Ramcie:
My dear sisters in the house plz help me I was tested for malaria and it was positive though +seen which is minimal "I think". I was then prescribed Lonart double strength. My question is how safe is Lonart I'm almost 26weeks gone. A doc prescribed but I just want to be extra sure that's why I'm asking. Thanks in advance

#proudlyteamFeb

Please take your lonart. Information doesn't exist about the safety of lonart in pregnancy however malaria in pregnancy can lead to very grievous consequences low birth weight, premature birth, spontaneous abortion of the baby , still birth amongst other things.

Lol! I guess you were being sarcastic in your title or is it your write up that is sarcastic? Because this sounds like you hate to love NIGERIA.

Bump

dupsil:
Wat do you guys think ?

would have been epic except you also typed like an illiterate. maybe you should have considered this married woman's feelings and instead said Im sorry you have issues in your marriage but i honestly don't have anything to do with your husband. I'll stop calling him if that bothers you. That would make you more humane and mature.
You would definitely get married one day, then you will understand that for her to reach out to you, she's probably really desperate.

blessedtwins:
So I backed her and picked the bags containing clothes and diapers ready to leave.git to the back door opened it.hubby came, locked it,kept the key.did same to front door.eventually I got out because he thot he had all the keys with him.then my dad called back to say he hopes I am in the move that I had waited too long to get her proper medical care.lo and behold the beast came behind me and started dragging dd from my back and I told my dad as he was stl on d phone.i was still calm but as he kept on the bags n phone fell.he then held up my two hands and hitting and slapping me repeatedly on my head this was when I started shouting.my neighbours cqme out.then he started looking for something on the ground,I was wondering what he was looking for.then he found my phone and then smashed it repeatedly.any wayI git to the hospital that nite dd and I were both admitted.i don't want to return there is my issue now.my DD is scheduled for a surgery and d hospital is waiting for me to get a place we can both be safe.my dad's place is not conducive as there are too many allergens there that provoke my DD s illness.what next for us

olumide81:
Did you just say good! Thisss issue had me write an undertaking

well you made your bed.... Listen to your wife next time, wives are more dangerous than girlfriends.

gunpoint:
Get yasef a side guy too as your prank. Yor prank shouldn't be on the chic but to the offending guy. If you do this girl strong tin now and she run, how many girls you wan prank for this life na? Na prank you come this life come dey organise?

Get yor self a guy. Didn't say someone to be sleeping with, but someone to constantly chat/flirt with. See how the hommie likes his own dose of alabukun

Mehn! I no sabi do that kain thing o. I'm too serious minded and he'll probably scoff because he knows it's fake.

olumide81:
What my wife once did to me?
She got the side chick's phone nos
added her on whats app, she then saved her pix and edited and wrote rip on the pix used it as her dp on all social media platform.....will leave you to imagine what happened next

Lmfao! That's a good one...

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So I want to prank my spouse's side chic who may or may not be a side chic but he corresponds far too much with her despite my severally telling him I'm not comfortable with it. I just drew a battle line and told him that whatever he sees , he should take. so I have a few ideas of my own but I would like to hear other ideas. What would you do to prank your that girl/guy your spouse communicates with far too much that you don't like one bit...?

OLAADEGBU:


What would you do if you were in that plane?

Walk to the cockpit to confirm that both pilot and co-pilot seats are empty. Reach under my seat for my parachute. Grab my hand luggage. Ask if anyone knows how to fly a plane. Radio for help, A million and one things to do before panic sets in....

The real devil is the person who watched calmly and videoed this clip for an entire 4 minutes without going to slap some sense into the girl. then proceeded to broadcast this on social media instead of discreetly showing the clip to the parents/guardian.

Adaeze003:


You have your own yardstick of success, she has hers. There's nothing patronizing about what she said, the message is simple.

"I worked hard and made it to the top, you can too as a woman"!!!

Simple! There's nothing like "luck" in her success, there were bloggers before her and there will be bloggers after her and some will still not get to earn as much as she does in this life. It's not a curse but reality. She said it was her hardwork, patience and faith. You best believe that!

If she was male and said all these, you won't give the same response!

