*INFORMATION FROM CREDIBLE SOURCE ABOUT THE LOCKDOWN DUE TO COVID - 19*

I think you need to patiently read through. A lot is happening underground.

I want you to know that the Covid-19 isn't really an unknown disease as the World appears to be unaware of this deadly killer disease.

First thing to note is that viruses from our little knowledge of biology isn't a living thing until it's in a host's body. Higher scientific research shows that viruses do not exist in nature (God didn't create viruses). Viruses are man-made.

If viruses are man-made as scientific research shows where did *SARS* & *Corona viruses* come from?

The Big Question?
They were created by man.
Why Why *Covid-19*?
Have you heard of the *NWO*
*THE NEW WORLD ORDER*
(ONE WORLD GOVERNMENT - ONE WORLD ECONOMY - ONE WORLD RELIGION)...

That's the why?
And you ask how?
Don't think am just talking because these are facts on the internet but individuals are busy on Facebook and those in governments are not searching out the truth because they love lies like Satan their Father.

There is a group that go by the name *ID2020* (go on the internet they are there... not hidden at all ... https://www.biometricupdate.com/201909/id2020-and-partners-launch-program-to-provide-digital-id-with-vaccines).

The objective of this group is to bring the *NWO* to reality by the use of *vaccine.* How? The group has successfully produced & launched the *ID2020* - a *vaccine* so to speak but not a *vaccine* in reality...
It contains the *vaccine* alright but the main aim is the *DIGITAL IDENTITY* it gives to everyone that received it.

This digital identity enables you to be able to track a man like you would track a phone. There is a lot of good stuff to this because banking procedures are accessed through this digital identity & much more but let's leave out these other details.

This will also mean that just the same way the operators can manipulate your phones and other internet enabled devices, man will be manipulatable.

Governments will now much more than ever be able to manipulate man beyond what they are doing now with the media filled with all sorts of concocted lies.
We are not there yet... just hang on.

There are some quotes picked from some of these sites that reveal their perky nature:

“Digital identity can empower the powerless. But it can also be *used to exclude people or even persecute* vulnerable populations like refugees, children, and the homeless." (https://www.biometricupdate.com/202003/kiva-and-gravity-earth-granted-first-id2020-certifications-for-empowering-users-of-digital-id-technology).

"The program *to leverage immunization as an opportunity to establish digital identity* was unveiled by ID2020 in partnership with the Bangladesh Government’s Access to Information (a2i) Program, the Directorate General of Health Services, and Gavi, according to the announcement."

"Digital identity is a computerized record of who a person is, stored in a registry. *It is used*, in this case, *to keep track* of who has received vaccination."

In a bid to cover up information, some text from this site was deleted (https://www.biometricupdate.com/201909/id2020-and-partners-launch-program-to-provide-digital-id-with-vaccines)

"This post was updated at 4:58pm on March 26, 2020 to clarify that the program is intended to allow people to receive vaccination and prove they have received it, not to *track individuals*, as claimed by some conspiracy theorists."

*Lies,* *Lies,* *Lies* & *Lies*

Take note that *ID2020* didn't kick of in year 2020. It's a project that's supposed to be launched in 2020. Now this got ready in September 2019 according to the publication.

Now how do they deceive the World into opting for a *vaccine?*
There can never be a *vaccine* if there is no disease - a disease that's so large scale that the world will be brought totally on it's knees and would cry for a solution.

The answer is to create a *Pandemic*...
So they created the *Covid-19.*
What should be the end result for the world... *FEAR,* *FEAR, FEAR & FEAR*

And they got exactly that now. But this is not all.

This same group *ID2020* is working on another initiative called the *IOT* or the *IOT & Y.*
What's this?
It means the *INTERNET OF THINGS & YOU.* What in the world is this again?

The *IOT &Y* simply means by some new technology, anything that could be connected to the internet would be connected to the internet including you (man).

In their writings at this earlier stages they don't include the "You" part of it because they are working with the *principle of gradualism* - little by little so no one could possibly notice.

They call it *IOT.* The internet of things meaning that your Car, bed, table, shoes etc can be connected to internet if you want them to. And I hear people asking how can?
The movies you watch where these things are portrayed are no jokes because that's the intention.

