oh puhlease! did you do simple comprehension in primary school? the bible is describing the kind of tribulation/starvation they will come upon. dont be a dunce, atheists usually have more sense, stop embarrassing them (if indeed you are an atheist)

abeg , na vagina na im person dey take do executive assisstant job?i weak for my country o. such blatant sexism.

How old was this child at the time? Ever heard of statutory rape? The father should have blamed himself for not protecting his daughter and for not raising her in a manner that would have made her at least confident enough in his love to have approached him with the info. Instead he is after his stupid pride and what people were saying behind his back.... Mitschewwww

cilifa:
Ever experience trying to reach your wife on phone, either to check on her or for an urgent need and its takes forever for her to pick the phone.

it can be so annoying, have had to get her colleagues and other neighbours number just to help reach her and inform her i need to talk to her.


Is the situation same on your side?

Ladies, any reason for these?

It is not a married women thing. It is a your wife thing. Maybe she was too busy f***king her boss. Who knows?

ConfessionsNgr:
Having seen the confessions of a lot of people on this forum, I am tempted to share my little secret with you and hope that your words of advice or criticism will help me in making the right decision. My name is Adanna (Not real name please) and I am 30 years old. By the grace of God, I will be getting married in about six weeks from now to a very wonderful man whom I love so much and will do anything for. My husband to be, is a very loving and caring man whom I will say is any woman’s dream and I can’t wait to be called his wife. However, I am scared of the future, because of the circumstance of how I met him. I met my husband through his uncle who happens to be a very close friend or to put it in simple terms who was like a sugar daddy to me. Please don’t get it wrong here; I am not the kind of girl that runs after sugar daddies. It just happened that the uncle used to live on the same compound with my parents back in the days in Kaduna where we used to live. Then the uncle was a young bachelor and I was in the secondary school. My siblings and I and all other kids in the compound use to take video cassettes to the uncles flat to watch films. There was however, this particular day that I was there alone with the uncle and the unimaginable happened between us. I won’t say he took advantage of me because really and truly I have always liked him and used to dream about him as my knight in shining armor in my teenage mind. He on his part has always shown his likeness and preference for me of all the kids that used to gather in his flat. So we continued with our secret affair back then because nobody knew about it. But then, he was a lot older than me and always told me that what he was doing was wrong, however, he was transferred out of Kaduna and I didn’t see him again till years later. I was posted to Lagos for my youth service after graduating from school and that was when I ran into the uncle once again but then he was already married with three kids. So when he wanted us to start off the relationship once again, I bluntly refused and reminded him that he was married and besides back then, I was infatuated with love but now I am more matured. He respected my decision and we became great friends. So when his nephew who came back from abroad where he went to school, saw me with him and enquired about me from him, he told him that we were former neighbors and that I was a very good girl. That was how his nephew and I started dating. However, when the nephew proposed to me and told me that he wanted to marry me, I was initially scared and ran to him to tell him what his nephew was proposing. He gave me his blessing that I should go ahead and marry him and that our little secret was safe with him and that he was even happy that it was his nephew that was marrying me since he knew that I was a very good girl. Now the marriage preparations are in top gear but I am very scared, should the secret come out any day that I had slept with the uncle back then. Do you think I should go ahead with this marriage, or come clean before the marriage, or just let sleeping dogs lie, because I don’t want to bring shame and disgrace to myself or my family?


Source: http://confessionsnigeria.com/post/100/scared-of-the-future

Number one, this "uncle took advantage of you"
Number two you should have come clean from the beginning. Coming clean now would be doing the right thing at the wrong time.
Number three, a man who took advantage of you as a teenager will not hesitate to use the fact that you had sex with him as a weapon of blackmail to get you into bed with him. Thread very carefully.

He just concocted a formula for death

tochikel:
Good morning, good women in the house. Please @ what week can a baby starts kicking, I'm in my 24th weeks today thanks and waiting for a reply

if it's your first, you might not recognize the kicking till around the 25th week, especially if your abdominal region is fatty. However just to put your mind at rest,you can check in with your gynae.

you will happily give your child goat milk, cow milk, etc and not worry or get angry with the donating goat/cow. But your own blood sister who lovingly nurtured your child in your absence you want to castigate. If your sister is disease free then i dont see why not.

Please take your girlfriend to yaba left.

Under 12 is still too young. Under 18 biiko

netizenbuzz:


You can make your comment without sounding so insensitive

lmfao. You want me to hold your hand and sing kumbaya because we are discussing a "sensitive" issue? Go find your mommy.

mmsen:


The emotional trauma that comes with having a child by a rapist.

We already know that most women struggle to raise children when the father of that child is no longer a part of the woman's life - how much worse must it be when the father is a rapist? What would that do to the self-esteem of the child?

Does aborting the baby undo the rape? How will it take care of the trauma ? please help me understand that. if you cant deal, the give the child up for adoption. i would gladly adopt a child irrespective of his/her background and i know several other people that would do the same.

Justfollowit:


You are a selfish being

you my dear are a vindictive being

dammytosh:


Very easy to say until as a lady, you are raped by a close cousin or kidnapped by Boko Haram

FYI, maybe i was raped, maybe i'm currently a single mother to the product of that rape. you dont know. if you have ever carried a babe in your womb then you will know that the babe feels more like "you" than anybody else and the fact that it was the product of such circumstances will only make you want to wrap her in your love and protect her from any and all of the terrible things that happen in this world. That's the true mother instinct.

mmsen:


Is killing in self-defence wrong? Or would you lay down and allow yourself to murdered if some accosted you?

