Tenaj:
Most ladies are not like this though... But guys shouldn't use this as an excuse to be stingy too

Nice one from you, You're right.

. . Ladies’ handbag – 7k Men’s wallet – N700 ******* Ladies’ fixing of hair – 5k Men’s haircut – N200 ******* Ladies’ fixing of nails – 1k Men’s Blade – N10 ******* Ladies’ Bra – 1.5k Men’s singlet – N300 ******* Set of G-string – 1.5k Men’s boxers – N300 ******** Ladies’ make-over kit – 10k Men’s handkerchief – N100 ******** Time Men’s spent time to dress up – 20mins Ladies’ spent time to dress up – 1:30mins ******** Men’s time to get haircut – 30mins Ladies’ time to get hair fixed – 2days ¤ Bonus ¤ How many barbers needed To cut Men’s hair – 1 How many hairstylists needed to make ladies hair – 3 . . TRUE....Or False? ??.

I have noticed something about this life...dont know if you guys have noticed too....
You Fat..... Dey say You be Orobo
You Slim.....Dey say You be Lepa
You Fine.....Dey say You be Mermaid
You Ugly....Dey say You be Witch
You Tall.......De say You be Ogolo
You Short....De say You be Dwarf
You Rich......De say You be Ritualist
You Poor...De say You be Lazy Man
You Talk....De say You be Talkative
You Quite....De say You be Mumu
You get gf/bf...De say You Bad
You No get.....De say u be Gay/Lesbian
You Intelligent....De say u dey to oversabi
You no sabi.....De say u be slowpoke
You dress well....De say u de Show
You dress bad....De say u Dirty .
You go mosque/ Church...De say u too Holy
You no go mosque/ church...De say u b Sinner
Abeg wetin person go ever do in dis World wey dey no go complain.....
Just Be Yourself bcoz u can never be good for everyone...dem go still talk.
I-Am-Me

You'll feel it's pride when you call and they don't pick up..
You feel it's pride when your messages are seen but still ignored
You feel it's pride when you really want to mingle & relate with them but they're always not close by..
These same people were your peers, who worked tirelessly & consistently through out the night just to be excellent & impeccable while you was on a big bed sleeping & snoring like a boofhead. Now they've set good standards for themselves that you don't understand and all you'll say is "They Have PRIDE"
Baba, chill oh.. ABRANTE! You for look sharp..It's time you put yourself together, work on your mindset and get back to WORK.. That thing you just called "Pride" was the "Hard work" you've been ignoring..
Master your craft and be the best at it, as long as you have what to trade (Quality) these people will have no choice but to partner with you..

1- call her like twice daily

2- don't wait until she ask yu for money,give out freely.

3 - Don't tell her she's boring

4 - kiss her on her forehead

5- whenever she tell you she's missing you, and you are not around, try your best to see her that day.

6-play with her like your sister

7- whenever she tells you,baby am sorry, try to forgive/forget.

8have special time with her and tell her how beautiful she is.

9- Don't make her cry.

10- if she cry, kiss her tears and tell her she's beautiful.

11- introduce her to your friends.

12- don't promise her heaven and earth when you don't have it.

13- hold her on her waist while walking together to make her feel protected.

14- Tell her how special she is.

15- Don't engage her with a ring if u are not sure to marry her, because women do normally get hurt.. and they Can cry nonsense

16- she's your baby , handle her with care.

17-text her in the morning and tell her you miss her.

18. Don't lay your hands on her.

19. Correct her privately when she's wrong in the public.

20. Don't buy her the world with everything but buy her your attention.

They told her to leave her husband because she's worth more than him. They told her she's beautiful and successful, that a woman of her standard deserves a better man with a better job income and personality . She listened to them and abandoned her home.
It has been over 7yrs since then and she's still looking for a better man that matches her standard. The funniest part is that those friends who told her to leave her man are still with their own husbands, doing everything possible to save their homes.
Be very careful from who and where you take your relationship and marriage advice. The only advice you can get from a fool is a foolish advice. Anyone who recommends divorce or break up to you at every slight argument with your partner is an enemy that appears like friend.
A lazy man and a poor man are never the same. If a man doesn't have today does not mean he will be lacking for life. As long as he's GOD fearing, loving, caring, and appreciative of your efforts, you don't have to worry yourself. There are only two ways to regret in life. BEFORE AND AFTER. A woman who choose never to be patience for a while might ends up enduring for life. Marriage is not a bed of roses.
Becarefull of this
Don't Marry Because of SEX,
Don't Marry because you are getting OLD,
Don't Marry because you are of AGE,
Don't Marry because you are LONELY,
Don't Marry because you Need someone to Support you FINANCIALLY. Don't Marry because you Mistakenly Got PREGNANT for Him, Don't Marry because you don't want to LOSE the person, Don't Marry because of Family PRESSURES,
Don't Marry because you Like the IDEA Of
Marriage, Don't Marry because of PITY or Out of PITY, Don't Marry because of TRIBE, Don't Marry because you Admire of WEDDING GOWN you See, Don't Marry because you Love KIDS,
Don't Marry because all your Friends are
getting Married, Don't Marry because of Physical/ Academic Qualifications.
BUT..
Marry Because you want to Fulfil Destiny...
Pls stay safe dearies

1. A first class degree won't make you a first class wife rather your submission and respect will.
2. The woman who respects her husband is the best wife anyone would ever have.
3. Your character and attitude will go a long way in determining if your husband will wish he never Regret getting married to you..
4. To be a great wife, you need more anger management skills than nagging skills.
5. Be a leader at work, or anywhere else but be a companion at home.. It's wisdom!
6. Don't compete with your husband; compliment him.
7. Your strength is in humility and submission, not in strife and contention.
8. Be tender, every man respects a tender woman but firm.
9. Never try to punish your husband by starving him of food or Sex, he maybe forced to get it outside.
10. There is nothing wrong in accepting that you are wrong when you are wrong.
11. Prepare to forgive your husband if he wrongs you. For a forgiving wife is better than a vengeful one.
12. Make a decision to be a good wife, you will need it in the long run..
Please be a good wife!!!

Humanoid01:
Is there ever a moment when comparison is good?

No comparison does and makes one less of the other it is never good to compare

I usually wonder why most relationships collapsed but I've discovered why. It's because most compare their relationship with others.
In fact comparing yourself with your mate will lead you to early grave. Haa my mate has done his/her concert Olorin Agbaye lo wa sibe, I must do mine they must gbaa, my mates is this my mate is that, you will just die on untimely. See your time is different from that of your friends, relatives, colleagues, neighbor e.t.c. just wait for yours. Get wisdom and in all thy getting get understanding.
The fact that your fiancée is not spending money on you now does not mean he won't make it. Forget about I need a lovely gown, high-heel, Brazilian hair, Gucci bag, iPhone 7 and all that. Reason with him. Plan your future together. Pray together and lots more.
Now to married couples...don't kill your husband because your neighbor's husband is riding the latest car. Your neighbor's husband time is different from yours. Give him peace of him. It is when he have peace of him that he will think straight. A settled mind is a settled destiny.
Wazzuppi youths....have a cordial relationship with your parents, listen to them. They are your small gods. After God, they are next in command.
Lastly, if you don't have peace of mind you might not be fulfilled. Relax your mind. Leave what you can't handle for God. Let's His will be done. It is when you stay in His will that He will pay your bill.
I challenge you to stop comparing yourself with others.
Stop comparing your marriage with others, there's no perfect marriage anywhere. We go dey manage ourselves dey go.
Stop comparing your work with others. Your mission is different.................MAYG
ODHEALTHEWORLD

