[b]Woe to the man dat has a violent and cantankerous woman who knows he's a gentleman and will never argue wit her or hit her. Endless Slaps, punches, scratches, lockouts, curfews, conditioning, tongue lashing and embarrassment will be ur portion.

Woe to the man who has this kind of woman and loses his job or doesn't make good money. You will 4eva be taunted, ridiculed and psychologically and emotionally tormented.

Even greater woe to the man who pretends he's a strong man and can handle all the abuse because when ur heart can't take no more, you'll cross the bridge to the land of the dead. Run 4 ur life while u can cos u just can't win. Can u catch breeze? or can u grip oil?

Eva notice that some women keep testing ur resolve, sometyms even tellin u they just want to see wat u're like when you are angry? Fair game. But if she keeps pushing dose limits beyond a certain point, u better run 4 your life cos u'll either kill someone or die urself! Abuse never gets better whether for a man or a woman.

Even the bible advises you to run.
Proverbs 21:9 It is better to live in a corner of the housetop than in a house shared with a quarrelsome wife.
Proverbs 21:19 It is better to live in a desert land than with a quarrelsome and ill-tempered woman.
Proverbs 25:24 It is better to live in a corner of the housetop than in a house shared with a quarrelsome wife.
Proverbs 27:15-16 A continual dripping on a rainy day and a quarrelsome wife are alike; to restrain her is to restrain the wind or to grasp oil in one's right hand.
If after seeing all these warnings u decide to stay and act macho, den i guess u deserve wat u get. Who no wan wise na him know,

Personally, i hope and pray I find a good woman when the time comes because I no get power[/b]

God bless you for this advise.

My brother you did the correct thing. It takes courage and strength but you have done the right thing. My condition touches close to yours just that I am worse off today because I ignored similar signs and assumed that things will change for the better, but it gets worse every day. I have my wife’s face book account and I have followed her discussions severally. What I find there is mind blowing, even when I assumed that things are now working out well. She kept intimate affairs with nearly all of the men she had interactions with on face book.