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Is all about pushing boundaries |
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Akuruoulo: Chilax...No keep yourself for the matter |
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Lol! Look who's talking |
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I don't get it, did it happen in plateau or Lagos? 1 Like |
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Awesomefred32: In kano today, votes counted. They voted gandollar out sharpaly |
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[quote author=gebest post=76507013]government destroying government property[/quote Quite unfortunate |
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bujebudanu1: Haba! She actually use 32yrs while in the house |
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See mumu boy we wan sack him oga ![]() |
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PopeFlatino: As an akwaibomite I no go lie the man been try as governor. But all his goodwill just loose effect after he joined apc. He's no longer seen as a man of dignity 3 Likes |
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Saintsami: Water yam of course 1 Like |
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Abegi who even listens to yours anymore. No wonder you hit rock bottom almost as soon as you were rising. sidon there dey let pride swallow you....nonsense |
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medexico: She just vanished out of the radar. She has always been a silent tough woman |
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[quote author=funmisticqueen post=75786750]Part 1- THE NARCISSIST. Good day Nairalanders, I decided to start a series to help others in relationships to recognize red flags and seek help where necessary and also avoid placing themselves in such situations. This series will be like an expose especially on some B personality types like narcissists, borderlines, sociopaths and psychopaths. The continuity of this series will be based on your feedback, so please share and comment, you may be helping someone. Who is a narcissist? He/she is someone who has an excessive in or admiration of themselves simple. While everyone has some narcissistic Traits so that we have good self-esteem. It becomes pathological when you have narcissist qualities to high degrees and at the expense of others. These are the narcissists I am referring to. We’ll call tem Narcs for short. Narcs are usually selfish, entitled (believe they are the best thing since sliced bread), grandiose (believe that they are bigger and greater than they are or someone they aren’t), arroga [color=#990000][/color] My dear thank you for bringing up this topic. I was a victim and unfortunately I gave him all the supply he'd need to feed his narcissistic disorder. I thank God I was able to walk away when I noticed the so called relationship was sapping away all of me, I was practically walking around with eye bags and a burdened heart. Plus the fact that he had a rustic temperament. This is not a joke, be warned! If you're not stronghearted and patient enough to stay with such people, run for your life coz they have the ability to cut you to small sizes and possess every mechanism to damage you 2 Likes |
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[quote author=funmisticqueen post=75786750]Part 1- THE NARCISSIST. Good day Nairalanders, I decided to start a series to help others in relationships to recognize red flags and seek help where necessary and also avoid placing themselves in such situations. This series will be like an expose especially on some B personality types like narcissists, borderlines, sociopaths and psychopaths. The continuity of this series will be based on your feedback, so please share and comment, you may be helping someone. Who is a narcissist? He/she is someone who has an excessive in or admiration of themselves simple. While everyone has some narcissistic Traits so that we have good self-esteem. It becomes pathological when you have narcissist qualities to high degrees and at the expense of others. These are the narcissists I am referring to. We’ll call tem Narcs for short. Narcs are usually selfish, entitled (believe they are the best thing since sliced bread), grandiose (believe that they are bigger and greater than they are or someone they aren’t), arrogant, manipulative, shallow/superficial and most importantly lack empathy (do not consider other people's feelings). They constantly seek validation and have a need for continuous admiration by all to boost their self-esteem and ego because they can’t draw such from themselves. Any person, thing or environment that provides this ego boost in any form to the narcissist is termed “narcissist supply”. Status symbols like sports cars, wealth, beauty; a yes man or sidekick or arm candy, a beautiful lady in the midst of less pretty ones so that she stands out more and so on are prime examples of narc supply Narcissism is a spectrum, but we will broadly classify them into two but keep in mind that they overlap. The overt narcissists and the covert narcissists. Overt narcissists are easier to spot. They are usually extroverts. Most CEOs and a certain president who called our country a shithole are prime examples. We all know that arrogant person who doesn’t care for other people’s feelings, or that high and mighty boss who doesn’t care or give you leave because your mother is ill. Or that bf/gf who always want to be the center of attraction, it has to be about them. When in a relationship with such a person they do anything to make themselves look good even belittling you and chipping away your self-esteem so that you want to be like them, it can go on for so long you don’t know what is real anymore. ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIPS ANYONE! Covert narcissists are harder to spot, they have narcissist traits but hide it. They are experts of victim mentality, blame shifting, sabotaging and passive aggression. When in a relationship with such a person, you will always feel bad and not know why, everything seems perfect on the outside but something nags you and you can’t pinpoint the problem. If you feel such you might be in a relationship with a covert narc. They will make you feel bad on your birthday, or show fake concern if you are overweight. Some spiritual leaders, marriage counselors and therapists are prime examples, when you got to them they throw it back at you and tell you the problem is your fault. A covert narc may apologize for wrong doing, and promise to change but will go back to old habits soon after. Narcs are not capable of sustaining deep intimate relationships where give and take is involved. They take and take until the giver is half of themselves. The relationship becomes 11/2 = 1/2 instead of 1=1 and sadly Nigerian upbr |
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But why should you be? I thought that's how you guys prefer them "hot" slay queens |
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dkronicle: He is a soldier, he didn't choose to go back. In army you're called to duty by superiors and there no excuses not to do as you're commanded. In army you obey before complain. Pray for the repose of his soul. May his gentle soul rest in God's bosom 1 Like |
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SamuelAnyawu: HA! We cant question God. But we have truely lost a fine gentleman. May his gentle soul rest in God's bosom. |
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SamuelAnyawu: Oh God! Please can it be true? Yawe Son from Benue a tiv was my senior in Unmaid. A fine jovial guy, married with two lovely kids? Why oh why? He's so young with his whole life still ahead of him. God....am speechless. I still can't believe it. 4 Likes |
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The concubine- Elechi Amadi And and book from Sydney Sheldon. I can read them over and over and over again |
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Winners72: That is ehn. You can imagine the Inconsequential things freaks people this days. It makes me wonder honestly |
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[quote author=MhizAJ post=65458995]They look alike Genny is really beautiful That's her brother |
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No African country on the list. Na was oh. This continent needs to buckle up less be left behind |
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Its really a wonderful thing they did. I hope we upgrade to that level one day but as for now, I believe we should pray for better and a more improved, humane health care first before wishing for mini fancy cars to transport our children to surgery theatre. Coz as far as am concern some hospitals in nija don't even have surgery rooms or improved hospital facilities sef |
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Democrat1c: Exactly bros...abeg collect plenty thumbs up! Its really true what you say. You've just spoken exactly what's on my mind. Organisers should have planned it in a way that most of what is done in the house is geared towards our current situation in nija. Instead all I see is sexuality and pretense. |
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Whao! I can't believe there's even an excuse for such incompetence. God help nija oh! |
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petsam11: What's funny about it? |
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If you can assist but you don't want to because you're afraid of some future commitment then I think you're being selfish coz in as much as both of you ain't married yet her family is also yours. If she's been nice, loving and supportive like you say its her mother's favour is what you should be doing willingly if it won't put a hole in your pocket. You should understand that there are some ladies who don't make unnecessary demands from their spouse. Her mother feels the need to ask for help and you in turn could feel that need if you can afford to without and complain 1 Like |
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Before nkor? Na poor common man she go marry? |
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[quote author=Sapiosexuality post=65022567]Everything is a joke in this country. When we ought to be angry we turn the entire episode to sarcasm. Money stolen that should in any civilised country warrant outrage, here we give sarcasm instead. The senseless men in the army kill us and we make sarcasms and jokes out of their stupidity. A president tells us his wife belongs to the other rooms, we turn the whole thing around and create sarcasm. Nzuzu! Perhaps, we turn it to joke coz we know even if we're angry and outraged about it NOTHING can still be done about stopping it. So people joke about it to cope with it |
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unitysheart:Exactly...that's why this PVC power noise no dey even bother me. The next presido don already set |
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