nams77:

Ok. Maybe I was to harsh. Maybe it will not be proper to send him out but If he is teaching as his father posited, then he should add some value

nams77:

Yea things are hard but a responsible man must commit something to the house no matter how little.

Immediately I returned from service in 2007, I left and rented my own apartment but notwithstanding, I was still doing some little things in our house.
My first salary was 12,600.( I can't forget that ) from that 12,600, I used around 7,000 to change the whole mosquito net in the house. I used to also pay for TV subscription.

So I see no reason why that guy shouldn't contribute even a penny. He is just a very selfish person.
If I was his father, I will issue an ultimatum. if he doesn't meet it, he is leaving my house. Let him go see what it is like outside.

PavillionEnergy:
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It wasn't like this before.
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Kobojunkie:
Never said he committed a crime. Simply pointing out the fact that such individuals typically rank very low on the maturity scale meaning not all 47-year-olds are wise.

Kobojunkie:
Game? The "game" does not keep tabs as far as wisdom and age of its players. Instead, our minds and bodies do that for us instead. So don't ever think to black games for the decisions you make as an individual.

Kobojunkie:
At 47, you are still playing around at the level of small boys and you think this is healthy , maturity speaking that is?

don't blame the player, blame the game.

When they were more younger they couldn't get their mate because no resources, but now, older with bountiful resources, easier to get younger girls with small change they chop life.
May their story not be like super CEO and chichi.

Akpobo123:
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gforce5:
Simples! This is simply a class problem. People criticize men from poor/working class families for still living with their parents at a certain age but look the other way if it's the son of rich couple. If the son of a traditional ruler was to ask the OP's niece's hand in marriage, this topic would not be on Nairaland. Us men should strive to ensure that our future generations will reap the rewards of our hard work.

Why some men strive for better future, some are only interested in procreating without proper planning.

That is why I don't even blame anybody decision especially ladies and their decision to marry rich dude.

Many has suffered from their poor parental background, so they can't afford to suffer again in martial home.

Their only hope is to get the gold and damn the consequences they face in marriage.

But in this thread, finding it difficult why a 21 year old girl is rushing to marry a 30+ man.

I hope her story turns out good else, her children and husband have a piece of her frustration.

Anyway the goal is to move away from trench for a better life. Cheer

Stevenson1:


Honestly, there are things you don't just do no matter the urge you have for it.
Even without expelling her, that video alone can spoil her reputation as a medical student.
Americans are crazy and wild but not where their judiciary, legislative and executive dey.
That's why you See mia khalifa wear full gown enter government house. You think you posses freedom more than her??
Everything gets its own time.
You call yourself medical student, and you dey smoke shisha abi wetin I no know for video. What's the message here?? What was she trying to say here cos I'm confused.
Even Canadian embassy can reject you just cos of this talk more of Nigerian school.

Solatium:

Another idiot spotted,why can't your own family work hard to afford what you are demanding from someone? abi your own family no get Male?
Abi Dem curse your own Family to be leches all their life?

No need for harsh word bro. Read my previous comment with good sense of humor

gforce5:
It's so funny how people are mocking the suitor in question for still living in a family house at the age of 30. Yusuf Buhari was living with his parents when he got married to a princess yet nobody said pim. Malami's son didn't have any job when he got married. Prince Harry of the UK was jobless and living in his family house when he got married. His wife even settled with him in the palace before she opened her eyes. The nephew of the Prince of Monaco doesn't have a job but is married to the daughter from a prominent Colombian family. If the suitor was from a wealthy home, nobody would question his ambition in life.

I am not supporting the guy but I am seeing this from another perspective.

Solatium:

Yes it's foolish to you because you follow the crowd,you follow the senseless act that has become a tradition
Have you asked yourself why kids from Rich family finds their feet's quicker in life?
it's because of leverage like this,you see babangida pikin getting married and they were given house's, car's and money,do you think their parents are foolish?

Obara Jesus. Den suppose flog you 31 stroke of cane.

Only poor and frustrated neighbourhoods have morning qurel and fighting?

If the man came from rich background with car, finance and family backup, we won't be here discussing this issue.

It is obvious the man's family isn't financially boyant and the poor extended family will vent their ancestorial anger, bitterness and frustration to the young chap.

Babaginda and rich elite doesn't discuss this issue even if their daughter marry at 19. This issue is meant for the poor family

And the best to do is to break away from any family wahala because buhari and economy isn't smiling

TheFacelessMan:


Lol. You have been watching too much Hollywood.

I can quite easily get you more than 5 Nairaland articles of couples dying in similar fashion.

The most likely reason is an accumulation of carbon monoxide in the car from putting on the AC because of faulty wiring.

Nigerians has no fingerprint database, so why would a killer waste precious time that would get him caught while staging a scene?

