namiji2598:
Seriously speaking, this month me and my family have been through a lot, the bank are not helping matters at all
So many things have happened, straight to the point
How can I withdraw millions of naira using an ATM details when the sim card is no longer here with us?
If you can do it, that's showing me the way to it, no details will be given to u please. Or you can clone the sim card for us to receive the OTP, please mention me
Its urgent. no games, no foul play

Admin please FP

lol scammer

Uzomacharles:
omo I hate that shit.....
imagine a grown up man peddling with a child he's way older than and worst part is that you see the girl controlling or maybe insulting him in the midst of his neighbors or friends...

Even dating a girl m taller than makes me feel awkward..

all of una no serious. How do you guys even see eighteen year olds in Nigeria. Here them don start life full time ooo.

czarr:
Can you get married to a bisexual woman who goes out regularly to bring other bisexual women so you guys can fvck them together in a party.

But she doesn't cheat on you with any man.

na wetin i dey pray for

Kelvin2022:
Wow you may be right because when I came she was wearing only wrapper but on a second thought her bible and her rosary is on her bed. So I don't think she cheat because she is a core catholic girl she doesn't play with her worship and prayer

hahahaha

Don’t let that fool you. Take this from me, people don’t just wake up a suddenly change.

Kelvin2022:
Good morning guys, please I don't understand my girlfriend anymore she visited me on Sunday we spend enough time gist and watch movies before she left and no sex was attached because of her determination of not having sex for now and I respect her for that. Yesterday I visited her she ignored me outside for 5minutes before opening door and she didn't even hug me as usual. I ask her what is wrong she ignored me I keep asking her she said she don't know that she doesn't want to see anyone all day . I left and close the door. I can't just understand it at all why a lady will be unhappy she won't tell the guy she loves I keep thinking deeply about I can't just get it. Who could have made her upset? Did she have mood swing?

Two things. Either she cheated and feeling guilty or she no love again

loosingfaith519:
I recently discovered my husband has an addiction and I can't stay married to him.
As soon as money enters his hand, he starts funding some online app and start gambling.
We got married last year Nov.
We have needs and plans we agreed to achieve before the end of March. Which a better accommodation is one of our first goal. Our present accommodation is not ok at all.
On my own part, I'm saving to meet up with our Target, but I discovered, he has nothing. He collected contributions last month, over 200k. All that money wasted. He can't account for it.
January salary has entered, he has started wasting it again.

I'm expecting him to provide 300k at the end of this month. So, that when I sum it with mine, we can have over 600k. Get a decent accommodation and invest the rest.
We need to plan, save for our baby, but his attitude with money is not encouraging me.
The truth is, my husband is stressing me for lack of accountability.

Pls, how do I go about a peaceful divorce? I'm confused, because I'm pregnant.

All the things I'm seeing him do, suffocate me.
What do I do?
Pls, advise me.

divorce now now?

nicvicb:

Thanks bro
I also noticed this same thing about girls this days, but I didn't want to mention it , so that most people here wouldn't say I am taking excuse for my foolishness (as they would say)

But am happy someone boldly pointed this out

I won’t say u should not give her money, just act broke for a month or two. Tell her things are not going well. If possible ask her for subscription like thrice in that period. Learn how she behaves in that period. You just need to know who you want to marry

rickpat:
if someone doesn't like someone, putting them off is as easy as *eating bread with butter"....I have seen cases where the girl even calls the guy a "small boy"..this that...at the end she moved on with the "small boy"...the thing is she likes his efforts and company that's why she hasn't discharged him yet...Just keep your options open as she is also keeping hers open...THIS LOVE THINGS NO EASY SHA...good luck bro

exactly. Once you see dem insulting a particular guy, na scam oooo

iTearHerToto:
You fvcked up boy. You could keep the pussy and smash it till nothing is left out it then throw the crumbs to the streets.
That's how hoes are treated. You didn't treat her right bro. You failed her


Pukes

lol

Havesomesense:
Give your girlfriend all the money in the world,
Give her all the love in the world
Give her all the attention in the world.
Give her the best sexx in the world
Give her everything.
she will still cheat.

Not that she doesn't love you, but she will still cheat with another Guy.
It is their nature.

NB, if your girlfriend knows you are cheating and she is not bothered, also know that she's cheating too, or she is about to cheat.

exactly. Infact at this point, everyone should just cheat and their partner should know

IyaOmo1:
Dear Great Nairalanders

I am in urgent need of your advice on a decision I am about to make that could shape my life and my young family in about few months from now.

I am currently running successful businesses which give me a steady minimum of N1.5M per month with a potential for expansion. I have been nursing the idea of going to UK on a study Visa by September this year with the hope that I can get a well paying job that could surpass my current earnings here in naijja. I also intend to keep my naija business running but we all know trusting people with kind of investment can be tricky and risky.

