I don't think anyone said there is anything wrong in being a housewife, it is just that we have goals and women these days are expected to contribute a little. But being a parttime housewife has served a lot. Women can take care of the children and the home well, be around and share a lot of comfort and care. I think it is not a bad thing but to be a fulltime housewife for me, i cannot say much about these days. I think there is no nee for quarrels. My mother is a systems engineer and also trying to get another degree, she is a part time housewife. her being at home at first did not make much difference but we enjoy her company and now she earns from selling electronics.

the husband need not wait for her to ask since she is a housewife she would obviously need an allowance. besides she can be doing some little things to keep body and soul together. like sewing some of those really big and flamboyant over fashionable clothes, thats a topic for another day (the fashion senseless trends of these days, it seems everyone is on a carnival trying to outdress the other and in any way possible, traditional and even out of that, you have to keep up) or wearing them and having a simple store. A housewife would need to ask for some allowance, but often times the husband need not wait.

yeah its me soulahtie or sohlahtie whichever one! Jenifa, I am laughing. i like your dreams. mine is different. what i see for myself is being a major music star. when i rest, i see my say making songs, remixing songs, shooting videos, going here and there for my career, getting a role or roles in movies and doing some charity. Girl dreams are very large. But professional I am in school and I write. Girl your dream is funny. stop dreaming and make it a reality. Dreams do come true sometimes.
i bet a rich guy might want to marry you if you are fine lol. your intro is funny did not expect that.

Special report for Christians.
avoid taking things that you are not old enough to take or that is not good for your health and avoid other kinds of bad habits.
There is a story every young person might want to read. But before then let me make the introduction.
God is watching and wants you to know that the choices you make are very important about who you are, how you value yourself and what you are worth besides it is healthy for you to do what is right for your peace of mind and do things at the right time.
Today some evil wind is spreading and it is almost reaching into the life of many Christians and the influence is there when you visit such sites and it is called lewdness. We are becoming more globalised and many evil cultures are spreading because it is very easy for a person to forget what is right and to become influenced by what is wrong.
More people are owning cams and the influence is very strong. Do not allow yourself to be possessed by the evil spirit that leads people into doing things that would disgrace them and lead them to regret in future. You might say you have no commitment or are not married, but what about when you get married, what stories would you tell, you might say that you wont get caught but you know it is wrong and you would pay. Your soul is of outmost importance and who ever makes it to heaven can be glad. For those who watch or encourage and coerce girls and others into this shameful way of life remember that forgiveness has its limits. Rather then dwell in physical things leave them for the spiritual. The devil knows your future and works hard to mar your today which would soon be your past. No one is worth you giving up your self esteem remember what is right and keep to it.
There are lessons to learn about peace and holiness and perfection and Christ tells us that the sin against the holy spirit is not forgiven. Avoid it as a plague and think twice about every step. You take.
Do not mar your future with a broken, hideous and dingy past. I leave you with a story about a young woman who was in this ugly habit. She went to a cyber café where this was allowed and there was ‘privacy’ for this. When she left she forgot to shut down, so the next person to use the system, noted what she was doing. Later her parents saved a lot and sent her to Harvard. When she got there she met many people who wanted to know what her life was like. She later was about to get married. She met a very successful young man a student of first class from the school who got an administrative job in a multinational company. The marriage was advertised over the television as it was also a royal wedding. As they were about to get married the man swore that it would not happen again, a friend of his had her odd photos. He could never marry a woman whom an old friend had odd photos of. That was the end of her much talked about marriage. What do you think? Be careful what you do and refuse to do wrong. We have to stick to the old stories to wait and no one is worth your self esteem, no matter who or what or where. Say no to shameful online practices and guess what they are also illegal, obviously. Show respect for God and for yourself. Thanks be to God as you listen and share this Sunday.
But someone else was also watching her whilst that occurred and he is God. Who knows what happened to her soul? Be careful, don’t be deceived or misled.

We are not in the middle east but thank heavens our law states it clearly it is illegal! And punishable by law. What a shameful burial here on earth the girl got when she was buried with cases on her neck. If you are feeling like you can do whatever you like, pause…IT IS ILLEGAL!
Whatever is illegal remains illegal and avoiding it is the best step to take. Whensoever it seems that you are forgetting God and falling, you can pick yourself up and move on. Be as serious and ‘straight jacket’ as you used to be before because if not YOU ARE SIMPLY PICKING ALL THE VICES EVER.
Two friends went shopping. They had gotten a visa as students and during their break they were meant to buy things. They went shopping and her friend kept buying all the things that were not wanted or had been in the shop for long. Cynthia kept wondering what Maureen her friend was doing but she could not tell. Once she saw an old item dusty and about to be taken out she would buy it. She went ahead to buy some unwanted items THINGS ABOUT TO BE SENT TO ARCHIVES or kept back as junk. This went on till later on Cynthia asked Maureen what she was doing and Maureen answered, What have you been doing this year?
Their school was an international school. Maureen replied, "from our Turkish friends you decided to learn from one of them smoking, from our friends from America, you learnt indecency, from students from Germany, you learnt how to use Indian hemps. Cynthia you picked the new, latest items and desirable goods here but not from them, I learnt, photography from the Turkish students, computer programming from the students from America and tailoring from a German student. So you see".
What a story. When you come online do not learn all the negative things there are many things to do but an idle mind would make you the devil’s workshop, so avoid this and busy with your hobbies, save and ask your parents to support the positive things and when you are busy with them go on forget THINGS THAT ARE VERY HARMFUL AND DRIVEN BY AN EVIL SPIRIT. NIGERIANS, WE HAVE BEEN KNOWN TO BE RELIGIOUS and every other country that used to have their morals and avoid vice and those who are into vices should take NOTE OF THIS SPECIAL REPORT ABOUT WHATS GOING ON ONLINE. JUST IN CASE SOME PERSON LOCATES PEOPLE AND GETS THEM TO FACE THE LAW.

 How is this possible?

I miss my long lost love BUBA.

I have used miss carolina and it contains hydroquinone, and nothing happened to me. dark skin is good but very very dark skin is not good and is as a result of the sun, you need products that contain some hydroquinone cos those natural things don't work and besides. clear esscence contains some hydroquinone, fair and white might contain clo, you cant avoid hydroquinone. the skin should be lighter a bit. if you are bying the tubes its worse. just keep it two percent. . well i still think it;s a choice. i think its the tube that worksfast. keeping it real. Sohlahtie

Never but things happen so you know like whatever. People don't wait for things to be justified, they just do them and look you in the face and that's it. so whatever