Luck my ass...

woman, trust me, if she was a man, i wont give the same response , i would be harsher. what a person chooses to do with his/her body is none of your fucking business, and if she chooses to call repeated plagiarism and unabashed article stealing, unfounded uninvestigated reporting "hardwork", and you both choose to believe it, good for her and good for you too!
she's not the only one that has been hustling since bleh bleh bleh, yada yada yada. she's not the only one that has never slept with a man for money, shes not the only one that has cried to the so-called God about being his child and blah blah blah. so like i said, her God was doing eenie minnie maney moo, who shall i make rich today, lucky linda it is you!...She was just Lucky!

tonymax19:
Guys dnt knw what to do,he tried to forcefully finger our househelp and this isn't the first time.I dnt knw whether to tell my mum or jux let it go.Cant talk to him because im way younger than him. P.S he is married with about 4 children.pls guyz help me its getting out of hand. cc:lalastica

Don't be stupid, don't be a coward. Protect the innocent. first tell someone older then confront him and threaten to tell the Entire world.

Cuteaidomo:
Cuteaidomo:
Good day to all the mamas in the house and congrats to all the new mums. Please I need some advice Fromm experienced mums oooo. Trying to shop for my baby's crib. Pls which is advisable? The wooden baby crib or the play pen? Someone said the wooden crib is not safe cos it's not as deep as the playpen and so there's tendency of toddler climbing out eventually and also the baby hitting their head on the wooden crib Don't know how true this is..... Pls experienced mums should help a first timer out oooooo. Thanks all.


Pls can I get more opinions from experienced mamas on dis?

Please, a play pen is not a bed. If you find a good wooden crib, it is better and safer, the sides of a playpen are not rigid and an infant CAN suffocate if she starts rolling and is pressed against the fabric on the sides. The playpen is for when the toddler is awake /alert.

This piece is patronising. You were just lucky. Right time.QED. Besides an expensive house and expensive shoes is not the epitome of success or happiness" those are external values that the world sees.
What's really in a person's heart? Are you content with who you are? When nobody is looking can a person still smile/ laugh joyfully? That is the yardstick by which I measure success. So my own advice to young girls out there is to Know yourself. And Chase the dreams that will make you happy. Put a smile on your face for yourself. Not for the world to see. Cheers.

twizzie:
My toddler is almost 30 months and a very picky eater... He is under weight as he is like in the 10th percentile in weight and height. He practically wants to live on fluids (Mostly milk) and sometimes cereal... He likes fries and pastries too but we all know that isn't really healthy... We have tried so many things with little result... He is presently on Well Baby Multivitamins...
Suggestions on fattening foods and recipes will help please.
Thanks!

Enfagrow milk is good. Thrive signature also claims to be, I say claims because I don't know of anyone with actual results.Peanut butter, coconut milk, avocadoes, and of course the popular ogi baba pap are good ways to put some flesh on a kid. My son is almost two and I noticed he got chubbier after I incorporated some of these in his meals. He wasn't a picky eater or underweight to begin with though

Acidosis:
I believe in taking actions for justifiable reasons, but it appears no one is ready to compromise.

Being a Christian, I try as much as possible to relate family matters with the Bible (after all, the history of marriage/family is traceable to the book of genesis).

Here is the issue, my lady wants her daughter(s) ear lobes pierced. On the other hand, I see the act of ear lobe piercing as 'slavery'. The reason is clear, the only reference to piercing the ears in the Bible was when a person gave himself or herself to be a life-long slave to a master (Deuteronomy 15:16,17). This is symbolic enough for me to reject such on my daughter.

Besides, I see no reason why I should join the bandwagon or subject an infant to such pain; ear piercing does not make a girl a GIRL.

What if she grows to hate the idea of earrings/piercing? I believe she's free to pierce when she's old enough to take decisions.



Should a lovely/committed relationship end based on this disagreement? She wants this for her daughters, but I don't need them on our daughters. Am I too strict or old-fashioned? Should I change an idea I've harboured for over 15yrs?

No you shouldn't, there's absolutely no medical or otherwise logical reason for piercing a baby's ear. She should respect that you don't want to inflict uneccesary pain on your daughters but out of curiosity, where do you stand on circumcision?

maureensylvia:
pls I need help... have been sick since last month but it became serious dis week, I was admitted yesterday. doctor said that I have serious malaria. I was administered drugs and injections. dis afternoon I noticed that my urine looks bloody even my spit. until now my hubby and i are worried. pls what could b d cause? am 19weeks. pls I need answers am totally worried

If you were given chloroquine for the malaria, then relax, chloroquine darkens the urine. As long as it's just the colour of your urine that changed then you are okay.

kaffy4bill:



Sori abt dat sis. Luth is also in surulere and sum mamas here vouch for Randle general hospital too in surulere. All the best