Now the real reason for the *IOT* is not because they really want to make life easy for you.
No!!!
The main reason is to connect you to the internet so your mind can be easily manipulatable.

This is the same goal the so-called undercover *vaccine* has...a *Digital identity* - Code that distinguishes you from any other person on earth.

How will the *IOT* be made possible Another Big Question
Have you heard of the *5G* recently?
Well if you have heard nothing, quickly go on the internet and browse it for yourself.

At this point I want to let you know that the *4G* that we are enjoying have been proved by research to cause symptoms exactly similar to that of cancer when exposed to radiations that are beyond what the human body should naturally take.

Now the *5G internet* speed is not new at all because it's been in use in the military for a long time.

The *IOT* can only be made possible by internet speed that high as that of the *5G.* Don't you want the *IOT?*
I want it...
I want to have a smartcar, smartbed, etc & everyone I know want it too including your one year old baby (you understand what am talking about - parents with new borns nowadays). They say they must do this through the *5G.*

The radiations from the *5G* has been shown to cause severe damage to plants, animals, & human beings alike. Causing severe Health issues in man. But they still insist, we must go for *5G* because of the original intention - an internet enabled man - to track man and be able to manipulate man.

Their expectation here about the *IOT* is for us to blindly embrace the benefits of *5G* without telling us the stern disadvantages that awaits man.

Well both will work together according to their plan. It's either we strike the world with so much fear about the *Covid-19 Pandemic* that they will cry out for this *ID2020 vaccine* or we give them this *5G* that it's effect will result in massive numbers of health degradations that everyone will call out for this *ID2020 vaccine.* Either way the vaccine will be needed.

... And remember it's not an ordinary *vaccine*... It's an implant into your body that makes you trackable & manipulatable.

Have we seen the ravages caused by the *Covid-19* in many nations today?
Yes!!!
We see it... we hear it actually.

Have you asked yourself why the *LOCKDOWN* of many cities and nations around the world?
It's *Global Fooling.*

The *Chinese Government is busy installing the 5G optical fibers. They need some time to pass these cables and wire them underground throughout the select areas. They should not be seen by anyone so there had to be a LOCKDOWN*

The United Kingdom is doing the same thing.

And Guess what?
They told us to use HAND SANITIZERS & NOSE MASK but these people employed to do this job are using non of these?

The Government of this world has put the whole world under siege for their own selfish ambitions which Satan seeks to take advantage of; while everyone looks blindly. Everyone has become a prisoner in his own house (Dare to come out & the soldiers are waiting to fight you to death).

So where is all this leading to?

Remember the mark of the beast?
What do you think it will be?
A tattoo?
May be a Tattoo but not an ordinary Tattoo - it's an *INTELLIGENT TATTOO* like what *BILL GATES* recently launched having already in it the *Covid-19 vaccine.*
( https://savedmag.com/bill-gates-quantum-dot-digital-tattoo-implant-to-track-covid-19-vaccine-compliance/ )

A short quote from this site:

"MIT has been developing the *quantum tattoo at Bill Gates’ direction and funding.*

MIT RESEARCHERS haveY “FOUND A COVERT WAY TO EMBED THE RECORD OF A VACCINATION DIRECTLY IN A PATIENT'S SKIN RATHER THAN DOCUMENTING IT ELECTRONICALLY OR ON PAPER*—and their low-risk tracking system* could greatly simplify the process of maintaining accurate vaccine records, especially on a larger scale,” according to ScienceAlert.Com.

The Bill and Melinda Gates Foundation funded MIT’s research for *the invisible mark,* which was published in the journal, Science Translational Medicine, in December 2019.

*“The invisible “tattoo”* accompanying the vaccine is a pattern made up of minuscule quantum dots – tiny semiconducting crystals that reflect light – that glows under infrared light.”

Bill Gates is also working with the *ID2020* group to produce this NANO CHIP that is called the *ID2020* project which when INSERTED INTO YOUR SKIN (THEY HAVE PROPOSED ALREADY - RIGHT HAND & FOREHEAD just as SCRIPTURE PREDICTS ) MAKES YOU TRACKABLE - YOU CAN DO MONEY TRANSFERS FROM YOUR HAND , (NOT A PHONE), MAKE CALLS WITH YOUR HAND (NOT A PHONE) ETC. - - - - -
"THIS IS THE MARK OF THE BEAST... .

