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Re: Help, I Am In Love With A Single Mother Of Two. by Commotfornigeri: 8:51pm On Jan 08, 2021
positivevibez:
The sugar go sweet for two years after that e go sour

Wisdom!
Re: Help, I Am In Love With A Single Mother Of Two. by BabaIbo: 8:54pm On Jan 08, 2021
Plut01:

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Yo even say that you're not a promiscuous type is enough to tell yourself you deserve better than a single mother of two.

Listen to me Mr, a man that got her pregnant twice would know what to do, what to say to her hear to get her pregnant again. But this time, the preg will be pinned on you.

You have come tis far for a man like yourself to get entangled with a single lady. Do not disappoint every sane man that believes in Sexual integrity.

That lady getting you will be a motivation for other ladies (even to your future daughter) that they can eat their cake and still have it, so far they there is a Simp to help them achieve that.

We are looking at you Mr. Do not disappoint yourself.

In a world of over 2 billion women, you deserve better than a single mother of two!


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It was once and it resulted in a twins(a boy and a girl).

You made good and valid points in your reply.

Thank you bro, I appreciate.
Re: Help, I Am In Love With A Single Mother Of Two. by BabaIbo: 8:59pm On Jan 08, 2021
jaxxy:


My advice.

Calm down, Whatever u do take it slow, very slow. If she’s a good lady and it’s ment to be it will even tho I don’t subscribe to single mothers bt there can be possible exceptions so yes take it slow rather than write her off since u claim to be having feelings lol. Time tells alot if u can observe well. Cheers.

Thank you
Re: Help, I Am In Love With A Single Mother Of Two. by Sixfeetbelle: 9:01pm On Jan 08, 2021
FalseProphet1:

You're the one with the foolish statement. U girls are so saucy that's why guys keep using and dumping you people

grin grin grin grin

Oh my! So predictable!

Initially, you were so quick to label her bad and cut her down, but when you saw that she may not be the 'bad person' afterall, you turn your sword to 'we girls' and started dishing out nonsense advices.

Newsflash: Ladies dump guys too. Especially irresponsible baby daddies.
Re: Help, I Am In Love With A Single Mother Of Two. by BabaIbo: 9:02pm On Jan 08, 2021
Theboss100:
Guy you funny abeg. This one funny die. Let me laugh small. gringringrin

Abi na
Re: Help, I Am In Love With A Single Mother Of Two. by FalseProphet1(m): 9:03pm On Jan 08, 2021
Sixfeetbelle:


grin grin grin grin

Oh my! So predictable!

Initially, you were so quick to label her bad and cut her down, but when you saw that she may not be the 'bad person' afterall, you turn your sword to 'we girls' and started dishing out nonsense advices.

Newsflash: Ladies dump guys too. Especially irresponsible baby daddies.

Olosho go and sit down all of you are nothing but cheap sluths. Good for banging and dumping nothing more. You bitches don't deserve a home or the love of a man cos you're unfaithful sloths
Re: Help, I Am In Love With A Single Mother Of Two. by roladex(f): 9:05pm On Jan 08, 2021
FalseProphet1:
She has two children n the owner of the children did not marry her instead left her to fend for them by herself, that means she is not wife material, leave her alone, have fun with her but don't go beyond fun and start talkin about marriage because u will regret it
shut up jor
U are talking nonsence... why r u judging her not been a wife material..what if its d guy that is very useless
U people just talk anyhow
Having children is ur a sin..rubbish
Who told u his gonna regret it...
Are u God
Oga follow ur mind
Above all pray
Dont mind them
Re: Help, I Am In Love With A Single Mother Of Two. by FalseProphet1(m): 9:06pm On Jan 08, 2021
roladex:
shut up jor
U are talking nonsence... why r u judging her not been a wife material..what if its d guy that is very useless
U people just talk anyhow
Having children is ur a sin..rubbish
Who told u his gonna regret it...
Are u God
Oga follow ur mind
Above all pray
Dont mind them
Never in miserable life quote me if you have nothing sensible to say. Useless hoe
Re: Help, I Am In Love With A Single Mother Of Two. by Sixfeetbelle: 9:06pm On Jan 08, 2021
FalseProphet1:

Olosho go and sit down all of you are nothing but cheap sluths. Good for banging and dumping nothing more. You bitches don't deserve a home or the love of a man cos you're unfaithful sloths

Unfortunately for you, the universe doesn't work like that. Bitches will keep getting the love, the attention, the money, the care, the marriage, the children. Why? Cause men love bitches. And they marry bitches



