[color=#000099][/color] God bless you for thèse. Really wish To meet you.

OladimejiRufai:
Well, I have an advice for you my boy @OP

From this moment, stop looking for true love

I'm not implying that you cannot find it but stop looking for it.

Rather start looking for a lady who is psychologically wired to always do the right thing and has a very advanced understanding of life.

See, in most cases, love is transient.

Sometimes, people fall in love because they fell into a moment where they perceived something that touched their heart from the other person. And then moments later, they find out that the feelings are lost.

sometimes, people fall in love because there's constant communication or commitment between both persons and they are just lost in the fun of it and think they are in love. If something happens that distracts one of them from achieving the constant communication or commitment to the other person, they find that they lose the love gradually.

sometimes, people's love for another person is usually connected to some features of that person that fascinates them or blows them away.

"oh, the guy is funny." "the girl is intelligent" "the guy is charming" "the girl is georgous" e.t.c and they continue to fall in love so far these qualities are present. But what happens when they lose those qualities or those qualities gradually fade away? that's how the love will also be lost or will gradually fade away.

So in most cases, love is transient. This is proven by the many broken relationships where you hear from both sides that they have fallen out of love.

So if a person were to enter a marriage because of love, he or she is likely to be no more interested in the marriage eventually and may crave attention or love elsewhere and may want to break up the marriage.

That's the reason why I said you should look for someone with a larger and better understanding of life and who is psychologically wired to do the right thing.

this is because when it gets to the stage in a marriage where both spouses have fallen out of love, for people who do not fulfil the said criteria (no understanding of life or being wired to do the right thing), they would want to break up or would start seeking love elsewhere and they many end up cheating etc.

But for someone who fulfils that criteria;

- someone who understands that this life is not a bed of roses and it is not everything you want that you get;

- someone who understands that the purpose of marriage is not necessarily to love rather it is to show care, support each other, become responsible, help each other achieve desired goals and for mankind to multiply (procreation);

- someone who understands that there is time for everything and there are some certain pleasures that should not be sought at all stages of life or the pleasures should be limited at some point in time (imagine a 45 year old woman complaining that her husband doesn't take her out for shopping or so like he used to when she was still 25 when she should be more concerned about caring for the kids that she didn't have then but have now and focus on making them successful in life)

- someone who understands that this life itself is a place of trials and there'll always be sour times or times when you would have to forgo your heart desires for the right thing to be done;

- someone who understands that the pleasures of the hereafter are far greater than those of this life and is more concerned about that and because of that, he or she gives up some pleasures in this world just for the right thing to be done.

- someone who has values, who understands cheating is bad, who understands that it is an evil thing to extort or deceive a partner for personal gains, who knows how to control anger and doesn't expect perfection from the other partner, who understands that for a marriage to work, both sides must be committed to it, who understands that deceiving a partner and extorting him should not be the measure by which you "make it in life", and who is psychologically wired to follow all those values;

So for someone who has a better understanding of life and is wired to do the right thing, such are the people who stay in a marriage when there's no more "love" or when they have fallen out of love and continue to try everything to make it work till the end.

So this is what you should be looking for, for "true love" Is scarce.

If eventually you are able to find true love in a partner that fulfils the above criteria, then consider it a plus, consider it a blessing and thank God for it.

My piece!

bukatyne:
Good evening house,

The Topic already explains itself.

In Lagos of today, how do a working couple with kids survive without a maid?

Practical examples pls.

There id no big deal, I and my husband are working class. I have raised three boys without house maid, two are already in the university now. I wake up 6am put food on fire and i get the baby ready for school. My husband drop them at school when the brothers were still in secondary and i picked them up. Shikena. My two boys in the university knows how to cook and do any house shores.

How did the op arrive at his costing. I know where two leaves and the cost of land is not even up to 100m. I see her everyday and she cruises a Toyota corolla 2010 módel.

[Feel sorry for yourself. How was your own person that is so agile and fresh in mind be able to move the country forward. What sham are you talking about here, the one at rivers, abia, delta and edo, or over 2trn that is enough to provide electricity for the country went in drain.

quote author=DonDiego post=32885318]God bless Dr Aribisala. He just deconstructed the sham that went for the recent elections. Like he said, we await the miracle that a man who left power 30 years ago and who has clearly not shown any identifiable evidence of personal or intellectual improvement since would bring to bear on the running of a more complex Nigeria than the one he left 30 years ago. I feel sorry for him already because due to weight of expectations already on his old frail shoulders it would not be surprising when soon the same Nigerian rabble whom he roused to win his election turn round to shout "crucify him, crucify him."[/quote]

At femi aribisala, i think is time you swallow your pride and admit your failed prediction about Jonathan winning the just concluded election.you are one of the sycophant pushing the innocent Man. You are talking about rigging the election in favour of Buhari, if i may asked you in all sincerity, was is it not how it was rigged in 2011 in favour of Jonathan? You are not in anyway bettee than individual that want change in the country.i pray and hope we will get it right this time.

lionstone:



Source http://www.newsexpressngr.com/news/detail.php?news=10745&title=Buhari-has-drawn-the-battle-line-with-South-East,-South-South;-he-should-be-sent-to-the-USA-for-lessons-%E2%80%94Intersociety&scid=16

Story for the gods

ngcars:
awon atohun rinwa. ofo lomi efo NSE, ofo Ni gbogbo yin masse. eyin n bu ori Ade. eyin olori butuku

Olopa ewo ni tepe

Sijo01:
That's my President, the hero of our time.

