Calitoscassius:
Okay! Jeeeez! You are right, i Am wrong!


Now! You wanna fork what?.

Thank you, but no thanks.

Starzo:

But this thread is about a woman crying over the same 'preeq'

And for your last paragraph,if Nigeria men stay away then Nigerian women would be systematically exterminated.

The ones who refuse to grow will stay away. And no way Nigerian women women can become exterminated without the same happening to Nigerian men.

Now you may argue that Nigerian men will date outside of the Nigerian women circle, but note that Nigerian women have and will continue to exercise the same option. Any offspring in such scenarios will therefore be partially Nigerian.

But note that if Nigerian men persist with the same behaviours, it is only a matter of time before those women start realising that preeq is not enough. They would probably realise it sooner and nope out much quicker than a Nigerian woman because the society here is largely secular and therefore the religious manipulations and social stigma that occurs in Nigerian society is absent and therefore nothing to shame those into staying.

The woman typically gets the offspring, hence she has more opportunities to socialise the kids into not being like their progenitor...I'm sure you see where I'm going.

TDLR Nigerian women cannot go extinct without Nigerian men becoming extinct as well.

REGINALD001:



WHY ARE YOU WICKEDLY PAINED AND SOUNDS SO SORROWFUL............. TAKE IT EASY MAKA NDU GI, BEFORE YOU KPAI OF SEVERE HEART ATTACK.

I am pained and sorrowful for my countryman because you need to do/ be better, yup!

If that makes me wicked, so be it.

Repeat after me " I am more than my preeq".

Calitoscassius:
Calm down! Love! The topic is about just fork, fork and fork alone, we are not here to discuss what to offer the society. Frankly, i refuse to offer anything else to the society. I have offered enough!

Now, you wanna fork or what?!

And that is how people fail exams. The topic and the video are incongruent. Going by the video shared by the OP, the topic is not "fork" by itself.

However, how you choose to understand it is your prerogative as well as your refusal to offer anything else.

If you like it, I love it for you.

REGINALD001:




ONYE ERIRI ERI......... SO I SHOULDN'T TAKE CARE OF MY MENTAL AND EMOTIONAL NEEDS BECAUSE I WANT TO IMPACT ON HUMANITY. I KNOW THE REASON FOR YOUR BAD BELLE, BUT MAKE E DEY HEAVY YOU. UCHU.

I get it, you are using your preeq to take care of your mental and emotional needs so that you can impact humanity that way.

It is possible to separate it you know, to work on your mental and emotional growth first so that all areas of your life can grow in turn with richer and more meaningful contributions to society.
Your preeq will still you bring you joy, but it will be not the source of your joy or pride.

As for the smattering of non English words, I can sense the intent behind but to save you effort next time, I do not understand them.

DrDoc:



Smiles. You are always hard in the head as usual. You haven't changed. Get your boy a step-dad soon and continue to take good care of him. Chao

You are obviously someone I've had a spat/run in with in the past. Whoever you are, hope you are doing good and know that your value to the world is more than your preeq.😇

Starzo:

But this thread is about a woman crying over the same 'preeq'

And for your last paragraph,if Nigeria men stay away then Nigerian women would be systematically exterminated.

No, the video is about a woman recounting anecdotal information about women struggling to find partners/husbands in the UK and the unintended consequence of celibacy that sometimes arises from it.

Now i submit that if women were just looking preeq, the post would be a non starter because here is your comrade in his full preeq dispensation era, as evidence that preeqs abound and in plentiful numbers. So he is not unique.

But that also suggests that these women are looking for more than just the meat and two veg dangling between your legs. Which goes back to my point, if he is more than that, he would lead with it to differentiate himself from the rest, afterall you all have the same appendage (varying sizes and abilities).

So for both our giving brother and the so-called women looking for husbands, say they get what they are looking for, what next?

In whatever they respond lies the reason for my challenge. Something is missing and that thing is what they hope fill with preeqs and husbands.

DrDoc:




You seem tensed in your responses ? Why

Maybe you are projecting?🤷🏾‍♀️

luminouz:

Damn..ain't you a dull one!!! In a thread about fûck and sex, you expect him to tell you he made a first class and was the best thing after Einstein? What lead foot were you expecting for fûcks sakes? He even casually mentioned the sexmate as a former 'colleague' which means he has some stuffs going on and is not a beggar.

Please take your lopsided mentality away from here. The shame you have expressed you are feeling really suits you. How can any so-called logical being reason like this and stay with a man without driving him nuts?

Not him advertising his preeq for starters😂
I reiterate, I am ashamed on his behalf because I live in the same society, know how you lot are viewed already and then prove them right with utterances like this.

