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Politics / Re: Bandits Demand N40 Trillion, 150 Bikes To Release 16 Kaduna Residents by seyenko(m): 5:59pm On Mar 14
Can the illiterates bandits count from 1 to 100? How do they want to validate a payment of N40 trillion?

Man102:


https://politicsnigeria.com/breaking-bandits-demand-n40-trillion-150-bikes-to-release-16-kaduna-residents/
Business / Re: Multichoice Rejects French Firm, Canal Plus' $1.69bn Offer by seyenko(m): 2:30pm On Feb 06
My concern is the monopoly it will create in the continent, just one single dominant provider will arbitrarily increase prices whenever they wish
santaclaws:


Streaming? Well, DSTV doesn't need your internet connection to function and streaming services are majorly for movies and series (unless you want to pay on multiple streaming platforms to watch sports like DAZN), DSTV offers much more than that. There's a wide market for both media services to co-exist, so I wouldn't say that. Netflix cannot show live football matches, so what are you talking about?

Bottom line is that $1.6B is a grossly undervalued sum for Multichoice as an African multinational media company, the largest of its kind.
Crime / Re: Ifeoluwa Adekunle, AAUA Student Found Dead In Her Room by seyenko(m): 2:42pm On Feb 05
Quite unfortunate, the first question to ask is whether there was a forced entry into her room. If there was no forced entry then she knew her attackers or attacker and opened the door willingly not knowing the intention of the attacker. Secondly, go thru her call, chat, and text log if she was expecting the attackers or attacker. If she has multiple stab wounds, then the attackers or attacker came to commit a crime of passion and an opportunistic crime did not just happen.

NaijaCoverBlog:


Source: https://dailytrust.com/female-student-found-dead-at-hostel/

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Family / Re: Recurring Dreams About My Wife Wanting To Kill Me by seyenko(m): 1:56pm On Oct 19, 2023
So there is no motivation for her to kill you. When the dream comes counter it with good thoughts
Handsomejok:


The house is rented and I am managing my small shop there is nothing to inherit.
Foreign Affairs / Re: What We Will Do To Hamas Will Be Remembered For Generations To Come - Netanyahu by seyenko(m): 12:10am On Oct 10, 2023
He is not a Christian but a Jew, Jews do not like Christians or Africans, so I am always amazed by the support Christians and Africans give Israel when Israel does not give an F about them

marenx:
A christian doesn't speak like that.

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Politics / Re: Atiku Abubakar World Press Conference (Live Update) by seyenko(m): 5:33pm On Oct 05, 2023
What value does this Haliburton scandal person in which a serving US senator was jailed and Jennifer Atiku was under house arrest for money laundering want to add to Nigeria after 8 years as VP?

Arafat2022:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p1uG49yAmBI
Watch live on Arise TV



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lxphXrjGH2A
Video of Atiku Abubakar arriving at the Shehu Musa Yar'adua center for the World Press conference

1. Atiku holds a world press conference today.

2. Venue: Shehu Musa ‘Yar’adua auditorium Wuse 2 Abuja Nigeria

3. Time 3pm
Politics / Re: Inflation Was Lower When CBN Governors Were Economists by seyenko(m): 7:08pm On Sep 28, 2023
How do you as a banker or finance manager understand macro economy? Not all Economists even understand macroeconomics. You have to be a specialist in Monetary Economics to be grounded in Fiscal and Monetary Policies.

001Lotion:
Economics, Bank and Finance and Management are the fields that could effectively handle a macro economy.

You don't necessary need to be an Economist, as long as you are from the above area of specialization and you're good at what you do, then no issues as those courses can easily be intertwined.
Family / Re: Should I Call Off My New Relationship Because Of This?? by seyenko(m): 2:34pm On Sep 14, 2023
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UnconventionalT:
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"I am a Nigerian student living in Scotland, A Nigerian Christian guy got in touch with me via WhatsApp and asked for a relationship, saying he got my number off a church whatsapp group that I haven't been to for almost a year now. He said he's prayed about me and God has told him we are good to go. He is a student too.
I was single at the time and haven't been with a Christian brother before, so I decided to give it a chance. It's roughly 2 months and I am at the point where I want to quit.

