Jayy10:
The guy has a girlfriend, and his side chick knows that, yet they are having an affair. I think they both deserve each other. I hope the lady finds out as soon as possible, before the relationship gets serious, so she won't have to settle with a seemingly unrepentant cheat.

By the way, from the way things are, it seems like you are the said side chick. Also, know that one thing is for sure. If he had to cheat on his girlfriend with you, he'll definitely do that to you too. So what do you stand to gain?

iTearHerToto:
And you're the clueless, dumb girl




Pukes

Oluwasaeon:
Mtcheww

femi4:
He doesnt know what he wants. He's playing with your emotions

eduman365:
A marriage without love will ultimately end in divorce.

You will find your own man in due season. To be honest, marriage is overrated in our society; a lot of married folks are unhappy. Keep yourself preoccupied in the meantime and look up to God alone.

femi4:
Are you desperate for a relationship cos age is not on your side or no alternative.

Relax and let the right man finds you

chieyine:
Since June you registered, you are still his side chick.
You need to be sacrificed to Ogun

Ladylite:


Aunti Aunti pls walk away.

Shey you gave him your heart cheaply ni, then walk away. Better guys will come for you.

The guy wants to double rvcck two babes. So he is now asking you jamb questions.... He is useless. Have some self dignity and leave, don't stay o even if the sex has been good.


Aunty next time have some class to ask critical questions before opening your heart and legs. Relationship is not for fun but for marriage. Biko

samuelchimmy:
i have not replied her yet, are you guys suggesting I take fate like that, without saying anything just like that... What should say, I can't let the 1st ever person I actually loved to go like that

liberalchick:
Tell him ok, that he should give you space to sort out this unstable relationship with him. Tell him he knows where to find you when he has sorted out his feelings, tell him what will be, will be.

Do not contact him or reach out to him, I know you are in love but you have to be in self preservation mode. If he decides to stay with his girlfriend, your emotions and time will be for naught. Focus on yourself, work on yourself, focus on your career/business, meet people. It will be hard in the beginning but time really heals. Please don’t waste your time on someone that may or may not love you.

liberalchick:
I would assume ‘good’ is girlfriend. Once a guy lets you know he has GF, that’s a hint he is not really that into you.

You knew he had a girlfriend, you don’t go into a situationship with someone that is not single hoping you would be good enough to make him leave his GF. It seems he is in a long distance relationship with his GF and you are available. If you want to be his GF, and not a side-chick, stop having sex with him and tell him to breakup with his GF if he really loves you, then take a break from him. If he wants you then he would do the above. If he doesn’t then just cut your losses and next time make sure a guy is single before your proceed if you don’t want to be a side chick.

liberalchick:
I would assume ‘good’ is girlfriend. Once a guy lets you know he has GF, that’s a hint he is not really that into you.

You knew he had a girlfriend, you don’t go into a situationship with someone that is not single hoping you would be good enough to make him leave his GF. It seems he is in a long distance relationship with his GF and you are available. If you want to be his GF, and not a side-chick, stop having sex with him and tell him to breakup with his GF if he really loves you, then take a break from him. If he wants you then he would do the above. If he doesn’t then just cut your losses and next time make sure a guy is single before your proceed if you don’t want to be a side chick.
Alright, thanks for the advice

Teaveapoet:
Put your happiness first before others. Am not judging but you need to love yourself. Stop seeking to please someone who has someone else.

Stop communicating okay!
If you don't want to be a side chick, don't do what side chicks does.

Safitu:
He will never respect you
He will never make you his gf, and if he does he will treat you badly
Cut all ties with him or it will end up really bad for you.
Never have sex with a man who is not your confirmed partner, have some respect for yourself please.

morningstar55:

You are not even qualified to be a side chick,too cheap/loose..

topedoski:
I FVCK WHO I WANT WHEN I WANT TO
THERE AIN'T NO RULES IN THE JUNGLE

I THINK YOU GUYS ARE FUCKING EACHOTHER BECAUSE YOU WANTED TO, AND IT'S HARD TO Bleep CONSTANTLY WITHOUT DEVELOPING FEELINGS. SO MY ADVICE IS IF YOU LIKE TO Bleep HIM KEEP ON FUCKING HIM YOURE NOBODY'S SIDE CHICKS

liberalchick:
What is a good?