( https://jamesfetzer.org/2020/03/bill-gates-quantum-dot-digital-tattoo-implant-to-track-covid-19-vaccine-compliance/ )

AND REMEMBER THE ONLY TIME THERE WILL BE *A ONE WORLD GOVERNMENT, ECONOMY AND RELIGION ORGANIZED BY THE PEOPLE OF THIS WORLD, IT WILL BE SPEARHEADED BY THE ANTICHRIST.*

This is where all this is headed to.

All this is the hidden truth about the *Covid-19.*
DON'T KEEP QUIET ... PUBLISH IT EVERYWHERE YOU CAN & ALSO MAKE YOUR OWN FINDINGS.

We must stop them & we can stop them; so let's stop them before we will become so enslaved until we don't know how we got here!!!

If we allow them to continue laying this *5G* optical fibres, the situation of health in the world will grow worse & that's the plan.

We can't play along anymore.

EXPOSE THEM ... FIGHT A JUST CAUSE ... SAVE OUR WORLD !!!

This ridiculous scam must end, not by GOVERNMENT EDICT BUT BY MASSIVE DISOBEDIENCE LIKE WE ARE SEEING IN FRANCE NOW !!!

*SPREAD THE TRUTH*

*~~~ REV. DR. CHRIS OYAKHILOME*

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Those fighting Tithes and Offerings, I will not say you should have sense because it's like sense is not your own!
1. Bishop oyedepo is not your president; he doesn't owe you nothing! Your real anger should be towards your ever-failing government!
2. Bishop oyedepo is not your biological father; he laboured and is still labouring over us!
Ask your father what he did with the equal time and opportunity they all had and have!
3. Bishop oyedepo didn't force money out of anybody; those who give have a right to do so or not to! Use your own right as you wish!
4. Bishop oyedepo has thousands of staff and pastors with families, who are paid duly and fully every month...even during corona pandemic!
5. If it's easy to preach and have people give their hard-earned money to you, start you own church! You need no license whatsoever to do that!
6. Every man of God has but one authority who can judge them; and that is, the one who sent them! Jesus the Lord!
7. Bishop oyedepo and many other pastors and churches meet the needs of people yearly as a scriptural command...they don't have to report that to you or your freezy father!
#Happy Isolation and better pray using 'the God of oyedepo' or the God of Chris Oyakhilome' etc it works!
#copied

Money! the reason why a 23yrs old guy in 400L in a Nigerian university is still single

I will be the president one day

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I got this good perspective of the whole hullabaloo about tithing. I am convinced that the arguments for no tithing is a raging war from the pit of hell. Read for your lessons.

