Romance / Re: How Do I Handle A Stubborn Girlfriend? by shut(f): 11:59pm On Oct 07, 2015 |
tosyne2much: You show love and affection by being caring, tolerant and spending money yet they will still take you for granted
You refuse to spend and show affection, they tag you a stingy and an uncaring creature
I doubt if God Himself understands ladies ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) 1 Like 1 Share |
Romance / Re: How Do I Handle A Stubborn Girlfriend? by shut(f): 11:57pm On Oct 07, 2015 |
wasak: We started dating in 2011 after a year of asking her out. I just love her naturally not for anything. Admittedly, her stubbornness might be partly due to my over pampering at the initial stage of our relationship, I was naive but I think 4 years is actually a long time for the love to be balanced. At every point in time she claims she loves me more, but no evidence whatsoever to show for it. I don't want to venture into crazy things I've done for her, that's a story for another day. It appears she takes delight in frustrating me due to my simple nature, actually I can be stubborn too, but not with regards to relationship because I believe it's all about compromise. She's inconsiderate and selfish, always wants to have her way at all time even though I have to sacrifice my convenience for her umpteen times. I'm scared of settling down with a woman who'll finally kill me, I love her no doubt. But it appears love is not enough. Someone talk to me pls Why do good guys end up with not so good ladies and good ladies end up with not so good guys ![](/faces/huh.png) Lol it's a funny world out here. Dude, i take it you're mature that's why you ignore and just keep loving.She on the other hand is just being childish you need to sit her down and tell her how much she gets you pissed,tell her what attitude of her's you don't like and try iron things out. It's good to be understanding but bad when you always let her have her way.wonder why our parents don't always buy us chocolate when we cry for it? Goodluck ![wink](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/wink.png) 3 Likes 1 Share |
Education / Re: PHOTOS: See The Animal That Was Killed Inside UNIZIK, Awka Today by shut(f): 11:49pm On Oct 07, 2015 |
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Nairaland / General / Re: See What Was Seen At Abeokuta Ogun State Today (photos) by shut(f): 11:47pm On Oct 07, 2015 |
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Career / Re: 10 Professions In Nigeria You Can Still Practice Without Studying them by shut(f): 12:30am On Oct 06, 2015 |
Hahaha who's the mod that brought this up here?someone isn't doing his job |
Family / Re: A Sad Story Of A Virgin Married Woman - Ladies Learn by shut(f): 12:15am On Oct 06, 2015 |
Virgin after 20yrs of marriage? Wtf Feck those sick doctrines,I won't stay in such a marriage built on lies nd won't spare such a husband either. princeparix come and see Hope your stuff's battery isn't low ![cheesy](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/cheesy.png) 2 Likes |
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Politics / Re: Diezani Caught Trying To Buy Hyde-Park, London - TheSun.co.uk by shut(f): 5:42pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
Husssh so much steer at the moment. This is character murder to Nigeria as a whole, if you don't find offence with the words of the journalist,I do. Poor use of sarcasm ![sad](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/sad.png) 2 Likes |
Forum Games / Re: Who Caught The Fish?(photo) by shut(f): 4:12pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
shut:
No.2 guy.
Your eyes are not good enough ![tongue](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/tongue.png) Sorry,it's 3 ![cheesy](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/cheesy.png) |
Forum Games / Re: Who Caught The Fish?(photo) by shut(f): 4:06pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
LordEmmyG: I have being trying to figure this out for the past 30 minute. Hope you can? No.2 guy. Your eyes are not good enough ![tongue](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/tongue.png) |
Education / Re: Parents Should Stop Doing This Because Of Their Children's Future by shut(f): 3:01pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
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Politics / Re: OBJ & Buhari Pictured In 1978 Cutting The Tape At The Opening Of Warri Refinery by shut(f): 2:58pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
So GMB has been wearing these blind man's specs since time immemorial. ![lipsrsealed](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/lipsrsealed.png) 3 Likes |
Education / Re: Parents Should Stop Doing This Because Of Their Children's Future by shut(f): 2:55pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
My mum was so carefree,understanding and easy going. When I was at my college finals,she asked me repeatedly what I wanted,I was confused...I asked her what she wanted for me and she just smiled and said;" I want for you to be happy doing what you want". Since that day,she became not just my best friend but my confidant and god.God bless her soul ![cry](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/cry.gif) My dad on the other hand can be serious and strict with his subordinates but when it came to us,he could turn a mere baby ![cheesy](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/cheesy.png) Dad is just too understanding and calm and never spoke of his ambitions for us. He'll always say,"It's your life and your decisions to make,your life will always reflect your decisions.think twice,thrice and as much as possible before you decide ". I asked dad once why he never spoke too much,he said he never wants to share his views for our lives so we won't query him when if we failed ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) Thanks to my supportive parents ,I'm studying what I love ![smiley](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/smiley.png) and no thanks to them, I can't complain when it gets too tough ![cheesy](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/cheesy.png) 1 Like |
Education / Re: Parents Should Stop Doing This Because Of Their Children's Future by shut(f): 2:43pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
FriedPlantain: I have always known how to handle cars since I was a kid and I remember excitingly telling my dad my love for vehicles and why I would love to pursue a career as a truck driver or car washer in the future.