I am using LUTH as well but I prefer to do a private hospital and go to LUTH if anything comes up. But Havana is just a glorified And expensive LUTH. There service delivery is zero, and some of their staff are just so unprofessional. Imagine wasting more time doing antenatal in Havana than I spend in luth. It a really annoying especially when the only reason I'm here is exactly because of service delivery and waiting time.

tchiwinnie:
@Kendrallmai, congrats o. God bless ur lo. Awaiting ur birth story.
@Soopamom, Pele o. this Havana pple vex u well o. I don't really kno surulere well. Other mamas ll answer u.
@mamas, pls let's b careful o and not 'over zealous'. I m reading here abt mamas wanting to reduce baby's weight in utero. Una wan born low birth weight babies?? That one get e own wahala o. Pls and pls just eat healthy in ur pregnancy(nt for 2). Forget all these extra measures to reduce baby's weight. Stop gluttony eating.

Thanks jare.

Havana specialist hospital has got to be the worse private hospital on history. Please who knows of any other good maternity hospital preferably in surulere area?

bigheart2013:
Can someone decode this statement and advise how to go about it:

Scenario: You went to buy grocery leaving your wife at home, you came back and the door was slightly open so you entered unnoticed with absolutely nothing in your mind and start unloading the groceries into the freezer downstairs. Your wife didn't realize you were back and was upstairs in the room talking loud on the phone with someone (apparently her friend or colleague), you were hearing her clearly downstairs. Though you didn't know what their discussion was about because you're neither there when it started nor hearing the other person...all she was saying was "yeah...eeeeeh..hmmm...ok....really? , etc" Suddenly you heard her say:

"...Nooo..but the man doesn't even know how to F***ck at all....so I don't know why she's crazy about him...."

Then she realized you're back, cut the phone and came down. You asked her what she was doing upstairs, but she only wanted to know when you came back. What would you do afterwards? You have never had any reason to suspect her before and never monitors her, she goes to church, prays regularly and really the shy, introvert type. So if you confront her she may withdraw into her 'shell' forever. Does this mean the man in question has f***cked her before?

LMFAO! You don enter one chance. The fact that your wifey can talk like that to someone else but pretends to be holier than the pope to you means that your marriage is built on false foundation.
But on to your question, girls do give graphic details to their girlfriends so her knowing the man can't Bleep could very easily be what the girl in question told her.

fantazia:
There is this neibour of mine that lost her husband last two weeks in a ghastly motor accident, its just two weeks now, though the husband is still in mortuary but this widow in question had sex with a friend of mine, they engage in sex yesterday. "well im troubled, is there any repercusion on what they did? cc:lalasticlala, rocktation, obinoscopy

The correct answer is mind your own ducking business

Elegantdiva:
Pls am introvert..a very serious one. I hardly go out nor go on a date. i feel awkward when a guy ask for a date(i wont say no but i will disappoint at the 11th hr) I am 30yrs.Also i am inlove wif my southAfrican boy whp have been away for 2yrs+ now even thou we did introduction before he left the shores of the country. I live with my parents . i do go to work from there . I equally av a cilent who recently became my frnd .. I find pleasure hanging out with him.. i also like sharing my problem wif him(careerly, relationship ) cux therr is always a new thing to learn from him everyday.... Yday i invited him over to the house, he met my mum and they had discussions.. ..
leta i went to see my pastor from there i went to hang out wif him. Too bad i came bk around 9pm... Now my problem. .. My mum also floged me.. She said all sort of tins to me. she was very angry wif me.. Jst dis once i went out... Now my questions are: At my age, is she meant to shout on me for going out ? I like this my cilent, I still want him as a frnd and i wouldnt want my mum to angry wif me again, how do i handle it? lastly i want my parents (my mum)to stop controling nd ordering my life about( i hardly trvl out of my state .be it interview, wedding nor visit to my sisters)i seriously want to take charge over my life. I go to work everyday, whc am not supoz to stay out once is 7pm(no meta d official excuse)..... Pls help me!!!!!!!! i didnt sleep the whole of lastnite

fuuu cking grow up, you have a job, move out of your parents house.

nickibarb:
So my husband cheated on me some months ago right, i realised this when i came across numerous flirtatious messages on his whatsapp (you might remember me from my previous posts). The drama resulting from that discovery was so complicated, i don't even have the strength to go there. Anyways, my reason for this post is that I am obsessed with paying him back in his own coin. I think i'm way too hot for that insult he meted out to me like does he think because i have two kids I am like totally off the market? The first two guys i flirted with as payback (via the same whatsapp) were falling over themselves to get with me. My husband saw the messages (i'm glad he did) and it drove him crazy, he was swearing fire and brimstone about what he'll do to any guy that messes with me. Right now, I don't feel any love for my husband, I kinda told him that already. He broke my heart and I don't think it can ever heal. I'm only here in this marriage co-habitation cause he has some money (i like the entitled life) and of course I would love to give the kids a two-parent home. (I have some cash of my own though but he has a lot more).

