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Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by omonighoblessing(f): 10:12pm On Feb 16, 2021
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ShobayoEmma:
In this Buhari regime, nobody gets right again. Even your brother's wife have no right to send you out.



Buhari, a good man with evil intentions
angry
ShobayoEmma:
In this Buhari regime, nobody gets right again. Even your brother's wife have no right to send you out.



Buhari, a good man with evil intentions
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by HacheNoire: 10:13pm On Feb 16, 2021
Yes of course!

Be thankful she is a woman of God.

I would have suggested she takes you like completely. Probably by food poisoning
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by ProtectMyMoney: 10:13pm On Feb 16, 2021
iamGholdaniel:
I am angry right now,
My brother’s wife is so full of pain, whenever she sight me.

Because everything my brother own, we both struggled for it.

We have all at one point stayed in our brother's house with their wives too.

A Simple communication resolves a lot.

When your friend visited, if you had approached your brother's wife politely that your friend was hungry, I believe she would have made something for him herself.

Entering her kitchen to go and touch her pot without her consent was the deal breaker for her.

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Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by emerged01(m): 10:14pm On Feb 16, 2021
I can see op is full of himself. You don’t even have any right to go to her kitchen. If you want to earn your respect back just find a way to move out of that house and start your own life.

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Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by lovethchioma(f): 10:15pm On Feb 16, 2021
Bola146:
If that is what you did, i don't see anything you did nothing wrong unless they are still struggling. You can't force her out of your brother's house, he knew her wella before they got married. I'll just advise you to just keep calm, it's a matter of time. Karma is a bastard, if she behaves bad knowingly to his husband's family, she will surely reap it, it's not a curse. Just ignore her.
Brother's house? how na? It is also her house not just his brother's house. Let this sink in properly. The house now belongs to the wife and the husband equally.

if you understand this very well... then it will be good for you.

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Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by olisaEze(m): 10:16pm On Feb 16, 2021
It’s like sleep still full dis guyman eye. grin

Watch ur rights turn to ur left when ur brother gets back.

When u finally marry a wife, u go know why. grin grin

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Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by Membis333: 10:16pm On Feb 16, 2021
If u no mind ur self
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by WoundedLamb: 10:17pm On Feb 16, 2021
Twoclans:
This country is really getting harder by the day,alot of people are angry and frustrated.

When people fight because of food it breaks my heart because it just shows the level of poverty and poverty mentality that abounds in this country.

@OP no vex,if it is possible try and resolve issues with her even before your brother comes back. Women can sometimes be intoxicated with power. Be a man and resolve the issues at hand then work hard to have your own space.

The kind of things that trip some women sef angry
Kitchen food ? When okonjo iweala just broke new record.

I think you totally missed the real bone of contention. For the lady, this wasn't about the food taken but the fact that he went to her kitchen to take the food without informing her. Ordinarily, this shouldn't be a problem. But I what I can get from this is that there's been a long standing issue between them prior to now. Only both of them know what the real issue is.

As for me, the way I do in people's space is a function of my relationship with them. If I don't get along fine with my brother's wife, you won't see me anywhere near her kitchen. What will I tell people? That's I'm fighting with the woman of the house over her own kitchen?? Lol

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Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by fredoooooo: 10:17pm On Feb 16, 2021
Na who get house if no be the wife
Oga what are you doing in ya brothers house , how old are you ?
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by shegra58: 10:17pm On Feb 16, 2021
iamGholdaniel:
I am angry right now,
My brother’s wife is so full of pain, whenever she sight me.
I don’t know where this hatred is coming from, today she did worst than before.
a male friend visited, and I went to the kitchen to cook and serve him.

After my friend left she started ranting, and I shouted back at her.

She packed out my belongings , and she started throwing my bags and other stuffs outside.
She locked the house entrance and left with the keys

I decided to stay calm and wait for my brother to come back.

Because everything my brother own, we both struggled for it.
maybe na she dey bankroll your brother
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by franchasng: 10:18pm On Feb 16, 2021
iamGholdaniel:
I am angry right now,
My brother’s wife is so full of pain, whenever she sight me.
I don’t know where this hatred is coming from, today she did worst than before.
a male friend visited, and I went to the kitchen to cook and serve him.