What assurance do I have about earning more and having a better life in UK? What happens to my businesses I already built up in Naija? What happens to my properties here in naija?

Your advice will be of great help at this critical decision making moment of my life. Thank you

bro don’t do it

toyoson0:
I met a lady here on Nairaland, we chatted on WhatsApp and we talked on call frequently. We later met and we had sex on a Saturday which is 22nd of January, she later called me a week later that she is pregnant for me. I told my friends about it and they told me I should confirm it it is really mine, so I told her we should go for pregnancy test in the hospital and she said she is 100% sure it is mine that if she do it she wouldn't abort it cos I told her I wasn't ready for a baby right now. Now I told her yesterday morning let go for test in the hospital together on Saturday in the evening she called me she has gone to the hospital that afternoon for the test that it is mine. I was like but I said we should go together for the test , am kinda confused right now cos I dont know if she want to run me street. This night she called that she will go for the abortion tomorrow morning but I must have sex with her to make the abortion easy for her. Am really confused right now cos my friends said she is trying to pin another person's pregnancy on me or is trying to get pregnant for me by force

how do you guys meet someone new and go raw.

Johnkey2000:
Hello house, you give your woman everything she needs. Attention, good sex, money, help her get admission to study and do practically everything for. Her, why do they still cheat.

bro I just experienced this recently. I don’t just understand

Brownygold002:
Hey, n.landers. A wonderful afternoon 2 y'all. Sumtin has really been eating me up, I think I need 2 share. M a young gal of abt 17, m brown, tall, slim, Have a long curly hair(m from a mixed race_lebanon and nigeria), brown eyes and lips m endowed(no be mouth). M a fresher at UNIZIK. I knw am attractive which I don't deny, I don't boast nor make anyone feel inferior. I have 3 roommates. I respect them cos m d youngest amongst them. Buh they don't seem 2 get along with me. Av tried everything I Can. Each time we go out, m usually d center of attraction which is nt new 2 me nothing special. They just hate me. I don't boast. I try 2 look as simple as possible. Buh guys do come for me and they get jealous. Av tried talking 2 them buh they said they're buh deep down I Knw they don't like. The other day they intentionally frustrated me, they hid assignments and burnt a new gown a guy at church got me. M tired of all these attitude everyday. I feel lyk taking my life d hate is much. I didn't make myself. Help me

leave that place before they kill you. Tell your parents

Obeyp:
Hello guys. So my girlfriend made this post for her friend. Have warned her about her closeness with this guy she should have limit that am not comfortable. Today she posted this on his birthday.

" See who's 20 happy birthday to one of the most amazing, talented se annoying sweet, caring person I know you know good people are hard to come by right?? Imagine having laughter, peace of mind, intelligence "good accent" na that one the burst my brain see, you have come through for me in ways i can't imagine and even explain and your genuine love and pure intentions you have with me it's everything for me thank you loving me the way you do. and always giving me a listening ear when i need someone to talk to how you take my burdens and problems like yours is what's really amaze me and also how you treat people's emotions it's just so pure thank you dear friend happy birthday my love wishing you the best year yet full with prosperity abundant blessings happiness � happy birthday babe have a blast and you know i love youuuuuu "



If you were in my shoes how will you feel.

take this from me, dem dey straf

Zeal0000007:
Pals just don't know what to think, here is it, my fiancee's sex libido increased rapidly than before, I work at sea returning back from work , the way my woman has been spinning during sex is disturbing.
I know she must have missed me but she is not a very sexy driven person. This time around during sex, she can raised her legs up to her head, and its shocking, the way she moans its unbelievable, this time around she loves doggy style, like say tomorrow no dey, she wants to come up top me and alot more.

My imagination is trying to tell that she might be having it with someone that is very good in bed while I was away, pals this is giving me a lot of concern. Soon I will be going back in matter of days, from my observations since I came back I have not seen strange number calling her.

bro she told d other guy not to call because u are around. Go up go down, she is getting it from somewhere. I learnt my own lesson this week

Beautifulearth:
Please how do I go about this, I just broke up with my girlfriend and my laptop which I lend her to use when hers was faulty and this babe said she’s not returning anything that we have been useful for each other in the relationship. She even threatened to set boys up against me if I dare come to her side for it and I need the laptop cos of my stuffs on it.
Her mother said I shouldn’t involve her that she didn’t give me her daughter, this is a woman I have been good to in the past

call police na

helinues:
That it doesn't work for you does not mean you should discourage others.

