guys and gents, you can't meet anyone new if you don't expand your social circles...push past the people you see daily and expand to a new faces..this isn't saying be friends with all new faces..but just get exposed to new faces..out of every 10,2 will stick..you can't meet people really from behind a keyboard ooo

Chicolee: Lol @possess your possession...
There is a difference btw having s'e'x and making love.
During NYSC, you have s'e'x, lots of it BTW and at the end of service, you go back and make love with your real deal.
Na so I see am o

you've done it..that one sure

the stupid belief that the devil you know is better than searching for angels you don't know ; because the s3x is damn good ; cos of low self esteem

inspired_m: Bought My First car at 19 yrs.

1992 Model Honda Accord ( Honda Holla )

450,000 Naira

19? Hmmmm...rich dad I guess

Javanian:



i beg to disagree...Programming is not programming


@o.p. Game Programming aint childs play...

according to your signature, how old are you now?

be the friend he runs to first
be the foundation of his feelings
be the critic whose opinion is second to none
be the confidante whose heart, mind and soul is his vault
be the mirror to whom he's never shy or ashamed to show his true self
be the ink and the paper who judiciously plans for him, making him know you even think about his future much more than he
be the voice that calms his nerve
be the face that makes him believe in beauty
be the woman he fantasizes about in bed
be the woman who reminds him of God
be the only one who does this

I've said it before and I'll say it again....ladies, take charge....don't let the runs gurls take the sweet guys away...
life ain't fair....runs gurls date Prince and marries them after dating around the ciuntry or runs guys dates a vurgin/ princess and marries her, after playing over 50 babes..
the truth is just that life's about smartness...the runs guys/gurls are smarter than the average ones...
take charge peeps

OCTAVO:

you're using tecno na...how did you do the screenshot....all the app I know is asking for rooting

am sure we're gonna see a couple come out from this thread...

edelweiss: am very tired physically, just want to read from some dolls.

Awww...hope you've eaten...

I think every single lady should just realize that its not every guy that has the finesse of chatting up ladies first time...you gurls/dolls should understand and support the effort...if you can initiate the convo, that's even better...that's maturity...I stand to be corrected

just like there are many good jobs out there but its unadvertised, there are many single young career guys out there...but they are unadvertised because social skills especially on striking up conversations with a Lady you just happen upon isn't there...here the single ladies didn't make it easy as well...they'll mostly keep a straight uninterested busy face if the guy tries to make convo....and they're not ooo..Lol..

2)most gurls ask what people will think about them if its found out they chased the guy...are you for real? if you know the secret behind the success of some of the most successful relationships you'll be shocked to the bone...my personal experience is that either the boyfriend or the girlfriend does things that will be so wierd if outsiders were to hear about it...but what do they care? if you understand you'll know that what you do bet web the two of you,for the two of you is just to make the two of you stronger than ever...but no one or few people would understand.. don't even bother trying to make them understand...just do what is good for the two of you...

carmelion:

Seriously,this topic was discussed on Wazobia Fm Abuja sometime last year.

As funny as it may sound,I feel I should say it here.Some people said,it's because many guys re in the prison.Is it true?

Lol....prison? we're here carmiedoll...its kinda because girls take the African mentality thing to heart...the hypocrisy is that
1)..while girls(or Nigerians in general) pick the African mentality on waiting for the guy, they use the american mentality where it favors them... like living with the guy...
in any case if girls ask a guy out(coyly), they'll be the one to gain if it turns to a successful relationship... or they might just miss out on being the spark to a beautiful thing...

why can't single ladies in naija just ask guys out? not overtly but coyly...its not just because they do it in Yankee but cos...come on... what's wrong about it?

there are some Hawt gurls I know...can't believe they're single...what's going on in this naija?

finished service last year June...got employed October...however I started applying January last year and did numerous test....alhamdulila... not easy but I've learnt....spent all my time on job sites instead of bbm and I spent money on tp to lagos...there are jobs everywhere oooo....95% of nigerian jobs ain't advertised ni...I've connected three friends so far....you can't underestimate the power of networking..
as for me it is the Almighty Allah that gave me my job... I knew no Adam nor Eve and it so makes me proud....
so...keep pouring over all them sites....all....network....it will definitely come

one time i was having s3x with her,and after a long while i didn't release. i have this medical condition called delayed e.jaculation,especially when i use condom and i pray this thing won't put me in trouble. after i humped and humped and didnt e.jaculate i was frustrated as usual and i removed the condom and did skin dive.
now if you ask me,did i not think about the consequence of my action? remember this girl has been having unprotected s3x with her bf who is a player because she cant afford to be single. who knows what he has passed on to her.
to cut a long story short, i skin dived and days later,i started feeling extreme body pains!!!!!!......

well, i think what i wrote above is my opinion nd everyone has his/hers.
true life story:the girl i was dating before now, her former boyfriend has s3x with her without condom and she dare not say no else he would leave. i was dumbfounded because from what she told me about the guy, i can swear on my life he f.ucks around. i know she must have known this or felt it or thought about it but...i cant begin to imagine why, in this age we are where it's easy as abc to find sexmates(2go,bbm,fb,badoo etc) and especially easy in major cities like lagos,ph,abj to mention a few where finding sexmate is as easy as buying purewater,why anyone would have sex without condom with a partner you can not swear your life on that he/she is faithful.

@carmelion....men, i feel for you. you have definitely been through alot. but can i be honest with you? so as many other ladies. and some are still going through it. am not trying to burst your bubbles, but there's nothing really different in what you are going through and what other ladies are going through.
but let me tell you what is different: you tell your self the truth!!!!simple.
do you think most ladies don't know whats going on? they do!! do they tell themselves?? big no. they deny it or hope things would change while not calculating if its even possible that things would change.
i have one major question for single ladies:why do you think you really need a man in this life? because if there's always the thought that having a man is like winning a gold medal, most men:i repeat,most men: would abuse that thought and likely take advantage.

maclatunji: ^I get your point but I doubt observing salat is meant to be an instrument of saying you 'Thank you Allah' in the strict sense of the word 'thanks'

instead of doing doubt alone why not add what you think its meant for? we're all learning

I guess I'll have to find the point where I'll understand and appreciate salat..