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Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Nobody: 9:02pm On Feb 22, 2021 |
LordofNaija:Lol. You know how to write rubbish but when we force feed you that same rubbish you are so fond of, you start bitching and whining like a cranky donkey. Ogbeni geddifok ke faraburuku koshi lo. |
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by LOVEGINO(m): 9:04pm On Feb 22, 2021 |
Tunagee:tell dem bro. Nigerians gals re nothing but liability. Stupid. 2 Likes |
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Lorayne(m): 9:04pm On Feb 22, 2021 |
chatinent:wow!... you understand the 3 main languages. ya ka Yi ne? .. wanna learn too |
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Nobody: 9:05pm On Feb 22, 2021 |
VeeVeeMyLuv: Thank you. Do you think I stand a chance if I run for president on the platform of reviving our masculinity by constitutional law? I'm assuming that most women would vote against me. It's the simps I'm afraid that would swing the vote. They'd probably side with the women. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by OBTOREPA(m): 9:07pm On Feb 22, 2021 |
Nuttella: Can i see your picture or contact please. |
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Vickym1(f): 9:10pm On Feb 22, 2021 |
Givaxy:Action speaks louder than words. |
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by vickydevoka(m): 9:12pm On Feb 22, 2021 |
chatinent:I no de hear hausa but I hear dis one. this era things don scatter 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Givaxy: 9:14pm On Feb 22, 2021 |
Vickym1:Proof to me you are good and loyal |
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by mezico96(m): 9:15pm On Feb 22, 2021 |
Vickym1:I am not "SOME MEN" And what does it justify? |
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by PastorFire: 9:15pm On Feb 22, 2021 |
Nuttella:Marry me. |
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Stonewell: 9:17pm On Feb 22, 2021 |
[quote author=Warripikine post=99322963] So how do men who are intending to settle down, find the genuine ones?[/op, you are serious ooquote] |
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by tegrianonigltd(m): 9:19pm On Feb 22, 2021 |
fati2001: And outsiders like us die |
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Lovestrong(m): 9:19pm On Feb 22, 2021 |
overseasnbeyond: |
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by denvers: 9:20pm On Feb 22, 2021 |
@Op To marry no be small thing o. You go first target one babe and start toasting (you fit toast like 20 before 1 agree) After that another hustle of taking care and trying to be in contact regularly.... After that na to plan wedding (the parents or siblings fit no like you,) , Na to try convince them. After that na to find money for the wedding proper plus Bride price( hope no be ibo girl) After that you realize all the time, money and energy exerted was just to please the society. After that woman problem.... The rest is history. 6 Likes |
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Vickym1(f): 9:20pm On Feb 22, 2021 |
Givaxy:Prove it kwa? How |
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by sinola(m): 9:20pm On Feb 22, 2021 |
Cos ladies are running promo with their kpekus 1 Like |
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by mezico96(m): 9:21pm On Feb 22, 2021 |
fati2001:fati my friend....of course I am, at least my mom and ex testified If I can find a woman like me, then I have no problem |
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by daddymummy(m): 9:22pm On Feb 22, 2021 |
I think it is a kind of God's judgement. I heard that there was a time men were always looking for women to marry. Some women didn't agree to marry the men. Some men were so traumatized by the lack of willing women to marry. There is what we call natural selection in biology. If you are having a desire for something and the desire is not met, natural selection will take away the desire from you to save you from dying of frustration. The same thing with a body feature that is not useful, natural selection will take it away either from you or your subsequent generations,then give you/your generations the feature that is needed/ useful. Natural selection is what reduces male desire for marriage. It does not totally take away the desire because women are still willing to marry. It only reduces the desire in response to the initial frustration men experienced in finding a partner. That is why natural selection is also a part of God's judgement. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Vickym1(f): 9:23pm On Feb 22, 2021 |
mezico96:Since u're not the some men.. Relax then |
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Givaxy: 9:24pm On Feb 22, 2021 |
Vickym1:Looking for a good girl to marry. If you're loyal and you'll be faithful, it would make sense |
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by vickydevoka(m): 9:25pm On Feb 22, 2021 |
SpicyMimi: sister I write Jamb 5 times. b4 den I been say no be people de get admission every year. |
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by mezico96(m): 9:25pm On Feb 22, 2021 |
conscientionist: Yo sai waht?? OYO 1 Like |
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by vickydevoka(m): 9:26pm On Feb 22, 2021 |
semyman: very right. a watched gal can never marry a wretched man. a poor gal go for an average man. |
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by mezico96(m): 9:29pm On Feb 22, 2021 |
Vickym1:Who said am not? Lol Las Las I no marry, i believe it won't affect my 3square meals |
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by witworth(m): 9:34pm On Feb 22, 2021 |
It's even more complicated nowadays, for most men, it's money they want to marry and have a good livelihood, for few men, money is not even their problem, they have more than enough to marry even more than one wife and take care of children well, but they just can't rely on ladies of nowadays, both old and young ladies self. Though many ladies are ready if the guy is set as well, but some of them can't even cook anymore or even take care of home, all you see is care for their bodies only with so much beautifications and all. The bottom line is... No matter how upside this world has turned, no be today, many men will still marry, same as women, even in for better for worst deal. Whether divorce will come up later or not, its all still part of the natural program 5 Likes |
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by vickydevoka(m): 9:35pm On Feb 22, 2021 |
mmsen:Bros make good bless your brain |
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by HelpYourself(m): 9:39pm On Feb 22, 2021 |
Nuttella: Prophetess As a seer I can look and tell you if this is true. With your permission off course : I can tell you exactly when and if at all you will find marital bliss or have children or your marriage if at all will be joyful or sorrowful Should I ? 1 Like |
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by vickydevoka(m): 9:40pm On Feb 22, 2021 |
overseasnbeyond: they only Women that can tell me money is not de problem, are Women that already have money or are employed |
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Vickym1(f): 9:40pm On Feb 22, 2021 |
Givaxy:Lol |
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Vickym1(f): 9:41pm On Feb 22, 2021 |
mezico96: I dey hail oo 1 Like |
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Yippeedaniel(m): 9:42pm On Feb 22, 2021 |
We can't afford to buy oop marry bus we em Don jam bend |
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Debra911(f): 9:43pm On Feb 22, 2021 |
fati2001:Lmao 1 Like |
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