzegeNdiigbo:Simp |
Re: Help, I Am In Love With A Single Mother Of Two. by baralatie(m): 4:37pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
realoscar84:wow! you strong o |
Re: Help, I Am In Love With A Single Mother Of Two. by FalseProphet1(m): 4:38pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Udokamadi:What's your problem, are you a single mother? If she's good why didn't the father of the kids marry her. Do you know the stress of marrying a single mom,. If the man comes back to claim his kids do you know the emotional pain he will go through. Don't ever open your legs to fools and expect another person to bear your cross with you. That's not the way life was configured to be. 4 Likes |
Re: Help, I Am In Love With A Single Mother Of Two. by Johnnyplus01k(m): 4:41pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Bros you should be ready to cater for the two kids like your own. May God help you |
Re: Help, I Am In Love With A Single Mother Of Two. by coputa(m): 4:42pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Since the lady ticked all your boxes,it is a divine opportunity,go for her,take care of those children as your own,they will call you father. Marry her, start a family with her.i see a divine connection from her children, that will manifest in the future. I have seen a man that got married to a single mun with three kids,do you know that it was those children that built a house and help him in his old age. Go after your heart,that's where your gold I'd hidden. |
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