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Re: Spousal Abuse Against Men Rising In Lagos – UI Criminologist by MrNipplesLover(m): 10:43pm On Feb 10, 2021
No matter how strong a woman is, once my preek enter ur toto like this, ur power go hibernate. smiley


Once d thing just manage enter ehnn, E don finish be that. cool

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Re: Spousal Abuse Against Men Rising In Lagos – UI Criminologist by NobleAngell(f): 10:43pm On Feb 10, 2021
Splitmind:
It had always been common but wasn't taken seriously or even considered as abuse.

When a woman gets slapped by her man people gasp in shock but when a man is slapped or hit by a frying pan it's either a joke or he deserved it somehow.

There was even an old comic strip on the Punch where a man would joke about how much his wife was abusing him.

The fact that women who abuse can lie and cry so people instantly believe them didn't help matters, at least it is getting more attention.
Efe and Jude cheesy
Re: Spousal Abuse Against Men Rising In Lagos – UI Criminologist by LyfeJennings(m): 10:44pm On Feb 10, 2021
KingLennon:
Seeing those two pictures above makes me want to puke. A whole bloodied male gender behaving like a sissy.


Them never born that woman well sha....

Ma na iya e pa
I swear if I no fit beat am
I go rent female thugs to beat am to stupor
Me wey no get sense

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Re: Spousal Abuse Against Men Rising In Lagos – UI Criminologist by NobleAngell(f): 10:45pm On Feb 10, 2021
LyfeJennings:


Ma na iya e pa
I swear if I no fit beat am
I go rent female thugs to beat am to stupor
Me wey no get sense
Hahahahahaha. This is hilarious.

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Re: Spousal Abuse Against Men Rising In Lagos – UI Criminologist by TakeOff2(m): 10:55pm On Feb 10, 2021
Hmmm
Re: Spousal Abuse Against Men Rising In Lagos – UI Criminologist by Liposure: 10:57pm On Feb 10, 2021
NobleAngell:
I wish it is true.
you are stubborn
Re: Spousal Abuse Against Men Rising In Lagos – UI Criminologist by jelel6: 11:03pm On Feb 10, 2021
There's no surprise here. Power intoxicates the majority of us.

The ONLY reason why there are supposedly less incidents of women physically abusing men is because THE POWER in this case is with the average man.

Majority of us will agree that when it comes to VERBAL abuse, the average woman trumps and they don't hesitate to use it on strangers and their husbands if they deem necessary.

With the way some women treat their helps or wards at home, since they have the upper hand here, who's surprise they can melt out the same treatment to their spouses if the odds is in their favour?

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Re: Spousal Abuse Against Men Rising In Lagos – UI Criminologist by Pavore9: 11:04pm On Feb 10, 2021
Splitmind:
It had always been common but wasn't taken seriously or even considered as abuse.

When a woman gets slapped by her man people gasp in shock but when a man is slapped or hit by a frying pan it's either a joke or he deserved it somehow.

There was even an old comic strip on the Punch where a man would joke about how much his wife was abusing him.

The fact that women who abuse can lie and cry so people instantly believe them didn't help matters, at least it is getting more attention.

Efe and Jude! angry

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Re: Spousal Abuse Against Men Rising In Lagos – UI Criminologist by Eluala(m): 11:32pm On Feb 10, 2021
NobleAngell:
We know your type.
Na your type go wash pant.

But is anything wrong with a man helping his wife out with doing the laundry, including her pants?

After all, if he can remove it and sniff when he is in need of entering Jerusalem, then why can't he do the washing if she needs help with that? Not out of compulsion but as an act of love, care and support.

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Re: Spousal Abuse Against Men Rising In Lagos – UI Criminologist by KingLennon(m): 11:55pm On Feb 10, 2021
NobleAngell:
Then they should have expired by now.
Red pills are for life...
Re: Spousal Abuse Against Men Rising In Lagos – UI Criminologist by sparko1(m): 12:14am On Feb 11, 2021
when2:
1% of married men.

