Advice Needed: My Sister Was Almost Raped

Good evening guys, I trust Y'all had a great day.

I will try to make this as short and simple as possible.

My kid sister texted me on WhatsApp this evening saying she almost got raped by the guy crediting her online wallet for her, I drove straight to my mum's store because I was just leaving the office.

Now I met her and asked what's up.

She has an online wallet where she recharges decoders, pays electricity bills for people, sells airtime and data etc. She is a student and she's doing that business in my mum's store so she could help herself in school.

She said someone sent her 30k to pay his electricity bill and also recharge his decoder for him so she went to the guy's shop to get her account credited but he wasn't there then she called him and he directed her to his house in that same street very close to the shop.
She got there and the guy tried forcing himself on her, mind you she's on her period, she refused and during the scuffle she lost one of her earrings, she begged me not to take action that the guy has apologised, seeing that I was very hurt and I wanted to confront the guy at that moment. while she was explaining to me the guy called and kept on apologizing but I'm not having any of that.

I wanted to call some of my friends to beat up the guy but after she begged me, I still want confront the guy, warn him seriously but I need advice on if that's the best thing to do or which way do you think is best to approach the situation?

No insults please. Thank you all

If you confront the guy or beat am you've shown him mercy. He probably would have done it to someone and gotten away with it. And he probably will still do it to someone else.

Nowadays I can't stress myself. Report to the police and sue his ass to court. Let him be dragging with the law. When hand touch am he go learn lesson.

Don't confront him oooo. Make you no go use vex nack am better blow. I won't want to read about you on front page tomorrow. Igbere news no go cover you o

Thank bro, advice noted

MejiLoyon:
If you confront the guy or beat am you've shown him mercy. He probably would have done it to someone and gotten away with it. And he probably will still do it to someone else.

Nowadays I can't stress myself. Report to the police and sue his ass to court. Let him be dragging with the law. When hand touch am he go learn lesson.

Don't confront him oooo. Make you no go use vex nack am better blow. I won't want to read about you on front page tomorrow. Igbere news no go cover you o

Thanks bro. Advice noted

Better you let sleeping dog lie.
The said guy have apologised and besides you don't know the ralationship between your sister and the guy.
There's a reason she told u not to go further with the matter.

Modified for those quoting me and insulting their ancestors
How do you provide evidence for attempted Rape?
Rape is one of the most difficult cases to get a conviction not to talk of attempted rape.

My point is OP will be wasting precious time trying to proof this case...which will still end in futility.

A little elderly advice: As a Man Never go to War on the account of emotional tales by a woman; be her your mother, sister, girlfriend or wife....many have gone.
If you like follow wisdom.

tellwisdom:
Confirm from your sis how close she is to him.

They just met 2 weeks ago and she got to know him through someone that directed her to him so she could get her wallet funded

He might be a rapist and has been doing that and getting away with it or may not be one. Secondly, he may have been lusting after your sister for so long but your sister has not been showing her the green light, may be he's the shy type.
Just warn him seriously and forget about taking it too far since he has apologize, but he should thank God that he didn't succeed because that would have been a serious case that would have kept him behind bars.

Beat sense enter the idiot. He is a wild animal. This one that your sister is begging you not to take the matter up.. Question her very well o,e get why ..

shortgun:
Better you let sleeping dog lie.
The said guy have apologised and besides you don't know the ralationship between your sister and the guy.
There's a reason she told u not to go further with the matter.

Naturally she doesn't like prolonging issues, she always like to end issues immediately

pk2me:
He might be a rapist and has been doing that and getting away with it or may not be one. Secondly, he may have been lusting after your sister for so long but your sister has not been showing her the green light, may be he's the shy type.
Just warn him seriously and forget about taking it too far since he has apologize, but he should thank God that he didn't succeed because that would have been a serious case that would have kept him behind bars.

Ok Thanks, that was exactly what I planned

Report him to police and sue his ass.as him no succeed on top ur sister .anoda pesin sister fit cry on top him matter

Wait...story get prologue.

Why did she go to his house?

Why did he feel comfortable enough to make move when she came?

Why does she want you to drop it?

You owe it to humanity for him to get a proper clapping. This will warn him off not just your sister but our sisters.

RayJr:

My kid sister texted me on WhatsApp this evening saying she almost got raped by the guy crediting her online wallet for her, I drove straight to my mum's store because I was just leaving the office.

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The guy don fucck up, he gats collect, put call on top hin head, make men file out from the steam gunboat come treat his fucck up.

Another girl might not be lucky. Na so dem go dey scar women for life. Stupid pricks

he don cross you, he might do it again to another girl.
teach am one or two lesson. he dey mad, my head sef dey boil now, wtf, I fuccking hate rapists, wen olosho 1k dey, Na rape hin wan dey rape, e no go better for am.

next time he won't think twice about taking advantage of a woman.

RayJr:

My kid sister texted me on WhatsApp this evening saying she almost got raped by the guy crediting her online wallet for her, I drove straight to my mum's store because I was just leaving the office.

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The guy don Bleep up, he gats collect, AJE. put call on top hin head, make men file out from the steam gunboat come treat his Bleep up.