I totally ignore my husband now, I don't give a hoot about whether he comes home or not. Some days ago, after staying away for like forever, he came home ready to give a million explanations about his whereabouts but i wasn't interested, i just carried on a conversation with him like i didn't notice he had been absent (the same explanation i used to literally beg him for). It's making him so uncertain and shaky and i'm loving it. Looks like he enjoyed the attention i used to give him before when i used to whine about him not calling me and not coming home. Now i don't give a f*** and he knows it. Anyways, I probably won't cheat unless i meet a really classy, enlightened, well travelled young-man , the type i'm usually attracted to (like my husband), for now i just feel like ranting. Most Nigerian men are not my type anyway. I'm 27 so i'm not that old. This n**** messed with the wrong wife. Its been a slow boring day at work today maybe clients are already in pre-independence celebratory mode, so i'm available to read your comments. try and be nice okay *tougueout.

Two wrongs don't make a right. He cheated on you, you have two options ,get over it and repair the relationship if you want to stay or get the Bleep out of that dysfunctional relationship. Two broken parents giving your children the wrong first impression about love and marriage is so SO wrong. So stop being selfish and do the right thing.
P.S. you pretend not to care,but obviously you still care a lot and are hurting deeply. Dont worsen this situation ,okay?

ajademola2000:
For real she might not understand because she is a woman. I can also do what the man did. I remember a day a lady almost slap me and she was even the one at fault, it was a guy who sat beside her in the car that had to resolve the issue. I don't know what would have happened if the guy wasn't there.. but I'm sure of one thing I will get her arrested if she slaps me that day and I will teach her some sense

What is this idiot saying?

Beryl15:

Prisms Diagonistic clinic...it's off Bode Thomas

Thanks a lot dear.

Abet does anybody know where I can do a 3d /4 d ultrasound? Preferably in surulere ares?

Chinwendym:
Thanks for sharing! Me I go start the pineapple feast by 36+5 so my baby can come by 37+ or 38 Gods willing

In that case I just might be an October mum
Hurray!
Hippy!
Hoohaa!

Ozycy and zaynie yes I won't call Una senior again because my baby must show face by October! !!!
Me and Una don dey for the semu category o!

Dream dream dream dream dreeeeeaaaaaaam! If you like chop all the pineapple wey dey market, baby will only come when baby is ready. Not a second before. On the other side, chopping too much pineapple will only make baby have a sweet tooth

blessedtwins:
Pls I have something on my mind that I would like my e family's opinion as if it were their sister.
My husband has vehemently refused to listen to any plea abt getting a maid to help when my baby arrives.he insists he will do the omugwo himself or ask his younger brothers to come over for it.
Pls it sounds ridiculous but that's how unreasonable he is.My dad said I should come over to his house a few days to but I am thinking moving out to a fresh apartment.
This decision is against the backdrop of how much abuse I have withstood.
Cc: kimoni
nkkystel
goldmine
Virtuouswifey
fabmummy

I went back and read your posts to get a little history. If divorce/separation is on your mind because you and your family are unhappy then make a plan and work towards it. I get the vibe that you are severely emotionally abused,no human being deserves that, especially in the name of marriage. Do what's best for both you and your children. It's a huge responsibility but unfortunately that's the card life has dealt you, and you have to be strong. Marriage is not the be all and end all, it never was, it never will be. They try to deceive us about t how our tradition doesn't condone it but that's a lie, women have left their husbands since time immemorial.

iceboo:
Mamas in the house I greet o. Pls I just found out I,m 4 weeks pregnant. The issue is I'm not having any symptom except sore nipple. My whole body is just normal. Should I be worried.?. I,m already worried though. Lol.

Only 4 weeks? Enjoy the not feeling pregnant while it still lasts. With my first baby,I didn't feel or look preggers till like 28 weeks, I kept doing ultrasounds just to be sure. With this second one, mehn from day 2.