Actually over 50%, most are not physical abuse but emotional.
Re: Spousal Abuse Against Men Rising In Lagos – UI Criminologist by amuwo1980: 12:31am On Feb 11, 2021
If you know what most guys are passing thru in the so called marriages , women egged on by the social media have gone berserk , I heard of one that sold her husband's property and fled to Canada , and remove the husband’s name from the the baby’s birth certificate, or are u going to talk about the partenity issues and some of them are even defending it some asking why the man came to the open with the issue and another comparing it to ikemefuna in things Okonkwo’s saga in things fall apart, telling lies, fabricating circumstances , even young white men are getting tired of this growing madness

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Re: Spousal Abuse Against Men Rising In Lagos – UI Criminologist by amuwo1980: 12:34am On Feb 11, 2021
Eluala:


But is anything wrong with a man helping his wife out with doing the laundry, including her pants?

After all, if he can remove it and sniff when he is in need of entering Jerusalem, then why can't he do the washing if she needs help with that? Not out of compulsion but as an act of love, care and support.
You can do all that and still u are in a bad loveless marriage , the problem is the upbringing of our women, and how the society treat women as fragile and being easily intimidated, now if a girl accuses u of a rape , she is to be automatically believed, if u get drunk and a girl is equally drunk and u have sex and she accuses u of rape , you are going down , so the ladies is absolved of all sense of responsibility and why not assume she raped the drunk man

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Re: Spousal Abuse Against Men Rising In Lagos – UI Criminologist by Judybash93(m): 1:36am On Feb 11, 2021
when2:
1% of married men.

Well, i beg to differ especially when it comes to emotional abuse. Women are professionals in this sted and it's really not their fault because most have been raised to be emotionally abusive.
Re: Spousal Abuse Against Men Rising In Lagos – UI Criminologist by Judybash93(m): 1:40am On Feb 11, 2021
MrNipplesLover:
No matter how strong a woman is, once my preek enter ur toto like this, ur power go hibernate. smiley


Once d thing just manage enter ehnn, E don finish be that. cool

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Re: Spousal Abuse Against Men Rising In Lagos – UI Criminologist by LilMissFavvy(f): 1:56am On Feb 11, 2021
LIES sad
Re: Spousal Abuse Against Men Rising In Lagos – UI Criminologist by Burgerlomo: 2:18am On Feb 11, 2021
KingLennon:
Seeing those two pictures above makes me want to puke. A whole bloodied male gender behaving like a sissy.


Them never born that woman well sha....

Re: Spousal Abuse Against Men Rising In Lagos – UI Criminologist by vioment: 2:25am On Feb 11, 2021
Respect is a two way street, when the physical or mental violence is beginning to surpass your tolerance threshold, then you notify the other party. For some people, that threshold could be the 1st time, others could be 100; whatever, you let your partner know they need to make adjustment.



I support equality and good change; not entitlement from both sides.


The idea of 50 - 50 sharing of properties is not a good deal on both sides. So that kind of law, should not be used. The richer party has to help in some percentage. We have to set a minimum percentage of sharing but no maximum.


We hope these laws don't apply to us, but we need to make these rules clear.


If we can become a society of healthy relationships, that could help the economy and a good notoriety on a world scale.


By the way in an unrelated subject, I hope and wish that for the next 50 years, nigeria will be the leader in oil and water technology, everything electricity and electronics, and the teachers of true grit and fortitude.
Re: Spousal Abuse Against Men Rising In Lagos – UI Criminologist by Charx122: 3:25am On Feb 11, 2021
when2:
1% of married men.

What did you study in school?
Re: Spousal Abuse Against Men Rising In Lagos – UI Criminologist by OlawaleBammie: 4:35am On Feb 11, 2021
LyfeJennings:


Ma na iya e pa
I swear if I no fit beat am
I go rent female thugs to beat am to stupor
Me wey no get sense
grin grin grin

Awon generation omo buruku grin grin


@bolded, its tru sha, a go just say make dem no kee am o, but can be receiving the premium beatings in four-four months interval to fully complete the factory settings grin
Re: Spousal Abuse Against Men Rising In Lagos – UI Criminologist by Nobody: 4:39am On Feb 11, 2021
KingLennon:
Seeing those two pictures above makes me want to puke. A whole bloodied male gender behaving like a sissy.