After my friend left she started ranting, and I shouted back at her.

She packed out my belongings , and she started throwing my bags and other stuffs outside.
She locked the house entrance and left with the keys

I decided to stay calm and wait for my brother to come back.

Because everything my brother own, we both struggled for it.
Don't fight her or your brother. Take your heartbreak and disgrace by her to God in prayer and take it from me, few years from today, they will be struggling to borrow from you. You will be richer than her husband. You may end up becoming the pillar of the family.

I have seen things like this happen often.

Just keep your hands clean and leave that house, even if it means going back to the village do it and restrategise how to come back to the city on your own and focus on your dreams and aspirations, God will favor you immensely.


Many women are the reason the man they married are poor or struggling financially.

If you follow my advice, in some years to come, she will look at you and feel ashamed of her actions of today because by then you must have become a huge success that will make her humble.


This fight is not for you, leave it for God to fight. Keep your hands clean and don't fight her at all. God is preparing you for greatness

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Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by victorazy(m): 10:18pm On Feb 16, 2021
iamGholdaniel:
I am angry right now,
My brother’s wife is so full of pain, whenever she sight me.
I don’t know where this hatred is coming from, today she did worst than before.
a male friend visited, and I went to the kitchen to cook and serve him.

After my friend left she started ranting, and I shouted back at her.

She packed out my belongings , and she started throwing my bags and other stuffs outside.
She locked the house entrance and left with the keys

I decided to stay calm and wait for my brother to come back.

Because everything my brother own, we both struggled for it.

Your at fault ......

She has every rite to throw you out.
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by Banter1(m): 10:19pm On Feb 16, 2021
iamGholdaniel:
I am angry right now,
My brother’s wife is so full of pain, whenever she sight me.
I don’t know where this hatred is coming from, today she did worst than before.
a male friend visited, and I went to the kitchen to cook and serve him.

After my friend left she started ranting, and I shouted back at her.

She packed out my belongings , and she started throwing my bags and other stuffs outside.
She locked the house entrance and left with the keys

I decided to stay calm and wait for my brother to come back.

Because everything my brother own, we both struggled for it.
Bros why you enter her kitchen cook food now? na you find trouble, women no like that thing at all
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by ahjerryboy1(m): 10:19pm On Feb 16, 2021
Nwodosis:
Everything is your brother's own and both you worked for it? How?
My friend allow your brother's wife to enjoy her marriage, which right do you have to go and open a married woman's pot to serve not even yourself but a friend? You owe her an apology.
look bromans, i dont think what this guy did is wrong.there's nothing wrong for him to serve his friends food.moreover, it is very wrong to throw away his luggages out side.what nonsense is that.i trust my family that can never happen in my family.

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Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by Howmon: 10:20pm On Feb 16, 2021
Leemao, double your hustle and move to your own house. Learn to respect people's space. Funny thing is you may not like it if the case was reversed as well.

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Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by miketayo(m): 10:21pm On Feb 16, 2021
iamGholdaniel:
I am angry right now,
My brother’s wife is so full of pain, whenever she sight me.
I don’t know where this hatred is coming from, today she did worst than before.
a male friend visited, and I went to the kitchen to cook and serve him.

After my friend left she started ranting, and I shouted back at her.

She packed out my belongings , and she started throwing my bags and other stuffs outside.
She locked the house entrance and left with the keys

I decided to stay calm and wait for my brother to come back.

Because everything my brother own, we both struggled for it.

oga she is married to your bro. that's her house now, she can throw u out if she wants. i will suggest both of you find a common ground.. i cant imagine myself fighting with my brothers wife
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by Ivimmanuel: 10:21pm On Feb 16, 2021
if my brother's wife can not offer my guest food, what is my guest doing in that house in the first place? your brothers wife is wrong and has no right at all to throw you out of the house but you must respect your self and leave that house for them if she is not comfortable with your presence.

you shouldn't have gone into the kitchen to cook without asking for your brothers wife for permission, she's not your mother nah. please try and look for your own apartment, those two must have already been discussing your matter on the bed, last last you go still leave.
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by elantraceey(f): 10:22pm On Feb 16, 2021
franchasng:
Don't fight her or your brother. Take your heartbreak and disgrace by her to God in prayer and take it from me, few years from today, they will be struggling to borrow from you. You will be richer than her husband. You may end up becoming the pillar of the family.

