I know you think that it is embarrassing asking her to do the test,but that test is so important, for someone that is free of any "cockroaches in the cupboard" she won't see it as anything. It is not wrong doing the test unless you in person can tell yourself the truth that you don't care about not having a child then you can stand against your father's suggestion but I will say that your father's suggestion is a good one but it won't be good for your father to be the one asking her to do the test. Your father is not choosing a partner for you but only asking for a test.

No I haven't met her physically yet, we have only been dating online for 10 months now and haven't had a chance to visit Naija but I am visiting naija and will spend 4 months in naija when I visit later this month.[/quote]

[quote author=siofra post=120019290]God! I love this man so much for this. He's one of the last brave ones we still have in this world.


He knows what true love is and I respect that.

Such a supportive man. God bless you, sir.

Modified;

[b]It seems my post is annoying some people, well, they can die for all I care.

I see topics all the time on front page telling a woman not to leave her husband just because he cheated on her.

yashau:

https://www.thecable.ng/he-is-never-found-to-be-corrupt-sanwo-olu-hails-buhari-at-80/amp

"Never found to be corrupt" is different from "He is not Corrupt" until he is found to be corrupt he is never corrupt even if He is swimming in corruption and our country is facing higher corruption cases today when the fight against corruption is non existent.

Seldomly visit your neighbor,too much of you and they will hate you(Proverbs 25:17) this is pure wisdom. Sometimes make yourself scarce even if body dey pinch you to go.

Messi1:
I've always visited this my uncle at least four times a week. That is where I pass away time. His children all like me and any day I fail to come they must ask me why didn't come. I use the time i spend in his house to teach his children Mathematics and do their home work for them.

Today I was in his house, he stormed out from his room and ask if i don't help my mother at home. He yelled at me and what pain me most is that he said food is costly and they are only managing. He made me feel like i was the one finishing the food in his house. He said I should not be too frequent in his house if at all I must come.

I'm considering severing all ties to this my uncle, will that be right?