Them never born that woman well sha....
You never see anything, you haven't seen women with male gene inside ready to beat up their husband if he misbehaves.
Some of ds men that marry women dey senior with almost 10yrs + will eventually face ds wahala if dey start to age while their wife get more young, and if your wife is the one sustaining you then you're bound to face such because no woman gives her husband food and shelter via paying of house rent and you still expect her not to play bossy, some will pray dat you remain poor so as to take full control of the Lord of the house
Re: Spousal Abuse Against Men Rising In Lagos – UI Criminologist by Nobody: 4:44am On Feb 11, 2021
Abuse is not only physical, there is verbal, emotional and food abuse. Married men and women undergo verbal and emotional abuse from their spouses. The oga gbonge of them all is the most under-reported which is FOOD ABUSE. What is food abuse? It is the regular act of putting harmful substances into your spouse meals in minute undetected amounts to have a cumulative effect in later years. This abuse is very common but hardly even spoken about cos it is difficult to catch the culprit.

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Re: Spousal Abuse Against Men Rising In Lagos – UI Criminologist by bouncin04(m): 5:09am On Feb 11, 2021
The future is female indeed embarassed
Re: Spousal Abuse Against Men Rising In Lagos – UI Criminologist by favour32(m): 5:31am On Feb 11, 2021
ijustdey:


https://www.independent.ng/spousal-abuse-against-men-rising-in-lagos-ui-criminologist/
Re: Spousal Abuse Against Men Rising In Lagos – UI Criminologist by favour32(m): 5:35am On Feb 11, 2021
while men in polygamous marriage are less likely to be victims of spousal abuse.
Na two wives I get.
I dey go for the third one.
Make una dey deceive una sef say one man one wife.

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Re: Spousal Abuse Against Men Rising In Lagos – UI Criminologist by Nobody: 6:01am On Feb 11, 2021
ijustdey:


According to her, married men whose wives were not in their first marriage were two times more likely to experienced spousal abuse while men in polygamous marriage are less likely to be victims of spousal abuse.


Gbam! Am I right or am I right?

Point 1. Marriage to discarded women tends to be destructive.

Point 2. Polygamous marriages are happy marriages.

It was a female professor that even did the research. They can't claim male conspiracy here.

Though, I still can't imagine how a man who is naturally equipped with more strength and more sense than a woman, will let himself be abused by his wife.

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Re: Spousal Abuse Against Men Rising In Lagos – UI Criminologist by HIV1: 6:22am On Feb 11, 2021
In the next 10 to 15 years, marriage will be disappearing to be replaced by baby Mama's, cause marriage is a scam.
Re: Spousal Abuse Against Men Rising In Lagos – UI Criminologist by ModestGal(f): 6:53am On Feb 11, 2021
Lies
Our society is so much against women, why do men feel threatened this much when a woman has a voice and threatened?
They even went as far as conducting fake research, it is well
Re: Spousal Abuse Against Men Rising In Lagos – UI Criminologist by alloy123: 7:16am On Feb 11, 2021
i will never be sissy for any woman
Re: Spousal Abuse Against Men Rising In Lagos – UI Criminologist by georgeakins: 7:22am On Feb 11, 2021
It is possible when you marry a woman that is bigger than you in stature. I hate befriending a lady that is as tall as I am.
Re: Spousal Abuse Against Men Rising In Lagos – UI Criminologist by abbatoir(m): 7:55am On Feb 11, 2021
Interesting...
Re: Spousal Abuse Against Men Rising In Lagos – UI Criminologist by EmekaA125(m): 8:06am On Feb 11, 2021
when2:
1% of married men.
55% of married men actually. U need to learn that not only women suffer abuse in our society but just like it's hard to believe a male rape victim, no body will still believe them if they (men) voice out making you to give it 1%.

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