I have seen things like this happen often.

Just keep your hands clean and leave that house, even if it means going back to the village do it and restrategise how to come back to the city on your own and focus on your dreams and aspirations, God will favor you immensely.


Many women are the reason the man they married are poor or struggling financially.

If you follow my advice, in some years to come, she will look at you and feel ashamed of her actions of today because by then you must have become a huge success that will make her humble

Imagine what you're wishing for a couple over a one sided story.

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Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by jaxxy(m): 10:22pm On Feb 16, 2021
iamGholdaniel:
I am angry right now,
My brother’s wife is so full of pain, whenever she sight me.
I don’t know where this hatred is coming from, today she did worst than before.
a male friend visited, and I went to the kitchen to cook and serve him.

After my friend left she started ranting, and I shouted back at her.

She packed out my belongings , and she started throwing my bags and other stuffs outside.
She locked the house entrance and left with the keys

I decided to stay calm and wait for my brother to come back.

Because everything my brother own, we both struggled for it.

She has a absolutely no right to do that without her husbands permission. That is wrong, completely wrong!

Ure her brother inlaw not just anybody. She isn’t solely in charge of the house sofar ur brother is around.
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by spicykev(f): 10:22pm On Feb 16, 2021
Just one question for you OP, does she know you and your brother jointly own the empire? Or you are just assuming things?

From what I can deduce from your account of the incident, you seem to be one hell of a rude brother in-law, the type that delibrately refused to respect their brother's wife.

Some women are actually respectful and have high tolerance, but some are not so gifted, you got served because I am sure she must have been stretched, sorry. Sir.

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Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by omaclarry(m): 10:22pm On Feb 16, 2021
iamGholdaniel:
I am angry right now,
My brother’s wife is so full of pain, whenever she sight me.
I don’t know where this hatred is coming from, today she did worst than before.
a male friend visited, and I went to the kitchen to cook and serve him.

After my friend left she started ranting, and I shouted back at her.

She packed out my belongings , and she started throwing my bags and other stuffs outside.
She locked the house entrance and left with the keys

I decided to stay calm and wait for my brother to come back.

Because everything my brother own, we both struggled for it.

come no b u wey ur broda and him wife fvck for ur room? so you still dey cause problem for that house

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Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by Divoc19(f): 10:23pm On Feb 16, 2021
iamGholdaniel:

Because everything my brother own, we both struggled for it.
Really, Bros do you think you should own the wife too?
Even shouting at her.

Wahali, she done suffer for your hand.


Abeg leave, let them live in peace.

For a man shall leave his father and mother and siblings and cling to his wife. The two shall be as one.

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Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by Patrioticman007(m): 10:23pm On Feb 16, 2021
Hundredfold4lif:
You are a child!
Ask your brother to give you your portion of your joint business venture with him.
Then get out of that house immediately.
You will reap what you sow dear.
You even have the guts to enter her Kitchen, cook and serve a stranger! Are you out of your senses?
And some thoughtless kids acting like men here are clapping for you.
I married at 23 years. Definitely you are above this age. If not, then you are a suspect to be fighting a legally married in her matrimonial home. What?
Your types are those who depend on their family members and always complain that they are not being treated well even when they keep on blowing investment funds given them to fend for themselves.
PLEASE, PLEASE, AND PLEASE, PREPARE AND LEAVE THE HOUSE AND LET YOUR BROTHER AND HIS WIFE REST AND ENJOY THEIR MARRIAGE BECAUSE I CAN SENSE THAT YOUR BROTHER IS NOT MAN ENOUGH TO HAVE SPOKEN THE DIVINE TRUTH TO YOU.

The Oyinbo way of life has corrupted some people way of thinking. Will she trow away her own younger brother bag outside because he used her kitchen ?.

