Abeg these people should let us hear word abeg. All these claims should have been before the divorce court at the time. If they wanted a public trial then they should have informed the media... What do they want us to do at this point, give awards?

Pdp should be bold enough to put Wike where he belongs.

Peterobiisathie:
Reno omokri on X gave a jab to Obidient who want to silence him

Oh really!!! And his offence would have been what? Shaking table.. 🤔 Abegiiiii

UnconventionalT:
Copied

"I am a Nigerian student living in Scotland, A Nigerian Christian guy got in touch with me via WhatsApp and asked for a relationship, saying he got my number off a church whatsapp group that I haven't been to for almost a year now. He said he's prayed about me and God has told him we are good to go. He is a student too.
I was single at the time and haven't been with a Christian brother before, so I decided to give it a chance. It's roughly 2 months and I am at the point where I want to quit.

We got talking on the platform and also through calls, about a week into our relationship/talking stage he asked me to come to his place and cook for him so he can have enough food for the coming week. I was surprised because we hadn't even seen each other at that at time. I told him I cannot, he made a big deal out of it and said stuff like it's not a big deal for me to do that as his wife to be. We got over that and arranged to see for the first time, he suggested my house and I said I don't feel comfortable with either of us seeing for the first time in our houses and we finally concluded on a Bugger King outlet which isn't far from my house. This didn't go well with him tho.

We met for the first time and talked, after that he said he wanted to know my place as it isn't far from Burger King. He came to my place and stayed in my bed till around past 10pm, he tried touching and kissing, I told him I wasn't comfortable and he needed to leave because of time. He got annoyed said his intentions was to stay over at my place, he already told his housemate he isn't coming back home and it's so late now to go back. I told him I cannot allow him sleep at my house for the first time we're meeting, I have a small single bed and you intentionally didn't even say you'd sleep over before. He grudgingly left and dropped 3 packs of youghurt and a bag of unfried chips which I later discovered where all expired at the time he dropped them.

I told him about it and he made a mess out of the situation. He attends a pentecostal church and critisizes other churches, he doesn't really believe in adult taking responsibility for their actions as the devil is most likely responsible for everything, we simply have to pray against the devil.
He's asked for sex multiple times in less than 1 month, I stopped talking to him one time for about 2 weeks and we picked up again. He said he doesn't have to penetrate, we can do every other things to satisfy our flesh. He said doing all that with him is the proof of my love for him which I have strongly disagreed. Sex isn't a prove of love, we are adults and can have protected sex with anyone without loving them.
The only single thing I enjoy about him is that we communicate well, he talks a lot too and that makes our communication half argument, he finds fault in any little thing and blows it out of proportion. I have told him I don't have strength for argument in marriage since we won't be arguing over minute things that get him pissed off now.

Both of us have been getting multiple 12 hours night shifts from work and two nights ago, he asked me what he was going to eat when he gets home the following morning, I knew he was up to something. I told him I can't say, we don't live together and I don't know what you currently have at home. I suggested he buys bread on his way back home. He then asked me to cook for him to eat the following morning, I sincerely let him know I have no soup or stew myself. His response changed and he later called me on same subject, citing how I don't care enough about him to be concerned about how he is gonna eat since he's been working few nights now, he compared himself to a married man that always brings food to work at his workplace. Even gave the guy his phone to talk to me, that one too said I should do things in my power to make my man happy.

I tried to make him understand he isn't married and it might be difficult to enjoy what his married frnd is enjoying. Youve never bought me foodstuff, you haven't worked before and sent me 50 pounds or less for groceries, we are both working night shifts and I sort my own food, why are you angry I can't make out time out of my rest period to come cook at your house to stuck your fridge?

I have been in relationship where I cooked, I personally enjoy cooking, but I have never been with a man that feels to entitled to me doing that for him. He says I'm supposed to be the one cooking for him. He also believes in women abroad sharing bills, but he is too traditional to share house chores"

One word to describe this guy... "liability". My advice is also one word dear... "run"!

IdiotOjukwu:
Yul edochie in court to support his second daddy and political godfather .

BOLA AHMED AKANBI TINUBU...

Desperation no doubt! After the social media attire declaration didn't work, i guess this is the next stint.. Good luck to him - he sure needs it in the days to come!

plaindealer:


https://dailypost.ng/2023/09/07/nigerias-election-youll-never-be-president-as-long-as-i-live-omokri-to-peter-obi/

If he feels an injustice has been done to him and his family by Peter Obi, he should seek legal redress. The level of bile in him is unhealthy and becoming repulsive everytime he rants on SM...

thesilentman:
My blood is burning now as I write.My wife has now completely changed for bad, a few days after our second child.

