Everything in moderation,

Everything in moderation,

He values ur opinion in everything he does (Carries u along)
He protects you at all times.
He sometimes calls to say irrelevant things (like I just had lunch)
He's proud to show u to his family n friends
He trusts u
He let's down his guard (D risky part)
He wants to spend every spare time with u
He tells u how to better satisfy him
His calls n sms's become almost annoying
,
He feels incomplete without u cos really he isn't.

@Breeze50, Appreciate ur advice. Strongly agree with u all d way

@Advocator, Thnx a mill

Nairalanders i'm in a fix and seriously need help.

In a serious relationship with a wonderful woman, one you can define (to the altar). We've been dating for a couple of years and we're planning on getting married later this year but i seem kinda trapped now. We seem perfect on the outside but we're struggling on the inside. Her troubled childhood and bad relationships seem to be what I'm paying for at the moment. I accepted her for who she was when we started out and thought being loving and 100% sincerity was the antidote to whatever issue she must have had but it really isn't working i must confess. My being loving and attentive seems to make her feel uncomfortable, she says no man can ever be as good as i am except that i have something up my sleeves, when i try withdrawing a lil bit she says didn't she tell me i'll change. She's so good at everything else, if we have small issues no1 seems to listen to my part, they say it must be my fault etc. Family members being around has started making her uncomfy too, she says she we need our space (buh i had a family b4 i met her, one that actually raised me). To worsen it all, i can't even complain about anything she does now without her turning it all over and making me the culprit for something i complained about. I really want us to work out but i cant afford to manage a married life,  I'll appreciate any and all suggestion(s). I've asked the Audience now, the last lifeline for me is to walk away, 

@ otukpo

I means u are unfaithful. And no matter the temptations, u can be faithful if u choose and are determined to be. It just needs discipline and those things that expose u so much to those temptations.

@ otukpo -----    Thanks a lot, appreciate your comment, will work on it.

Don't know if i've cheated or cheating at the moment, Please read n evaluate and make me a better man for her because honestly she doesn't cheat and she makes me happy.

These are the things i do

- I entertain old acquaintances, not for anything's sake, just for the fun of it.

- My ex called me a while ago and said she knew she wasn't supposed to call me but she had a problem n needed my help. For old time sake, i drove down n found out it was kinda staged n a non issue n to worsen it all, we ended up, I was disappointed in myself

- You know there are a couple of ladies that just want to get down with you knowing you're the cool n quiet type n i must confess i got laid by one a few weeks ago. It's not my fault they just come. Getting my contact from friends of friends that they won't disclose. Changed my line severally but seems not to be working

- The feeling is kind of cool when you know you still have babes that see u as a fly guy n i'm the type that keeps up with fashion trends etc.

Dunno, if those acts in anyway portray infidelity or staying faithful but i just want to make her happy cuz she's been heartbroken a lot of times.

Just been honest with myself,

A duo of Babatunde Fashola n Donald Duke should work like fine magic,  People with depth like them seems to be what can get Nigeria back on track but we know how "they" run these things,  They won't make it happen because "they" want to keep a gap between the rich n d poor. A one 9geria isn't there agenda at all but  GOD BLESS NIGERIA AND I PRAY WE GET THERE.