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How Do You Feel When Your Wife Suddenly Starts Looking Older Than You? by setobaba: 12:18am On Jan 20, 2021 |
Good morning, I’ve been thinking and watching on this for few months now, I notice my wife is no longer the damsel I met and dated. She will be 35 in few months, and we had only two kids together, so why she suddenly start looking older than that age is what I don’t know. I’ve seen ladies and colleagues of her age group still killing and rocking it, and going with the trend of fashion and lifestyles, No my wife won’t try to take fashion serious anymore. She will just wear any random cloths, not minding the occasion. You all won’t understand me on this, as In she use to be in line with all these before we had our first child. She’s not going through any stress, we living okay enough to be well fed. So what’s happening?? Men, do you also feel like this? I mean those married for 5-10yrs and over. A story of a young man who got married 11yrs ago 92 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Wife Suddenly Starts Looking Older Than You? by lahp(m): 12:24am On Jan 20, 2021 |
grabs chair to sit and listen to the elderly 130 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Wife Suddenly Starts Looking Older Than You? by Godada(m): 12:29am On Jan 20, 2021 |
![]() Have you had a chat about this with her? Take her on a shopping spree and get her stuffs to spice up her looks. Enroll her in a gym and exercise with her make we nor hear say gym instructor dey exercise her kitty for you 316 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Wife Suddenly Starts Looking Older Than You? by lahp(m): 12:34am On Jan 20, 2021 |
[quote author=Godada post=98239882] ![]() Have you had a chat about this with her? Take her on a shopping spree and get her stuffs to spice up her looks. Enroll her in a gym and exercise with her make we nor hear say gym instructor dey exercise her kitty for you[/quot manchi e b like u follow up xvideos oh 41 Likes |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Wife Suddenly Starts Looking Older Than You? by jchioma: 12:52am On Jan 20, 2021 |
I will.advise you look at it from a positive point of view. It's called the vicissitudes of life. She has had to bear and surmounted several challenges and changes to her life, family and society; Accept her and do everything you can to cheer her up. Be the man she met and loved. . At 35 yrs, she still a youth in the Nigerian context, where no one wants to be regarded as "old", forgetting that everyone will grow old someday and die if they are even lucky to live long 124 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Wife Suddenly Starts Looking Older Than You? by Nobody: 12:55am On Jan 20, 2021 |
This is why there are sidechicks, make use of one or stop complaining. 32 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Wife Suddenly Starts Looking Older Than You? by MANNABBQGRILLS: 12:56am On Jan 20, 2021 |
Relationship/Marriage is a talking thing, #TalkToHerAboutIt 23 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Wife Suddenly Starts Looking Older Than You? by felong(m): 1:07am On Jan 20, 2021 |
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Re: How Do You Feel When Your Wife Suddenly Starts Looking Older Than You? by Nobody: 1:13am On Jan 20, 2021 |
Stress can make u look older or weight gain Encourage her to take a lot of rest and if she is adding too much weight which is another reason to look older then enrol her in the gym. 55 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Wife Suddenly Starts Looking Older Than You? by Nobody: 1:15am On Jan 20, 2021 |
Godada:dem dey forbid am if op dey exercise with Im wife? Gym instructor is not a must Common for ur wife to run for thread mill I'm go come dey hire gym instructor? Na wao ![]() 28 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Wife Suddenly Starts Looking Older Than You? by doggedfighter(f): 1:35am On Jan 20, 2021 |
Did she become too churchy and 'spirikoko'.? This can be a factor too 106 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Wife Suddenly Starts Looking Older Than You? by internationalman(m): 1:58am On Jan 20, 2021 |
Godada: doggedfighter: You guy advise people here like they are white people... Ned Nwoko will not have an issue like this to deal with.. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Wife Suddenly Starts Looking Older Than You? by doggedfighter(f): 2:02am On Jan 20, 2021 |
internationalman: Are you saying money could be an issue? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Wife Suddenly Starts Looking Older Than You? by Originalsly: 2:50am On Jan 20, 2021 |
Bro.... listen to yourself.... after 11 years of marriage only a few months ago you noticed your wife has aged.... and is not fashion conscious as before marriage. Is it you?......or she that just returned from the Moon? Women go through changes after childbirth.... are stressed .... and even more stressed if the husband is not spending a whole lot more time helping out in the home. Were you? With family come responsibilities and maturity. Her priority is family.... you shoild thank goodness she is grounded and not twittering around as a fashionova while neglecting your kids. As the trendy husband... why not clothes shop for her? ... and take her out to flex? Doing this often can lessen her stress.... and slow down her aging process. But how about you?..... you believe you are still youthful and up to date in fashion? Stop putting down your wife and pulling down your marriage. 319 Likes 22 Shares |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Wife Suddenly Starts Looking Older Than You? by Ahmed0336(m): 2:50am On Jan 20, 2021 |