We got talking on the platform and also through calls, about a week into our relationship/talking stage he asked me to come to his place and cook for him so he can have enough food for the coming week. I was surprised because we hadn't even seen each other at that at time. I told him I cannot, he made a big deal out of it and said stuff like it's not a big deal for me to do that as his wife to be. We got over that and arranged to see for the first time, he suggested my house and I said I don't feel comfortable with either of us seeing for the first time in our houses and we finally concluded on a Bugger King outlet which isn't far from my house. This didn't go well with him tho.

We met for the first time and talked, after that he said he wanted to know my place as it isn't far from Burger King. He came to my place and stayed in my bed till around past 10pm, he tried touching and kissing, I told him I wasn't comfortable and he needed to leave because of time. He got annoyed said his intentions was to stay over at my place, he already told his housemate he isn't coming back home and it's so late now to go back. I told him I cannot allow him sleep at my house for the first time we're meeting, I have a small single bed and you intentionally didn't even say you'd sleep over before. He grudgingly left and dropped 3 packs of youghurt and a bag of unfried chips which I later discovered where all expired at the time he dropped them.

I told him about it and he made a mess out of the situation. He attends a pentecostal church and critisizes other churches, he doesn't really believe in adult taking responsibility for their actions as the devil is most likely responsible for everything, we simply have to pray against the devil.
He's asked for sex multiple times in less than 1 month, I stopped talking to him one time for about 2 weeks and we picked up again. He said he doesn't have to penetrate, we can do every other things to satisfy our flesh. He said doing all that with him is the proof of my love for him which I have strongly disagreed. Sex isn't a prove of love, we are adults and can have protected sex with anyone without loving them.
The only single thing I enjoy about him is that we communicate well, he talks a lot too and that makes our communication half argument, he finds fault in any little thing and blows it out of proportion. I have told him I don't have strength for argument in marriage since we won't be arguing over minute things that get him pissed off now.

Both of us have been getting multiple 12 hours night shifts from work and two nights ago, he asked me what he was going to eat when he gets home the following morning, I knew he was up to something. I told him I can't say, we don't live together and I don't know what you currently have at home. I suggested he buys bread on his way back home. He then asked me to cook for him to eat the following morning, I sincerely let him know I have no soup or stew myself. His response changed and he later called me on same subject, citing how I don't care enough about him to be concerned about how he is gonna eat since he's been working few nights now, he compared himself to a married man that always brings food to work at his workplace. Even gave the guy his phone to talk to me, that one too said I should do things in my power to make my man happy.

I tried to make him understand he isn't married and it might be difficult to enjoy what his married frnd is enjoying. Youve never bought me foodstuff, you haven't worked before and sent me 50 pounds or less for groceries, we are both working night shifts and I sort my own food, why are you angry I can't make out time out of my rest period to come cook at your house to stuck your fridge?

I have been in relationship where I cooked, I personally enjoy cooking, but I have never been with a man that feels to entitled to me doing that for him. He says I'm supposed to be the one cooking for him. He also believes in women abroad sharing bills, but he is too traditional to share house chores"

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Travel / Re: Can I Sell My House To Relocate 2 Canada At The Age Of 43 On A 5yr Tourist Visa? by seyenko(m): 8:15pm On Aug 08, 2023
Is he an illiterate that cannot think fo himself? How will a tourist visa convert itself to a work permit? How will he get a tourist visa for 5 years when Canada issues a tourist visa based on the expiry date of his passport? So if you have 6 months left on your passport, you will get 6 months visa. If you apply with a 10-year fresh passport, and your eligibility is not in doubt. You will be given 10 years based on the date your biometrics were captured.

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Religion / Re: Religion Has Finished My Mother.. by seyenko(m): 2:19pm On Jul 13, 2023
Dont send her money as the Pastors are aware that she is very buoyant. When she does not have cash to give them, they will leave her alone


SultanOfPuna:
Religion has turned my mother into a shadow of herself.
Ever since our teenage years my mother was not the churchy type. We are raised Catholics
Back then she was active and bubbling.

all of a sudden my mother left Catholic faith and started messing around with different churches.
This has cause countless rift between us, my dad and elder sister have done everything possible but my mum is too brainwashed by these Pentecostal pastors.

