Asadujames202:



I ain't walking away sir


My brother and his wife should also consider renting or building another house

Asadujames202:



I ain't walking away sir


My brother and his wife should also consider renting or building another house

pocohantas:
Any Nigerian in-law that makes these two statements;

1: Calling a family house “MY BROTHER’S HOUSE”

2: Telling you how they suffered with their brother before you came in...

Is most likely a very troublesome, disrespectful, entitled, egoistic, irrational, unmanageable and petty in-law.

OP used those two statements with so much effrontery. Tells a lot about him. Anyone supporting you should take you in and you try that nonsense with their wives, let’s see how many days you last there.

Make no mistakes, the problem is not the pot or the kitchen, that was just a trap and you fell into it. After all, she knew you wouldn’t come into her room or try to touch her butt. So, she waited for you in the kitchen.

After taking tramadol with your U-27 friends, you come home and start rubbing shoulders with her. You must be sick in the head.

Submit to your brother’s wife and control that your sharp mouth.

NaijaHelper1:

Sometimes you speak wisdom. Other times you're so full of shit. Making assumptions and concluding your argument based on your assumptions is nothing short of stupid.

It dont matter how entitled you feel the kiddo is, throwing him out of the house is absolute disrespect to her husband et family. Shouldn't have happened. There are several ways she could have handled the situation and still come out blameless.

NaijaHelper1:

Sometimes you speak wisdom. Other times you're so full of shit. Making assumptions and concluding your argument based on your assumptions is nothing short of stupid.

It dont matter how entitled you feel the kiddo is, throwing him out of the house is absolute disrespect to her husband et family. Shouldn't have happened. There are several ways she could have handled the situation and still come out blameless.

iamGholdaniel:
I am angry right now,
My brother’s wife is so full of pain, whenever she sight me.
I don’t know where this hatred is coming from, today she did worst than before.
a male friend visited, and I went to the kitchen to cook and serve him.

After my friend left she started ranting, and I shouted back at her.

She packed out my belongings , and she started throwing my bags and other stuffs outside.
She locked the house entrance and left with the keys

I decided to stay calm and wait for my brother to come back.

Because everything my brother own, we both struggled for it.

freetheking:
I'm so sorry that she throw your belongings out of the house of which I know it's not good. Secondly,you did not behave well by going to her pot without her concent. Let me tell you this and every other person reading thread, there are two things that women don't tolerate.

(1) Going to her pot without her concent.

(2) Interfering in the matter that concerns her and her husband.
You will be a good brother in-law or sister in-law.

24kmagic:
I hope and pray for a good sister in-law in the future, I really do. But in the event that we don't like each other, there's going to be some serious troubles.

I will try as much as possible not to encroach her space. But in the case of kitchen affairs, she dare not.

Who told women that the kitchen belongs to them only? As if they even know how to cook mtcheew.
If my sister in-law tries this rubbish with me, I will make sure I frustrate her life as long as I live.

She'll never wish to step into our family house again I swear. Even that my brother I will deal with him.

The only people I will spare are their kids.

But both my brother and his wife will not have a happy marriage, cos I will turn the whole family against them.

Rubbish.

Katier00:
Op it is very wrong of you to go into the kitchen of your brother's wife. Don't put your brother in the middle because he will definitely choose his wife over you. Respect yourself and tolerate more

ibkayee:
So much missing from your story but even with the small details you’ve provided I’m seeing problems lol why are you in their matrimonial home abeg

iamGholdaniel:
I am angry right now,
My brother’s wife is so full of pain, whenever she sight me.
I don’t know where this hatred is coming from, today she did worst than before.
a male friend visited, and I went to the kitchen to cook and serve him.

After my friend left she started ranting, and I shouted back at her.

She packed out my belongings , and she started throwing my bags and other stuffs outside.
She locked the house entrance and left with the keys

I decided to stay calm and wait for my brother to come back.

Because everything my brother own, we both struggled for it.

Freemasonry:

You obviously didn't read the part where she cooked and served. Note that she didn't just dish food cooked by the sister in law.
Most girls can't seem to tolerate having their husbands sibling around. Meanwhile, it's this same people that probably built him up to be the man he has become.

Op. Just find a way to leave that house okay. Don't waste your time trying to fight or anything. Just move on and hopefully lines will fall in pleasant places for you soon.