Ps: I'm not the girl that broke your heart so don't dump all your frustrations on me tongue
Re: Help, I Am In Love With A Single Mother Of Two. by FalseProphet1(m): 9:09pm On Jan 08, 2021
Sixfeetbelle:


Unfortunately for you, the universe doesn't work like that. Bitches will keep getting the love, the attention, the money, the care, the marriage, the children. Why? Cause men love bitches. And they marry bitches



Ps: I'm not the girl that broke your heart so don't dump all your frustrations on me tongue
Ode we will keep fúcking and dumping you hoes, how many men have u been with 50, 100, 200...u are a hoe so shut ur mouth when reasonable people are talking dirty bitches like u have nothing to offer men other than your STD infested pússy. Now go and attend to ur customers I've got things to do
Re: Help, I Am In Love With A Single Mother Of Two. by Sixfeetbelle: 9:18pm On Jan 08, 2021
FalseProphet1:

Ode we will keep fúcking and dumping you hoes, how many men have u been with 50, 100, 200...u are a hoe so shut ur mouth when reasonable people are talking dirty bitches like u have nothing to offer men other than your STD infested pússy. Now go and attend to ur customers I've got things to do

I don't have customers for tonight. Will you patronise me or should I wait for you to finish wailing?

I have come across a lot of males on this forum while debating the finer points of my argument and I will tell you one thing. Mature men never, and I mean, never call me names like 'olosho' when they get angry. Which, consequently, tells me one thing about you: you're a child, an immature one at that. Have fun getting angry over an online argument that adds nothing to both our pockets.


Before I forget: Oga, it's #500 for quick shaq. #1000 for long shaq. #1500 for bj. #2000 if I swallow your cum. #2500 for anal. All night dey depend sha. Which one you want? *chews gum aggressively* tongue

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Re: Help, I Am In Love With A Single Mother Of Two. by baralatie(m): 9:23pm On Jan 08, 2021
cry cry
ehn ehn
Re: Help, I Am In Love With A Single Mother Of Two. by FalseProphet1(m): 9:31pm On Jan 08, 2021
Sixfeetbelle:


I don't have customers for tonight. Will you patronise me or should I wait for you to finish wailing?

I have come across a lot of males on this forum while debating the finer points of my argument and I will tell you one thing. Mature men never, and I mean, never call me names like 'olosho' when they get angry. Which, consequently, tells me one thing about you: you're a child, an immature one at that. Have fun getting angry over an online argument that adds nothing to both our pockets.


Before I forget: Oga, it's #500 for quick shaq. #1000 for long shaq. #1500 for bj. #2000 if I swallow your cum. #2500 for anal. All night dey depend sha. Which one you want? *chews gum aggressively* tongue
See this one, who is angry you are the one fighting hard to defend your gender. And I hate it when women do that, always defending your gender not minding whether you're at fault or not.

Anyways I want bj, and u will swallow my cum and I will do anal too. Let me follow u so I can send u a message on how we will meet. tongue
Re: Help, I Am In Love With A Single Mother Of Two. by greatness77: 9:37pm On Jan 08, 2021
BabaIbo:
I am a young man in my thirties and she should be in the same range(I didn't ask her about her age because I don't really lay emphasis on age). We are from neighbouring towns.

As my heading reads, recently I met a lady online and we have been communicating well and I noticed she ticked most of the boxes of what I want in a woman.

Prior to now, I told myself I will stay away from anything woman because I just started a business last year and I want it to grow and balance before thinking of any thing women or marriage.

Recently, I noticed I am developing strong feelings for her, strong enough to lead to the alter.

Now the problem is, she is a single mother of two, we don't stay in the same city and the father of those kids seems to live in a neighbouring city to where she lives(although to a good extent the father of those kids is not a problem).

My question is what will you advice me to do in this situation?
*Go on and start a relationship with her.
*Keep her as a friend, although she may get hooked by another man along the line.

Anybody here who have been in similar situation, should help share their experiences too.


Note: She has never been married.
She is working and comfortable, money a problem is not a problem, i.e no unnecessary billing associated with some relationships.
marry her ASAP or give me her number
Re: Help, I Am In Love With A Single Mother Of Two. by soundOsonic: 9:38pm On Jan 08, 2021
MyOpinion1:

You don't know me anyway..
I like a lady that I will have long arguments with lol. If at all you didn't take this discussion personal. Or better still should I write a 300 words essay on why I should be your frien??
Re: Help, I Am In Love With A Single Mother Of Two. by InvertedHammer: 9:47pm On Jan 08, 2021
BabaIbo:
I am a young man in my thirties and she should be in the same range(I didn't ask her about her age because I don't really lay emphasis on age). We are from neighbouring towns.