This is the best illustration of Tithing I have read In ages

“When you go to church today and feel the AC blowing through your wig into your skull, know that you are eating out of your tithe.…when the bass guitarists, the keyboardist and other guys on the drums are delivering some good music during praise and you’re dancing everywhere and removing your coat, uncle they pay those guys working for God, know that you are eating out of your tithe. … Most Sundays you don’t go to church because you depend on nepa to iron your cloths, it is the same thing in the house of God, we don’t depend on NEPA to power the church, we pay for fuel and diesel, so when you go to church today and enjoy uninterrupted worship, know that you are eating out of your tithe.… If you go to church to charge your phones and you grudge about tithe, well, your case is different. … When we invite Pst Nathaniel Bassey to lead you in worship to our God, it is not his trumpet he will eat when he goes back home after ushering the Holy Ghost into your life with his ministration, it is not halleluyah challenge his landlord will eat, we give them minister’s gifts to support the work God is also doing through them, it is the meat that you have stored in God’s house that we use to feed them. So when Travis Greene comes from the UK to raise the roof in praise and worship dance very well because it is your tithe. " Who deserves to live in lekki? The pastor that feeds you daily with God’s word or Timaya that adds nothing to your Christian faith? Who deserves to drive the best cars? Your pastor glorifying God or Iyanya winding waist with naked women glorifying mammon? One witch somewhere will just be vexing for nothing that we are giving to advance the kingdom, you grudge when asked to donate to a church project, you grudge when asked to pay tithe, you think it’s your squeezed 50naira that makes you comfortable in worship at church? Witches campaigning for people not to pay tithe to God when they cheerfully pay Millions for a table for 5 at AY shows. Witches!!!”
"The right perception to tithing"
(Please pause and read this)
I have tried so hard to avoid this tithing or no tithing debate, but It will be so ungrateful of me to keep quiet and watch some folk misunderstand a principle that gives me great peace.
I'm not going to quote a single scripture to defend this, if the Bible is too deep for us to understand, then maybe it is time we try common sense.
We don't tithe because we want to receive from God, we don't tithe to buy God's blessings, it is not a give and take something, it is not a trade by batter principle. God's blessings and favours comes upon us in a million amazing ways without giving a penny, most times the blessings we hardly take notice, He just loves us, unconditionally, whether we are giving to Him or not. He gave us Jesus without our consent, He sent His son at a time when we least deserved it, that's how much He has been giving to us without asking anything back in return.
I don't care about being under law, under grace or under mercy, I just love the Lord with all my heart, and with all that is within me. I give back a tenth of all that He gives to me not in an attempt to provoke Him to do more, but to maintain my local assembly. I tithe to ensure that there is meat in His house. I understand that it is His duty to maintain the spiritual needs of His house, but since He has given me the capacity to contribute to the physical and material needs of His house, I WILL.
It will be an insult to go to church one day and learn that pastor couldn't come because he went to work so he can pay his children's school fees. I tithe to make sure that my pastor's sermons are not influenced by hunger and lack.
It gives me great joy to know that my tithe contributes to the salaries of the staffs working night and day in God's house.
I tithe to ensure that God's properties are protected while I sleep very well in my house. I don't want to come back next service day to learn that thieves have stolen the church microphones and generator because we cannot hire security guards to keep watch.
If driving a good car helps my pastor spread the gospel across many towns and cities, I will tithe for him to buy a private jet so that he can fly everywhere and spread the gospel faster.
I tithe to maintain His house.
I tithe to finance the gospel.
I refuse to allow the under law and under grace debate make God look complicated to me. The Levite priests did not have electricity problem in their time, bad roads and traffic was not a problem to spreading the gospel, yet God's people were still giving to maintain God's house. It's still the same today, different scenarios.
If living in Lekki will make my pastor beat traffic and come early for service I will tithe for him to buy a house there. If living in banana island will make him accessible to God's people I will tithe to make it happen.
I tithe so that the generator will never lack diesel. I tithe because it will be uncomfortable for me to worship God in the hot heat with someone who has body odour, I tithe for God's house to have a good AC.
I tithe to enjoy the same quality of music people enjoy in the clubs and bars. I tithe for the church to have a good sound system. I tithe for the church to afford professional instrumentalists and sound engineers to make my worship experience more exciting.
I tithe for the church to continue giving bobo and popcorn to our kids in the children's church.
If my tithe is helping the outreach department take care of the poor and needy I will keep tithing.
If my tithe contributes to the logistics that will fly Bishop TD Jakes down here to give me a different dimension of the Word, I will keep tithing.
If my tithe makes the gospel concerts and word conferences FREE, I will keep tithing.
I tithe not as a batter to receive, it is not a means of exchange, how much can i really pay? I tithe to keep His house running so that I can always run there to refill and recharge.
So whether it is old testament, new testament or future testament, it is our duty to maintain our local assembly, and this is why I tithe cheerfully.
The best news is that you cannot take care of God's house and live in lack. It all comes back to us in different ways, pressed down, shaken together, and rolling over.

It's just common sense guys, just common sense.