Bola Ige, Kudirat Abiola and Funsho Williams are prominent VIPs who got brutally murdered when it would have even benefited the killers to stage their deaths as accidents.

It's morbidly amusing when a cobbler with 8 kids hangs himself and you see people here spewing conspiracy theories about killers staging the scene.

Carbon monoxide is odourless and colourless by the way... you drift off into a sleep of no return. Happened in incidents where generator was switched on in poorly ventilated areas.

You think all of these couples were killed by master assassins ?

https://www.nairaland.com/5013256/man-woman-found-dead-inside

https://www.nairaland.com/6867804/married-man-bride-to-be-found-dead

Even though you might be right, that doesn't leave the possibility of murder.

But serious note, if a car glass is wined up, they might suffocate if no enough Air,

And If they use AC, it means, they ignite the car engine which I don't expect then to do in open road while knowing the risk of robbers to the extent of having sex in open road side.

If poison by CO get them killed, why didn't it get them killed during driving hour

Beside they CO can only have serious effect when in a closed environment like a closed car garage.

The only explanation is either they are murdered Or suffocated but not by sex.

It's advisable not to put on your car AC on while sleeping in it. Your car ignition might off and AC stop or Ac malfunction. Whichever way, you're prone to suffocation in a wined car without oxygen

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fastseo:


Slept with the lady after that night i didn't know my self again. Thats where problem started.
Movement all over the body, ant bite and u wont see the ant, spider like working on the four head, u wont see any of this.

Constant night attacks etc called the lady said[b]i should go to my village people, [/b] thats the last time i saw her. Thats her exact word.''

I almost lost sanity. But mercy of God says no.

God bless the lady for that sarcastic reply she gave you.

Innocent lady cure your konji, you dey lay false accusations.

So na now you know say fornication na sin.

You better go and visit Ifa make dem wash your head for flowing river with black soap for 31 days.

Make sure you go find that lady and beg her for false accusations.

Then go to front of your church alter and confess everything you did including the Ifa river wash

Then now go and visit a medical practitioner for recommended drug.

Nonsense

LieDetector:
long story bruh. I had myself figured out until the unexpected happend. I intentionally chose not to include it as part of my story. E long no be small. But we move. Na work I find

cucumbar:
one company is asking me to come do a program on data science, at a cost of 1m+ for 9months to 1year. I’m just thinking if I won’t waste my money, as I don’t have a background in computer science/ coding. I studied engineering though, but not practicing.

The lure of getting a remote job with that skill is what is drawing me, but I’m just wondering if it’s something I can grasp.

What do you think?

SmartPolician:
I'm afraid this makes no sense. What is is no function of what someone believes in. Facts are facts; truth is truth - whether I believe or not cannot change it. In your logic, if I believe that bullets cannot kill me, I can ask someone to shoot me with a loaded gun believing that nothing will happen. You and I know you will get killed in a split second.

Newsflash: You are just deceiving people because what is is not a function of individual's belief. Unfortunately, you cannot explain the concept of money rituals because what you put up there doesn't seem convincing.

You can fool few people for a long time, you can fool everybody for a short time, but you can't fool everybody everytime.
Killing with bullet has evidence, anecdotal evidence because it is practically proven under camera and in both open and close view.

It will be a fruitless effort trying to convince an imaginary idea with theoretical backup.
Rituals ignorant one can't do
1. You cant do "book ritual" to pass an exam or learn new language or practice how to fly a plane. If you don't follow the process of reading and preparing, any ritual you do will never work.

2. No amount of ritual will make your blood turn green, or yellow. It's is easier to test by cutting you with blade .

3. No amount of ritual will make you wise. You learn and gain wisdom knowledge and understand.

4. No amount of ritual will make bin.nce open your close B.tc wallet, you the follow process by verification and appealing.

Rituals ignorant one do
Money ritual, touch and follow, do as I say, ritual for job, ritual for love portion, kayamata, etc. Any one can hide under the illusion of these ritual because the idea behind them is subject to the feeling and imagination of those who created then.

blackbeauty22:
But people who stubbornly refuse to follow all this Bible rules are the most successfull in this life...

Me Don dey confuse ooo

NaBanga:
They should have worded this in line with actual intent to commit a crime. The focus should be on assault and murder. Start with educating Nigerians that there is no such thing as a money ritual. Encourage pastors to stop spreading these lies and also arrest traditionalists who are telling people to engage in this behavior.

The sad part is that too many Nigerians believe these lies, including politicians and those working for EFCC. As long as there is mass poverty, the common man will believe it too.

Arkadrob:
Thanks for the advice Professorcplus veenbanks. Honestly, the pressure is just much. Having life changing ideas but no support. I'm just basking in God's words. I can't come, and kill myself.