but once children are involve they steal the time and attention away from the couple. and as they grow up too tat the couple might never get to enjoy themselve till they are much older. starting off with just the two of yu in a yr or two after marriage migh mak for som healthy foundation building that would help the life time tat marriage is.

Marriage is the completeness of one's person. This goes beyond having children. Since creation it is a destiny set for us to fulfill without which man is not complete. It gets to a stage, an age maybe, that man feels that empyiness and a need to be completed with another, he feels lonely even in the midst of a crowd. Even where marriage is a burden, it has a great accomplishemt in existence.

asking y is asking creation itself tat created each individual incomplete in his soul.

should pregnancy follow immediately after marriage or should a time for fun n just the two of yu be set aside[b][/b]

O yea, several times.
Had a few date with some
and on lik one occasion got intimate

HI

SwtNsoFLyy,

nice comment

y yu hide yu id. saw tat to replied as soon as i did. mayb we could chat. reply to this to let me kno.

cheers. smile,

i need a gal as a chat friend.we start as a chatting pals and get to kno each other better.

my tru identity is hidden from nairaland but to say a few,i am a fresh graduate and based in the US (NEW YORK, BRONX) but frequesnt nigeria very well.am a yoruba guy.fun loving,good to look at with a sense of humour.

would prefer a yoruba gal who is goodlooking gal tat lovs som fun and trips though in moderation.not too young or old.

email is ballistic02@yahoo.co.uk

i had knelt down for my galf in public begging to mak me happy as she always messes up lik going to night parties without telling me.

we both av waited at the bustop togeter when a car packed right infront of us and picked her away and all she told me was i will see you while she dispeared into the car in a moment- yea, just lik tat - i was dumbfolded and motionless for afew moment! - this is REAL TRUE LIFE.

i dumped her in tears wen i couldnt cope coz i LOVE her. that was 5yrs ago. she was young then. a yr later i found a God sent tat givs me no probl. ever since. that gal has comeback beggin several times but nay. she has gone out with many other guys with no one to settle with her.

wats are the best lines to toast a gal and get her attention. Wats ur own lines and contribution.

mine:

"hi, like i av met you somewhere before?".
"i lik tat smile/look on ur face,wats ur name?"
"u av such a long nice hair, can i meet yu, my name is steph"
"where are yu walking to can i giv yu som company, av been seeing tu around "

comment on this and say ur own dude. gals too can giv there reactions to those lines if it works. lets go[b][/b]