During your 20s, men are trooping and everyone wants to marry you. They are all over you. Your WhatsApp doesn’t rest. Your messenger is filled up. If you breath on Facebook, you will get 400 likes and 350 comments.
You can’t walk on the street without ssshhh ssshhh. Your breasts are very comely at this time. Your lips are succulent and your legs are smooth. Even if you are ugly, it doesn’t show much at this level of your life because everything is still standing tall. The backside is still very nicely shaped and bouncing properly.
Now, the mistake most of the ladies make is this:
1. At this level, you easily dump guys in relationship. Any little thing, you break up. In your mind, there are many fishes in the ocean. Over 20 other guys are bothering you for relationship, so you can easily hook up with another guy. After six months, you break up again and start another one. You are like hot akara. You cannot bend down and build a solid relationship nor learn how to tolerate a man and work on your own self. At this age, feminism dey shack you well. You no send anybody. You no wan hear advice at all. For your mind, this kind post na rubbish.
2. At this level, some ladies want to show everything: the boobs are still standing, so she can snap to show it. The buttocks are nice, so she can display it anyhow. You sell the romantic skin like akara. Every guy in the neighborhood is coming to take his own share. Even married men are collecting their own. Everyone is collecting and walking away. For your mind, marriage no go hard.
3. At this point, you don’t lack anything. Men are giving you all you need. You’re not working but your airtime is never below 10k on the phone. Shoes and classic clothes are unaccountable in your wardrobe, yet you are not doing any job. Life is beautiful and that’s exactly how your life is depreciating with speed.
A time will finally come when your age has really increased very well. The boobs are needing pillar support and the buttocks are no longer comely anymore but rather ‘loosing’, the face has a lot of pimples and holes. Many things have gone wrong. The tummy is out by the day, your local government is beginning to have some kind of mature odour and the armpits are darker. The waist tires are forming with speed.
At this point, days turn to months and month turn to years. It will always look nearly, but something will just happen, the guy will disappear. You will start following another guy with hope for marriage, like play like play, that one go just chop you run away.
The fear and worry of menopause will even make you age faster. By this time, all the multiple guys you slept with both the ones from a cursed family and the ones from ancestral curses. All those things that make guys rush after you are gone like a movie. At this time, you become emergency Christian. All your posts are about Jesus and church things. Any comment you make, Jesus must enter. Even when football is being discussed you must find a way to add Jesus to it. For your mind, you dey deceive guys abi? You want them to see wife material in you. Suddenly you learn manners, all the multiple people you had relations with, the battle is now more spiritual than physical. All the curses married women were laying on you for sleeping with their husbands are now controlling your life. Not even Mary Kay can remove all that mess!
At 40, a guy is still young but a lady of 35 is more like a “Christian mother.”
What is my point? Make haste while the sun shines to avoid had I known. Don’t while away your time playing games with men. I am not saying a lady cannot marry at 35 neither am I saying one should rush into marriage neither am I mocking those who are above 30 and still single, I still am not saying only those who marry at 25 have the best marriages. I am only saying, don’t waste your time sleeping around when you should accept a man and settle down.
Imagine you are around 30-35 years, at this point, only men of older age like 40-45 will come to marry you because young guys of 30-35 won’t like to marry a lady of 30-35 but unfortunately, those guys of 40-45, most of them are married. They even married girls of 22-27. They will still look so young at 40 but a lady of 35 will look like their senior sister. Ladies age faster. That’s why a girl of 16 can be looking so mature, guys would be wooing her but a guy of 18 would still be looking like 13 years old boy. It also applies to old age.
This might not actually be applicable in all cases, not all single ladies at 30s were slay queens, but the message remains, “make hay while the sun shines.

I got married suddenly at the age of fifteen. I returned from school one day and my mother surreptitiously dragged me into her room. The look in her eyes made me tremble with fear.
“Fidausi, your father is giving you out this week,” she told me bitterly. I could sense from her tone that she was not happy.
She’d been very enthusiastic about me going to school. According to her, her childhood friend Hajara who sometimes visited us and gave us some beverages and foodstuff had gone to school, found a very good job, lived in a big house, bought a big car and married a rich man.
Mama believed that she too would have ended up like Hajara if her own parents were as enlightened and rich as Hajara’s.
“If my parents were as rich as Hajara’s parents, I would never have ended up in your father’s house.” She always lamented sorrowfully.
I usually felt bad whenever she talked in that manner. The palpable bitterness in her tone made me sick. It seemed that there was a vacuum so large that she wanted me to fill. She usually told me that if I could study so hard I would definitely grow richer than her friend Hajara.
It was for this reason that I studied hard.
I remembered when I was leaving primary school in beautiful colours, my teacher had advised my father to make sure I at least completed my secondary school.
“She is a very brilliant girl and must be encouraged Sir,” Miss Chinwe, my teacher had told my father.
“Certainly, I will make sure she goes to secondary school.” My father promised but he never did.
It was Aunty Lola who was a nurse in my area that put me in school. Aunty Lola was known to all in our village. She liked me so much because at dawn I would sweep the entire clinic before leaving for school. I usually helped them to fetch water from the borehole too.
When my mother told me that afternoon that my father was giving me out, I felt anger surged through my bones. I hadn’t expected in my wildest dreams that such a thing would ever happen to me. I was already in JSS3 and doing greatly. If I was allowed to finish, I was sure that my performance would be outstanding.
I ran to Aunty Lola that evening to tell her what my father was planning to do. She was very furious.
“No, lai lai! That is not fair. He can’t do a thing like that.” She screamed in disgust.
She went to talk to my father about it but he remained audacious about it. He told her bluntly that the decision had already been taken.
“If her husband desires for her to return to school, he will send her back to school. What use is educating a girl child when her life will be spent outside her father’s house?” he told Aunty Lola that day.
So, against my wish and will, I was married to Adamu. He was forty one at that time and already married to two other women who had each given him four children. He was a farmer. I was told that my father’s bosom friend, Mallam Kabiru was the go-in-between.
Because I was the only ‘literate’ wife that he married, he promised that he was not going to let me bend my back in the farm with the other wives. But all that ended after I had my first daughter, Hauwa. He pushed me to the farm and became very hostile. It got worse when I became pregnant with my second daughter. According to him, I was a liability. Before my second pregnancy I got a job as a sales girl at a fuel station but he deprived me from working there.
According to him, I was going to be exposed and corrupted by some of the young girls working there. No one feels threatened by literacy and civilization as he. His inferiority complex and insecurity could consume ten elephants.
One day, seven months into my pregnancy, I was too weak to go to the farm and complained to him. He insisted that I must come along and threatened that if I didn’t, I was going to regret ever knowing him.
I was already living in regrets. In spite of his threats, I refused to go to the farm that day. That was the beginning of my woes. He stopped giving me food and began to treat me like trash. His first wife was the one that would sneak in sometimes to bring me food in my hut. My daughter and I grew pale and sick. One day, I decided to take the matter to the community chief. When my husband was summoned, he told the chief that he was no longer interested in marrying me.
“No, you can’t say that now having already made her pregnant.” The chief told him. “You put her in this condition and must fend for her and her child until she is delivered of the baby.”
So reluctantly, he began to give us food to eat but still detested me.
Three months after I had my second child, I gathered my things and left for my village. I could not bear the harsh treatment anymore. My parents called him but he said he was not interested in the union again. I later heard that he was getting married to another woman.
Disappointed, my mother challenged my father in my presence for the very first time. “When are you sending me to my own father’s house? Can you see how you men destroy the lives of women? Can you see how you treat us as rags? You destroyed me. Now, you have destroyed your first daughter.”
Every passing day, like I always did when I was still with my husband, I would cry on end. One day, after we returned from my father’s farm, I met my daughter lying down on the bench shivering. I quickly fetched water and bathed her. I gave her Paracetamol and it helped in bringing down the temperature. But at dawn, she got worse. Aunty Lola had gone to her village for her traditional marriage and her clinic had been shut down since she left. I could only take my daughter Hauwa to the chemist. My mother had given me four hundred naira to buy some drugs.
“Please take her to the hospital,” I was told at the chemist.
I was shocked when the chemist man advised me to take Hauwa to the hospital because even though she was ill, she didn’t look malnourished.
My mother suggested I call the father. He hadn’t bothered to come and see his children since we left his house. Not even once did he call to ask about us not to talk of sending us money for the kids’ upkeep.
When I called Adamu, he sent a motorcycle rider to come and pick us up. The motorcyclist took us to a clinic where he and one of his cousins were waiting.
The physician that attended to my daughter said that she needed blood. Adamu said he just returned from the farm and didn’t think he had the strength to give his daughter blood! He sent for a nephew of his who came in a motorcycle. According to Adamu, his nephew was more eligible to give Hauwa blood because he was chubby and much younger.
When the nephew was tested and the blood matched, he complained that he had not eaten and would like to eat before he would let anyone take blood from him. The apathetic attitude of these people gave me goose bumps. I watched feebly as Adamu with his cousin and nephew leave the clinic for the canteen.
“We will be back soon,” he told me nonchalantly.
I wish I could donate the blood myself but the physician had earlier said I could not because I was still breastfeeding my baby who at that time was eight months old. Tearfully, I held my three years old daughter in my arms and began to wait patiently for them.
A Fulani man was washing his feet in front of a well at the clinic. When my daughter saw him, she pointed at him weakly and signaled that she was thirsty. I got up and went out to by her a pack of sachet water. I let her head rest on my shoulder as I carried her to where I bought the water.
It was when I returned with her to the clinic that I sensed for the very first time that she was dead. Hauwa my daughter died like a cockroach while we waited for her father and his relatives to return from the canteen and give her blood.
Like a pack of cards, my world came crashing before me. Her father’s people returned and took her corpse away for burial.
If I thought tragedy was done with me, I was wrong. Exactly one week after Hauwa died and was buried, my second daughter took ill. Aunty Lola was not back yet. I called Adamu and he again sent a motorcyclist to come and pick me up. Like Hauwa, my second daughter Aisha died in my arms on our way to the clinic.
In one week, motherhood slipped miserably from my arms.
When Aunty Lola returned, she advised me to dust my school bag and go back to school. I began to work with her and because schools were on holiday at that time, she got me two private teachers to coach me at her clinic in the evenings.
I was beginning to get my life back together again and hoping to return to school when Adamu came with his people one evening to see my father. They began to beg and he said they had discovered that his second wife was the one who through spiritual means turned his heart away from me.
I don’t know how much they gave to my father because he was grinning from ear to ear and was in total support of me embarking on another journey to slavery.
I was also surprised to see my mother smiling in total submission. It was when she winked at me knowingly that I sensed she had a plan. Upon their departure, Adamu gave my mother some money and gave me two five hundred naira notes. My mother promised him that I was going to return to his house in two days.
“We will bring her the day after tomorrow,” she said.
Another wink at me confirmed totally that Mother was being mischievous. Even my father did not know that she had a plan.
It was at night that she took me secretly to Aunty Lola’s clinic where we planned my exit from the village the next day. Surreptitiously, I gathered few of my clothing with my books and hid them at Lola’s place. Aunty Lola gave me ten thousand naira and my mother gave me four thousand. It was the money that Adamu had given her.
“Your father sent you on a journey which produced a bad result and put us all in grief and sorrow. I am sending you now on another journey. Go my daughter and make us proud.” As my mother spoke, tears rolled down her eyes. I promised to make her proud that night.
Very early in the morning the next day, Aunty Lola drove me in her car to the park where I boarded a bus to Abuja. It was where my mother’s friend Hajara lived at that time. My mother had already talked with her on the phone and she agreed that I should come.
I was told that my father threatened fire and brimstone when he heard that I had disappeared. He was told that I was eighteen years old and could decide what to do with my life myself. When Adamu came days later to throw tantrums, Aunty Lola gave my mother twenty thousand naira to pay him off. I doubt if he spent as much as that marrying me.
Many years have passed. I am now a resident doctor in Turkey where I graduated with flying colours. But for Haiiya Hajara, my life would have been a total mess. She put all her resources together to ensure that I got the best education. I have turned the story of my family around and proved to all that failure is not a total defeat but a stair walk to success.
Only last month, I sent thirty thousand dollars to the chief of my community for palliatives and medical materials to help fight the COVID 19 pandemic.
I am forever grateful to all those who made this second journey of mine a success. I am the first medical doctor from my village and now a role model and story of what nearly became impossible that later turned to good story.