Wahala Oga, I want to believe it is stress. How often do you service her jajina ![]() Most importantly talk to her about her dress sense if you're worried and also help with chores. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Wife Suddenly Starts Looking Older Than You? by tobechi74: 3:08am On Jan 20, 2021 |
You are not inserting (enough sperm ) life inside her 4 Likes |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Wife Suddenly Starts Looking Older Than You? by Mikester: 3:09am On Jan 20, 2021 |
Whatever you feel about her, let her know. Stop assuming she knows. Relationships should be based on communication not assumptions. 73 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Wife Suddenly Starts Looking Older Than You? by addictiv(m): 5:49am On Jan 20, 2021 |
You don't need a gym instructor or registration to workout. There are tons of workout routines available on YouTube. All u need is a laptop /tablet and good data. 17 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Wife Suddenly Starts Looking Older Than You? by Nobody: 6:26am On Jan 20, 2021 |
Op, What is the Age difference between you and your wife?? This will give us a hint on the Advice you seek!! 10 Likes |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Wife Suddenly Starts Looking Older Than You? by femi4: 6:34am On Jan 20, 2021 |
setobaba:Discuss with her, not nairalanders. That's the mistake of this generation couples. You communicate less yet want changes to take place. Cheating starts from the mind, don't think what I think you ll start to think o 68 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Wife Suddenly Starts Looking Older Than You? by ThundrCork(m): 6:45am On Jan 20, 2021 |
She's too comfortable. Marry a second wife, when the second begins to get too comfortable, follow it with a third wife. You only live once. 31 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Wife Suddenly Starts Looking Older Than You? by helinues: 6:46am On Jan 20, 2021 |
Is your wife a full time house wife? 2 Likes |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Wife Suddenly Starts Looking Older Than You? by ThundrCork(m): 6:54am On Jan 20, 2021 |
Its inevitable. Thats if he isn't already nacking a side chick. when you start nacking different peckus, thats when comparisons begins to spring up femi4: 44 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Wife Suddenly Starts Looking Older Than You? by Cutehector(m): 6:55am On Jan 20, 2021 |
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Re: How Do You Feel When Your Wife Suddenly Starts Looking Older Than You? by Gentle0wavez: 7:06am On Jan 20, 2021 |
Pray to God to give you insight on what is wrong then solve it. I BELIEVE IN THE WORD OF GOD. 9 Likes |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Wife Suddenly Starts Looking Older Than You? by Kobicove(m): 7:09am On Jan 20, 2021 |
She's probably less concerned about her appearance now due to other things she has on her mind like taking care of the house and the kids... ![]() Introduce some competition for her 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Wife Suddenly Starts Looking Older Than You? by Womanizer(m): 7:15am On Jan 20, 2021 |
setobaba: You fúcked the woman for 11 years and still expect her to look the same? If you drive a car for 11 years will it still be the same as the day you bought it? ![]() 107 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Wife Suddenly Starts Looking Older Than You? by Nobody: 7:29am On Jan 20, 2021 |
Learn to accept her as she is. The time for glamour and fashion is limited. It is good that a sensible wife recognizes her strengths of the moment (or maturity, responsibility, nurture) and utilises them, rather than attempt to revive old strengths that have passed away. A good wife has more responsibilities to fulfill than being showcased to make your friends jealous; like we did when we were teenagers and everyone wanted to date the stunning cheerleader; or whatever the Nigerian equivalent is. Would you like it more if she spent more time gumming and dressing up than looking after your children? Looking after children no be beans, I must confess. Anyway, by now, after 11 years of marriage, you should have been comfortable with her looks. I would have advised that you marry a hot new lady as second wife to show off since it seems to mean so much to you, but that would not be a good reason, nor would I endorse marrying a second wife if your relationship with the first is not at a mature, accepting stage. Especially since, with your penchant for going after beauty, you would be too partial to the new wife, neglecting the hardworking first one. 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Wife Suddenly Starts Looking Older Than You? by paulolee(m): 7:51am On Jan 20, 2021 |
sit her down n talk to her, if she doesn't listen, jus arranged one of ur friends to visit with his arranged girlnfriend and the a lady would be the same age range with ur wife, she would dress hot n sharp... afer the visit you use the lady as an example and talk to her again, a little may change except she be chronic deeper life or chosen member |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Wife Suddenly Starts Looking Older Than You? by Michelle55: 8:03am On Jan 20, 2021 |
Originalsly:God bless you!! 32 Likes |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Wife Suddenly Starts Looking Older Than You? by Kiddogarcia(m): 8:20am On Jan 20, 2021 |
What the bleep happened to talking to her before coming here to read the opinion of random strangers 26 Likes |
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