How can someone be attending Christ embassy and winners chapel?? I Heard she wants to join mountain of fire but changed her mind.
Everytime church, church, church
Yet she never gain anything from it
I have been sending her money for her for upkeep since November last year only to come back home February this year and discovered she donates everything to different churches


I feel she might have a mental disorder and I don't know how to save her.
She literally spends all the money in church donation tithe and all those craps. And those pastors always calling her to come for one program or the other. I don't know what to do
Health / Re: What Will She Eat To Improve Her Appetite by seyenko(m): 5:50pm On Jul 10, 2023
Try Complan

Trueigbo:
Hello Nairalanders

My mother was diagnosed of brain tumor about 3 years ago though she is old we are skeptical about going for surgery.

The sickness affected her muscles as she finds it difficult to walk and chew food. It takes her time to eat food and end up eating very small quantity.

What can we give her to increase her appetite because I strongly believe she will get strength if she eat very well. We have spoken to doctor who insists we do the surgery as the only way out.

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Nairalanders Please I Need Your Input On This Job I Have Gotten by seyenko(m): 6:49pm On Jul 05, 2023
Tell your interviewer to deduct the N30k from your first salary, it maybe a scam or the job does not even involve the church but someone just using the church premises for scams. I recall Ajudua using the CBN office in Lagos for 419 scams in the early 90s

JobAndVacancies:
Good evening guys.

Guys how legit is this, I'm scared of making the payment only to be disappointed later as it isn't easy coughing out 30k in this economy.
Guys I need your input.. The Church is a big church here in Lagos.
Please no mods should take this to front-page o so they won't see this
Agriculture / Re: How Can I Grow My Plantain And Banana Trees Faster? (Photos) by seyenko(m): 9:08pm On Jul 03, 2023
The soil looks very poor, more like sand than dark loamy soil

Senkasa:
I planted this giant Malaysian plantain suckling (4) 2 weeks ago in my backyard but it is yet to start growing. The other grown plantain tree has around 15 suckling clearly sprouting out but at a slow rate. I once dug hole near the roots and used fertilizer seeds on it but didn't see any result.

On the other hand, my banana sucklings are growing slowly unlike my neighbor's that are growing very fast with the leaves all over the fence.

I heard fowl or pig dump can work wonders but the former is scarce in my area. I am now planning on using pig dump

I need your suggestions pls..
Crime / Re: Bodies Of Kidnapped Rachael Kanini "Kaniss" & Boyfriend, Omodollar Found by seyenko(m): 3:39pm On Jun 30, 2023
It was a crime of passion and not kidnapping - who was the lady dating before the Nigerian or who was wooing her while she was dating the Nigerian?

EcoBrick:


https://www.tuko.co.ke/people/relationships/512137-kamulu-socialite-nigerian-boyfriend-kidnapped-by-unknown-people-bodies-dumped-thicket/

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Travel / Re: Second Niger Bridge Julius Berger Made Provision For Train Tunnel(video) by seyenko(m): 11:51pm On May 25, 2023
It is too small for rail probably for fibre optics, water pipes, electricity cables etc for the future

post=123354660:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wpofDPMtoQs

Construction giant Julius Berger made provision for train tunnel under the second Niger bridge for future use, I'm 6.1 ft and the tunnel still far from my head and on top of the bridge it can be adjusted to give way for rail line

Watch

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Business / Re: Who Are Those Behind Dangote Group ? (photos) by seyenko(m): 2:57pm On May 25, 2023
Aliko Dangote brought her on board to handle Dangote's expansion into Europe and not the other way round

baby124:
Interesting to see Blair’s wife on that board. Many people have been saying that couple junket the whole Africa, looking for countries to take advantage of. I hope Tinubu is smart enough to shake off this people. Tony will quickly run into any African country and start holding meetings when no concern him. He’s no longer in office but na him pocket him de chase.
Sports / Re: World Athletics Bans Transgender Women From Women's Competition by seyenko(m): 10:28pm On Mar 23, 2023
Translympics
Ifemiju:


Exactly. That should solve it. Special people have the Paralympics, they should give trans people their own competitions too.