1. Families are healing, couples are rebonding, side-chicks are in trouble
2. Men have realized that they can survive without Football... It's now 4 weeks without Premier League and nobody dies.
3. We have all agreed that life is more important than any other thing... The phrase "Health is wealth" has been justified.
4. As a nation, we have all realized how important Agriculture is to the Economy... Now that the borders are closed, should we drink crude oil ?
5. Neighbors are getting to know themselves better... Some have even realized that they are classmates at Primary School.
6. Husbands are now realizing how sweet it is to help out in the kitchen and house chores... It makes everyone happy.
7. Fathers are now realizing that playing with their kids and bonding with them is not such a big deal.
8. Men are beginning to enjoy Zee World, they have no option... No Football, no going outside.
9. Men are forced to see how beautiful and sexy their wives are... When conji enter your eye, you go see am by force.
10. Side Chicks are seeing the importance of been independent... At least after this lockdown, some will go learn trade, others will become sales girls and leave people's husbands alone.
11. Mothers In-law are happy, grandchildren are coming. You have no excuses not to impregnate your wife this time... You have all the time in the world.
12. Some men have realized that they can stay with their wives from morning till night and will not die.
13. The whole world have realized that doctors and health care workers are the real World Bests... Not Messi, Not Ronado
14. Everybody has realized why jobless people behave abnormal... Now that you have not gone to work for 3 weeks, are you behaving normal ?
#STAY #SAFE
#ONE #LOVE

*A SECRET FOR THE MEN.*
A man is wired to provide for his wife and when he is able to, he feels he has done something very big for her.
More and more women keep complaining and in today's era are looking outside their marital homes for comfort. They believe their husbands or lover do not have time for them.
Man's greatest problem is knowing how to satisfy his wife. Some of us believe that the more money we give to a woman the happier she is.
A woman wants more from a relationship and there are little things you can do as a man to make a big difference.
Most men know these things but do not bother to do them because they do not realise how important they are to their women.
Let me give you a list...
- When you get back home before she says anything give her a hug.
- Ask her how her day went.
- Listen and ask questions.
- Give her attention no matter how small.
- Give her surprise treats once in a while no matter how small.
- Call her to ask how her day was going.
- Have your bath before sex and wear perfume.
- Learn to massage her body.
- Deliberately touch her when talking to her.
- Take only her out once in a while. Make it a surprise.
- Remember to always complement her and how she looks.
You will be amazed at the transformation in your wife or lover
The list seems long and exhaustive, do not be afraid, just choose a few and practise it.
Money has a limit of satisfaction in a woman.
Help her blossom and you will have peace in your relationship
Try it and tell me about it.
Just can't stop loving Y'all

Suzzi23:
Hi guys. Please I need advice.

There is this guy in my department. Let's call him Joe. He is good looking and very intelligent. He also has this very nice voice and good vocabulary. Initially we were just normal casual classmates, we greet, exchange notes and all that, nothing serious. I've always found him attractive but have not found him special in any way because I've met lots of guys like him in my University.

But few months ago he started becoming more friendly towards me. We got talking and we realized we shared a lot in common. He asked me if I was single and I told him I was. This was the truth because I wasn't dating anyone then.

Few days after another guy I was very close to asked me to be his girlfriend and I agreed. I'm in love with this guy. He is very jovial, intelligent and he knows how to treat me well. I know he loves me because I've known him for a while and he has treated me with love, affection and respect. It's always fun being around him and I enjoy his company.

Despite now being in a relationship, I still continued spending time with Joe. We shared a lot of deep intimate info about ourselves with each other. I have never felt more comfortable talking to someone before. Talking to him always made me feel good. I felt I could be vulnerable with him. He was very honest and didn't hide the dark aspects of himself. He wasn't the type to pretend he was a good person. And he wasn't. He had done a lot of bad things in the past and he wasn't afraid to talk to me about them. And although this might sound weird I liked the fact that he wasn't the typical "moral individual" I was used to meeting. I liked the fact that he had a dark personality that only me knew about. He said things to me that made me begin to explore myself and my sexuality in ways I didn't even imagine that I could. He was always fond of teasing me and never hesitated to correct me if I did anything wrong. I loved that kind of honesty.

As we talked more Joe opened up to me that he was attracted to me and had feelings for me. He would flirt with me and I'd try my best not to flirt back but I enjoyed his flirting and I enjoyed his company. He asked me if I felt the same way about him and I was honest and I said I had feelings for him, because I did. He is an attractive guy and even though I have a boyfriend I can't help being attracted to him..

He then asked me to be his girlfriend and I told him I was already dating someone. He was surprised by my response. He told me he was under the impression that I was single and that's why he had gotten so close and intimate with me. But he didn't appear angry or sad. He even told me my bf was lucky to have me.