Nwodosis:
Everything is your brother's own and both you worked for it? How?
My friend allow your brother's wife to enjoy her marriage, which right do you have to go and open a married woman's pot to serve not even yourself but a friend? You owe her an apology.

cricifixo:
Unfortunately she does and can equally shoot you for trespassing

iamGholdaniel:


My brother’s wife is so full of pain, whenever she sight me.

I don’t know where this hatred is coming from

Because everything my brother own, we both struggled for it.

iamGholdaniel:
I am angry right now,
My brother’s wife is so full of pain, whenever she sight me.
I don’t know where this hatred is coming from, today she did worst than before.
a male friend visited, and I went to the kitchen to cook and serve him.

After my friend left she started ranting, and I shouted back at her.

She packed out my belongings , and she started throwing my bags and other stuffs outside.
She locked the house entrance and left with the keys

I decided to stay calm and wait for my brother to come back.




Because everything my brother own, we both struggled for it.

Asadujames202:




Summit to a mere woman
Who shamelessly squats to piss

pocohantas:
Any Nigerian in-law that makes these two statements;

1: Calling a family house “MY BROTHER’S HOUSE”

2: Telling you how they suffered with their brother before you came in...

Is most likely a very troublesome, disrespectful, entitled, egoistic, irrational, unmanageable and petty in-law.

OP used those two statements with so much effrontery. Tells a lot about him. Anyone supporting you should take you in and you try that nonsense with their wives, let’s see how many days you last there.

Make no mistakes, the problem is not the pot or the kitchen, that was just a trap and you fell into it. After all, she knew you wouldn’t come into her room or try to touch her butt. So, she waited for you in the kitchen.

After taking tramadol with your U-27 friends, you come home and start rubbing shoulders with her. You must be sick in the head.

Submit to your brother’s wife and control that your sharp mouth.

Emaprince:
Once your brother is married, you are a total stranger and him ditto.


I remember my school days when I visited an uncle to spend holiday with them....his wives two grown up brothers were staying with them. These guys goes to the kitchen anyhow. They just go to the pot of soup and take any meat they like..meanwhile, the husbands brothers don't even know direction to the kitchen. One of my cousin went there to stay for a long Tim, na fight the wife take pursue am, and her own brothers were still comfortably living there.

I will advice the OP to find his way out of the house. The moment your brother got married, you shoulda known that it was time to move out and be on your own.

Its better to squat with a friend than to stay in your married brothers house. The wife will make life hellish for you. Thats Nigerian women for you.

Slynation:

sometimes I laugh hard when I see post like this?? do you know how the family was brought up?? do you know the struggle they both went through to develop themselves financially?? do you know the bond shared between the brothers?? all of a sudden, one woman from no where will just come to assume position and start reaping where she didn't sow all in the name of marriage!!

iamGholdaniel:
I am angry right now,
My brother’s wife is so full of pain, whenever she sight me.
I don’t know where this hatred is coming from, today she did worst than before.
a male friend visited, and I went to the kitchen to cook and serve him.

After my friend left she started ranting, and I shouted back at her.

She packed out my belongings , and she started throwing my bags and other stuffs outside.
She locked the house entrance and left with the keys

I decided to stay calm and wait for my brother to come back.

Because everything my brother own, we both struggled for it.

Katier00:
Op it is very wrong of you to go into the kitchen of your brother's wife. Don't put your brother in the middle because he will definitely choose his wife over you. Respect yourself and tolerate more

Nwodosis:
Everything is your brother's own and both you worked for it? How?
My friend allow your brother's wife to enjoy her marriage, which right do you have to go and open a married woman's pot to serve not even yourself but a friend? You owe her an apology.

Twoclans:
This country is really getting harder by the day,alot of people are angry and frustrated.

When people fight because of food it breaks my heart because it just shows the level of poverty and poverty mentality that abounds in this country.

@OP no vex,if it is possible try and resolve issues with her even before your brother comes back. Women can sometimes be intoxicated with power. Be a man and resolve the issues at hand then work hard to have your own space.

The kind of things that trip some women sef
Kitchen food ? When okonjo iweala just broke new record.

Mindlog:


The wife did wrong throwing his things out, should have waited for the husband to come home.

Sadly, a good number of Nigerians were socialized into seeing nothing wrong in breaching the privacy a couple should enjoy. There is nothing wrong in hosting a third party but with an adult going on to live for months on end with the couple tend to generate conflicts.