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Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by pocohantas(f): 1:07am On Feb 17, 2021 |
NikAustine: One would think I am a jobless dumb orphan who can’t fight for what she contributed to. Too much Nigerian film is affecting you. You must be an EBSU student like the OP. Do you also know that how you respect your brother’s wife would determine how you all live happily? Learn that first. You all keep yapping about respect when the OP has the effrontery to exchange words with his brother’s wife in her matrimonial home. Maybe that was how your uncles talked to your mothers while you were kids, hence the normalization. NikAustine: Like they are dealing with the OP faaa! 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by 9jaRealist: 1:10am On Feb 17, 2021 |
Mokason288: Sorry, dude, but there are NO “boundaries” there for wifey. It is HER (and her husband’s) matrimonial home, and everyone else is a stranger under the law. > |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by NikAustine: 1:10am On Feb 17, 2021 |
Charlie2020:Yes she might win in any court but she will not win in a court where his family are the judges. from the mother to the siblings. they will certainly make life hell for her after hearing how she threw out their child to the street. If someone did that to my brother just because you got married to my other brother and you believe the house is yours.. I swear by God I will make sure I'll make your life a living hell and make sure I and my family will do everything to make my brother divorce you. from my mother to father down to my youngest siblings you have created enemies and we will burn you. no capping. If she had respect for her husband she should've waited then report to her husband and he will know what to do. only her husband got the right to ask him to leave not she. |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by 9jaRealist: 1:13am On Feb 17, 2021 |
pocohantas: Bless you sis! Too many Nigerians have been raised under a sexist (and even misogynist) culture. SMH > 1 Like |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by okito: 1:13am On Feb 17, 2021 |
No, she has no right to throw you out of your brother's house but she has the right to kick you out of her house. |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by Investorlex(m): 1:20am On Feb 17, 2021 |
He cooked,not by her Nwodosis: |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by NikAustine: 1:20am On Feb 17, 2021 |
pocohantas:I don't think you're jobless. I think you're sentimental. and this isn't about Nigerian films. have seen this happen and have heard of it. so forget Nigeria films ok. Yes, Respect they say is Reciprocal. if he should respect her, she should also respect him it goes both ways. Not everyone can keep their cool when being insulted or shouted on ok? so you won't blame him for responding. My uncle never talked that way to my mother infact, when he came to stay with us he was respectful and my mother also accorded him his respect. If you call this dealing with the Op, I wonder what you will say when the op family start to deal with her especially her husband's mother. I'm pretty sure you be one of the first ones to say "a man has to put his wife first before his mother, he has to side his wife first since they're one" |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by pocohantas(f): 1:24am On Feb 17, 2021 |
9jaRealist: Seems they fell on their heads as kids. Imagine reading OP post with no single admonition for him, yet they want the wife to be showering one spoilt brat with respect. Nigerian wives are trying sha. They keep giving- no one stops to ask if they are not deserving of same honour. Lol! |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by Smooth278(m): 1:26am On Feb 17, 2021 |
So wetin come happen for this tori? Abi brother never come house? |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by kunle75(m): 1:29am On Feb 17, 2021 |
iamGholdaniel: How old are you? If you are an adult then you don't belong there 1 Like |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by elijahozzy(m): 1:35am On Feb 17, 2021 |
Serious sense |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by zedegit: 1:35am On Feb 17, 2021 |
iamGholdaniel: Op I have to tell you the truth. You are in the wrong. You trespassed her territory which is the kitchen. Don't forget Biblically she and your brother are 1 in marriage and wwhat God has joined together; let no one put asunder. Even from your post,,, it's clear you look down on her. I don't want to believe that this is the first time thos issue is happening. You have 2 choices: pack your things and go make your own money or beg, stay and be humble. She's angry not because you invited your friend but because of your arrogance shown in your behavior and looking at your write-up I can deduct the kind of friend you invited which may even put the entire family at risk. So it's not just about you. You struggled with your brother. Fine and good. Plead with your brother to flash your aza so you can move on. NB: Before some people quote me to start insulting themselves. Note that this is my own opinion and in no means exhonerates the wife for throwing his things out. Normally she's supposed to take it up with her husband. It's also wrong. But like I said earlier, she may have been frustrated to take that decision. simply put, op met his match. Besides op are you Edo boy? 2 Likes |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by DCmonster: 1:39am On Feb 17, 2021 |
Get your settlement and move the fvck on. If your brother fvcks up forgive him coz he is a SIMP but don't forgive that bitch. A wise woman will never make an enemy out of her brother in-law. When a man runs into financial difficulty or any other problem in life and his rich siblings refuses to help me out, it's often as a result of having a wife that is as bad as OP sister in-law. Whatever they sow from this little issue, she will reap it later on certainly. 2 Likes |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by elijahozzy(m): 1:42am On Feb 17, 2021 |
Bro don’t be angry, you are family, she is family even if she doesn’t know how you both suffered and made it. A woman that can throw your bags out because of a material things like soup is a very bad wife. That’s a sign she doesn’t want you around your brother which is impossible. 4 Likes |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by elijahozzy(m): 1:50am On Feb 17, 2021 |
400billionman: But this Nuclear ☢️ family will be looking for people to come and greet them when your wife has throw all the brothers and uncles and your friends away because of material things, bad wife, I can change my wife but I can’t change my brother we blood forever. Don’t marry a wrong wife brothers 5 Likes |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by zedegit: 1:55am On Feb 17, 2021 |