Lick your wounds and move on

lol
I remember when I said this to someone here on nairaland. My gf was too sleek. She hid am well. Na as she quarrel with her best friend truth come out. I no go follow you argue this one. Just don’t trust anyone

Nks

1sherlockHolmes:
i dont think i am yet addicted to betting, i started sport betting last year september when i was doing nysc. it was introduced to me by a fellow corper that time i have 200k in my account raised from the 33k alawee in just three month i lost it all. i stopped betting and move on with my post nysc life when an idea came to my mind which is borrow from loan app and stake on 2odd if you win take your profit and repay the loan. without hesitation i decided to give it a try, but whenever i borrow and stake the game cut but when i play with my little money i win. because of this now im in huge debt morethan 5app are waiting for my loan repayment while im still jobless. i really need help i think im posessed or someone cast a spell on me. anyway i have decide to break my sim card block my atm and stop betting. may god help me. #stay away from bet9ja #sportybet and #1xbet they r destiny destroyer

hahahahhah borrow again na, you might be lucky this time. Lol

Ineedtovent:
I am married with two kids male and female 3 and 2 years old, my wife and I were living fine until her cousin sister came staying with us. She is her father sister daughter , the girl mother raised my wife and her older sister, my wife came from a poor family and her parents had to sent them to their aunty because she was doing well back then , but she had maltreated them to the extend of leaving a big scar to my wife foreheads and the day she had narrated her life story to me I have shed tears because it was very painful to hear but in everything I have pleaded her to forgive and forget which she said she has forgiven her a long time ago and I was happy with her.

The aunty and her family have also had attended our wedding back in 2013 and her two daughters were our bridesmaids just to prove that she has forgiven her and had nothing against her. It happened that her aunty had lost her husband back in 2019 and things were hard for her and her children,  my wife have decided to take one of her daughter who was 15 years and I had given her the permission to bring her to the house and since she had forgiven the mother I thought she would take good care of her but I was wrong .

She had maltreated her even worser than what her aunty had done to her,trust me this girl passed through hell in the hands of my wife and anytime I had tried stopping her she would accused me of sleeping with her and I have decided to sent her back to her mother and I have told her I will send her back to her mother she said I should not dare but I promised her to wait and see.

I call for a family meeting with my inlaws and the girl mother because I wanted the girl to be free from my wife and I have narrated everything to them , my wife dad told his sister to take her daughter back but she refused and has started blaming the girl for being stubborn that she is a bad girl for making my wife angry and she was in tears begging my wife for forgiveness and I have told her nto stop accusing her for what she is not wrong with, she had stayed with me for 2 years and I have never suspected her to be stubborn towards my wife or I. She is the most polite girl but I do understand the reason why she didn't want her back despite her being abused , she was living in poverty and she had other kids to cater for and she didn't want her daughter back to add more burden to her suffering but I had insisted that she has to take her daughter and in front of my inlaws and wife i have given her 100k to go and start something.

After the aunty had left , my parents in laws stay in to counsel my wife and I but everything they have said went to a deaf ears my wife fought me that night and she had insulted me calling me all the names under the sun, I didn't respond her so I took my car key and left the house and I return after some time. Because I didn't respond her the first time she had insulted the hell out of me so she had started again the following day early morning before leaving for work ,  this time around she went as far and has insulted my mother calling her a prostitute because she knew I would definitely react to the insult and of course I did I pinned her against the wall and I held her by her neck almost chocked her and I have told her she can insult me as much as she pleases it will not bother me but she should never try to insult my mother again because I would kill her. I let her go and she was throwing things at me , calling me names and she said she will poison me.

As shocked I was but I didn't respond to her and I immediately left the house and went to lodge to a hotel for few days because I knew that if I went home on that night maybe one of us would have been in the hospital and another in jail for my own sanity I had to distance myself from her , on day 7 her father called me because she said a lot of lies about me and he wanted to hear my side of the story to,  I have explained everything and he advised me the best way he could and ask me to go back home but I have told him I ain't going anywhere until he talk to his daughter because if she carry on with her attitudes I will land myself in jail and he call for an emergency family meeting for reconciliation.

I returned back to the house but we had no communication and we are sleeping in a separate room and everytime I remembered how she said she will poison me I don't even eat her foods even when it was our children birthday I didn't drink or ate the food she cooked. I eat out everyday and I only go home to sleep . We are living like roommate and the love I had for her is not there anymore and we are only staying together for the sake of our kids it took us 6 years to conceived our first baby and I don't want them to grow up in a broken home but I don't think we will ever be in good terms again. Thanks for reading till the end.

stay there and be saying you don’t want your kids to grow in a broken home. Until you kill am. Better divorce

Lordedifice1:
Good afternoon nairalannders
I was the guy who posted a thread about my girlfriend says no sex this year. But now she officially broke up with me yesterday but i am not depressed or feeling pained at all,after a year and eleven months of relationship she called it off Feb 14th will make it 2years. even though I slept with her 22times and i also have her nudes up to 60nudes and 10 sex videos.mind you i took her virginity away i loved her so much so i wasn't a player i never cheated on her i was real to her we quarrel even when she's wrong i will tell her sorry for peace to reign. But she said of all a sudden she tired of me.