TimeManager:

It seems the import of the subject of this thread is lost on you. Just tell me you don't have sex or that Kemi doesn't either, then, I'd admit you're making sense.

-Kiss the truth!

Sure she does. Some do, some don't but whatever the case, it is not noteworthy.

But you obviously think it is, which makes me wonder what the rest of his and your life must be like for it to be such a big achievement.

I'd hazard a guess and think not much hence the overcompensating.

Either ways, not my circus, not my monkey. Have a great day.

luminouz:

I'm glad you are ashamed for yourself. That's a good start. The dude dey UK ..he has no baby mama...he is not into drugs...he has a sexmate which is no crime yet a Nigerian woman like you with your plenty baggage has the guts to try to shame him? Are you not ashamed of yourself? The narrative was relationship not job or prize awards and you expect him to tell you he won a medal from the Queen?
See how aggressive you are online and you wonder why Naija men stay away from y'all in the UK?

Are you normal you this girl?

I don't know about all you mentioned he does not have. But I do know generally speaking as humans, we often lead with our best foot.

And by his PSA, I can only deduce that is what he is most proud of. And in the grand scheme of things, a very sorry thing if I may so.

Nigerian men will stay away because they are lacking in a society where men are expected to bring more value than just their "preeqs".

TimeManager:

Why are you being judgemental?, do you know how stable he is?. Are you celibate?.
A lady addresses her concern in a video, a commenter replied on his coping mechanism and here you jumped on it like a moral police. Why must you be ashamed as a Nigerian, do other nationalities not have sex abroad?. Think an well.


-Kiss the truth!

So dick is a healthy coping mechanism for you? And yet people wonder why Kemi Badenoch wants no part of Nigeria.

REGINALD001:
I HAVE BEEN HERE IN THE UK FOR 4YRS NOW (NORTH LINCOLNSHIRE) TO BE PRECISE, THE ISSUE HERE WITH OUR LADIES IS THAT THEY ALWAYS FORM BUSY, AND THERE IS SERIOUS COLD NOW, IF THEY WANT A NIGERIAN PREEQ, THEY CAN GET IT............. I DONT WANNA STRETCH MUCH ABOUT THE WHOLE KNACKING STUFF...... I HAVE BEEN A CASUAL KNACKING MATE WITH A LOVELY PRETTY NEPALESE BABE, A FORMER COLLEAGUE (THEY LIKE HANDSOME SWEET DUDES THAT CAN KOLOBI THEIR KPEKUS WELLA) I DEY REP NAIJA WELLA ONCE I HANDLE HER OILY SWEET KPEKUS, NO STRINGS ATTACHED. AM WELL TAKEN CARE OF THIS EXTREME COLD PERIOD.


IF YOU ARE A LADY IN NORTH LINCS AND YOU ARE HEAVILY KONJIED,........ HIT ME UP THROUGH EMAIL.......SO YOU CAN FEEL THE VIBES. BEFORE YOU GO KNOCK ENGINE.

And this is how you choose to impact humanity? So in your 4 years of living in the UK, your biggest achievement is snagging a Nepalese girl and in respect of what you have to offer the society, the only thing you deem notable is your "preeq"?

I'm not sure whether to laugh or weep but I do know one thing, I am ashamed as a fellow nigerian.

cococandy:
Rice and roast chicken.

Me and rice must have a covenant

That looks bae!

Do share, how did you cook that 🥦? I like the slightly roasted tinge?

Oh, and your green beans too, I saw it on one of the pics you shared earlier. It looks crisp and glistened, not soggy like mine when I cook it ( I steam).

cococandy:
Pls tell him o.
so he’ll keep coming up with more delicacies.
The way to man’s heart is food praise

@bold now I’m sleepy because of it. 😴

That made me laugh..reminds me of my sister 😂😂

Well, you have indulged and imbibed ( wonderfully so too). Ofcourse it is sleep that remains.

Oya, bedtime! Sleep tight.☺️☺️

cococandy:
This looks so rich

Well done to him

Thank you😊, he did well, didn't he?

Only that I cannot convey your compliments to the chef, he will not let me hear word with Shakira and strutting around like a peacock if I tell him.😂😂

Meanwhile, I sighted the port! 😉😉😋😋😋

Ticha:


🤣🤣 chai those are very old carpets!

It is truly giving 1970's chic😅

But for real, I am following gidigba! I love watching the transformation of doer uppers so thank you for sharing.

And well done. I was amazed at how the wooden floors came to life after the sanding and varnishing. But I have questions.

What is scope of the work that you will be doing?

How much of it are you DIYing?