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Family / Re: My Father Wants To Chase Me, My Wife And Kids Out Of The House. by seyenko(m): 9:31pm On Jan 03, 2023
the mere fact that you are yet to be independent but have 2 kids says a lot and yet you have the gumption to think about arresting your father over his property - you sound entitled

sqlPAIN:
My wife just gave birth to my second child of recent and has been in the hospital for almost a week. Yesterday I went to the hospital to bring her and the new born to the house after a long stay at the hospital but to my greatest surprise, my father refused to allow us into the house. He had even already brought out our belongings. Me and my dad have not been in good terms since I got married to my wife in 3 years ago(even before then). He has been on my neck for years now, constantly and violently reminding me of how I should have left his house year ago and go live on my own, constantly throwing insult at me, telling me how I'm a disgrace to him and men in general, saying he regrets birthing me. I'm constantly letting him know that I'm not yet ready financially to stand on my own but he wouldn't listen. We've had countless fight turned physical because of this issue. Yesterday was the tip of the iceberg for me because I'm planning on arresting him... He brought out our belongings and my first child, saying we would not sleep in the house. We were all outside from morning till evening, I had to go beg a neighbour to helpe accommodate my wife and new born for the mean time. I'm currently typing this from a friend's place. I'm planning on arresting him because how can someone be so wicked and heartless to your own son.
Family / Re: My Wife Twins Sister Moved To Our Apartment Of A Room And Parlour Self-contain by seyenko(m): 1:40am On Oct 19, 2022
the audacity of the move and loading of your living space is unsettling. You better call both women to a meeting as they need to find something productive to do as you cannot carry the burden alone. Else you will die and they will need to find someone else to carry their burden

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Politics / Re: Reno Omokri Dancing In Early Celebration Of Atiku’s Victory by seyenko(m): 10:14pm On Oct 18, 2022
Atiku ma sun kun loju telifison

Politics / Re: Energetic Atiku Arrives France (Pictures) by seyenko(m): 10:10pm On Oct 18, 2022
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Atiku ma sukun loju telifison

Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Please Advice Me On These Two Jobs by seyenko(m): 7:17pm On Oct 13, 2022
First do a detailed analysis of the cost of living at both places and the propensity to save. The 400K in Lagos may be financially more but considering socio-economic issues like the number of man hours spent in traffic, rentals cost and feeding in Lagos. Osun state may be a better option. For instance, I stay in a place where I earn about 60% of what I could have made but I own my home as I do not rent while my colleagues in other areas cannot afford to build a house instead all their income goes on rent to the landlord.

Ronaldoguy:
Nairalanders I need the elders input, I am currently on a job here in Lagos (salary is 400k), now I got another job in Osun state (salary is 250k). Should I go for the job in Osun due to Lagos expensive lifestyle. I want advice solely on financial aspects. I am leaving details out since I am not interested in the career aspects of both jobs.

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Phones / Re: Woman Dies After Her Phone Exploded While She Was Sleeping (pictures) by seyenko(m): 5:40pm On Sep 12, 2022
This was not an explosion, the aunty was killed as you can see blood stains at both ends of the bed. The image of the phone does not show an explosion but a burn which only burnt the phone's casing completely and exposed the internal components still intact. There was no blast involved as the spread of the blood did not splatter but it shows that a blunt force instrument was used on the lady's head and feet which lead her to bleed

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Family / Re: Please Advice My Elder Brother And His Wife. by seyenko(m): 3:17pm On Sep 06, 2022
UK to Nigeria is a 6-hour flight and they are in the same time zone most of the year. Your brother should employ capable hands for his law firm and he will provide oversight from the UK when needed.
Politics / Re: Atiku Reveals Reasons For Picking Okowa As VP Candidate (Full Speech) by seyenko(m): 5:42pm On Jun 16, 2022
Not a mistake but deliberate, Atiku will not be able to control Wike as Wike will run a parallel Presidency without regard to Atiku.