As my heading reads, recently I met a lady online and we have been communicating well and I noticed she ticked most of the boxes of what I want in a woman.

Prior to now, I told myself I will stay away from anything woman because I just started a business last year and I want it to grow and balance before thinking of any thing women or marriage.

Recently, I noticed I am developing strong feelings for her, strong enough to lead to the alter.

Now the problem is, she is a single mother of two, we don't stay in the same city and the father of those kids seems to live in a neighbouring city to where she lives(although to a good extent the father of those kids is not a problem).

My question is what will you advice me to do in this situation?
*Go on and start a relationship with her.
*Keep her as a friend, although she may get hooked by another man along the line.

Anybody here who have been in similar situation, should help share their experiences too.


Note: She has never been married.
She is working and comfortable, money a problem is not a problem, i.e no unnecessary billing associated with some relationships.
/
grin
The fathers of her two kids believed they were in love.



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Re: Help, I Am In Love With A Single Mother Of Two. by Germi9: 10:03pm On Jan 08, 2021
BabaIbo:
I am a young man in my thirties and she should be in the same range(I didn't ask her about her age because I don't really lay emphasis on age). We are from neighbouring towns.

As my heading reads, recently I met a lady online and we have been communicating well and I noticed she ticked most of the boxes of what I want in a woman.

Prior to now, I told myself I will stay away from anything woman because I just started a business last year and I want it to grow and balance before thinking of any thing women or marriage.

Recently, I noticed I am developing strong feelings for her, strong enough to lead to the alter.

Now the problem is, she is a single mother of two, we don't stay in the same city and the father of those kids seems to live in a neighbouring city to where she lives(although to a good extent the father of those kids is not a problem).

My question is what will you advice me to do in this situation?
*Go on and start a relationship with her.
*Keep her as a friend, although she may get hooked by another man along the line.

Anybody here who have been in similar situation, should help share their experiences too.


Note: She has never been married.
She is working and comfortable, money a problem is not a problem, i.e no unnecessary billing associated with some relationships.
bro.go for her..she will respect and honour you ,it doesn't matter how many kids she's got,all a man needs is a loyal wife
Re: Help, I Am In Love With A Single Mother Of Two. by MyOpinion1(f): 10:15pm On Jan 08, 2021
soundOsonic:

I like a lady that I will have long arguments with lol. If at all you didn't take this discussion personal. Or better still should I write a 300 words essay on why I should be your frien??

Since you are good with writing, I wouldn't mind
Re: Help, I Am In Love With A Single Mother Of Two. by MyOpinion1(f): 10:19pm On Jan 08, 2021
FalseProphet1:

See this one, who is angry you are the one fighting hard to defend your gender. And I hate it when women do that, always defending your gender not minding whether you're at fault or not.

Anyways I want bj, and u will swallow my cum and I will do anal too. Let me follow u so I can send u a message on how we will meet. tongue
You are immature with words...
If my comment seems too rude, please I am sorry but learn to argue without hurting people's feeling...

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Re: Help, I Am In Love With A Single Mother Of Two. by FalseProphet1(m): 10:21pm On Jan 08, 2021
MyOpinion1:

You are immature with words...
If my comment seems too rude, please I am sorry but learn to argue without hurting people's feeling...
I'm sorry too
Re: Help, I Am In Love With A Single Mother Of Two. by MyOpinion1(f): 10:23pm On Jan 08, 2021
FalseProphet1:

I'm sorry too
Thanks...

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Re: Help, I Am In Love With A Single Mother Of Two. by swimboss: 10:25pm On Jan 08, 2021
Try to ask her some questions, how old is the twins, how long has she lived with the father of her twins? what causes the separation and so and so forth. If you go ahead without asking these questions or she give you false answers then you are a dead man walking
Re: Help, I Am In Love With A Single Mother Of Two. by BabaIbo: 10:58pm On Jan 08, 2021
InvertedHammer:

/
grin
The fathers of her two kids believed they were in love.



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Father and twins
Re: Help, I Am In Love With A Single Mother Of Two. by BabaIbo: 10:59pm On Jan 08, 2021
swimboss:
Try to ask her some questions, how old is the twins, how long has she lived with the father of her twins? what causes the separation and so and so forth. If you go ahead without asking these questions or she give you false answers then you are a dead man walking

Sure, it's essential
Re: Help, I Am In Love With A Single Mother Of Two. by Digmygold: 11:05pm On Jan 08, 2021
soundOsonic:


If my daughter end up in her shoes, it means I failed to train my daughter properly in a Godly way, and if at all I did a very good job and the fault is her wayward lifestyle spreading legs for every available men without using at least protective, I will just take the children from her so she can focus on her husband, me wet like children self and in fact if she no gree anything that comes at of it na she know.