The problem now is that since that day he hasn't talked to me. When I see him in class, he doesn't even act like I exist. He doesn't reply my messages, doesn't pick up my calls and doesn't check up on me. Throughout this lockdown he hasn't even texted me once. This is unlike him. I feel very bad about the whole thing. It's almost like our relationship didn't mean anything to him and I didn't mean anything to him. I want to still be friends with him.

My only advice to you is to state what you want clearly because in your post now op you said Joe had feelings for you. It is not possible for Joe to have feelings for you and still be your friend knowing fully well that you're already in a relationship, its gonna hurt him the more when he is still close to you,That's the reason he gave you some distance.
So state what you want and choose wisely.
In this situation you can't have both guys.

A woman in the city went one morning to her husband's office to report him to his boss. She told her husband's boss how her husband usually squandered his N60,000 salary and only gave her N30,000 for upkeep.
After her narration, the boss told her to come back on the last day of the month.
On the set day, she arrived as planned. The boss called the husband and they all sat down in the boss' office.
The boss started,' Mr. Mike, you wife reported to me some days ago that you squander your salary outside and only give the family N30,000 for upkeep. So right now, I'm going to personally hand over your salaries to her from today henceforth.'
'How much is you transportation to work daily?', the boss asked.
'N900 sir', Mr. Mike replied.
The boss handed over N19,800 to Mr. Mike. 'That should take you for 22 days'.
'Do you take breakfast at home?', the boss continued.
'No sir, I leave home very early to beat traffic jam'.
'How much do you spend on breakfast and lunch daily?'
'N500 sir',replied Mr. Mike.
The boss handed over N11,000 to Mr. Mike.
'Who pays the children's school fees', the boss asked facing Mrs. Mike.
'He does', she replied pointing at Mr. Mike.
'How much is the school fees and how many kids have you?'
'N30,000 per term for the two kids we have?'
'In other words, you save N10,000 monthly for each term's school fees right?'
'Yes sir', replied Mr. Mike.
Once again, the boss handed N10,000 to him.
'Who pays the rent and how much is it?'
'I do sir. The rent is N36,000 per annum.' Mr. Mike replied.
'That's N3,000 monthly right?', the boss added as he handed over N3,000 to Mr. Mike.
'I don't want to ask about clothings, electricity bills,etc as I know both of you might be handling that', the boss said as he handed over N16,200 to Mrs. Mike.
'What's this for sir', Mrs. Mike asked surprised.
'Money for upkeep', the boss replied her.
'But it wouldn't take us anywhere', she exclaimed.
'So why don't you appreciate the N30, 000 your husband sacrifices for you monthly', the boss asked.
The woman hugged her husband tightly and the rest is history.
*Moral:*
A lot of women don't know what their husbands sacrifice to put food on the table. Most times, they go hungry. Sometimes, they swallow their pride and engage in menial and debasing jobs just so their families can eat. A lot of times, they can't even buy good clothes to wear rather they sacrifice so that their wives and kids can get one.
A man might not tell you what he goes through to get you the cash he gives to you as telling you might make you start underrating his person but to tell you the truth, men go through a lot and need to be appreciated.

1- FOR GUYS.
Guys if you love a girl and you're sure you love her, here are things you have to do to prove it:
1- Never push her to do the things she doesn't want to do.
2- Always try to listen carefully to her, and understand her.
3- Try to give her space to develop herself as a person
4- Try to call or text her, it goes a long way to remind her, that you are thinking about her.
5- Try to help her in every way you can.
6- Always worry about how she feels about things, worry about how she sees the world, try to get to know about her goals, and understand why she lives her life the way she does...
7- Try to trust her, now I know this may be hard especially if you have trust issues, but if you love a girl you should be able to trust her.
8- Try complimenting her, believe me it hurts a girl when the guy that claims he loves her, but can't tell her she is beautiful. I mean you see her in a new dress and you just walk away, that's really bad gentlemen big up!!
9- If you love a girl you'd accept her the way she is, you won't try to change her. You would love her for who she is today and not for what will be tomorrow, and you would feel blessed to have her by your side.
2- FOR LADIES.
LADIES, you also have a great part to play in a relationship, if you love that guy then:
1- You respect him, guys love girls who respect them a lot, you don't try to bruise his ego by being disobedient and disrespectful.
2- Listen to him whenever he is talking, never talk back at a guy or walk away from him.
3- If you notice your guy is angry, don't be in a hurry to find out what his problem is, give it time, especially if he is short tempered, allow his temper to cool before taking to him.
4- Try to get close to his family members. A guy would love you more, if he sees you are in good terms with his family.
5- Do not nag at him, guys hate it when girls nag at them.
6- Girls you just can't wake up one morning and say you want to change your guy, that's impossible. If you want him to change, then give him reasons to change.
7- Try to show him how much you love and care about him, by being faithful. If you love your guy so much, I see no reason why your eyes should be on other guys.
8- Be independent, don't just sit around there and wait for him to do all things. Try to help out, guys value girls who can contribute positively to their lives.
9- Be neat, a guy would love his girl to be neat and presentable, don't be a talkative, guys hate that a lot. Try to give yourself some pride and dignity, as a girl you deserve to have that. Don't make the mistake of throwing yourself at a guy, that's really bad.
10- You don't fight a guy, just because you're having a misunderstanding, doesn't give you the right to fight with him. If you are arguing with him and can't seem to sort it out, then do your fightings in prayers. It's not your job to fight and argue with your guy, it is your job to pray for him, pray for his heart and every aspect of his life. Above all put God in the center of your relationship, and there is no way you can loose.

1. When a woman is angry, she doesn't mean over half of what she says.
2. The most difficult time for a woman is when she is away from the man she truly loves.
3. It takes time for a woman to trust a man, it's hard to change her mind when she does but if you betray her trust, it takes eternity to get it fully back the way it was from the start.
4. A woman is such a school that you will never graduate from.
5. She can be very bitter now & a very sweet Angel later on. It all depends on your mode of approach to her.
6. Your marriage certificate with her is not a "driving license" but just a "learner's permit".
7. A woman hardly forget things. She remembers hurts more. Avoid making her hurt.
8. All women loved to be begged. Most men often miss out on this.
9. A woman can be highly secretive. Most times when they prove hard to men, they go in their closets & cry to friends they feel very comfortable with.
10. If she truly loves you, she can do everything you ask of her as long as it makes you happy. So never force her to love you.
11. If you don't take care of her, she will find someone who will.
12. All women have a unique character like salt, their presence might not be noticed but their absence makes everything tasteless.
13. If a woman truly loves you, she will be shy to even ask money from you.
14. If a woman truly loves you, most importantly, she will never allow you spend recklessly/unnecessarily. This is one of the traits that makes them really special.
15. Lastly, if you have a good woman in your life, don't & never take her foregranted because they add spices to your life.