If the young lady was raped and became pregnant as a result then of course the pregnancy is the cause. Why should the baby be dragged into such a scenario? Is the girl not free to protect herself from further long term trauma for both her and the unwanted/unplanned pregnancy?

are you comparing abortion to killing in self defence? the girl is free to choose whatever she wants, i'm just saying justifying it based on these circumstances is just...pfffft! what trauma are you talking about ? and how does killing an innocent babe in the womb compare to being accosted by murderers?

It's really simple, the power lies in our hands. we need to boycott dstv. Just deny yourself of the pleasure of dstv or gotv for two to three months. they will definintely come around

sonOfLucifer:
As one who has worked under a Christian employee, I remain forever grateful to him for printing the above quote and placing at strategic points in the workplace.

It served as a constant reminder to all members of staff that matters of religion should not be mixed with secular work. Office is office.

As one familiar with the hypocrisy of the monster called Nigerian Christianity would predict, those who had an issue with these were mostly Christians, especially those Pentecostal folk. They accused Oga of not being a true Christian, wondered why we didnt have morning prayera and at some point, some accused him of being a part of the occult.

If I should find myself in your situation, I would pray to my master Lucifer. Afterall, during the inter religious prayers, Christians pray in Jesus name and Muslims pray to their Mohammed/Allah. Why shouldnt my God be represented?

hahaha i did something similar once during my service year. i just said a prayer for all present to be guided in the light. i was even a devout christian then, what just irked me was the presumptuos manner in which christians tell you to pray
LOL!

johnydon22:
Lol, first i think you are not fully an atheist tho just still maybe can be classified agnostic. . . but this is really a funny situation.
Most people around me know am atheistic, or irreligious at least so they don't ask me, even if they ask you, u can still do it after all u used to do it..so u know how to. .lolzzz..

well i'm not exactly out there with my beliefs. Not sure i have the courage to share yet.

Abortion is either right or wrong, there is no such thing as "in this instance". Dont kill is dont kill, it's not okay to kill just because you were raped or because a child's father is boko haram or bla bla bla. Abi is it the pregnancy that is responsible for your rape?

ebonflex:
So I just finished reading the textbook of a bridal list in this page https://www.nairaland.com/2285910/imo-state-mandatory-bride-prize.

While I was about to remind myself why I decided a long time ago not to marry an Igbo girl due to matters such as this (also because beautiful girls are everywhere so why submit yourself to evil?), someone made mention that they always send-off the bride (Idu-Uno).

First of all, every wedding everywhere gets the new couple seen off with gifts, so I'm not sure why they feel the need to make mention of this as if it's something special and as if takes away from the fact that these textbooks are prepostrous.

But maybe their own really is special, so I would like someone to help us bachelors clear the air... WHAT DOES the new couple get back from this Idu uno? For those that married, what did you provide and what did you get back? Ratio?

And please don't come up here with some foolishness about how "I got a priceless wife back" or something that daft because by doing so you devalue yourself. I'm tired of seeing brothas who don't value themselves enough to see themselves as priceless gifts just as well. These things are not one way.

Now let's hear your ratios

Dude, if you are looking for return on investment, open up a saloon or supermarket or something. Stop asking half assed questions when you obviously have no respect / understanding of culture/tradition.

Well, i dont think i fall into the atheist category. I just know that i've come to realise that religous stories and all that are probably fairytales. I still pray but only with my immediate family because is see the power of prayer. it makes people worry less when they believe that it's all in God"s hands now. I'm not sure if i believe in God and spirits and all that and even if i do believe in God , do i want to believe in the christain God as portrayed in the bible? that's a topic for another day. My question actually came up because i was asked by "christians" in the office to say the opening prayer and usually i would have just mumbled something but for some reason (i think i didnt want to be asked again becasue if you agree to pray once, they will assume you are okay to be asked to pray a second and third and bla bla bla) i casually said, No thank you, Let someone else pray. That made me wonder, have you ever been told to pray by assuming christians? How do you respond to such requests?

Ochiske:


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then dial the code *229*2*7#

if it isnt up, call their customer care.
Goodluck

thanks a lot for your assistance. when i dialled *229*0# the response is that i am not on the etisalat easyblaze data offer.

Ochiske:
Not quite long ago, Etisalat shocked Nigerians by introducing a 2GB plan for N2000. Code is *229*2*8#

Now, they've also introduced a new cheaper plan.
1GB for N1000. Code is *229*2*7#



SME data sellers are gonna hate this new plan coz it is way cheaper than their N1500 for 1GB

please help , they say im not eligible to use this service, any idea why?
thanks in advance

this your post is probably more ignorant than any of those ones you are addressing

Dear brothers and Sisters, do not deceive yourself. Fornication is fornication. Regardless of where/how /with whom you decide to do it. Cheers

OF COURSE HE CAN! God works in mysterious waysssssss

yahda yahda yahda dumb dum dumb bla bla bla sheesh! does this stupidity have no end?

please keep the powder away from the baby, it can cause respiratory issues for the baby

ProfGday:

If trully u were born in d mth of May,u don't knw ur worth..........find out.

ahahahahahaahahaha dude, i'm not deluded into thinking that my month of birth is responsible for who/what I am.

bla bla bla. just another month in another year. yep i was born in may but so effing what?

Rapture07:
I think my age was good, class was also good, and dat essay eh believe me I did my very best to d best of my capacity. But there was a session were we told to upload oda supporting document, and I skipped dat area. Don't know if it had any effect on the application

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skipped that area, got the test link, success mail.

absolutely nothing wrong with it...shes at home, afterall people expect other n=mothers to go breast feed in public restrooms so as to avoid bfing in public