Well,it goes beyond what most people would rather want do,that is apportioning
blames to one parent or the other.

The fact is that two parents brought a child to the world and for this reason they should
strive to do the right thing by monitoring their children together.

Life is good.

Parents should henceforth make up their minds to please come together and take care of their
children.They are the parents' future,hence they should not be neglected.

I don't know why this is happening to us in this country.
Are we a nation of cursed people?

You see almost everybody that tries to establish something for themselves
get this kind of frustration from those they have invited to come and eat.

This is the reason why people have not been seeing others to help them out
of their financial wahala.

I was in this kind of situation before,but unlike your own ,l had an Okada which
the rider finally spoilt and put aside to get another one from another person.

We need to change our thinking in this country to success as a nation .

I can't agree less with the piece of advice already given above.Get your keys
from this wicked pair or else you will die of hypertension.

Why don't you just say the truth ?

The real problem with ladies these days is that most of them
feel their teenage years will never end yet they want to be respected
as a madam.

Well, you can't have the best of the two worlds.You either remain
single (even at age Thirty)or you get to your marital home with immediate
effect.

I'm talking from experience because l married my wife when she was already
27 years of age.However,we were met with many problems because we had a
least two miscarriages,one still-birth and two living teenagers to show for our
marriage.

My wife is now 50 years of age and she stopped menstruating many years ago
we she was in her mid-forties.

I agree everybody's body chemistry is not the same,but there is also what we
call body clock for women.You can never continue to have your eggs forever
and ever.It will finish one day for sure.

Be realistic.Get married when you can still get the fruits of the womb with great
joy to every person concerned - including your parents and in-laws.

It's high time we started to think about our future in this country.

What l understand is the fact that no employer of labour will keep
you till eternity.

You're just a tool for their personal use and gain.

However, I'll advise everybody to start thinking about how to own
their personal businesses in order to secure a brighter future for
yourself and your children.

Self-employment is the answer to all this heart-breaking exercise
by banks and other employers.

It's not difficult to have your own business,though you may have
to miss all those enjoyment you had in your last place of work,but
you have a guarantee in the fact that you are your own employer
and you can do whatever you like with your time and money.

Just tell us you got married for the wrong reason,simple as that!

I've been married to my wife for 24 years now and we've had our ups
and downs yet we're still together enjoying the relationship.

If you've taken your time to study the partner you intend to get married to,then
you should not be regretting the whole affair today.

I love everybody's contributions.However, l just want to point this fact out:No two children are the same.

Every child should be allowed to do the potty thing when he/she is ready on his/her own.That way you won't even find him/her resisting the push to the toilet to do the thing.

Why don't we parents learn to be patient with our little princes and princesses?We seem to get ourselves worked up anytime we see another person's child doing one thing or the other and our own child is yet to do same more so when they happen to be age mates.

Have we quickly forgotten the fact that there is what we call "Individual differences" in human beings.Let the child grow up according to his own nature.Who know he could be a late starter who will end up doing much more than the fast learner of today later in life.

Take caution,Please!

I've been enjpying a blissful marriage for twenty one years.

Do you know why?

Well, l informed my parents who did the correctthings in accordance
with our tradition and culture.

Believe me,l don't know of any marriage that lacks the parental
blessings that ever last long.

You "modern children" may want to argue about this,but,
l know what l'm talking about.If you do your research very well.
you wiln realised that the trust is being said here.

All the same,nhow that you have done the correct thing,

May God bless the marriage ,Amen!

Sikaz
www.parentingparadise.com
http://parentingsecretswithkazeem..com

Never relent! Keep at it.

The fact is that you may just be very close to the
door of your oportunity just as you are about to
pause and throw in the towel.

NEVER ,EVER, QUIT!

Sikaz
www.parentingparadise.com
http://parentingsecretswithkazeem..com

You are just spot,tpia!

Most parents are running after material things
forgeting that their children are very much important
in this matter.

If you fail to train your children and continue to acquire
wealth,who takes over after your departure, the untrained
child?

Kudos to those who are doing their best to bring up good
children for the future of the nation.

We all need to acquire some lessons in parenting before
we venture into bringing the children into the world.

Sikaz
www.parentingparadise.com
http://parentingsecretswithkazeem..com

We have to put sentiments apart,my dear.

If you think l want to make money hence the question
you are really wrong.I'm a school administrator in Lagos
State(one of the Senior Secondary schools)if you care to
know this.

I've got well over twenty-four years of teaching in the kitty,so
l know what I'm talking about here.I'm also a father of two
teenage boys,the elder of who is twenty years old.

We see,meet and discuss with teenagers everyday.And this
was what informed my interest in my Niche - PARENTING.

The simple question is still unanswered by you and l look
forward to reading your sincere opinion about this very
important topic.

I've never( and I'll NEVER) condemned anybody's parenting efforts
or lack of it.

Thank you for your response to this question.

I'm your friend and I'm very much interested in improving our society
through the right PARENTING ACTIVITIES.

l feel very much concerned about this topic.