Before she accepted to be your girlfriend, you were always calling her as early as 5:am in the morning to wish her good morning, Calling her at 7:am to know if she has had breakfast, you called her after breakfast to know her plans for the day, Called her at exactly 12noon to wish her good afternoon, Called her by 2:pm to ask her to have lunch with you, 4:pm you called her to wish her good evening, 6:pm you called to know what she will be having for dinner, 8:pm you called to know what time she will have her night bath and go to bed, 10:pm, you called to hear her voice, one last time before you sleep, 12:30am, you called to know if she was sleeping alone and could kip you company through out the night, 4:am you wished her good morning, 4:30am you asked her to go to bed so she can wake up earlier than the devil. Text messages as well as chats on social networking sites were not left out. This continued till she got to accept to date you. You always told her how much you love and cherish her, that you are ready to do whatsoever it takes to make her your Girlfriends, your wife and the mother Of Your Unborn Kids. You went ahead to show her to your friends and some family members as your girlfriend, pending her acceptance. She started feeling so close to you, your friends started calling her "our wife", You sent your friends and some of her friends to talk to her to accept dating you. After some time, she accepted to date you, you felt you have done what James Bond could never do. You guys go out, see each other, cuddle, kiss but do not have sex cause she told you she is not ready for that yet. You told her that she doesn't trust you enough, or even love you. She felt bad about the way you were talking because she has started getting used to you and would do anything never to hurt you. She now gave in, allowed you explore her body, you took her pride, her dignity, or maybe you weren't the first to do THAT with her, but utmostly she gave you her body. The relationship went on well, then slowly it began to fade. You stopped sending her messages on social network platforms, to chat with her became a problem but you are always online. She was now the one calling to know your plans for the day because she wanted to be part of it, You were always telling her how hectic, stressful and busy your day was.. You can go for a week without talking to her on phone or wanting to see her, You only see her when you want her to do something for you. You started talking to other girls, the little time you spend with her, It's either you are online and chatting with someone or on phone. When she complains that you are not giving her time and attention, you say she is too demanding. She spends her valentine´s day, Easter, Christmas, New year, Birthdays alone. She does not complain, demand for expensive things or nag. All your promises, you broke them, you only wanted to have your own share of the cake- her body, You toiled with her feelings and emotions, you cheat on her, lie to her, treat her with disrespect, ignore her amongst other things. When was the last time you asked her about her problems? When was the last time you took her to somewhere quiet? When was the last time you surprised her with that little thing that makes her happy? You spend your time, money and love outside, leaving her in a dark room. You lied, deceived and lured her into dating you, sleeping with you, You made her fall in- love with you. Ask yourself this question, will I make heaven with this behavior of mine? Will God ever forgive me for breaking her heart, deceiving her, making her believe in me, betraying her trust and love.... Oh!..That's so unfair!! " Will you have another man do the same to your daughter, sister or female bestie? You have dated her for a year, 2years, or even 5years without plans for her, will u make heaven at last? You are cheating on your wife, girlfriend, fiancee, busy texting and chatting with other females, forgetting your promises to this girl that has given you everything, her body, soul, love, support, loyalty, humility, respect & everything that she has gotten. She get into fights with her parents cause of you hmm, She sneak out of the house to be with you, go against her values and beliefs just to be with you and make you happy, She jilted other guys, declined other proposals but yet you choose to pay her back in this way! My dear, you have a mansion waiting for you in Hell, if you do not change your ways! " If you are married, Go back to your wife, bring back that first love. . . If it's your girlfriend or fiancee bring back the good old days. Do those things that brought you guys together again, and You will be surprised to see the goddess in her.. Just think about this for a few seconds! DON'T BE THAT MAN

They call us "broke dudes" because they hang out with Married Men that can buy the latest Samsung or Iphones for them...
They call us "Bleep boys" Because the Married Men don't last long in bed and yet still buy lands and take them on vacations...
They call us "small boys" because they hang out with people's husbands that have forgotten their duty to the women they Swore on the Alter to love and die for....
At the end of it all, they come back to us the Broke ass, Bleep boys, small boys, and bug us for marriage.... Kolewerk!
"E be like say una no sabi say we sef we be sugar daddy to some girl growing up, while u were busy looking for Iphone, there was a little girl looking for just Tecno...
While you were looking for Brazilian hair, there was a small girl looking for just #2500 to make her hair, so when you call us broke ass, someone out there is proud of us...
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Please don't be mad when you see your supposed hubby, marrying a girl two times younger than you...
#stayhomestaysafe
#Covid -19 is real.

I am yet to see a Lady who becomes very successful through runs or by sleeping with rich men.
But I've seen a very young lady that looks older than her age, with a flat chest, battling with diseases and STDs, some are found dead on the streets, forgetting that Success is not Sexually Transmitted but earned through hard work.
It doesn't matter whose Contact you've got in your phone or the so called dirty Connection as you call it.
They will only call you when you're needed for their sexual gratification.
And whatever you think they give to you, its just scraps that falls from their table while you're busy licking their wounds.
You're feeling like a Celebrity because of the flashy cars that picks and drops you off every now and then, forgetting that you get older each day and before you know it, you'll look like a fifty year old woman and you still expect one innocent responsible man to marry you!
It's better you suffer now and have a better life tomorrow because the fire wood you gather for dry season, that's what you use for raining season.
#Ladies #WiseUp�

1. You are seeing her name on top with her profile pic and u are still asking her what's her name.
2. Always asking her if we can see, as if she opened her facebook account for u to see her.
3. You asked how are u,she said fine,u are still asking about her day, if her day was bad she wouldn't have said she was fine..stop asking too much unnecessary questions in the name of been romantic.
4. She know she's pretty ,stop reminding her about that.
5. You meet a girl online all u care about is her big butt,hip and breast...those are the only thing u tell her about her self. And u are already thinking and planning how to have sex with her...bro why won't she snub u?
6. You said u love her no problem,she asked u for airtime,voom u went offline and u expect her to reply ur message again.
7. Stop asking her if she have a bf, go to her timeline and read her bio.
8. Asking her to send u her pics, bro go check her mobile upload her pics are there.
9. Guys don't respect girls,u meet a girl and the first thing u are asking for is her nude,or sexy pics and u are already telling her u are Hot. Dose she look like a prostitute? Guys respect ur self for once.
10. Telling a girl u meet online today u love her" just like that? Seriously?
1. You are seeing her name on top with her profile pic and u are still asking her what's her name.
2. Always asking her if we can see, as if she opened her facebook account for u to see her.
3. You asked how are u,she said fine,u are still asking about her day, if her day was bad she wouldn't have said she was fine..stop asking too much unnecessary questions in the name of been romantic.
4. She know she's pretty ,stop reminding her about that.
5. You meet a girl online all u care about is her big butt,hip and breast...those are the only thing u tell her about her self. And u are already thinking and planning how to have sex with her...bro why won't she snub u?
6. You said u love her no problem,she asked u for airtime,voom u went offline and u expect her to reply ur message again.
7. Stop asking her if she have a bf, go to her timeline and read her bio.
8. Asking her to send u her pics, bro go check her mobile upload her pics are there.
9. Guys don't respect girls,u meet a girl and the first thing u are asking for is her nude,or sexy pics and u are already telling her u are Hot. Dose she look like a prostitute? Guys respect ur self for once.
10. Telling a girl u meet online today u love her" just like that? Seriously?
1. You are seeing her name on top with her profile pic and u are still asking her what's her name.
2. Always asking her if we can see, as if she opened her facebook account for u to see her.
3. You asked how are u,she said fine,u are still asking about her day, if her day was bad she wouldn't have said she was fine..stop asking too much unnecessary questions in the name of been romantic.
4. She know she's pretty ,stop reminding her about that.
5. You meet a girl online all u care about is her big butt,hip and breast...those are the only thing u tell her about her self. And u are already thinking and planning how to have sex with her...bro why won't she snub u?
6. You said u love her no problem,she asked u for airtime,voom u went offline and u expect her to reply ur message again.
7. Stop asking her if she have a bf, go to her timeline and read her bio.
8. Asking her to send u her pics, bro go check her mobile upload her pics are there.
9. Guys don't respect girls,u meet a girl and the first thing u are asking for is her nude,or sexy pics and u are already telling her u are Hot. Dose she look like a prostitute? Guys respect ur self for once.
10. Telling a girl u meet online today u love her" just like that? Seriously?