Another girl might not be lucky. Na so dem go dey scar women for life. Stupid pricks

he don cross you, he might do it again to another girl.
teach am one or two lesson. he dey mad, my head sef dey boil now, wtf, I fuccking hate rapists, wen olosho 1k dey, Na rape hin wan dey rape, e no go better for am.

next time he won't think twice about taking advantage of a woman.

BigYash:
Beat sense enter the idiot. He is a wild animal. This one that your sister is begging you not to take the matter up.. Question her very well o,e get why ..

I will ask her more questions although she just met the guy 2 weeks ago through someone

Umaruxoxo:
Report him to police and sue his ass.as him no succeed on top ur sister .anoda pesin sister fit cry on top him matter

No be lie, I don't want another person to be his victim

sayisayi:
Wait...story get prologue.

Why did she go to his house?

Why did he feel comfortable enough to make move when she came?

Why does she want you to drop it?

You owe it to humanity for him to get a proper clapping. This will warn him off not just your sister but our sisters.

She went to his house because it was urgent and the house is close to the guy's shop and maybd he felt comfortable because it's his house and my sister no really get body. She wants me to drop it because he has been begging for forgiveness.
Lastly, I won't let it die just like that

sayisayi:
Wait...story get prologue.

Why did she go to his house?

Why did he feel comfortable enough to make move when she came?

Why does she want you to drop it?

You owe it to humanity for him to get a proper clapping. This will warn him off not just your sister but our sisters.

She went to his house because it was urgent and the house is close to the guy's shop and maybd he felt comfortable because it's his house and my sister no really get body. She wants me to drop it because he has been begging for forgiveness.
Lastly, I won't let it die just like that

o Boy!.....
konji destroying lives since 0001

RayJr:



I will ask her more questions although she just met the guy 2 weeks ago through someone

I would’ve advised you to get police involved but I know what Nigeria police is like.

Go down there with some men and talk to him about his act. Make sure he gets the message.

He is a rapist for sure. Don’t leave it too late...that’s if you sure physical threat or your presence would drive the message home.

Make sure he pays and buy another ear ring for your sister.

Thank God she was able to escape.

Give your sister a sound warning. Ifa ma n fa eniyan lapo ya nigba mi. Nothing is free even in Freetown.

I would love it if you can make the Police force the guy to write a note/report,,,, maybe that would stop him from doing such to any other ladies, too.

Die the matter

The only reason he didn't raped her was because she was on her period, o my God knows what would have happened if she wasn't. Report the matter to the nearest police station.

To me fighting Him is childish. But wat do I know. Opinion is like a nose everybody get His own.

RayJr:
Good evening guys, I trust Y'all had a great day.

I will try to make this as short and simple as possible.

My kid sister texted me on WhatsApp this evening saying she almost got raped by the guy crediting her online wallet for her, I drove straight to my mum's store because I was just leaving the office.

Now I met her and asked what's up.

She has an online wallet where she recharges decoders, pays electricity bills for people, sells airtime and data etc. She is a student and she's doing that business in my mum's store so she could help herself in school.

She said someone sent her 30k to pay his electricity bill and also recharge his decoder for him so she went to the guy's shop to get her account credited but he wasn't there then she called him and he directed her to his house in that same street very close to the shop.
She got there and the guy tried forcing himself on her, mind you she's on her period, she refused and during the scuffle she lost one of her earrings, she begged me not to take action that the guy has apologised, seeing that I was very hurt and I wanted to confront the guy at that moment. while she was explaining to me the guy called and kept on apologizing but I'm not having any of that.
I wanted to call some of my friends to beat up the guy but after she begged me, I still want confront the guy, warn him seriously but I need advice on if that's the best thing to do or which way do you think is best to approach the situation?

No insults please. Thank you all

Report to the nearest police station, or one of those gender units. You do not joke with such matters as the guy might try it again if given the chance mistakenly.
This is attempted rape which is still classified as rape.
Dont take the law into your hands, you might go fight him and he slumps (case don change). Deal with him the proper way. Nb, keep any evidence like turn cloths, panties, earrings especially if it injured her while it tore from her ears.
Bros na your sister, take action!

Akakanfirstclass:
o Boy!.....

konji destroying lives since 0001

I swear but ashawo hotel plenty na, they need customers wella

SimplyFacts:
Thank God she was able to escape.

Give your sister a sound warning. Ifa ma n fa eniyan lapo ya nigba mi. Nothing is free even in Freetown.

I would love it if you can make the Police force the guy to give a note/report,,,, maybe that would stop him from doing it any other ladies, too.

Ok, I'm considering reporting the situation already

pointblank247:
Die the matter

Thanks but I won't, Never!!

lilbarracuda:
The only reason he didn't raped her was because she was on her period, o my God knows what would have happened if she wasn't. Report the matter to the nearest police station.

Thanks a lot, I just cannot imagine what would have happened if she was raped, I didn't tell my mum because a lot would have happened immediately. But I report so at least he can write an undertaken never to do it again

Polynek:
To me fighting Him is childish. But wat do I know. Opinion is like a nose everybody get His own.

Thanks but you didn't give me an opinion as fighting him isn't worth it

RayJr:


Thanks but you didn't give me an opinion as fighting him isn't worth it

In my own opinion, take Him to the police and make Him sign undertaking to be of good behaviour.