Sikaz
www.parentingparadise.com
http://parentingsecretswithkazeem..com

Running away is not the end of the problem you are facing
right now.

This thing happens to everybody in every home and it cuts
across race,tribes,regions and continent.

You are a teenager,my dear, and that means your parents
have to watch over you if they must prove to the world that
they are responsible parents(which l feel they are).

You should count yourself lucky for having a daddy like yours
who feels so responsible that he talks to you all of the time-
but you don't seem to appreciate this fact about him.

What you need to do now is to establish a BIG Communication
base between you and your father.I would appreciate it if you will
take the lead in this instance.

Your father is becoming gilttery because you are coming of age and
he fears that something may go wrong when you are allowed the
"freedom" you are talking about.

Give him your words of assurance.Make him know that you
understand his fears about unwanted pregnancy and a disgrace
to the family through such.

Your old man will be shocked at first because you don't seem to be
having that kind of relationship going at present.You should not
worry much because he will later see reason with you; he will realise
that you now seem to understand his point-of-view regarding the
matter at hand.

Try the above and let's see the result.

You may want to read my articles on the need for communications
between parents and their teenage children and how to go about it.

Visit my sites below.

Sikaz
www.parentingparadise.com
http://parentingsecretswithkazeem..com

This truly the endtime.Nobody should be surprised about this.
It isn't the first time such news will be announced to the world,
is it?

The thing is that the world is coming to an end whether you believe
it or not.

But my own question has always been:
"How does it feel being on top of ones own daughter while having sex?"

It is disgusting,to say the least.

Sikaz
www.parentingparadise.com
http://parentingsecretswithkazeem..com

I want to know your feelings about this important topic.

The reason for this is that everyday we get to hear and
read about young ones going into activities that suggest
that there most Nigerian parents are either failing in their
duties as parents or that they do not even know what to do
to take care of their children.

Most people only plan for their wedding but fail to plan for
fatherhood or motherhood-parenting generally.

What do you think about this?

I believe that if Nigerian parents are mindful of what their
responsibilities are as parents they need to curb most of
the things that are happening to the youths(their children)
in our society today.

Tell us what you think about thew way Nigerian parents are
treating matters that concern this all important aspect of our
lives as a nation.

Sikaz.
www.parentingparadise.com
http://parentingsecretswithkazeem..com

Vitti dear, l don't subscribe to that kind of language.
We as Nigerians should begin to learn fine and
distinguishing language to use online and offline.

That done, l wil like to respond to your question as
regards the exclusion of Liverpol.

It's just a simple matter of logical reasoning and the natural
law of number.

Liverpool was played out for now because they don't seem to enjoy
so much followership like the three, at least for now.

You should be sincere on this , my dear.

I plan some other books in the nearest future.

All the same, l welcome your challenge, and l assure you
more work will be done to include Liverpool FC - a Winner
any day!

Cherio!
Sikaz

Hi everybody,
I've just written a set of books( actually they are soccer quiz books on ARSENAL, CHELSEA and MANCHESTER UNITED)with each club having well over 500 questions to try out.

This is fantastic and think the supporters of these club would enjoy every bit of the questions - they are realy challenging .

For your personal sample copy send email to :
sikirulai @gmail.com
kazeem.olukayode@gmail.com

Hi Friends,

Most young graduates complain of unemployment yet they have in them what they
need to make a living without seeking any job outside there home.

You don't believe me,ehn?
Well, the truth is that nobody does.The realities around us is somehow beyond
belief when you have been subjected to long, endless and fruitless walks all around
the place in your search for a paid employment.

Create a job for yourself. Write for a living.
It is so simple, easy and convenient that you will be amazed when you know what it takes.

Become a freelance writer and get paid in dollars for the jobs you do for your
clients on the internet.

To know more about how to do this freelance thing, you should get in touch with me
through the following number:

08023339470 (SMS Only Please)

Or
E-mail: omomowo1@yahoo.com
sikirulai@gmail.com
l look forward to helping you make a living on-line as a writer instead of going on
endless journeys to places where there are no jobs for you.

Your,
Sikirulai

Well much as l agree with some of the suggestions made by the good naijaz, l feel highly
disappointed that a Nigerian graduate could be asking this kind of question.

This is the big shortcoming in our educational system as Nigerian undergraduates have
never been exposed to entreprenueral skill development.

You are not the only one, l must confess, because l've a lot of guys around me here that l'm
inspiring to begin to think for themselves instead of thinking that the course of study they passed
through for four/five academic seasons will be the only thing they can pursue for a living.

Listen to me good, there is no job anymore.And even if there is, our undergraduate should begin
to think about what they can do to earn some money and supplement whatever their parents are giving them as pocket money.

Right now, l put people like you through what they can do for themselves instead of waiting for job
that are not even available.

There are so many work you can create for yourself and earn a decent living.Spome of you mates may even have to
run to you for some pocket money.

Feel free to contact me at this addresses:

sikirulai@gmail.com
omomowo1@yahoo.com

I remain a true hardworking naija,
Sikaz