*1. BOY-FRIEND*
The last thing on a Boy's Mind is Marriage.
Boys don't think of marriage, they want to make money first, they enter into relationship just for fun and sex, that's why if the lady should get pregnant, they ask her to abort it, or they'll deny her, because they aren't ready for Marriage..
Stop dating boys.
Boyfriends will keep scaring away serious and well-meaning suitors because they'll be thinking that the boyfriend that always hangs around you actually wants to marry you.
*2 ENGAGEMENT RING*
This makes you keep raising your finger to show the world that one young man engaged you and when the serious suitors that are ready to settle down see the ring, they'll pass over you because the ring tells them you have been taken.
And time is going, uncle isn't saying anything again, the ring self have start to rust on your finger in protest.
Many engagement rings are actually handcuffs, some are not better than key holders.
Aunty, say no to Lord of the Rings.
*3. HARD TO GET*
you tend to decline marriage proposal in a hurry, to do plenty unnecessary shakara so that the brother will not think you are cheap or desperate.
It tells you to tell him to give you nine months to pray, don't pick his calls, ignore his WhatsApp messages, behave as if you are not interested even though you are dying on the inside and truly love the brother.
Until you hear the brother is getting married to another sister, then your eyes will open and you will start saying "can't he even wait for me"
Wait for you? Who do you think you are?
Aunty, If you love the brother and you perceive he is God's will for you, accept the proposal.
*4. PRIDE*
You always talk to brothers anyhow because you are beautiful and educated.
You believe that every brother that greets you is not your class, so you keep ignoring and looking down on them.
You do not greet brothers except those that ride exotic cars.
Aunty, calm down and be humble.
You won't marry yourself oh.....
*5.TRIBALISM*
I'm from Oyo and must marry someone from Oyo so our marriage will be Deep.
I'm from Rivers state and must marry from Rivers. River will soon carry you.
This attitude has kept many bound, they entered menopause and are about to join the Women's league because of their age.
If God is leading you to another tribe, kindly obey Him, stop delaying yourself by yourself
*6. BAD CHARACTER*
The character of some ladies shocks even the devil.
They will open their mouth to insult someone and you will cry for the person..
They quarrel and fight in public, no shame, self respect and dignity.
Their pride, their arrogance, their attitude, all the brothers are running, sorry, FLEEING from them like ants running away from fire. Who wan die?
This attitude has kept many ladies single, by the time any brother gets close because of her beautiful MASCARA, her CHARACTER will chase him away.
Aunty, this year, work on your character, your date will be fixed this year In Jesus name!
*7. POOR DRESS SENSE*
You tend not to dress well because you are going to heaven. Special Heavenly candidate.
You dress and add 10 years to your age .
You dress and brothers will be greeting you "Good afternoon Ma." "Yes Ma" "Thank you Ma"
You use tarpaulin to sew your dress, wear green skirt, yellow blouse and lemon head tie. You indecently tied a wrapper around your waist.
You are a lady but dress like a man; Sister, no Man wants to marry his fellow man.
You dress like egungun that is going to the express.
Dress well, don't under dress and don't over dress.
Dress modestly, smell good because it's not a sin.
We said don't dress indecently, we never said don't dress well.

• 1. Are you TAKING OFF your PANTIES because you LOVE him.? He makes you SMILE, He has a BIG GIANT DICK but do you really LOVE this MAN for TRUE.?
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• 2. How MUCH do you KNOW about this MAN.? You KNOW He is GOOD LOOKING and HANDSOME, You KNOW He is FUNNY and JOVIAL, You KNOW He smells GOOD but what do you really know ABOUT his PERSONALITY.?
I mean His CHARACTER.? Check NICELY He might be a BEAST in a SHEEP'S CLOTHING.
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• 3. After the SEX what happens next.? Will it be another SEX and another SEX and another SEX, like SEX SEX SEX SEX and nothing SERIOUS.? Will you STAY with HIM or JUMP to other BOYFRIEND for MORE SEX.? Or will he DUMP you and go for another LADY for MORE SEX.?
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• 4. If you get PREGNANT, are you READY to be a MOTHER.? Or you will start PANICKING to commit MURDER by KILLING the INNOCENT BABY on your FIRST ABORTION.? Or will you be ready to give BIRTH to the BABY and become a TEENAGE SINGLE MOTHER.?
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• 5. Very IMPORTANT, what if you get PREGNANT and he COMPLETELY DENIES and He REFUSE to take RESPONSIBILITIES, can you stand ALONE? Do you have what it TAKES to RAISE the BABY on your OWN.?
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• 6. Do you know that if you get PREGNANT and he ABANDON you, it can SLOW DOWN your FUTURE? You will have to SPEND the time you should have SPENT on your SCHOOL or CAREER raising a CHILD at HOME.
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• 7. Do you THINK you can be his WIFE.? Does he FIT the KIND of MAN you can MARRY and be FAITHFUL to.?
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• 8. Are you SURE of his LOVE or is it just about this SEXUAL PLEASURE, FANCY FOOD and ALCOHOL ENJOYMENT.? Beyond SEX, what other way do you CONNECT TOGETHER for the FUTURE. ?
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• 9. If he so much want to have SEX with you then why CAN'T he COMMIT to you by VISITING your PARENTS, Start the NEGOTIATION and make you his WIFE.
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• 10. Think of the FUTURE. Will you be PROUD of yourself after TODAY of giving him SEX. ?
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Like Seriously Dear, Before You Take-Off Your Panties.!
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This goes OUT to TEENAGERS and to the LADIES that ask me QUESTIONS.
I LOVE my BOYFRIEND and I DON'T want to HURT him but he KEEP on ASKING for SEX. Should I GIVE IT to HIM.?
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Now You KNOW what to DO.

She came into the bedroom with her transparent night gown wearing a romantic perfume. Nobody was left at the house after a long day of felicitations and congratulations for the success of their wedding. Who would have thought Sis Rose could get married after several failed attempts at the altar of disappointment and betrayal?

Sis Rose had been into eight relationships that never led to marriage. Getting suitors was never her problem but getting to the aisle was never realized until she met Bro Solo.

Bro Solo was a well-known brother in the choir and the dream husband of every lady as he seemed to be an example of a true Christian.

*Bro Femi* dated her for 18 months and jilted her because she refused him sex before marriage.
*Bro Ifeanyi* left her after a year of relationship when he went for National Youth Service Corps at Enugu where he found Sis Chinyere.
*Bro Austin* never gave any reason for quitting their relationship of four months.

The history of Sis Rose's relationship journey was heartbreaking as she had *dated eight guys in 14 years!*

"Bro Solo is going to leave like others, why put in the remaining pieces of my heart?", she thought.

On her traditional wedding day, she fainted twice for unbelief and shock, shocked that Bro Solo did not leave like other brothers. It was a well-celebrated and well-attended wedding.

Members of the choir and ushering team added colour to the day as two of their own were the celebrants of the day.

The joy and excitement that Sis Rose was leaving singles fellowship of the church *at 43 made the pastor overjoyed,* so much that he made Sis Rose's wedding one of the best since the inception of the church.

Family members and friends were not left out as they all created scenes to add colour to the day.
Family and friends stayed back and never wanted to leave them alone even at the late hour of the night. Sis Rose had jokingly told her friends to leave to allow them start their honeymoon and everyone laughed. "Madam are you driving us?" And they laughed again. In all these Bro Solo was indifferent as to whether they left or not.

At about 11:03pm, she joined him in the bedroom ready for them to consummate the marriage. For her, this was the day she has been looking forward to; a day she wanted to be grabbed, squeezed, cuddled and made love to by her Heavenly ordained husband. A day she will have sex and not see it as sin against God.

"'Dear, I am all yours now. Do to me what you wish. I am not wearing anything underneath just to give you easy access."

"Before we are carried away with the joy of our wedding let's thank God first for all his has done for us", Bro Solo replied.

The prayer of thanksgiving turned to intercessory prayers and then to warfare prayers. After 40 minutes Bro Solo was still praying. A prayer that was already getting Sis Rose pissed up. How can we turn our honeymoon to a prayer meeting? She thought within herself.

She couldn't stop the prayer meeting because the tempo of the prayers increased by the minute. At about 12:29am she dosed off and went into a deep sleep. They missed the first flight that night!

Before Sis Rose could wake up by 6:30am, Bro Solo was already dressed up to meet an appointment for 7am in order to secure bus ticket for some of their guests who were slated to go with the first bus.
"Where are you going this early morning that you are already dressed up?" she quarreled her husband. "We didn't make love last night being our first night together as husband and wife. Before you go out this morning, you must make love to me."

"Dear, I am sorry, that cannot happen now as I need to meet up for this appointment by 7am. I will make it up to you when I come back.
Sis Rose was not going to take no for an answer that morning. She jammed the door and held the keys "You are not going out this morning until you make love to me"!

She called the pastor, "Hello sir, you need to make to our house now or else...."
The pastor quickly diverted from his way to his office to their house.
What could warrant this distress call from the newest couple? he thought within himself.