Mind you the hero of your time

Desteenee:
This Lai is indeed sick.

You and your whole family are sick

MugabeRobert:


It's ok for ibos from Abia to become HOR members in Lagos but wrong for an Ondo man or Osun man, right?

Is Lagos no more a no man's land? But Ben Okorie your brother from Abia is contesting and no wahala with that.

You ibos are the most tribalistic and senseless animals alive.

True talk. That is why the igbos are losers.

Arrogancy is in all agbajes blood. You are too arrogant to be a leader.jk you can not rule lagos.

adeoladrg:



I am yet to see any Igbo man that will want to
vote for Ambode.
Yoruba votes willl be divided between Ambode
and Agbaje.
The survey I have had in the past 5days:
-Okada riders say they won't vote for APC
because Fashola seized their bikes. These
okada riders are mostly northerners.
Infact,they have had meetings concerning the
election.
-Commercial bus drivers say they won't vote
APC because agberos keep extorting money
from them
-Shop owners say they won't vote APC
because of illegal and excessive tax they pay
to government
-market women say they won't vote APC
because shopping malls built by LASG is too
expensive. Oyingbo and Suru-Alaba market
women comes to mind
Land owners/property developers say they
won't vote APC because Omonile give them
problems.
It will take a miracle for Ambode to win. I am
an APC supporter but I fear the outcome of
the governorship results in Lagos.

Stop your lies.no hausa man will vote pdp,all market women will vote a pc. It will be clear in your eyes come saturday

Babyboy1986:
APC supporters the problem of lagos

RIP to the dead

Vote not fight

Shut up ur mouth.do you have proof .

ShowYourCertificate:
The wind of change is sweeping across the nation. Even APC, who started the process can't stop the change from hitting Lagos.

We need change in Lagos state. We want Agbaje for Governor. JK we Know, JK we Trust.

#LagoonThings

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You are a joker. Jk is just kidding

honvalid:
If they like let them march till march 28 I wll never vote for apc.what is change when they keep billing us on lawma,land use charge,useless tax and others.

you don't want to pay for refuse you generate? All over world use tax to develop their countries. You want government to do everything for you, yet when you travel abroad, you comply. It is good to be a responsible citizen.

chukwudi44:
One million ko one hundred ni.The number of people in those pics cannot be more than 500.This shows Lagosians and Nigerians as a whole have rejected the terrorist party.Am sure even their leaders like Tinubu and his stooges would be riding in AC cars leaving their gullible followers to do the trekking

mind you everyone can not be on the road. I'm in my house and I'll would have loved to be there. We all need change. You too need change, you are just insincere with yourself. Buhari osinbajo are the change. Apc is the party. Leave Tinubu alone, plan your own future.

[quote author=jerseyboy post=31380841]APC Lagos are feeling the heat. Agbaje is the next governor of LAGOS. Jagaban is finished.[/quote

in your dream

RIP

SeverusSnape:

Shut up slut!

exactly what i mean, you are proving me right. I wonder your kind of offspring you will produce. Empty brain.

SeverusSnape:
Nice one MBU.
Arrest any erring government official... Lagos must be rid of thuggery which was introduced by the Oluwole certificate forger and drug baron, with his eyes like that of frog.

your response shows the way you were brought up which equally means you don't have respect for your elders. You ugly thing .

Gani can speak for ikare akoko where he is from. Who recognise you in Lagos.

Femi aribisonu, tell the story to fools like you

temitemi1:
These apc lawbreakers no get sense oooo! Maybe they have forgotten that he who hires can also fired ... He who pays the piper dictate the tunes ... GEJ till 2019!!!

you are rattling like a bird, when it happens, you dare not wait. Your president do not have such power. Get it clear.

Was waec in existence in 1961? Common use your brain now.

Don't heat up the polity and be reasonable with the way you bring up news that is not real. Even if it is true how on earth will that affect the change masses has been yearning for. You pple are indirectly asking for war you can start but cannot put an end to. God bless Nigeria.

profjustine458:
INEC NEW Chairman, Prof Nazim Mimiko From March 1, 2015.

The successor to the out-going Independent National Electoral Commission (INEC) Chairman, Prof Attahiru Jega has being nominated.

The In-coming INEC chairman is Prof Nazim Olufemi Mimiko, a professor of Political Science and International Relation and a former VC of
Adekunle Ajasin University, Ondo State.

The embattled Prof Jega who has long compromised his position as INEC Boss, will be officially proceeding on his three months terminal leave with effect from March 1, 2015 in compliance with the civil service procedure.

Congrats Prof Nazim Mimiko!!! - Hope For Nigeria.

Who are igbo? . You pple get sense at all?

Ko kan aye.

JDelight:
Dear Apc,s pls be inform once again that there is no vacancy in Aso Rock till 2019. If u can't wait then go n form or build ur own Aso Rock after all Rock na Rock na J'Delight say so.

Because there is no vacancy, that is why your bad luck president is bribing every Tom,Dick and Harry to vote for him. Smh.

temitemi1:
Wake up!!! U have been dreaming ... GEJ till 2019!!!

you are the dreamer. Wait and see

How many followers do they have?.rubbish

Story for the gods

Dlionsheart:

AMEN!!!

don't have hbp over the issue now so that you will not be enemy of yourself. because jona has failed b4 Feb 14th.