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I am very sorry, it seems like anytime I post on Nairaland is actually the time I have great challenges in my life, however, my posts also reflect the chronicle of my life. You may wish to check out my last posting about how I was sacked in the Bank with a debt that was guaranteed by a junior staff, whose job was threatened by the loan I obtained and she guaranteed for me. please find the link https://www.nairaland.com/2282140/loan-incured-before-termination-appointment Like I mentioned in that post, I got a job as with a Rep member and he appointed me as the Special assistant on a salary of 80k monthly and my boss paid my rent, of which I engage with my lender to take 50k with me monthly and right off the excess interest and stop disturbing the junior colleague, an arrangement they agreed to and everybody was fine, save that I had to struggle to cope with 30k monthly as a family man, working in Abuja. My wife never complained. I just gave her 25k from the salary, once received, to buy food for the family why I tried to manage with the remaining 5k. It was tough! Luckily, a junior lady cousin who works in a bank was posted to Abuja and we had to accommodate her. She was very kind and understood my plight. Sometimes, she drops up to 50k for my wife to augment the house expenses. She would tell me and sometimes, I would take additional 10k to ad to my pocket money.

The home was running, my son, my wife and my cousin, including myself were very happy. As a banker, I had learned the skill of marketing and networking and negotiation. In the course of my sojourn in the national assembly I met a head of a parastatal wjo needed me to do some strategic alliance between his organization and my boss. We later became great friends, and i realized I could access a scholarship to study in the UK through him. To cut the story short, I pursued this opportunity to the latter and I got a Federal government scholarship to pursue a Masters degree in the UK. I saw this as an opportunity to rewrite the story of my life. Two months in the UK, I began to look for means to bring my wife and son to join me in the UK. While I was in UK, I made it a point of duty to send 150k to my wife in Nigeria on monthly basis (Remember I was on scholarship) and I also do student work in the UK. Because we did not sell our car during the crisis, I also gave the custody of the car to her.

FIRST SUSPICION

When she was about coming to the UK with my 7 years old son, we decided to give out some of our home appliances and sell most of them including the car. Since I was not in Nigeria, she was to manage the transactions. Because I opened her e-mail address, i do see her mails, so i could see the alert on her GTB. The first thing that prompted me was that the amount she received for the sales of our car was 100k higher than what she declared to me. (The fund was meant to buy the flight tickets for her and my son). There were other expense transactions that were over declared, but the actual amount debited to her account were quite low. I did not confront her on these issues until she arrived UK with my son. When I did, I could see the way she manipulatively and professionally lied her way out of the whole issue. I did not pick an offense, hence i made her to understand that I was never convinced. Since then my instinct told me that if she could lie to me so much on finance, maybe there are other things going on in her life that I never known. However, I opened her Facebook account for her years ago in Nigeria, but I never bothered to check it. Out of curiosity, I tried login into her Facebook account and I discovered she has changed the password. My first reaction was to check it, but had I done that, she would have been conscious, then I used my skill as an trained IT security expert to crack her password and then access her Facebook. I ran through all her messenger message and everything was fine. Apart from a certain guy who always beg her for assistance and prayer, there was nothing really suspicious about her messanger and then, we continued with our normal life.

After a week in UK, she started to work as a carer (her visa permitted her to work fully), and she began to make money. I know how much enters her account and we decide how to spend. My son also start schooling and life began to have meaning again. I finished my masters with a distinction and the best graduating student in my department and my University offered me automatic admission for PhD, with part scholarship.l To remain, we needed to source funds to show evidence that my family can stay with me in the UK and show evidence of the balance of school fees. We sourced for money everywhere. She brought all she had and we had to borrow both from UK and Nigeria. My boss was very supportive and I commenced the PhD this September. As a family, we have a problem. My son is now 8 years and we have been trying to make another baby but it does not seem to be forthcoming. We have been to hospitals in the UK, we were both tested and once told my sperm motility was low, treated, but later we were considered both ok.

Since her arrival in the UK, I noticed that my wife suddenly repel sexxx. Sometimes, we had sexxxx just once in a month, she would find a way of brushing away by advances. At a level, i had to ask if there was any problem, but she said it was because of the new environment, her jobs and what have you. This further told me that all was not well in my marriage. She knows I love her and I would do anything for her. While we were yet trying to pay my tuition, her mum got a US visa and all the children were making contributions for her journey, I had to take from my school fees and send to Nigeria and manage my school to give us more time. I tried to ensure that we continually live like one happy family.