*Why do you think Bro Solo did not sleep with his wife on their first night together?*

*Find out in part 2*

What tribe is that

If your tribe is not here, a beg go look for your country.
Below is a comprehensive list of all Nigerian Tribes and the States where they live…
1 Abayon Cross River
2 Abua (Odual) Rivers
3 Achipa (Achipawa) Kebbi
4 Adim Cross River
5 Adun Cross River
6 Affade Yobe
7 Afizere Plateau
8 Afo Plateau
9 Agbo Cross River
10 Akaju-Ndem (Akajuk) Cross River
11 Akweya-Yachi Benue
12 Alago (Arago) Piateau
13 Amo Plateau
14 Anaguta Plateau
15 Anang Akwa lbom
16 Andoni Akwa lbom, Rivers
17 Angas Bauchi, Jigawa, Plateau
18 Ankwei Plateau
19 Anyima Cross River
20 Attakar (ataka) Kaduna
21 Auyoka (Auyokawa) Jigawa
22 Awori Lagos, Ogun
23 Ayu Kaduna
24 Babur Adamawa, Bomo, Taraba, Yobe
25 Bachama Adamawa
26 Bachere Cross River
27 Bada Plateau
28 Bade Yobe
29 Bahumono Cross River
30 Bakulung Taraba
31 Bali Taraba
32 Bambora (Bambarawa) Bauchi
33 Bambuko Taraba
34 Banda (Bandawa) Taraba
35 Banka (Bankalawa) Bauchi
36 Banso (Panso) Adamawa
37 Bara (Barawa) Bauchi
38 Barke Bauchi
39 Baruba (Barba) Niger
40 Bashiri (Bashirawa) Plateau
41 Bassa Kaduna, Kogi, Niger, Plateau
42 Batta Adamawa
43 Baushi Niger
44 Baya Adamawa
45 Bekwarra Cross River
46 Bele (Buli, Belewa) Bauchi
47 Betso (Bete) Taraba
48 Bette Cross River
49 Bilei Adamawa
50 Bille Adamawa
51 Bina (Binawa) Kaduna
52 Bini Edo
53 Birom Plateau
54 Bobua Taraba
55 Boki (Nki) Cross River
56 Bkkos Plateau
57 Boko (Bussawa, Bargawa) Niger
58 Bole (Bolewa) Bauchi, Yobe
59 Botlere Adamawa
60 Boma (Bomawa, Burmano) Bauchi
61 Bomboro Bauchi
62 Buduma Borno, Niger
63 Buji Plateau
64 Buli Bauchi
65 Bunu Kogi
66 Bura Adamawa
67 Burak Bauchi
68 Burma (Burmawa) Plateau
69 Buru Yobe
70 Buta (Butawa) Bauchi
71 Bwall Plateau
72 Bwatiye Adamawa
73 Bwazza Adamawa
74 Challa Plateau
75 Chama (Chamawa Fitilai) Bauchi
76 Chamba Taraba
77 Chamo Bauchi
78 Chibok (Chibbak) Yobe
79 Chinine Borno
80 Chip Plateau
81 Chokobo Plateau
82 Chukkol Taraba
83 Daba Adamawa
84 Dadiya Bauchi
85 Daka Adamawa
86 Dakarkari Niger, Kebbi
87 Danda (Dandawa) Kebbi
88 Dangsa Taraba
89 Daza (Dere, Derewa) Bauchi
90 Degema Rivers
91 Deno (Denawa) Bauchi
92 Dghwede Bomo
93 Diba Taraba
94 Doemak (Dumuk) Plateau
95 Ouguri Bauchi
96 Duka (Dukawa) Kebbi
97 Duma (Dumawa) Bauchi
98 Ebana (Ebani) Rivers
99 Ebirra (lgbirra) Edo, Kogi, Ondo
100 Ebu Edo, Kogi
101 Efik Cross River
102 Egbema Rivers
103 Egede (lgedde) Benue
104 Eggon Plateau
105 Egun (Gu) Lagos,Ogun
106 Ejagham Cross River
107 Ekajuk Cross River
108 Eket Akwa Ibom
109 Ekoi Cross River
110 Engenni (Ngene) Rivers
111 Epie Rivers
112 Esan (Ishan) Edo
113 Etche Rivers
114 Etolu (Etilo) Benue
115 Etsako Edo
116 Etung Cross River
117 Etuno Edo
118 Falli Adamawa
119 Fulani (Pulbe)
Bauchi, Borno, Jigawa , Kaduna, Kano, Katsina, Kebbi , Niger, Sokoto, Taraba, Yobe, etc.
120 Fyam (Fyem) Plateau
121 Fyer(Fer) Plateau
122 Ga’anda Adamawa
123 Gade Niger
124 Galambi Bauchi
125 Gamergu-Mulgwa Bomo
126 Qanawuri Plateau
127 Gavako Borno
128 Gbedde Kogi
129 Gengle Taraba
130 Geji Bauchi
131 Gera (Gere, Gerawa) Bauchi
132 Geruma (Gerumawa) Plateau
133 Geruma (Gerumawa) Bauchi
134 Gingwak Bauchi
135 Gira Adamawa
136 Gizigz Adamawa
137 Goernai Plateau
138 Gokana (Kana) Rivers
139 Gombi Adamawa
140 Gornun (Gmun) Taraba
141 Gonia Taraba
142 Gubi (Gubawa) Bauchi
143 Gude Adamawa
144 Gudu Adamawa
145 Gure Kaduna
146 Gurmana Niger
147 Gururntum Bauchi
148 Gusu Plateau
149 Gwa (Gurawa) Adamawa
150 Gwamba Adamawa
151 Gwandara Kaduna, Niger, Plateau
152 Gwari (Gbari) Kaduna, Niger, Plateau
153 Gwom Taraba
154 Gwoza (Waha) Bomo
155 Gyem Bauchi
156 Hausa: Bauchi, Borno, Jigawa, Kaduna,Kano, Kastina, Kebbi, Niger,Taraba, Sokoto, etc
157 Higi (Hig) Borno, Adamawa
158 Holma Adamawa
159 Hona Adamawa
160 Ibeno Akwa lbom
161 Ibibio Akwa lbom
162 Ichen Adamawa
163 Idoma Benue, Taraba
164 Igalla Kogi
Igbo-culture
165 lgbo: Abia, Anambra, Benue, Delta, Ebonyi,Enugu, Imo, Rivers
166 ljumu Kogi
167 Ikorn Cross River
168 Irigwe Plateau
169 Isoko Delta
170 lsekiri (Itsekiri) Delta
171 lyala (lyalla) Cross River
172 lzondjo) Bayelsa, Delta, Ondo, Rivers
173 Jaba Kaduna
174 Jahuna (Jahunawa) Taraba
175 Jaku Bauchi
176 Jara (Jaar Jarawa Jarawa-Dutse)
Bauchi
177 Jere (Jare, Jera, Jera, Jerawa) Bauchi, Plateau
178 Jero Taraba
179 Jibu Adamawa
180 Jidda-Abu Plateau
181 Jimbin (Jimbinawa) Bauchi
182 Jirai Adamawa
183 Jonjo (Jenjo) Taraba
184 Jukun
Bauchi, Benue,Taraba, Plateau
185 Kaba(Kabawa) Taraba
186 Kadara Taraba
187 Kafanchan Kaduna
188 Kagoro Kaduna
189 Kaje (Kache) Kaduna
190 Kajuru (Kajurawa) Kaduna
191 Kaka Adamawa
192 Kamaku (Karnukawa) Kaduna, Kebbi, Niger
193 Kambari Kebbi, Niger
194 Kambu Adamawa
195 Kamo Bauchi
196 Kanakuru (Dera) Adamawa, Borno
197 Kanembu Bomo
198 Kanikon Kaduna
199 Kantana Plateau
200 Kanufi
Kaduna, Adamawa, Bomo, Kano,Niger, Jigawa, Plateau, Taraba, Yobe
201 Karekare (Karaikarai) Bauchi, Yobe
202 Karimjo Taraba
203 Kariya Bauchi
204 Katab (Kataf) Kaduna
205 Kenern (Koenoem) Plateau
206 Kenton Taraba
207 Kiballo (Kiwollo) Kaduna
208 Kilba Adamawa
209 Kirfi (Kirfawa) Bauchi
210 Koma Taraba
211 Kona Taraba
212 Koro (Kwaro) Kaduna, Niger
213 Kubi (Kubawa) Bauchi
214 Kudachano (Kudawa) Bauchi
215 Kugama Taraba
216 Kulere (Kaler) Plateau
217 Kunini Taraba
218 Kurama Jigawa, Kaduna, Niger, Plateau
219 Kurdul Adamawa
220 Kushi Bauchi
221 Kuteb Taraba
222 Kutin Taraba
223 Kwalla Plateau
224 Kwami (Kwom) Bauchi
225 Kwanchi Taraba
226 Kwanka (Kwankwa) Bauchi, Plateau
227 Kwaro Plateau
228 Kwato Plateau
229 Kyenga (Kengawa) Sokoto
230 Laaru (Larawa) Niger
231 Lakka Adamawa
232 Lala Adamawa
233 Lama Taraba
234 Lamja Taraba
235 Lau Taraba
236 Ubbo Adamawa
237 Limono Bauchi, Plateau
238 Lopa (Lupa, Lopawa) Niger
239 Longuda (Lunguda) Adamawa, Bauchi
240 Mabo Plateau
241 Mada Kaduna, Plateau
242 Mama Plateau
243 Mambilla Adamawa
244 Manchok Kaduna
245 Mandara (Wandala) Bomo
246 Manga (Mangawa) Yobe
247 Margi (Marghi) Adamawa, Bomo
248 Matakarn Adamawa
249 Mbembe Cross River, Enugu
250 Mbol Adamawa
251 Mbube Cross River
252 Mbula Adamawa
253 Mbum Taraba
254 Memyang (Meryan) Plateau
255 Miango Plateau
256 Miligili (Migili) Plateau
257 Miya (Miyawa) Bauchi
258 Mobber Bomo
259 Montol Plateau
260 Moruwa (Moro’a, Morwa) Kaduna
261 Muchaila Adamawa
262 Mumuye Taraba
263 Mundang Adamawa
264 Munga (Mupang) Plateau
265 Mushere Plateau
266 Mwahavul (Mwaghavul) Plateau
267 Ndoro Taraba
268 Ngamo Bauchi, Yobe
269 Ngizim Yobe
270
Ngweshe (Ndhang.Ngoshe-Ndhang)
Adamawa, Borno
271 Ningi (Ningawa) Bauchi
272 Ninzam (Ninzo) Kaduna, Plateau
273 Njayi Adamawa
274 Nkim Cross River
275 Nkum Cross River
276 Nokere (Nakere) Plateau
277 Nunku Kaduna, Plateau
278 Nupe Niger
279 Nyandang Taraba
280 Ododop Cross River
281 Ogori Kwara
282 Okobo (Okkobor) Akwa lbom
283 Okpamheri Edo
284 Olulumo Cross River
285 Oron Akwa lbom
286 Owan Edo
287 Owe Kwara
288 Oworo Kwara
289 Pa’a (Pa’awa Afawa) Bauchi
290 Pai Plateau
291 Panyam Taraba
292 Pero Bauchi
293 Pire Adamawa
294 Pkanzom Taraba
295 Poll TarabaPolchi Habe Bauchi
297 Pongo (Pongu) Niger
298 Potopo Taraba
299 Pyapun (Piapung) Plateau
300 Qua Cross River
301 Rebina (Rebinawa) Bauchi
302 Reshe Kebbi, Niger
303 Rindire (Rendre) Plateau
304 Rishuwa Kaduna
305 Ron Piateau
306 Rubu Niger
307 Rukuba Plateau
308 Rumada Kaduna
309 Rumaya Kaduna
310 Sakbe Taraba
311 Sanga Bauchi
312 Sate Taraba
313 Saya (Sayawa Za’ar) Bauchi
314 Segidi (Sigidawa) Bauchi
315 Shanga (Shangawa) Sokoto
316 Shangawa (Shangau) Plateau
317 Shan-Shan Plateau
318 Shira (Shirawa) Kano
319 Shomo Taraba
320 Shuwa Adamawa, Borno
321 Sikdi Plateau
322 Siri (Sirawa) Bauchi
323 Srubu (Surubu) Kaduna
324 Sukur Adamawa
325 Sura Plateau
326 Tangale Bauchi
327 Tarok Plateau, Taraba
328 Teme Adamawa
329 Tera (Terawa) Bauchi, Bomo
330 Teshena (Teshenawa) Kano
331 Tigon Adamawa
332 Tikar Taraba
333 Tiv Benue, Plateau, Taraba and Nasarawa
334 Tula Bauchi
335 Tur Adamawa
336 Ufia Benue
337 Ukelle Cross River
338 Ukwani (Kwale) Delta
339 Uncinda Kaduna, Kebbi, Niger, Sokoto
340 Uneme (Ineme) Edo
341 Ura (Ula) Niger
342 Urhobo Delta
343 Utonkong Benue
344 Uyanga Cross River
345 Vemgo Adamawa
346 Verre Adamawa
347 Vommi Taraba
348 Wagga Adamawa
349 Waja Bauchi
350 Waka Taraba
351 Warja (Warja) Jigawa
352 Warji Bauchi
353 Wula Adamawa
354 Wurbo Adamawa
355 Wurkun Taraba
356 Yache Cross River
357 Yagba Kwara
358 Yakurr (Yako) Cross River
359 Yalla Benue
360 Yandang Taraba
361 Yergan (Yergum) Plateau
362 Yoruba
Kwara, Lagos, Ogun, Ondo, Oyo, Osun, Ekiti, Kogi
363 Yott Taraba
364 Yumu Niger
365 Yungur Adamawa
366 Yuom Plateau
367 Zabara Niger
368 Zaranda Bauchi
369 Zarma (Zarmawa) Kebbi
370 Zayam (Zeam) Bauchi
371 Zul (Zulawa) Bauchi

