You are deeply hurt and offended at him for abandoning you and your Son when you needed his help...so first accept this and forgive him...cos if not you won't find peace in that marriage....cos everything he does will be irritating you..
Then sit him down let him know your do's and don't..... watching the way he treats it...if he takes it serious then good if not my dear think twice

The first mistake was getting pregnant for him... don't make a life mistake by getting married to him....if you can't handle his excesses cos it might end in premium tears...


If you want to still go ahead then introduce him to your friends so that he will know them and be their friend as well and as for your ex's please stay away from them..and focus on building your marriage....cos the trust you both have is shaking... there's no more trust as before...

Hmmmm....Notofication even the person's auto correct is also an illiterate....
Is sad how black people says black means evil...it automatically means that themselves are the evil...

Northern part of Nigerian really needs the right kind of education cos that will be their only way out from this ancient mentality

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Op you guy's shouldn't stop praying for him o nothing prayer can't change

No matter how annoying he can be get close to him and find out the problem and also tell your mum to still show him love

Hmmm...is God trying to save you from heart break oo...so that tomorrow you won't be here creating new Monika to post and start asking for advice better stay away from that guy..and you shouldn't feel bad for any reason cos before your infatuation started he has some girls he role with don't go and join the set oo

Biko calm down cos when something that is yours comes you won't struggle to have it...it comes easy and natural....

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Tanks..... she said she wanna av her 3rd child with him .. so wen she lives she wont bother abt getting married again but facing her children welfare and empowering herself. D man we talking about here is a commissioner for police.rtd but working as security officer for a big company in lagos

Hmmm....take care of your two children and be sure that they won't go hungry and that you can provide for them even without the man contributing cos you won't feel it... having only two children is not a bad idea but since this is her decision...

Your cousin is making this matter complicated cos she's not willing to leave him...but the best advice here is for her to leave..
Their marriage is on the wrong foundation and if the foundation is destroyed what can the righteous do?


Hmmm...what if that Man dies now even the benefits your are clinging onto you will not have... Your cousin didn't even reason why the other wives and children left...

I think she should use her savings to start up a business and leave that house immediately but if she doesn't have a saves she should sell some of her valuables to have cash in hand so as to stop depending on the man and leave

Peace of mind can't be compared to anything...if she really wants to have peace she should leave with her kids

You have to make her, to change her mindset
Maybe she's among the school of thought that believes beating children is the only way....Am not saying beating children is bad but the excessiveness of it

Make her understand that times has changed...she can melt out punishment to the girl if she's faults cos if she continues the girl will get use to it and probably challenge her authority one day...

And please don't make the correction in the presence of your daughter....and as for you keep showing her love never talk down about your wife in the presence of your daughter

Mr if you love your wife and children as you claim then leave the job
Use the money you have saved so far to start up a business because there is nothing like having peace of mind and making a guinea money you can be proud of...

Op am not trying to justify what ur wife's action but have you ever thought of what kept the woman with you despite been broke and having serious health issues

I think you should confront your wife in a friendly way and tell her what you think and give her time to own up since you don't have the cash for DNA then if she denials threaten her with going to DNA and see her reaction...

And for the child please don't stop showing her love...

OP the handwriting is very clear on the wall ooo please cut all ties with that guy before you come here and be making another trend on how he broke ur heart and took your money and you later found out that his married

Please to avoid stories that touch please stay away from him and focus on your life

There are better guys out there pray that one day you will meet one

Nigeria have to rethink on this matter

Before the covid social distancing was already occurring in the hall so now shouldn't be different

Mr man whatever you believed in must definitely be your option....if covid has come to stay then you are bound to leave with it

The confidence we exhibit is in God not with the nose mask

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Though the country is very blessed ending your life is not the best option
Go to hospitals and see people that you are better than and see reasons to give God thanks....you are healthy is a big testimony...

Once there is life there is hope

Op whenever you spend time with someone the person's attitude robs off on you...so anytime you are with her and she starts talking about those pass hurts and all... please excuse yourself or you stylishly change the topic

Secondly you need to consciously practice how to let go of hurts especially by people close to you.... always force yourself to see the good side instead of others....

Think before speaking no matter how bad you want to say something consider the person's emotions...it will help you avoid some mistakes and then issues

Op everybody gets scared of the dark one or twice in his/her life but what matters is how you handles it...

In the midst of the dark always imagine the positive things instead of the negative things...

Consciously speak in tongues in the dark if you can speak in tongues...

And most importantly never stop praying about it

Yes you can put it inside freezer and make sure that you have a very stable light if not it will all get worse

And ensure you cut in your desired size so that you can start cooking it as soon as you bring it out from the freezer

Hmmm...is better you talk to your mum about it but before you do that make her promise you that she won't make trouble with it or start hating anybody...

She should tell your uncle to allow you start small work so that you will save for school and personal needs

Please bro don't kill yourself o.. because killing yourself won't help the matter rather it will cus more problem even for you mum

And most importantly for the sake of your mind spend less time with that your uncle cos the people you spend time with influences you alot..

And don't hesitate to tell God all these problems and pray that he touches his heart to allow you do the small small jobs you are doing... A change of heart towards you...the heart of a king is in God's hands.. proverb 21v1

This rape thing is becoming too much and unbearable
I think the punishment for rape should be death by hanging
They castrate the beast involved with the pain and hang him to die slowly

Deuteronomy 30:19 "life and death have I set before you but therefore choose life that you and your offspring may live ". God has given us freewill to make choices. Pain and suffering are a result of man’s choices.If He had made a perfect world and beamed us down to enjoy it, He would effectively be rendering us parasites and not using all the capacities he gave us

Here it is not saying that you will die physically. The life He is talking about is an eternal life and the death is what will attract pain and suffering e.t.c.


Jeremiah 29:11, the thought he have for you are thought of good not of evil to give you an expected end.

When God have given us the freewill to make choices,one tend to forget to ask God for his perfect will and we follow our choice.


And most times we tend to follow our human nature which will always led us into temptation and the consequences of those temptation bring pain and suffering to us because some persons feel that they can't go to God with their flaws and therefore God allows them to pass through it because God can't get involved where they did not invite him and that’s why he gave us free will of choice and they have choosen the one to follow.
We are being made perfect in God. Perfection is not in our works and strength so we have to depend solely on God to always led you because that's the only way we can escape the daily atrocities because he will always order your footsteps and tell you how your day will be.

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Why does God keep allowing bad things to happen to people bwho worship and believe in him

The holy spirit is the spirit of God

Ohh..this is heart breaking oo
Ghanaian Government should please do something about this and as for the lady that poured the acid I think she should be held responsible to face the judgment

As a Sharp guy Kukuma allow them to finish primary and secondary school in Nigeria and get all these morals(which is essential in all society) and send them abroad for university education...by then they can easily make their choice of living

Op the only advice is for you to give your life to Christ and take care of your unborn children..

Use this one to learn your lesson and don't kill yourself so that those Ladies you impregnated won't suffer it alone and for your children to have a father...

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In this progressive era of sexual freedom and marriage is not important sermons, you're doing very well...

Sexual freedom.... Spiritual bondage
Let's call a spade a spade