My dad didn't say a word, next thing I know, I was already at church for special deliverance. ![sad](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/sad.png)
Fast forward to 2015, I'm now a successful business man, selling and buying plantain in large quantities. You can ask about me anywhere in Mushin Olosha, I'm popularly known as Baba Ologede. Your dad wasn't wrong,I guess the pastor that did that deliverance wasn't strong enough. I recommend you try another deliverance I like your weird crazy personality tho ( ![kiss](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/kiss.gif) 1 Like |
Education / Re: Parents Should Stop Doing This Because Of Their Children's Future by shut(f): 2:39pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
Laitesmart: Whether educated or not... This post or thread is directed to all parents and even the intending parents can learn one or two things from this while those who were victims may also share theire experiences. . I was in SS1 to introduce the newly promoted students to Physics as a subject... I felt there is the need for me to ask them why they chose the science department even when some of them know how demanding the department could be... I was taken aback with some of the response i got from some of the students. A female told me categorically that her passion is to become a writer in the nearest future as she love reading poems and Novel but her mother was against it. I asked her what was on her mother's mind when she said no and she told me that her mum told her emphatically that there is no Nurse in the family and as such she has to be a nurse to fulfil her mum's wish... I was left dumbfounded as the girl has no other option but to obey her 'dear mum'. As if it wasnt enough, another told me he loves designing but his dad want him to be a Pilot and he doesnt have any option.
The matter above is somehow sensitive as even the so called educated fellows make the mistake of 'departmentalising' their kids if that Word exist in the english context.
The scenario reminded me of the movie 3 idiots that i watched back then and i had to prescribe it to the students to go watch with their parents...
Imagine what disastrous effect it would have had on their careers if MOHAMMAD ALI's father had forced him to be a musician and MICHEAL JACKSON's father had forced him to be a boxer...
I Shared my impression with a friend and he stated point blankly that this is one of the many reasons why our educational sector keeps falling beyond expectation... It isnt about what they want, rather, it is about what we the parents want.
Parents have totally forgotten that they are suppose to CHOOSE WITH their Children and Not CHOOSE FOR them when it comes to their careers...
We might be vastly experienced but we still need to respect the passion of our children...
Let the children know that they need to follow excellence and success will chase them pants down as stated by Ranchoddas Chalmadas Chanchad...
I have spoken... Can I kiss you please ![kiss](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/kiss.gif) |
Career / Re: Funny Pics Of How Some Management Treat Their Employees by shut(f): 2:26pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
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Politics / Re: Crocodile Discovered At Niger State Presidential Lodge - Thetrent by shut(f): 2:25pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
Lasticlala no picture ![undecided](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/undecided.png) |
Politics / Re: Do You Still Remember This Wonderful Woman? Picture. by shut(f): 2:22pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
shut: Hypocrites It's crazy how just a word could mean alot. Let's make it 500likes for all the hypocrites in the world ![wink](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/wink.png) 1 Like |
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Politics / Re: Bishop Matthew Kukah Diagnoses Buhari And Nigeria by shut(f): 4:24pm On Oct 04, 2015 |
And I've fallen in love with His Lordship. Very deep and truthful words.we need to ask ourselves questions, are we really ready?
Nigerians are Nigeria's problems 3 Likes 1 Share |
Business / Re: Throwback Photo Of Dangote (from Grace To More Grace) by shut(f): 3:59pm On Oct 04, 2015 |
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Business / Re: Throwback Photo Of Dangote (from Grace To More Grace) by shut(f): 3:57pm On Oct 04, 2015 |
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Politics / Re: Do You Still Remember This Wonderful Woman? Picture. by shut(f): 2:06am On Oct 04, 2015 |
Hypocrites 250 Likes 17 Shares |
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Celebrities / Re: An Epic Throwback Photo Of Timaya Struggling With His Shoes While Performing by shut(f): 10:39am On Oct 03, 2015 |
kilode100:
You so pissed you got Nada. Guys queued up to hand over 1k glo and I gladly accepted ![cheesy](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/cheesy.png)
Your pic defines everything you just typed. You are a broken woman with no prospect. Hahaha you just typing words with no worth. Do you hear yourself? Guys queued up to hand you 1k glo Hahaha you're a joke and Nothing more than a trash can. As for my pic,it's the worst I could come by taken some 4yrs ago. And hey I'm damn not broke nor do I settle for 1k airtime.I really wish you knew who you're having this nice convo with,I could help your life but you don't deserve not even a wink. |
Celebrities / Re: An Epic Throwback Photo Of Timaya Struggling With His Shoes While Performing by shut(f): 10:31am On Oct 03, 2015 |
kilode100:
Aunty feck you.
You're short of words already? I thought you'd enough shit in you. Okay I get it,you're just made of and sandwiched in shit. Go sew that Bermuda triangle close between your legs, you don't deserve to own one. Junk ![cheesy](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/cheesy.png) |
Celebrities / Re: An Epic Throwback Photo Of Timaya Struggling With His Shoes While Performing by shut(f): 10:28am On Oct 03, 2015 |
kilode100:
But you got your money worth while the going was good abi?
Pained Oloshi. ![cheesy](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/cheesy.png)
Still bellyaching over 1k glo wey I don use call my sugar daddy taytay. Oh so you really are a piece of shit. What a disgrace to womanhood. Dunce, scumbag, slut,cheap junk Help me with words please ![cheesy](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/cheesy.png) You so the definition of the words you use. |
Celebrities / Re: An Epic Throwback Photo Of Timaya Struggling With His Shoes While Performing by shut(f): 10:24am On Oct 03, 2015 |
kilode100:
Werey. So you will go down on that pile of junk? Dirty woman. Spits on her You know I was goan take zeusgrt advice nd go soft on you but I've come to notice that you're of a special specie of fools who don't understand the silent reply. I don't wanna bathe deep in the mud with you but girl you really need to grow up and get yourself a life. Calling someone who can buy your sorry arse and make you work as a slave for an amount your dad will only dream to see before his death a pile of junk is really a big joke. I'm no longer on this timaya ish,he's not even worth my typed letters neither are you worth my recognition. |