He knows I can never cheat on him, no matter d distant or year. Even in skul, pple tink I'm into girls, because I joke wit lots of pple but wen it is goin out wit a guy, I don't. Even wen I tel dem I hv a bf, dey al tink I'm just using dat as an excuse. I can never cheat on my bf, but don't knw y he wil want 2 cheat on me. If Love is a crime, den I'm its offender.

190: You have to manage him, real NIGERIAN men like him are few
keep begging him and commit it to God's hands
everything would be fine, dont leave him

despite the fact that you found those condoms - ignore it
be patient nor be woman you be
abi you wan marry yourself

, wil he change 4 d beta, on my birthday, no birthday wishes 4rm him, nt even a call, he claims he 4got, I didn't say a word. I was admitted in d hospital, I told him, but he didn't, cum to pay me a visit or cal me, wit al dis he always had an excuse 2 give. I'm nt after marriage nw, d only crime I knw I committed was LOVING 2 MUCH.

Thanks a lot 4 ur advise, and 4 makin me strong, towards my present situation. Indeed a problem shared is a problem solve. Luv u all.

DigitalSignal: Op, how old is this relationship?

. Just 2yrs

@mynd 44 and Adaeze, dere is notin 2 it, I rili don't like d way u view dis tin, I only ask 4 advice 4rm u.

@Mynd44, is nt dat he is using it 4 any harmful tin, but he 4got 2 dispose dem b4 my arrival, because I hv neva check is tins b4, so he neva thought I wil go 2 dat length. I guess d used condoms, were his dat he fail 2 dispose, and notin more.

Pls I need ur advice, After some bad experience durin my childhood which change me totally, and gave me bad impression abt men I decided 2 give datin a chance, so I met dis man, he is so luvly, he is d only person dat has respected me as a lady, and dis made me hv feelings 4 him, I love him so much. Things was going fine btw us, but suddenly everytin changed, he doesn't pick my call or eve reply my call, we I confronted him, he gave me so reasons dat are nt genue, and I even found a used condom in his room, but he told me it was use by his frnd, I don't knw who to believe, I so much luv dis man, dat I can stay 4 a year without hvin anytin to do wit any man, I don't fancy any man except him. With his previous attitude, I believe he is seeing some1 else, What should I do nw? Pls help me out wit ur advise.

@ Topic,You are free to use all kinds of word, but one thing is for sure, u are a lady whether cheap or expensive, u are nt better than the least person in Akwa-Ibom state. Let me ask u a question, since u are expensive, and learned. Hw did u lost ur Virginity? Did u sell it at a very high price? No Lady is cheap, whether 4rm Akwa-Ibom or any part of d world, so mind ur use of words in public, it is nt right/good 4 a lady. U don't knw d place, or state ur husband wil come 4rm.