Will you be knocking through some rooms? ( I'm looking at the upstairs toilet 👀👀)

Don't keep us hanging oooo. I'm already primed for Ticha's homes made perfect, episode 2..hopefully airing next Sunday.😃😃😃

Lasagne! Made by the man.

Ingredients:
1)Minced beef
2)Prosciutto
3)Passata
4)Onions
5)Mixed Herbs
6)Mozzarella( my second favourite cheese)
7)White Sauce
Lasagne Sheets.

1,3,4,5 used to make the ragu. Then that is placed in the casserole dish in the following order.

Ragu, Lasagne sheets, white sauce, top with mozzarella. Rinse and repeat until the last layer of Lasagne sheet is placed. Pop in the oven and voila!

Ignore the hole at the side, that's mr just "appreciating" his cooking😂

Ticha:
Stair lift. We also found an older stair lift mechanism behind the wall and under the stairs. Leaving that for the builders before I damage my walls

I swear this looks like my mother in law's house..down to carpets😀😀

Konquest:

@Shaybebaby,

Tbh, I think that you or anybody else can ONLY find out about the folks living in ANY country and the TRUE vibes (distinct cultures) that they exude when you get to physically visit them. Yes, Seychelles citizen can be a bit laid back unlike in Brazil, Jamaica or Cuba where you feel the cultural energy through music, cuisines, huge carnivals, etc. The travel brochures and video sharing sites aren't gonna give you that vibe you're looking for except you're telling me you've got clairvoyant powers for teleporting yourself back-and-forth from places you haven't visited before. Maybe I should come visit you to read my well-conditioned palms in order to know what extra riches are in store for me down the road.

Praslin Island and La Digue Island in the Seychelles are absolutely stunning locations for me without a shadow of doubt. At least they should be visited once in a lifetime if you want to experience some inner peace while holidaying and be in tune with the simple things of life by connecting to nature.


Shaybebaby, that's mad cool... You've visited Cuba? What year did you visit? I have a Nigerian-American friend and she has been to Cuba as well in the late 2010s. What really FIRST drew YOU to Cuba? You seem like someone who wouldn't waste time in having the fun of your life drinking Cuban Pina colada and tasting other Cuban cuisines while vigorously swaying from side-to-side to the rhythms of salsa and Afro-Cuban music? *smirk* One of my favorite international Afro-Cuban music groups is called the "Orishas" and the members have been based in France, and I've got all their albums right from the early 2000s (with the tracks replicated on my laptops and mobile devices).

That's one country I've planned to visit from 2025 for the cultural experience with Old Havana and Matanzas Province being very dear to me. Cubans have got a rich linguistic and cultural connection with the Yoruba folks of Nigeria (and other West African Yorubas) as well and they speak Cuban Lucumi (Yoruba). Lukumi is actually the original way Yorubas would greet one another going back to several centuries and it's derived from "Olukumi" meaning "my friend/my confidant." Did YOU know that based on slave ship records, about 250,000 Yorubas were deported on slave schooners to Cuba and about the same number to mainly the state of Bahia in Brazil from the late 1700s right into the 1800s when it peaked due to the Haitian revolution and the lose of Haiti by France as a fallout of the Haitian revolution (which ended plantation slavery there and led to a major shift of plantation slavery to Cuba and Brazil)? Fortunately, they weren't as brutal as that of the United States where chattel plantation slavery was very CLEARLY more brutal with the separation of family members who got sold to other plantations... NEVER to see each other again. That's in the past now but the consequences of those actions are with us today in the form of jazz music, salsa, merengue, and other respected international music forms straight out of the indomitable spirit of the African Diaspora.

The stars are indeed aligning in my favour with your prior visit to Cuba. I'll surely bounce some unique tips off you as we head towards my lift off or visit to that country... Strictly as a leisure traveler.

Take care... Talk to you later.

Au revoir.

Cuba, I visited in 2008 so a while ago buy I'd like to imagine that it remains largely unchanged considering the fact that even at time, the 60's vibe was still quite visible in Havana.

What drew me to Cuba? I love Latin culture, the dance, music especially bachata ( you should hear me murdering Spanish songs on my playlist🤣), and the language. Plus their recent history with communism was fascinating, to see how the country stagnated after falling out with US post Castro.

There was a lot of poverty, with a distinct lack of access to basic amenities, things were very dated since there was no international trade( at least not to my knowledge) and no real industries. But we know the history of how things became so, so it was an interesting juxtaposition to see the impact of communism in a place that looked like paradise.

I'll admit that my knowledge of the transatlantic slave trade back then was non-existent so I did not have the opportunity to experience it from that context. But I did notice that they had groups of what they called Shango worshippers..so I connected the dots.

