Sex is an evidence of love, if sex isn’t sensual or sweet the love will definitely fizzle out

When emotions are high, people tend to say things, some shouldn’t be taken lightly. He’s called this afternoon, I think they resolved it.
Thanks to everyone who contributed through advice, I hope they experience lasting peace henceforth.

merahki:
This is actually a medical emergency
She is either a very sick/disturbed person or a really horrible human being. And the husband is the trigger (either intentionally or not). You should have told us exactly what he did though

I want to assume the “worst” which is that her husband is cheating on her and she cannot take it. What a well- adjusted, normal or mentally healthy person would do is never resort to what she threatened to do. They would leave, fight, rage, whatever but not threaten to harm their kids (or themselves for that matter) for any reason whatsoever

This is not something to play with
Those children are not safe with her at all (they are bargaining chips to her, very expendable). They should be taken away from her (and maybe put in her mother’s care, for now)
She needs to see a psychiatrist stat (now now)
That marriage has no business being IMO

The people in it do NOT have love for each other, at all
My heart goes out to the poor kids who deserve better than the horrible parenting they must surely be getting from two people who belong anywhere but with each other!
I have to emphasize this- there is an impending crisis looming here which should be treated as a medical emergency
I really really dislike the couple in the OP

Exactly what I think

That’s my friend’s wife, My friend of 8 years called me and sounded angry. He said he’s having issues with his wife, she complains of not being happy in the marriage.
They’ve been married for 4 years, We got married at almost same time but he’s been through trying times and just like every family they’ve had some quarrels but it took a different dimension when she threatened to kill herself and the kids cause she doesn’t want to leave her children with any other person ( sounded strange to me).
She’s demanding that my friend pays for another apartment where she will move to with her kids or he will come back one day and meet the dead bodies of her kids with her.
I’m confused, he wants his kids with him and he is willing to let her go but not with the kids .
WHAT DO YOU GUYS THINK?

No reason makes taking your Life justifiable. Say to suicide

Firstly, congratulations. This is very doable and we must understand that Marriage isn’t wedding. The institution of marriage is bed-rocked on growth both financially, physically and socially. Since growth is constant , no one can say when or where to start, the beginning of marriage is a decision away.

I actually don’t think it’s about sex or not, suspend the sex now, get to understand her reasons and you guys can sort it out. Remember relationships are mutually beneficial to both parties, reason with her oo, kpele bami

Drug his drink with viagra, get a juice he will like and put some Aphrodisiac in it.
But before that, try wearing more sexy wears at home, make sure you are sexy enough if not enrol in a gym, smell nice all the time and make sure you are clean at the middle.

karlboss:


I love this. Can you tell how to?

Will someone be willing to show you the way

All of us complaining here all want the same thing Money

Money is not hard to get. Just solve a problem and automatically you get paid.

The person employing you is employing you to solve problem.

Money is just problem solving

But the problem is keeping and growing
money. That's the problem of all us.

Me talking also need money badly.

When you need money, your mindset and survival instincts will direct you.
No illegalities intended

I’ll tell you something, the richest people today fought to be where they are now. You can’t be worrying ‘why’, you ought to be wondering ‘how to. Find out to start not minding your pedigree or degree, seek the truth, How to make a living and that’s where your race to prosperity begins.

The first page comments I read proved the woke state of mind Nigerian youths has reached.

You are not a child anymore, you’ve come of age and settling down is important. If you’ve waited till this time it’s either you’ve been a bad boy or you’ve been busy chasing money, so let’s take one after the other.

You don’t know this girl enough but if you feel good vibes around her, check other parameters you need in a woman and go for it.

A child could have been from a single mistake, and some girls won’t abort a girl cause of fear or faith.
You can’t let one mistake , hinder your happiness
Single mothers go through a lot to take care of their child to the extent of prostitution.
She might be a good person but you need some more time, don’t rush it, let things flow naturally.

Thank God you said body and By body you mean breast and bum bum, and by have it you mean Kpekus: unless na only urinate you won use am do else na yeye Dey smell

He’s very right, there’s nothing like the north when it comes to matters that Favours politicians, but when they need to enter an office they sing sectional music.

There are several instruments in modern warfare, cyber attack is one of them, but there’s yet any confirmation that Iran carried out the threat. There won’t be a war or at least it will be lopsided, Iran won’t recover it in 10 years. Why will someone go to a war for just one man to put the future of a country in disarray? �

My dear, your problem is that “ E be Lyk say I’m cursed” voice wey you hear. Not everyone is lucky to meet their love in their first or second try, firstly, you should be patient and keep an open mind.
Secondly, prepare your mind and if there’s anything that makes you feel less of yourself get rid of it or if you can’t, turn to your best side for solace.
All the best of LUCK!!

The truth is Iran is alone in this. Saudi is an American ally, cause they consider Iran an enemy. Iran asides nukes has nothing else to hold a war against America. Well, there can’t be no war, USA invasion is eminent and Iran will be a pity pile of rubbles within days of attack

Over the years, in my field of work I’ve been experiencing various mythical approaches of people who want to rent an apartment.
Those attitudes mitigate the success in securing a suitable apartment or hinders the agent or realtor from getting acquainted with your choice of property and knowing if it’s readily available.

LEGGO!!!
1. The renters who say “ my friend got a 1 bedroom flat at maitama for 200k, I want you to get something like that for me too” . Landlords/ owners of property differs likewise their reasons for renting out their properties, some just want occupiers, sometimes renters are relatives, some other times for Love interest; in other words; price concessions, Location isn’t the only determining factor in rent price. No one has the time to seek accommodation based on Luck, accommodation is based on willing renter and market availability.
2. Going out to inspect property in January while you only intend to move by April...What?! Properties are inanimate in nature, it only respect its owners desires, No Landlord wants to leave their property unoccupied for a second for cash flow sakes; properties for rent are investment for the owners and return on investment Y/Y cannot be compromised voluntarily.
So, don’t waste your time inspecting, someone else will take it, if eventually the property is habitable.
3. Friends opinion are little or nothing when it comes to a property of interest. Friends are emotionally attached to you, though, apartments give emotional satisfaction but it only matters if the recipient is the occupant. This works only when it’s a spouse or flat mate, the truth is most friends enjoy being relevant in decision making even though they know little or nothing about the subject matter. Get a professional advice from an expert like me, the fees are very affordable.
4. Fear of dealing with a big boy realtor; Fees are standard and most cases the not-so-big-boy charge more since they render “carcass” services. Most big boys/professionals won’t request for inspection fees while the others do. Just know that the most paramount is seeking the best in services, let it worth every dime.
5. Seeking “El-dorado” within Nigeria, the only real estate fantasy available is the house built by you. Improvements are one of the ways you can achieve that personal taste you wish for in rented apartments, don’t go Ajegunle seeking the house in Lekki.

You are being a child, relationships don’t work like fantasies. Action speaks more than words, even though the girl won’t be blamed for being into people, no one can exclusively be dating a someone who only exist on social media. If you are willing to date her make yourself more available or you just let it go, there are different kind of people; some people can’t handle absence even they love the person especially when he was never there.

AwkaetitiBabe:
Training and prospects means no job yet??

He’s got a job, can afford life basics.

My friend , not a Nairalander, needs an Igbo girl with decent background for forever after. He is a Chem Engr graduate with training and prospects, tall , dark and handsome and in his early 30’s . Interested persons should DM me

Billion in the bag, no chic no tick

I’m shagari billions, ignore the second name