Do not let me sound like one perfect good guy. I had also lived a rough bad life in the past and she is aware. During my days in the bank, I had been sexually reckless and irresponsible. There was a time I left office to a gal house, fckked her and I never knew that the condom we used was stick to my shoe. I drove with it home, entered home very late at night, my wife was already angrily waiting for me in the house, only to see a used condom with sperm inside attached to the soul of my shoe. It was an issue that we had to battle with for weeks, even though I never confess it was from, I told a story that it must have got gummed to me at the mechanic village where I had gone to pick my car in the evening (She was aware that someone has accused my mechanic of having sexxx in his car, leaving condom at the back seat). after few weeks, we resolved the issue and we continued leaving normal life. However, there was also a time I suspected her activities on Facebook and I realised a guy whom she has known in the past has been pestering her and she seems to be encouraging him (That was during our period of financial crisis). I had confronted her, she had denied they never had anything but the guy was just pestering her. I apologised and went sober. I called the guy (who was also married) and lived in another faraway city. The guy denied having anything to do with her that she just knew her while growing up. The guy originally blasted me, but later called back and apologized and promised never to disturb her again. I was hurting for months, after which I forgave, forgot and moved on. Let me also state that during the period of my financial crisis, I made a covenant with God, after listening to a message, that whatever the case maybe, I will remain faithful to my wife. This I have manage to keep despite advances from both married and single friends and acquaintances.

THE REAL ISSUE

Now, we are living in the UK and very happy, she is working full-time, while I pursue my PhD full-time, work part-time and my son schools full-time and we were all happy, save the issue of delayed pregnancy and (to me, the poor sex life from her). Let me also state that I bought her a Samsung phone (when she arrived last year), which I have full access to because I know her password. Few months ago, she told me she wanted a bigger phone that she would send the one I bought her to my younger brother in Nigeria who had been disturbing her for a phone. Even though, I thought we did not need to spend money on a new phone at that crucial time because of the looming school expenses, I consented just for her to be happy and she got herself a Samsung galaxy s8 plus for 700pounds, which she would repay of 2 years. The first thing that prompted me about the phone was that she changed her password, but I never mind because I thought she was preventing my son, who always loved to play game on her phone from accessing the phone. However, after few weeks, I began to feel very uncomfortable about the whole stuff. My instinct just told me all was not well. Whatever was it, I could not place my finger on it. But after reviewing my work with my supervisor in the University yesterday, I just felt like going home to rest, instead of studying in the school and then, I met wife in the house with my son. She was trying to order some items online for my son for Christmas and on arrival, she gave her phone to select what we should buy for him, and then, the FB message came into her phone and I could read...'it is not what you think, I have been very busy'

I selected the item I thought was ok, gave returned her phone, picked my laptop and logged in to her Facebook. My wife pretended she was enganging me in discussion, but was responding to the message from a guy, who obviously was her lover and she wrote (I was reading from my computer without her knowledge) 'You know I will ALWAYS LOVE YOU'. and the other guy responded 'I love you more baby' (By this time, I was already burning on the seat, but I somehow managed to keep my calm). She wrote 'But you don't call me' ...and she stood up and went to the kitchen (I wanted to gather enough evidence before I reacted), but immediately she got to the kitchen, she deleted the conversation. At this time, I could not take it. My son was in the sitting room, watching cartoon. I went to her in the kitchen and aggressively confronted her. She originally pretended she did not know what I was saying, but when she say the aggression and seriousness in me she started begging and crying. I lost control of my emotion. I was angry and shouting. My son was there. He was too young, but very intelligent. he understood everything and began to blame his mum, at the same time asking me ti give mum a second chance. I was bitterly hurting. I felt like tearing her into pieces, but if I tried that in UK, it will be straight to jail. She could not state the reason behind her action. She was still trying to lie. She said the guy was her ex and they recently became friends on Facebook and the guy is trying to rekindle the old relationship. The guy is based in Nigeria, they do not even see. Everything she said was incoherently sense. All she wanted was that I should forgive her. I should not tell anybody. She cried, wept and what have you. I was hurting. If it were to by Nigeria, she would have left my house yesetrday, but in UK, it is difficult. The love turned to hatred. She managed to convince me to enter room with her, so that she will discuss the issue with me, without getting our son involved. In the room, it was the same crying and plea for forgiveness and a promise it would never happen again. I told her i was ok, but she would not let me out. I had to angrily shove her away from the door and she hit her head against the wardrobe. i was too angry, too sad, and too hateful to care. i called her all manners of unprintable names. I cursed her, I was just too angry. She kept begging. I left for the sitting room and she came back, knelt down before me and kept begging. My son was crying that two of us were making him sad. The young boy even threatened to tell his teacher in the school on monday. I was too angry to listen. I just told her to let me be. She stood up with tears in her eyes to enter the toilet, I checked her Facebook account again and realised that the lover had sent another message thus: "My dear I don't call you always to protect your home, but I always check your pictures every night before I go to bed" As I was reading, she stupidly deleted that again in the toilet. (Please note that my wife always post our family pictures on facebook, stating how I am the best husband in the world).

