Hidewell: Good day, sirs and ma. I moved to Abuja to work as an Administrative assistant at (name withheld) close to Galadinmawa. The agreed pay with my employer was 50,000 which I accepted because I don't want to stay idle and I wanted to garner experience.
The Friend's house I stay is in Kagini. Those that know Abuja will know this place. The transportation cost from the house to my place of work is 1,100 and coming back same, which makes it 2,200 every day excluding Saturdays and Sundays.
After crossing my T's and dotting my i's I found out that The total cost is 2200 x25 days= 55,000 with a 5,000 deficit. The organization provide light breakfast and lunch. So, my food is a bit covered.
I am just confuse now. I talked to the organization for a pay rise but they gave me a stiff neck.
Please what will you advice me to do. I am seriously frustrated with the look of things. Do you think it's worth it.
P.s. I have worked for a month there now. I am scared my friend will complain that I am not contributing.
. I'm drained and frustrated.
Start looking for somewhere else to work or think of something else to do. Because you are effectively paying transport to eat subsidized for daily.
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Ahead of Nigeria vs Guinea Bissau super Eagles stars Victor Osimhen and Samuel Chukwueze led praise and worship in the Super Eagles camp during the new players' initiation.
The Nigerian super eagle faces Guinea Bissau tomorrow in the Africa Cup of Nation Qualification.
It is the Guinea "Basuu" in the video intro for me.
You tried, but there’s a missing link in this your script.
How come you didn't know your ex married your wife's brother until they come visiting to beg for help? Did they not attend your marriage or did you not attend theirs? Depending on who married first. Abeg, this story no straight.
Las Las na super story.
VeniJu: This life, just like a fan rotates, can change at any given time.. What would have been a tragic heart break turned out to be a blessing in disguise. I'll be brief with this.
I met my Ex., a beautiful charming and wonderful young girl of 20 in the University. We dated for two years. During this period, I was supporting her in ways I can. (Normal lady's requests) Later, things became a bit rough and tough. She started acting. I saw the signs from how she responds to my calls, no much visits as she used to, given excuses and all. I pleaded with her to be patient and believe in God for a better change. (Not the APC Change) but she openly told me "I no fit suffer"
I felt bad because like a flash, she seem to have forgotten the good days. And that was it. Two months later, I decided to give love a chance again. I met this beautiful and curvy lady of about 24. I shoot my shot and boom! Were off. Everything a man could ever want was in her. And she was like and Angel because after we started dating, things immediately turned around for the best. As fate would have it, she turned out to be a sister to the man my Ex. ended up with. We got married, and moved to Abuja. Life was sweet with her.. One day, she told me her brother and his wife would be visiting us and I said there's no problem.
Days later, on a weekend, we we're seeing a movie at home when her phone rang. It was her brother and the wife at the gate. She went to usher them in as the gate man instead they should call for confirmation. When they got in, the whole atmosphere changed... Like a dream, I was shocked to see that the wife was my Ex who didn't want to suffer. Apparently life hasn't been good to them and they needed help. I asked them to give us some time to see what we can do... (Honestly, I don't feel like helping) Though my wife is pleading on their behalf.
While I brought this up is to encourage men out there. Do not feel rejected because a woman left you. She might actually be an obstacle to your progress. It might be tough and painful. But see it as a blessing.
FanOfMyself: Over 2 million naira when converted. She's not Nigerian of course. She really changed my life, even before I got a job I have already bought land. I'm grateful for meeting her. Don't know if I will ever meet her in person, but I own her a lot. She's still there for me. She's even younger than me sef.
EagleEyes794: This life get as e be o. I have only received one clean #100 note when I was 10yrs old and that was during Christmas festival�. Ever since then nobody send my Papa.
Within the week, I have heard at least two women complaining seriously about how their mothers-in-law have become threats to their respective marriages.
So, what are the major pain points between mothers & daughters-in-law? How can these be resolved amicably for a peaceful family?
Guys usually bear the brunt in most cases when there is quarrel between wife and mother. How have you been able to settle yours?
Go and recheck Google, make sure you give phone to any of your friends who understand basic English language, ..........I would rather means preference or what you want, in this context that you married, provided you married. It's wrong to say I would rather.
"Comprehension in my previous comment changed to comprehensive by phone."
Before I say goodbye to you I will advice you to go and marry.When you truly married you will understand nitty gritty of marriage.
Its everyone who lacks comprehensive, no wonder you reason like clown. Nevertheless let me teach you a little bit of secondary school English language.
According to dictionary, would is past of will, and these articles are expressing future tense. What is future? Something that's yet to be done, still ahead or not yet achieved.
Meanwhile, going by ur post, I would rather marry graduate posted, implied you are yet to marry and[b] it was expression of type of woman you wished to marry.[/b]
Can a guy who is already in university be saying I would rather attend private primary school? He can only wish that to himself if there is opportunity to come to the world for second time, and better still for his kids.
......If I come to the world the second time I would rather go to private primary school.
Google is your friend. See what google said about "I would rather". Meanwhile, until you correct those grammatical and syntax errors I highlighted, I won't respond to any of your daft comments.
I really do not want to dignify you with a response because the gibberish you spewed showed that you do not only lacked comprehension but also common sense.
However, I will educate you on the part you bolded, "For me, I would rather marry someone with sharp reasoning and understanding", and asked of its implied meaning. Simply put, I would rather, only shows preference. For instance, if I have a Toyota and my friend tries to tell me about all the good qualities of Benz, I can tell him I would rather have a Toyota. That doesn't in any way suggests that I haven't had a Toyota before. It only shows my preference for Toyota.
Jashub: OP, you're not even married and you're giving advice. So how do you expect anyone here to take you seriously....? Go and marry before commenting on what you have no knowledge of.
Comprehension! Nothing in the write up suggests that I'm not married.
Assuming I'm not even married, don't I read books? Do I leave in some isolated desert places or other planets? Are the Rev. Fathers that join people in marriages and give advice about successful marriages themselves married?
Some guys go to school or learn trade, get established financially, then scout for 'not too educated ladies' to marry. Some of the reasons people give to justify their decisions in this regard include that they are more loyal and submissive. That seemed to have worked to an extent in pre-social media era.
These days, nothing can be a grave mistake than marrying an illiterate, semi-literate or half educated lady because of loyalty and submissiveness.
From my observation, these days, 'the not too educated ladies' are the most: insecure, myopic in reasoning, disrespectful and arrogant in marriage. Plus the fact that most times they lack planning & management skills in the face of this harsh economic climate. To avoid unnecessary quarrels, like should marry like, so that they can reason in the same direction.
For me, I would rather marry someone with sharp reasoning and understanding.