AskNgige2:


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a2space:
I am a 37 year old bachelor and I must confess that never in my wildest dreams did I ever imagine that someday I would be desperate to get married. When I was in my twenties, I used to hear of desperation amongst ladies to get married but I never clearly understood the feeling. I felt it was a "lady thing" until I got to the age of 34yrs. One day I was in my bedroom suddenly I felt the rush of emotions come upon me so strongly that all of a sudden started making me feel desperate for marriage. By the following year the desperate feeling became like torture and the loneliness was so depressing. I could no longer stand it when I attended weddings to see other young couples getting married. I could no longer stand it when I hear people discussing marriage around me.

I became like an object of fun in the office when they would call me "the oldest bachelor". I'm telling you, the feeling is not funny at all. Even when people innocently ask "Hey, why are you not yet married?" or "what are u waiting for?" It's a question that I just can't take emotionally. Though I'm doing my best to tie the knot soon but I must confess that it is a feeling that I don't even wish my enemies to have.

If me as a guy could be feeling like this, I can just imagine what single ladies of marriageable age are passing through emotionally.
For those of you reading my post, it is my prayer that you all get married at the right time and age so that you don't have to pass through the same emotional trauma of loneliness and desperation to get married.

tiwaz:
Late Hajiya B Yusuf on stage with others on the commemoration of ChibokGirls event, 1 year on

The photo below shows the late Hajiya B. Yusuf (2nd from right) who was among those that died yesterday in Saudi during a stampede. Hajiya who was a member of the bring back our girls group is currently being mourned by other members of the group.

She was among the members of the fact finding committee that was appointed by former president Goodluck Jonathan about the Chibok Girls. Until her death, she was a strong advocate for equality & inclusion.

http://www.nigerianewsheadlines.com/?p=9172
I condemn with grieve, the death of pilgrims in Saudi Arabia. Although every Muslim is expected to believe in qaddar dt is destiny, but situation reports, reveals negligence on the side of Saudi Arabia hajj committee cos d tragedy was obviously avoidable, Hajj being a pillar of Islam is an obligation, there's need for improvement in the system. This is laxity, something need to b done, the Saudi Arabia prince should accept d responsibility and stop setting blames on a African Pilgrims. May the dead rest in peace, Amin.