Coldfeet:
Why not move them back to the city where he can closely monitor the welfare of the child? Is sending them back to the village not the cause of this child's predicament? Your cousin and his ex need to put aside any bad blood between them and agree on how to care for this child before it too late.

A child that young still needs his mother.
Can your cousin take better care of the child by himself? Or he wants to take custody and dump the child with someone else?

Starships4u:



Yhu are bumping into Justice....
Yhu don't send a judge evidences directly to his/her phone...
Yhu present it in the open court...
Yhu might loose this case based on technicalities....
Stop that!

cococandy:


So it’s not an std.

You might still have a case as far as neglect but the baby doesn’t have HIV which is the STD transmissible by breast milk. So you can’t say he got an STD from her breast milk.

Even if she has gonorrhea, Syphilis, herpes, chlamydia etc. the baby can’t get it through breast milk.

I know you hate that she’s sleeping around but as distasteful as it is to do that while breastfeeding, there’s nothing anyone can do about that because she’s within her rights to do so.

Drop the STDs claim and find a way to prove your case of neglect then maybe a judge might listen to you. Good luck to you and that poor baby

cococandy:
That’s insane. What kind of STDs does the baby have?

Might also be a result of sexual abuse since the baby is left on their own without supervision.

Ahniin:

From you or madam?

Ahniin:
What a mother .
I still insist you guys have a round table talk(I hope the mother isn't scared that once she releases the child to you,her meal ticket is gone)

Chai. . poor baby.

May I know what even led to the divorce?
Was domestic violence involved?

MrBrownJay1:


here again:

Ahniin:

Snuck in on the mother,whisked the child n vamoose.... what's hard there to decode?

MrBrownJay1:


hopefully he has a plan B, C and D... if the child is left in mother's care.

MrBrownJay1:


again, you need to have concrete proof that the state of the child is due to the reckless actions of the mother.... so if all the above you mentioned can be contracted while in contact with other kids at kindergarden or in the compound where they live, then your whole plot will fail.

have you tried talking to mama? have you tried co-parenting? have you tried being closer to the child so that you can be more present in his life to monitor his/her wellbeing? remember, no matter how hard you hate that woman or what type of reckless life she lives, she IS and will STILL remain the child's mother and therefore would have rights to have access to the child.

Ahniin:
The other bitter sored side of divorce.its now the grass that's suffering it.

Secondly you don't expect the condition of the child to look posh based on they're in the village ravaged with so much crawling insects and the rest,so the child skin must be affected.
It takes a smart n vigilant mum to ensure the child looks healthy n well kept.

3rdly...The mother whoring and keeping multiple sex poachers as partner says alot about her kind of person.

My only painment here is the child paying and contracting these diseases due to the stupidity of both adults she chooses as PARENTS.imagine a toddler of 1year 3 months.

THE SOLUTION.....kindly have a calm heart to heart talks with the mother to allow you care for the child(please don't be harsh with words and don't even make attempts to forcefully take the child n abscond to your base.

Nada must happen to that child,she/he must be priotised

Appreciated 👍 lots of people advised her to allow the father take custody even her own blood sister but she refused

fyzaila:
The boy is still very young quite alright, but with a good lawyer you can win the case with this evidence and provided you have a significant and well trusted someone who can take care of the baby very well.

The mother is very careless. Guys should stop jumping into marriage for one useless reason or the other. Don't just choose a wife, choose a good mother for your child please.

MrBrownJay1:
taking a child from a breastfeeding mother is never ideal but if the safety of the child is in jeopardy, then no judge will refuse to take the child away from reckless mother.... the issue is that you need CONCRETE PROOF to show that the state of the child is a direct result of the mother's actions, and not that the child is just catching common sickness (like any other child would at such age)

noblefrank31:
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emkz:
Great.

In all the Binance and crypto wahala in Nigeria, I have learnt one important lesson.

If Nigeria ever goes to war, some Nigerians will never support Nigeria. They'd rather support foreigners and jubilate if Nigeria collapses.

Imagine the attack on the presidency and CBN when CBN went after Binance.

Imagine the attack on Nigeria when the Binance executive escaped.

We must always unite in defense of our country.

Check the American media whether anyone would support Sam Bankman-Fried. You won't find any. But Nigeria?

Why are we always our own enemies?

Mrfeel:

Lies like these are only heard on nairaland,the faceless forum