But i am thinking now all this video and photos i have in my possession i could use against her but i said NO
But the only thing I learnt is that no matter how you do love in a relationship never send nudes to who you love in case you guys path ways. Now i i told her that i deleted it when we were still together but i deleted it but i backed my phone so i restored my back up files i found the nudes back.
If we fall in love lets fall with sense.
Anyways I knew from on set that we won't last after she gain admission into the university i noticed some kind of stupid attitude. So when she called the relationship off i have been minding my business and i very cool because I know that i didn't lose rather she lost. I am not in anyway bragging about this.
I just want to update you guys and also learn from real stories that happened.this is what happened. Mind you I am living fine as though nothing happened i am not a redpiller neither a SIMP but a real Guy who nothing can bring him down no Matter what that thing is.
I have been this kind of person that nothing moves me again whether bad or good.


Now what should I do with this nudes guys?

delete the nudes bro

Beremx:
What has her past got to do with having ovarian cyst and PID? . A woman can get pregnant with cysts and PID can be treated with antibiotics.
Now that you know her past as a saint whom you are, do you wanna divorce her and marry a virgin?
Are you now concerned about her past or getting her treated so that she can get pregnant?

see eehhh I understand u but lying is the problem here. When he asked her during courtship why she no just talk

Kaleidoscopeman:
I don't know that dude but he seems I have had a hunch about him 2 years ago when me & her had small issue.
I guess that's her Achilles heel.

i laugh when lovers say they don’t check their partners phone. It’s not about trust, it’s about not contracting an STI because of trust.

Which one is “she has tried for you”, if she wants to go let her go, let her not act like she’s doing me a favor

Stargurl20:


Not all men pay bills. Not all ladies are dependent. Get that straight, uncle.

swear that you are not sleeping with all the eggs wey you say u no fit put for one basket. My dear gather more eggs

Stargurl20:
I haven't cheated on any guy, neither am I married. Moreover, I can never put my egg I a basket. That doesn't me I'm cheating. I'm just trying to safe my self from being disappointed

lol cheater don drop quote. Lol
Put it in many baskets

Mercychen:
I feel sad and can't sleep after taking out my frustrations on my nephew who came to spend the Xmas hols with me.

Hes actually my first nephew from our eldest sister.and he's been itching to come to my place as I'm his favorite. I always spoil him whenever he's around.

Hes now a big guy but still fond of me. So he came yesterday and we all tripped out to have fun but somehow I've been unnecessarily harsh on him. Like I expect him to know what to do at the right time and if he fails, I'll just yell at him but later start feeling bad for yelling at him. Now because he's a big guy, he feels somehow, unlike when he was still Small that he'll just laugh it off or quickly say, "aunty I'm sorry". Now he'll just look at me like "what again now" and it makes me feel bad.

Today, he called the Mom and told her he'll be coming back on Tuesday. It immediately hit me that I've not been nice to him like he expected. Even when the Mom asked why he's coming back so soon, he said, "when I come, we'll talk." So when he dropped, I asked him to tell me why he's leaving so soon and he just told me it's nothing. So I asked him if he still wants to stay beyond Tuesday, he said if I want him to, he will.

Today was worst because the generator refused to supply light and I began to fume after trying to call the engineer to no avail. So I took out my frustrations on him again. I blamed him for the fault of the Gen and told him it was after touched it, it developed problems and he was like " not again"...
* Gush*! I don't know what's wrong with me.

After everything, I called him and apologized for being so harsh and asked him to forgive and bear with me.
I feel so baaad right now..

Please, I don't want this nonsense to continue tomorrow. So what can I do to control it. I really feel for him.

The Mom just called now asking me why he said he was coming back. I just told her what he told me.. . I guess she's suspecting he's not happy with his stay with me..
Now, she's coming tomorrow.

Modified:

All I created this post for was to get help and I don't care if I get bashed because it's typical of nairalanders to throw shades instead of making sensible contributions to help as expected.

For the records, I woke him this morning and asked if he sees me as being harsh, he said No. So, enough with the insults already.

Omo househelp no go fit stay with you ooo. You are only feeling guilty Cus na ur sis pikin. Imagine another person pikin, you go don maltreate am

Lustre23:


Can i send mine too biko

for