My anger erupted again and I rushed to meet her in the bathroom and asked her why she deleted the last message of the guy and she tearfully answered that she did not want me to see anything that could aggravate my anger the more. I angrily snatched the phone from her and smashed it on the floor. She knelt down at my feet and continued to cry and beg for forgiveness, but I was hurting so badly. I left for sitting room again and my son was confusedly crying. She came back and knelt before me and continued begging and weeping and begged we should go back to the room to discuss, at least to protect our son. After a while, i followed her. There was nothing to say; the same weeping, crying and promises to not do it again and swearing that they never had anything together. I told her I needed to talk to the guy and she pleaded I should not. I told her she is giving me an impression that she is protecting the guy so that she could continue her illicit affairs with him and told her it would not work. The can change tactics, but its is only a matter of time. I told her, I would forgive her, but I cannot trust her again and when there is no trust in marriage, the marriage is gone. I also told her I must engage that guy that she should give me his number, but she said her phone is no longer working. I made her feel comfortable that I have forgiven her, but honestly I am hurting. I went back to my laptop, continued chat with the guy on her messenger, but he was now online. We both slept on the same bed, i realised she could not sleep. In the middle of the night she woke me up to beg again, she was offering a make-up sexxx, but I was not interested. I told her i had forgiven her, but I am still hurting and there is no way i could have erection with her. In the morning, I checked her messanger, i discovered the iddiot has responded, still claiming to love her. I checked his profile, I realised he is a muslim, who has a wife with two kids. His location was not shown, but most of his pics her in Nigeria apart from two which have foreign background. I also realize he has limited posts on FB, but the phone number on his FB page is US phone number.

From my wife's FB account, I sent a message thus:

Hi, Mr Farouq, my name is Adams, I am Grace husband
I just wish to inform you that all the rubbish you have been doing with my wife are now exposed to me
I advise you in the name of whatever thing you believe, STAY AWAY FROM MY WIFE.

I also realize you are a married man. If you have any moral integrity and respect for family values, you will know that
responsible men do not run after married women or break homes.

I do not care whatever you claim you think of her, just heed this warning STAY AWAY FROM MY WIFE.

He read it an never respond. I went to her facebook setting and unfriended him.

I left home in the morning to go study in the library, but honestly, I could not assimilate anything. I am so emotionally broken down, so psychologically disturbed. The whole event kept playing in my head. I found it difficult to rationalise it. I continued to find fault in my being and my personality. I know I am very attractive handsome young man. Despite showing I am married, ladies still flock around me. I am also a passionate lovemaker. I dress well and look neat. I don't seem to understand where I have failed. Sometimes I just close my eyes and i feel tears dripping, but I have got to be strong. As for her, she has remained in the room since morning, hiding her head in shame and crying profusely. I have cut off communication with her since I came back from school and I have enganged myself in drinking spirit maybe my spirit will be strenghtened.

This is my story, this is my ordeal. Please I need advice.

Thanks.

love covers multitude of sins. forgive her and give her a sec chance, start afresh

to fall in love is easy but to stay in love need your commitment, determination, hard work, self control and effective communication. forgive and move on just as God forgave and is still forgiving you daily. thanks