Joezinho:
Smh. Slowpoke Okowa of all people? grin cheesy

This is gonna be Atiku's biggest political mistake.

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Career / Re: Career Change: Is It Wise To Change My Career Path At This Stage???? by seyenko(m): 12:05am On Jun 15, 2022
What position do you occupy in banking? Before you delve into data analytics, try to understand SQL. Once you are good with SQL then you will find the concepts of data analytics easy to grasp. SQL will not be a challenge for a civil engineer
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: My Fiancé Just Lost His Job by seyenko(m): 2:50pm On Jun 07, 2022
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The closing date for the online application is 15th July, 2022 at 12:00 (midnight)



Rubyjade:
Please help my man, he got retrenched today and it been heartbreaking for him.

His a graduate of accountancy with 4yrs experience in accounting. He can use excel, Ms word and Sage 50 and QuickBooks very well.

Has a very good understanding of LIRS, FIRS, ITF, NSTIF


Please help him, his a good man

Thank you in anticipation

Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Should I Leave My Job And Japa To The UK by seyenko(m): 12:23am On May 25, 2022
My experience - when you relocate, you are not doing it for yourself but for your future generations. So you can decide to sacrifice your present comfort and have some rough years so that your children and their children going forward will live in an environment with better opportunities and certainty.

charles009:
Hello Folks,

I need una inputs, I tried scanning through nairaland threads and I am getting more of technicalities and rules lol. I need real experiences. As everybody around me dey japa so I decided to give it a thought. I work with a fintech company and net a little over =N=600k monthly. I am considering relocating to either UK,Germany,New Zealand, Australia or Canada. I am married with four kids. They said study route is the best .

A few of my colleagues that travelled just dey dull my ginger. My Oga who nets over 750k, we spoke today and he is considering a security man job, and claims net pay is over 2M monthly. Biko I cannot come and kill myself.

My friend, we spoke this evening and he responded oboy make I no lie you, na shit i dey pack for here, the good news is they say it will always get better with time. What if person no come eventually become citizen, is it a must you go become citizen.

I don talk to over 10 persons today and they all saying everything is though. Me I don't like stress, where me and wify go dey overwork just dey pay bills. Ofcourse I no get strength for menial jobs, make one oyibo use me take dey shine lol....

I no get any exceptional skill, I be sales man ooo.

Would you advise I still gamble and go with family abi make I hold my job oooo.

Please, I would welcome suggestions and advise.


Thanks Guys

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Education / Re: Should I Sell My Late Mother's House With Her Grave To Fund My Masters In UK? by seyenko(m): 1:02pm On Apr 27, 2022
Please sell and move your mum to a private gated cemetery, leave Nigeria and don't come back


Kelechi20007:
I recently got admission in a university in uk for my Masters. The challenge I have is that I can't fund it. The only way to to do so is by selling my mom house.

I'm her only child and another difficult challenge is that she was buried in the yard of the house 5 years ago.

I don't have a good job, I have been teaching in a private for a long time, I need a better future for myself, I'm seeing a chance here for a better life by furthering my education in uk.

It's a difficult decision for me selling the house with her grave in it. Please guys put yourself in my shoes, what will you do in this kind of situation?
Career / Re: I'm Being Indicted For Fraud By My Boss Over Google Campaign by seyenko(m): 2:58pm On Oct 03, 2021
He should simply tell his bank to cancel the card and get another issued

Zordgrub:
Sorry to bore you but ill be very detailed so you all can understand me and proffer right advice.

TLDR; I am being indicted for fraud for not removing my former Boss card details before removing myself as an admin from an ad account and I have to write a Police undertaken before I get paid.

I work as a Digital Marketing for a brand in Lagos. My job involves creating ads, social media management and strategy.