silibaba: You are a clown. Go and give your own brother's wife smackdown and update us. |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by zedegit: 1:57am On Feb 17, 2021 |
Liposure: I have taken some decisions looking at only one side. Now looking back. I regret those decisions. If only the wife could update you. I doubt you will say the above. |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by zedegit: 1:59am On Feb 17, 2021 |
400billionman: Unfortunately extended means extra baggage in Buhari's era. |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by binary01: 2:00am On Feb 17, 2021 |
na this same Op complain about his brother wife not washing his bedsheet some days back abi?.... either way, go and get your own house or move back to your father's house. you and your brother did not struggle to share wife or his matrimonial home... |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by greenskittles: 2:01am On Feb 17, 2021 |
Yes. Yes she does. |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by haybhi1(m): 2:04am On Feb 17, 2021 |
One4me: What a scenario. Interesting. |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by zedegit: 2:09am On Feb 17, 2021 |
Richy4: This is objective I must say. 1 Like |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by TOPCRUISE(m): 2:11am On Feb 17, 2021 |
iamGholdaniel:Who pay the rent, who build the house, who bought the foods to the house, who pay the bills? You, your brother or your brother and his wife. |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by tit(f): 2:14am On Feb 17, 2021 |
Are you still at the gate? Abi you done japa? |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by InvertedHammer: 2:17am On Feb 17, 2021 |
iamGholdaniel:/ The moment your brother wanted to get married was when you should have taken your share of the struggle and moved. When your brother or sister gets married, learn how to give them space to start their own family. Leeches always lose at the end / |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by haybhi1(m): 2:22am On Feb 17, 2021 |
NikAustine: I can imagine how much better other things you have up your sleeves to do with your time than attributing your attention to an obviously static femicentric ideologist. Make attempts to avoid a second statement to such people, henceforth. They'd assume you align with them, but it's safe for your mental space. |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by NovusHomo(m): 2:26am On Feb 17, 2021 |
NikAustine: I reacted to the post. Their family dynamics is not my problem. |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by NovusHomo(m): 2:28am On Feb 17, 2021 |
NikAustine: I reacted to the post. I am not interested in their family dynamics. |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by NoToPile: 2:42am On Feb 17, 2021 |
NikAustine: If you understand the dynamics of marriage ehn, you will also understand that you can eventually become the bad guy instead of her should such scenario happen. All these can be avoided if guests respect themselves and respect their brothers wives but no they won't and some women no send you at all. That aside My mum always told me that if I want to receive favor from the man that has only a wife, I should never fight with his wife. My cousins don't respect my cousins wife they even transferred the hate to their children. Imagine a 17 year old child talking badly about a woman that should be in her late 40s. They will go to her house and start commanding even went as far as saying its their late mother ( my mums sister ) that is supposed to be enjoying what she is enjoying .Na she kill their mama? When she had her last born about 12yrs back,they went for naming and expected her to be at their beck and call, serving them up and down. One of my other cousins( not from their own mother) was even telling them to help may, they said lailai ooo he should come and carry their hands. Me I kuku dey go their house respect myself, despite they have house help I will show up for kitchen and ask what are we eating etc. she likes me ehn, when I was still in school after my cousin settle me with cash she sef will give me cash, . Always asking when I will come visit. When I got married she played a very active role, when I had my baby nko she made sure she got to my place despite the distance. Till date she and her husband siblings are just enduring themselves, my mum had always asked them what did she do to you people? No answer.They just hate her I think. I think her offence was she married their brother and these my cousins are married women ooo not that they even live together with my cousin and his wife. The day she broke down and told me she didn't know what she did to her husband siblings that when they were still in a rented apartment they were all fine, she said her problem started when they moved to their own home that was when they started frustrating her. I couldn't say anything because I know its true. My cousins even accused my mum of going to this our wife's house that what is she going to do there blablabla. Mumsie said its you people that will never respect yourself, You hate your brothers wife you want me to hate her too kolewerk. When in-laws want to be troublesome they will defy all forms of reason, these ones are my blood cousins oppressing their brothers wife for no reason we have talked and talked they should change their ways lailai they no gree. Sometimes I wish she was someone like the OP who will show them small pepper just small like this. When you carry that our brothers house mentality to act to his wife you are brewing trouble and the end result depends on the temperament of the wife. The OPs bros wife no send anybody. 1 Like |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by Hotbutt(f): 2:44am On Feb 17, 2021 |
When I get married to my husband, I will never drive my husband family out of the house becos the house is not my house. It is my husbands house. The Woman should Be Humble And Prayerful and watch God lift her up 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by missyblissy: 2:46am On Feb 17, 2021 |
crackhaus: I wonder. She behaved badly. What she should. Have done was to report the incident to your brother and he will handle it. Some. Women no. Get home training I tell you. When you marry a man, you marry the family too. I think she's not happy that you are living with them. She's lucky that you are sane, if it's men that don't accept rubbish..... @Op you cooked and served your guest not that you gave your visitor her food as you know she's a troublemaker. I don't see anything wrong with it as long uncle will clean the place when he's done, no problem. I prefer guys staying with as they are easy going than women. My two cents 1 Like |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by 001spice: 2:50am On Feb 17, 2021 |
iamGholdaniel:. How old are you |
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