Thank you for the comments. You all made some very good points and it has helped me see the situation in a different light. I will keep praying and be patient and focus on staying calm.

Thank you again

Good Afternoon,

My husband and I have been married for alsmost 3 years and we are expecting our first child in November. Every since we found out that we are pregnant, he refuses to show interest in me and stated that I should get an abortion. When I try to initiate conversation, he gets a very nasty attitude and tells me that I should not talk to him. One fact that I do know is that he is upset that he cannot find a job in his chosen profession and blames me for getting pregnant by him. He keeps making the statement, that I am trying to hold him back. Moreover, he is currently working full time with Police and complains that he is going to only work for 1 more month and then he is going to leave. He states that he works is too hard and that he is not making enough money to buy nice cars and TVs....what about the baby and me?? I work full time as well and I am very tired but I am mature enough to know that we have a baby on the way and it should be our responsibility to take care of him/her. I do not want to get a divorce but If he continues to talk down to me and refuse to accept the fact that he impregnanted me, his own wife, I will leave him to regain my peace.