What is interesting in those places ( the Caribbean islands) is that you come across people that bear nigerian names, without having a clue that that is a throwback to their forebears. I met a Jamaican in Jamaica ( born, bred, no recent african ancestors) named Nneka, who had no clue it was a Nigerian name, never mind Igbo.

I'm going to reread your post on slave trade, ( I need to digest it) and would love if you have some links to share for further reading. I note that you mentioned Haiti, and as it happens, I'll be going to Dominican Republic in November ( which is the other half of the island) so thank you and gods that made you post this. It will add another flavour to my trip.😁

@ my username, it's a nickname given to me by sister. What about yours? When I see yours I always think Conquistador...aaaaaaand we are back to all things latin😜😜

Konquest:

@Shaybebaby,

A-ha, your feedback here is insightful.

First off, my day has been LARGELY good, thanks for asking (I hope you're having a great time too in the wake of the UK elections that brought in a new Labor Party Prime Minister)... The only exception for me is that I got hit by the very annoying NL antispam bot on one of the older NL Politics Section threads. This is the reason by I couldn't respond to your first reply to me on that thread and I had to quote your feedback here.

Tbh, I absolutely see NO reason why the so-called antispam bot still exists on this Website. I've sent a message to the Supermods to UNTAG that my important hidden post and I'm hopefully looking forward to getting the post released for viewing. Sometimes you don't get your NL post back after the antispam bot ban has expired despite emailing the Supermods.

Back to the Canary Islands (Las Islas Canarias) adventures of Shaybebaby and her fam, that location called Fuerteventura is a bit of tongue twister at first. lol

=>https://www.visitfuerteventura.com/en/

It (Fuerteventura) has some fascinating beachfront scenes from what I've seen online today. If I get you correctly, are you saying that I should give the "Canary islands" a miss... which as you said here is just "one big barren black rock?" But then again, if you dive deeply into your subconscious, there must have been some positives that you took away from Fuerteventura Island even though you seemed to "hate" it. The opportunity to eat the Fuerteventura cuisines, the fresh breeze that wafted through the air and gently glided over your skin while tossing your hair, and much more.

Last but NOT least, what's the significance of your NL username? What does the coinage mean?

Heyyy, glad you are having an awesome day,time,weekend(?). That's what I like to hear.

As for me I was happy to play my part in the UK elections, I'm a staunch labour supporter even though I do not like Kier Starmer..Corbyn was and is still my man, and I will never forgive Starmer for kicking him out of the party.

Regardless, I'll continue to vote Labour for their core ideology which lead to the formation of the NHS and the minimum wage.

On to Fuerteventura, yes, I'm saying with my "full chest" that the place is horrible. Considering that the 10 nights I spent there were paid for by my then mother in law ( a freebie), you'd think that would mollify me somewhat. Naaaah. I was miserable all through, I remember asking when we were approaching the island that " do people even live here". It was a black rock( volcanic), no vegetation.. apocalyptic if I am permitted to be dramatic😀.

Give it hard miss, the balearics are much better.

@Supermods, please leave Konquests posts untouched please. Many people come to nairaland looking for information which is hard enough considering the sh1t tsunami that floods the site daily.

To hide, even if inadvertently, one of the few sources of intelligent discourse on here, is tantamount to self sabotage.

missidy:
Rice with chicken pepper soup for dinner.

This looks 🤤🤤🤤

Pecoleee345:


Go play with your fellow retards .........this a no kids zone.

Always stupid. Got it!

Carot:
nice food

Thank you😃

Pecoleee345:
The law is always against we men and it always be till the end of the world.

When will government start arresting women for emotional abuse as well??

Every married woman is a saint online........only men are Abusers.

No man should physically abuse is wife is preached all the time but no one talks emotional abuse men suffer.

The hypocrisy of how we all frawn at physical abuse but look away from emotional abuse disgust me alot.

Women tends to freely get away with emotional abuse all the time and there no law against it.

Should a man be exchanging words with his wife??
This women will dare you,curse you,ridicule you with there mouth and guess what you are suppose to be a real man that will pick is cloth, walk out to go cool off.

Have seen woman who told her husband to go sleep with his mother.
Have seen a woman rain curses on her husband for good 5days publicly and no one is gonna arrest her but when the man react then is a monster while the woman is an angel.

I don't think there is any man who will jump for joy realizing is wife have juju in his house that might be for harming him.........he has no right to physically abuse is wife but what will you have done better in such a situation Mr seun??

Seun has no right to tell a man how to run is home or how to run is life.....the moment a lady decides to marry a religious Muslim she already know what she sign up for .....let not act naive here.