Just like your parents failed with you.

Which husband will she be focusing on? The one that she will never have?
Re: Help, I Am In Love With A Single Mother Of Two. by EdiskyHarry: 11:13pm On Jan 08, 2021
look at what I am reading

Re: Help, I Am In Love With A Single Mother Of Two. by newoffer: 11:24pm On Jan 08, 2021
soundOsonic:
All Ladies will tell you to go for her, this is because they are Ladies and can find themselves in that situation.
A single mother of not just one but two?
Baba reason am now. The game score na 2-0 already, sharp handicap match. If you play this kind match for bet9ja self the odd of winning is low. The odd of this working perfectly fine is low oga.
I am not a redpiller o or this Alpha male stuff people say. Common sense should dictate to you that the person that is meant to marry her is an old man of maybe 50 or 60 that already have kids.
Your business now should be your business you just startup. Truth be told the Lady doesn't love you, you are just an end to her means. Oh yes lest I forget, the guy up there said something when you lick sugar too much it go purge you, later after the purging you no go like sugar again, you go be like our elderly bros them wey no like sweet things
....
Bloda Lun Lun for ya dear rife. One is fair but two is anomality.
I pity how you will be soliloquying upandan
Re: Help, I Am In Love With A Single Mother Of Two. by LegalOpinion: 11:29pm On Jan 08, 2021
Just look for one powerful baba and tell him that you are NOT OKAY, he will destroy that spell holding you and you will begin to think right.
Re: Help, I Am In Love With A Single Mother Of Two. by ultimateprof: 11:30pm On Jan 08, 2021
If I'm in your shoes I will marry her and these are my reasons: sometimes in life, women like her makes good wife because she has seen it all and shes ready to submit to who so ever that is willing to marry her and accept her the way she is. If she didn't love you and trust you, she will not even mention to you that she has two kids.Truthful and trustworthy women like her are very rare and difficult to find this days more especially in Nigeria.

Lot of women have given birth when they were in primary / secondary school, but later marry as a virgin to their present husbands now without telling the mugu that they are tokunbo raised to power two.

Another reason why I will like you to follow my advice is that this same woman is hardworking and your heart have already accepted that she has almost all the qualities that you desired in a woman. Why not follow your heart? Your heart cannot deceive you, most of these op here are just novice concern this matter.

Above all, I'm talking from experience and I sincerely believe that you will not regret it. Remember that why DNA trend is on today is because of people who followed what other people said and as well as religion .

Nigeria girls are liars and for this one to come out and state it boldly that she has two kids without covering it; guy believe me you've found a treasure, please, cherish her.
Re: Help, I Am In Love With A Single Mother Of Two. by Humorme2(f): 11:31pm On Jan 08, 2021
Single mother's are human beings too tho. Most comments here are insensitive to say the least...

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Re: Help, I Am In Love With A Single Mother Of Two. by UnBanEbenezer(f): 11:33pm On Jan 08, 2021
roladex:
shut up jor
U are talking nonsence... why r u judging her not been a wife material..what if its d guy that is very useless
U people just talk anyhow
Having children is ur a sin..rubbish
Who told u his gonna regret it...
Are u God
Oga follow ur mind
Above all pray
Dont mind them
single mother spotted
Re: Help, I Am In Love With A Single Mother Of Two. by MarthaGlobal: 11:39pm On Jan 08, 2021
How i wish I know your mama and dad. This road you want to enter will really though. You better run... Go and settle for your type. Your mate are looking for virgin's to marry na after 2 woman you won marry? How would you feel each time she would wants to go to her ex husband for talk about their children? Young man don't put your self in a delima...
BabaIbo:
I am a young man in my thirties and she should be in the same range(I didn't ask her about her age because I don't really lay emphasis on age). We are from neighbouring towns.

As my heading reads, recently I met a lady online and we have been communicating well and I noticed she ticked most of the boxes of what I want in a woman.

Prior to now, I told myself I will stay away from anything woman because I just started a business last year and I want it to grow and balance before thinking of any thing women or marriage.

Recently, I noticed I am developing strong feelings for her, strong enough to lead to the alter.

Now the problem is, she is a single mother of two, we don't stay in the same city and the father of those kids seems to live in a neighbouring city to where she lives(although to a good extent the father of those kids is not a problem).

My question is what will you advice me to do in this situation?
*Go on and start a relationship with her.
*Keep her as a friend, although she may get hooked by another man along the line.

Anybody here who have been in similar situation, should help share their experiences too.


Note: She has never been married.
She is working and comfortable, money a problem is not a problem, i.e no unnecessary billing associated with some relationships.

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