I grew up knowing that it is better for the child to cry as a result of correction than cry as a result of conviction for crime. But we all know there are instances where spanking is uncalled for, instances where a good talk will force the child to think. Yet if u must spank a little one,let him know where he had gone wrong and what he would have done instead. And finaly, remember that making ur child the best among best,it starts from the moment of conception.

It certainly not going to crash, ATTLEAST NOT NOW. guy u want make Nigerians die abeggo

i really dint know, any girl i talk with just want something more, it really gets me confuse cos i dint want to hurt anyone.what do i do?

The fact remains that if we want this nation to raise above its present status, we all must strive to raise above our present levels of thought. we must stop dropping blames at the door steps of government. take time out, look inside of you, look within you and see how you can make great our nation. i will be the last to lose hope in this nation or its people, we are great hasn't it occurred to you our kids are great, they are greatly talented, you can't just beat it. please no matter the situation of the country we still can explore the talents of these kids, be positive about it. say to your self It is possible.

My parent like every other parents, i respect them for the wonderful role they played in my life, sending me to school and all that but they, like every other parent failed woefully in one fundamental aspect. and like it or not, when your kid come of age they would blame you for failing in this respect. What am i talking about here? Every child that has come into this world, came with great potential, enormous gift and talent with which life becomes easier, lighter and brighter if explore. Now its your responsibility as parent to help this child achieve his dream. its important to note that parents of gifted children were themselves gifted but for certain reasons they could not accept or understand their gift; if you don't understand yours how do you think you can help this kids what are those things you know you could do, you feel it dip within you that you can do it even better than the person doing it, those things that make you say 'i wish' or 'if i had' thats what am talking about. the same thing is burning in the heart of your child now, why not pay attention, ask questions, look for things to help you out and don't compromise when it comes to your kids future.

AMAZING!!! both of you are just wonderful. Jamahs most touching statement was blaming the parent for not taking some delibrate action, now this blame most of us hold against our parent, we are right but the question still remains, what delibrate action are we taking now to avoid our kids from blaiming us as well
we need to go beyond this stage, i believe most parent are totally ignorant of their responsibility when it comes to this. i think we would do our selves and our kids much good if we help to bring the consciousness of fellow parents to this important but highly neglected aspect of our childrens upbringing. just help sp[ray the gospel.

DEAR PARENTS, how far are you doing to help ur child discover his talent?

we belong to the same club. i lost mine when i was 9 and its been i miss him so so much cos i dnt have much memory of him.

Some one said its just for engineers,how true pls?

Funny really but not funny,it just gets you thinking.