It will only take the grace of God for a man not to hit a woman in marriage.........Only Married men can relate with the confrontations you get sometimes.

Physical abuse won't stop until we start punishing women for emotional abuse aswell........you constantly provoke,insult a man and you expect him not to react violently??

The government should stop begin bias and start treating emotional abuse as same as physical abuse for things to be balance.

Real men don't physically abuse there wife
Real women don't insult and curse there husband.

Tell me..

RodgersAkpafu:


just look at their woeful score card

It seems like the electorate have woken from their slumber. The turkeys have decided to stop voting for Christmas.

RodgersAkpafu:


The bolded is a very big big lie!
It's obvious you don't live here.....
with the level of economic hardship and the fallout of brexit, there was no way the Conservatives would have won even if a royal family member was the PM.......

Cost of living crisis is no joke
so make una forget sentiments
and BTW 14 years in power is enough
make them go rest

Thank you. Let me just drop this snapshot of 14 years of conservative rule.

aluko360:
Looks more like a N100 puff puff.

Please don't sit close to a hungry toddler o.

My sincere advice to you

😂😂😂

Konquest:
@ Shaybebaby, how's it going?

Right below are some of my archived Seychelles videos I promised to share with you on this thread. The FIRST TWO videos will give you more insights on the historical places in Seychelles and the largely Creole culture of the people of Seychelles. The THIRD video is a "Seychelles Travel Guide" that delves into the best times of the year [April to May & October to November of each year] to visit Seychelles, and more. Hopefully, these would trigger your curiosity to visit the off-coast African country for your next holidays... Easypeasy.

Enjoy... Ciao.


I Never Expected This in the Seychelles

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tKfJVTngogc?si=cpeBgsnZ55WYgOBP
Steven Ndukwu July 5, 2023

What are SEYCHELLES People Like? (History & Culture)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VssBrsE8_F4
Rich Perspectives Jan 22, 2022

The Ultimate SEYCHELLES Travel Guide

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nHGCMs4rtEc?si=PFJ3ZpmFRIE_wb5S
The Discoveries Of April 15, 2023

Top 10 places to visit in Seychelles 🇸🇨

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CXNTX1w62OQ
Madi (@MadiAubakirov)
My dream came true! This time my wife and I have visited Seychelles, an East African archipelago of 115 islands in the Indian Ocean.

I've watched the video and indeed the beaches are stunning...

But I'm afraid, that's it. Yes, the mountain views are lovely, but it is missing a certain je ne cest quoi ..kinda like a pretty post card.

I think it's a lack of distinct culture as in what makes the people who they are, how they live..all of that adds to certain vibe.

I've been to Cuba, and the island had a Latin vibe, evident in the music, their dance ( Salsa) , mix of rural living and Havana looking like it was stuck in the 60's. I'd argue the beaches rival the Seychelles but all the above I mentioned made it much more than a beautiful destination.

Konquest:

Hey @Shaybebaby, it's my pleasure to have given you some unique insights. You're absolutely correct about the bolded, "humor is indeed subjective."

I didn't realize you were awake when you made this post slightly over an hour ago. I was incidentally online at that time as well and would have replied you earlier. You seem to be an intentional travel buff as well. I'll bet you've at least been to the nearby France, Netherlands, and Spain [Majorca (otherwise called Mallorca), Ibiza, Manorca and other Mediterranean island holiday spots in Spain].

Indeed, you're right about my love for leisure travel as it expands your worldview in real-time. Back in the day, I fortunate grew up in a family where my dad bought several volumes of encyclopedias for our home library, so, I was pretty much exposed to reading about global history and world cultures before the age of 5 (long before the Internet became pervasive for public use from 1994). Thinking back, I have my father to thank for my foundational interest in exploring the world through reading and my internationalist outlook to life, while not forgetting my roots. "It's a FACT that what a person becomes in life is a TOTAL function of the things he or she did while growing up."

Ah! That'll be mad cool. Just give me your feedback like you said you would on that Seychelles thread when you're ready.

Enjoy the rest of your day.

Ciao.

The curiosity had to have been there in the first place. Thank goodness for the kind of dad you had who created avenues for it to nurtured not stifled.

You are right about intentional travelling 😀 but funny enough I haven't been to any of the balearic islands. Just one Canary Island (Fuerteventura). I beg of you, give those islands a miss..it is just one big barren black rock with black sand- I hated it!🤢🤢

Hope you are having an awesome day so far.

Now let me go check out Seychelles.😀

folake4u:


Just seeing this now.😂😂😂😂

🧐🧐😤😤😤