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Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by Depressed101: 10:23pm On Feb 16, 2021
iamGholdaniel:
I am angry right now,
My brother’s wife is so full of pain, whenever she sight me.
I don’t know where this hatred is coming from, today she did worst than before.
a male friend visited, and I went to the kitchen to cook and serve him.

After my friend left she started ranting, and I shouted back at her.

She packed out my belongings , and she started throwing my bags and other stuffs outside.
She locked the house entrance and left with the keys

I decided to stay calm and wait for my brother to come back.

Because everything my brother own, we both struggled for it.
oga I won't tell you twice pack go your own house... Why you dey stress your bro wife, na you and am marry her?
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by franchasng: 10:23pm On Feb 16, 2021
elantraceey:


Imagine what you're wishing for a couple over a one sided story.
Because I have witnessed things like this countless times. Today those women are ashamed of their past actions.


Some of you women bring calamity upon your husbands with your wicked and inhumane attitudes to others


Any foolish man that supports his wife maltreating a house help, a stepchild, a poor relative or stranger is inviting natural curses in his life.


I am married. My wife cannot dare such. She is too good to a fault though, which were part of the reasons I married her anyway

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Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by FRANKOSKI(m): 10:24pm On Feb 16, 2021
yes SHE IS A BIGGER STAKEHOLDER IN THAT HOUSE /FAMILY
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by jaxxy(m): 10:24pm On Feb 16, 2021
Nwodosis:
Everything is your brother's own and both you worked for it? How?
My friend allow your brother's wife to enjoy her marriage, which right do you have to go and open a married woman's pot to serve not even yourself but a friend? You owe her an apology.

He cooked his own food. Which one is married woman’s pot?? All this African mentality. Its boring and archaicundecided

Any woman that can throw ur bother out of the house for no reason without consulting u can throw u out of ur house if she ever gets the upper hand. It’s completely disrespectful to u not just ur brother.

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Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by Nobody: 10:25pm On Feb 16, 2021
iamGholdaniel:
I am angry right now,
My brother’s wife is so full of pain, whenever she sight me.
I don’t know where this hatred is coming from, today she did worst than before.
a male friend visited, and I went to the kitchen to cook and serve him.

After my friend left she started ranting, and I shouted back at her.

She packed out my belongings , and she started throwing my bags and other stuffs outside.
She locked the house entrance and left with the keys

I decided to stay calm and wait for my brother to come back.

Because everything my brother own, we both struggled for it.

You are both wrong.

You are very wrong to have gone into her kitchen to cook for a friend. It would have been better if you bought the things you cooked. What happened to indomine and egg etc. Or bread and coke all bought with your money. Even if you will collect your money from your Bros. when he comes back. You were wrong.

She was very stupid also to have thrown your things out. She wouldn't have done that to her own brother or sister. Many of the women today can't tolerate their husbands family except their own.
They are happy when their sisters, brothers or mum are around but when it is the husbands family they become irritated.

If I were you I would respect myself and never will visit both the husband and wife again. Even when they give birth to babies or are celebrating anything. She will have to come to personally genuinely seek forgiveness before I forgive her.
And if we should meet at a family gathering and she misbehaves to me. Hissing or make a silly remark, that day I might have to beat the demons out of her, even in the presence of her husband. You don't insult me in your house and insult me outside. It can't work

Leave their house if you like yaself.grin

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Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by sanpipita(m): 10:25pm On Feb 16, 2021
Women dey see nonsense in this thing called marriage in Nigeria, go and ask a white woman if she has right to kick you out of her husband's house.

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Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by PAWG(m): 10:25pm On Feb 16, 2021
Yes, if you misbehave. It's your brother's house not your father's house

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Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by Nobody: 10:25pm On Feb 16, 2021
Nwodosis:
Everything is your brother's own and both you worked for it? How?
My friend allow your brother's wife to enjoy her marriage, which right do you have to go and open a married woman's pot to serve not even yourself but a friend? You owe her an apology.
Just like that? She needs time to move out of her brother's house but that doesn't give the wife the right to throw her properties out. She seems to have been there before the wife was married and she deserves some respect. Yes she will need to move out but her brother's wife does not have to be a biitch about it. angry

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