We needed to launch a campaign on google but for some reasons my boss didn't know how to get his password. I suggested I created one, then he accepted and input his card details by himself. I sent him an invite to be an admin so he can see all im doing, which be accepted. He later became skeptical about it cos according to him, he said I created the account under my email so I am primary to the account while he is secondary, and he doesn't want that for his brand cos he already has google ad account, which means his card details is under my email and details. I told him it doesn't matter who is primary or secondary, we both share ownership cos he has admin status to it and he can login with his email too and I am not privy to his card details cos I can't even see the details on the card. He said no, that he wants to shut it down and remove his card. I then asked him how do we now pay for the campaigns already running? According to him, he said when someone replaces me, he would put it back and and initiate payments, I wasn't really paying attention to him, I then removed myself as admin from the ad account, meaning he alone owns it cos he was giving me the impression that I will bear the brunt of payment and I don't want my other ad accounts to be banned as a result.

He then got pissed and asked me to find my way back in to remove his card, I told him he has to grant me access then, he said no that he is not an admin to the account cos when he wanted to gain access to the ad account, he had verification issues while logging in, but I told him that he is the admin now and I don't even have access anymore. I had to reach out to support but they referred me back to him or attached a code to the backend of the site. He won't grant me access because of this primary and secondary thing and that he doesn't wanna click on a link that he's not sure what I have said to google cos he claims he's not the admin. I have apologized tire and explain tire yet he won't listen.

He said I should write a Police undertaken that if anything like fraud affects his card, I should be held responsible so if im innocent I shouldn't have any problem writing it before he can pay my money. Or I should find my way into the ad account to allow him remove his card. I told him I can't write any undertaken cos I wouldn't wanna be held responsible for anything I don't know about. The man is so mean so im being careful with writing anything.

My issue is, I need legal help for this issue. I work 6 days a week and I sleep over at the office some days cos the service we render involves entertainment so I need to gather content. I sleep on the floor in the office cos the accommodation is messy and I've lost weight cos of his work.

What should I do??
Family / Re: My Wife Wants To Kill Me. What Should I Do? by seyenko(m): 12:51pm On Apr 30, 2021
Don't take bad advises from people online who are not married and have not lived with a pregnant woman. Pregnancy change women due to hormonal issues they experience, it is just a passing phase. Once she births, she will go back to normal and will not even remember all she did.

udoji2021:
Life is sweet generally but can be cruel to others.

I was once a happy guy with a bright future but marriage is practically killing me. It all started when I become sick and was admitted in a hospital. my aged mother was the person staying with me and was responsible for my everything. inside the ward, another patient was with this very beautiful girl that was very hard working, my condition was critical that my mother will have to bath me sometimes, this girl now started helping my mother and to a point, my mother will leave her to be taking care of me and go home.

I become close to her, but i use to think that she just pity my condition and wanted to help so I did not think of having any relationship with her. I was later discharge and went home but since we exchange our contacts earlier, we use to talk often. I asked her one day to visit me which she agreed. To my surprise, this girl brought some provision for me and slept over in my house. she continue visiting till one day, I told her that if i was strong and capable, I would have loved to date her. she confessed instantly that she was really interested in me and did not care about my condition. According to her, she was born in a poor family and can handle the pressure of been broke, that she will be the happiest person if I love her back the way she loves me. I was moved with her words and to cut the story short, we started dating.

Her parents were highly against the relationship initially but when they become tired of us, they allow us to do our thing but never involve them if something happened. fast to December last year, we got married. I was not even able to pay 1h to her parents. she just pack her things and join me in my house. we were the happiest couple on Earth till things started going north.

First, we agreed to do many things in the farm against hunger next year, we started with melon farm, then groundnut and yams. we were still on this and I must confess that she is hard working but pregnancy came and this girl started misbehaving, she will not follow me to the farm again and will not even cook for me. I dare not complain cos she will insult me seriously. sometimes, I will tell my sister to cook but this girl will not eat it because the food is bad.

One night, she sent me out of the room in the night that I must get bananas for her to eat. I suffered that night till I got it from one woman on credit cos I was not having money on me. last month, she was sick and visited one private clinic, I was to give her 10k for her treatment but did not have the money so I told her to give me 4days to look for it, there was no insult I did not receive that night. I have to sell my yam seeds and pay. infact, I'm tired of this life presently cos i use to think that she will help me but the reverse is the case now.

Please I need advice on the way forward, I want to run away from home but she is pregnant, her people refused to help us too cos they warned her before.

pls advice me

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