1. Don't advertise your happy marriage on social media.
2. Do not advertise pregnancy on social media.
3. Don't advertise your kids achievements on social media.
4. Don't advertise your expensive buys on social media
UNDERSTAND THIS ABOUT LIFE....
1. Not everyone is going to be happy with you
2. Most of the "nice" comments you get are just fake
3. You don't know who's saving your pictures and checking your updates.
4. You really need to stop this because it may ruin your life, family, marriage and career.
BELIEVE ME - Social media is sometimes the devils eyes, ears and mouth, don't fall into the devils trap. Let a part of your life remain private.
Enjoy your day!

Once upon a time a beautiful girl got tired of her marriage life and wanted to murder her spouse.
One morning she ran to her mother and say to her " mother, I am tired of my husband I can no longer support his nonsense. I want to kill him but I am afraid Law of the land will hold me responsible, can you please help me mother?"
The mother answered:
- Yes my daughter I can help you, but, there is a little task attached.
The daughter asked "what task? I am willing and ready to assume any task attached in order to get him out"
OK, said the mother,
1..You will have to make peace with him, so that no one will suspect you when he is dead.
2.. You will have to beautify yourself in order to look young and attractive to him
3.. You have to take good care of him and be very nice and appreciative to him
4.. You have to be patient, loving and less jealous, have more listening ears, be more respectful and obedient
5. Spend your money for him and don’t get angry even when he rto give you money for whatever
6. Don’t raise your voice against but encourage Peace and love so that you will never be suspected when he must have died.
Can you do all of that?
Asked the mother.
Yes i can. She replied
OK, said the mother.
Take this powder and pour a bit in his every day meal, it will slowly kill him.
After 30 days the lady came back to her mother and said.
Mother, I have no intention of killing my husband again. As of now I have grown to love him because he has completely changed, he is now a very sweet husband than I ever imagined.
What can i do to stop the poison from killing him?
Please help me mother.
She pleaded in a sorrowful tone.
The mother answered;
Do not worry my daughter. What I gave you the other day was just Tumeric Powder. It will never kill him.
In reality, you were the poison that was slowly killing your husband with tension and dispassion.
It was when you started loving, honouring and cherishing him that you saw him change to a nice and sweet husband.
Men are not really wicked, but our way of relating with them determines their responses and feelings towards us.
Women if you can only show respect, dedication, love, care and commitment to your husband he will 100% be there for you

1-avoid giving your child everything he asks. He'll grow up thinking he has the right to get everything he wants.
2-avoid laughing when your child pronounces insulting words. He'll grow up thinking that disrespect is entertainment.
3-avoid being insensitive to bad behavior that he can display without scolding him for his bad behavior. He will grow up thinking that there are no rules in society.
4-avoid picking up everything your child messes with. He will grow up believing that others must take responsibility for his responsibilities.
5-avoid letting him follow any program on TV. He'll grow up thinking there's no difference between being a child and being an adult.
6-avoid giving your child all the money he asks for. He'll grow up thinking that getting money is easy and won't hesitate to fly to get it.
7-avoid always getting on his side when he's wrong against neighbors, his teachers, the police. He'll grow up thinking that everything he does is correct, the others are wrong.
8-avoid leaving him alone at home when you go to the place of worship, otherwise he will grow up thinking that God does not exist.