An erstwhile submissive woman that i thought i had tamed for life has now become a thorn in the flesh to me. I just parted with over 300k unplanned fund for her C.S. I thought she'd be more respectful to me now but no,she has changed completely!

She dares me to do my worst,she cries over small issues that i wonder if it's witchcraft.Or she thinks I can't quit cos she's got two boys for me? The mind boggles. Am just mad and gobsmacked at the same time as all my Red pill O.T have failed and am even considering divorce right now.

I'm at a bar drinking my sorry ass away, brainstorming the best option for me. What could be outta place?

I need candid advice,folks.

Ever heard of post traumatic stress disorder? 1 in 3 women experience this after childbirth. This might just be the case!

Aonkuuse:


https://twitter.com/ZagazOlaMakama/status/1694722022738415982?t=MNT3MwzSyvdAty42pOUhXQ&s=19

With the present state of our economy, i think its time Govt bring these people to the table for enlightenment on how they refine crude without a billion dollars refinery.

Women love attention and jealousy is a part of their dna. way out:- look good and starve her of attention. Seems you dote on her and she is too use to it. Kindly restore her to factory settings, enjoy yourself as you fiddle with her emotional buttons.... Edo girls are strong willed and stubborn
P. S... I am a lady

addmole:
I and My wife have been married for 5 years. We are based here in Lagos. She's 35 years old. We are doing very okay and living comfortably. Since we got married, my wife hated sex so much. I am not even trying to sugarcoat this. She doesn't want to hear you talk about it or she does it. There's no one in the family that haven't tried to settle our differences since we got married. She was never like this when we were dating. It's been 1 issue to the other. She doesn't initiate sex, and when she does accept you to have sex, it's missionary style and it's just 1 round. Ah, me wey dey like knack wella. This woman begin change am for me. Lol. She doesn't want to hear you discuss sex.

Anyway sha, lets move on...

5 YEARS ago, her mum came to my house to kneel down and tell me I am stressing her daughter that I should not kill her with sex. Her then-unmarried sister then asked if I ama dog? Ah, insult. Anyway, I don forgive her. I spoke to my wife and told her what is the meaning of this? What kind of lies are you feeding your family with? This is the same person who happens to make just 1 round of sex. Just 1 round. She lies flat on her back. Once you are done, she quickly pushes you away if you stay on top of her for more than 10 to 15 minutes. There were times she would hit me if I try to initiate sex. I reported to her elder brother. He elder brother warned her. She stopped. She moved to kicking me anytime we initiate sex on bed, i reported to my pastor, he spoke to her and then, she stopped. My pastor told me i have to be patient with her. I said OK.

Omo...
The only time we make love is just 1 round, missionary style and that's it. She says she has pain on her stomach. I have been patient for 5 years with her. I told her anytime she's strong enough, we can make out. That there's no problem.

I have been pressured to cheat on her many times. i HAVE BEEN REALLY PRESSURED. Its just not easy. Her family have insulted me for demanding sex from her. Lol. The thing tire me. I see no where i am demanding. We don't do any other position apart from the missionary style. We do not even kiss. This is a woman that doesn't want you to kiss in in anyway. Even sometimes, she shouts at you when you try to be romantic to kiss her unexpectedly just to spies up our love life. She doesn't even want you to cuddle her on bed. She wants to be alone. Make money, attend to her business, vibes, laugh with friends and family and that's it. When it comes to sex, don't go there discussing that with her about making out.

I even had to retort to preparing her mind for sex by sending her a position we would try on WhatsApp, she would leave the message on read and not respond. When you talk to her about what you sent to her, she would just tell you, she's not strong to make love.

ANOTHER PART OF HER:
My wife is a very bitter person full of anger. If you try to tickle her when she's cooking in the kitchen to play with her, she gets angry and warns you not to try such. My wife doesn't want you to play with her. I am not writing all these to make it look I am a victim here. But all these are my experiences. I have to pour it out. I NEED SOME ADVICE.

There were many times, we agreed on separating. But we have already children and we used to think about these because the quarrels and the disrespect, sex and everything is causing a whole lot on us.

We do not have any form of healthy discussion very well. Before you know it, we are quarrelling over the place, she's shouting. There was a time we quarrelled that after throwing a Gotv remote at her, she fainted. She woke up before we got to the hospital. She almost died. I told her, she needs to stop her anger and control herself and enjoy her marriage. She just won't listen. She's an Edo woman.

I have tried many times to leave the marriage because it's affecting my mental health. Sometimes I regret about getting married to her. Sometimes, I just feel, maybe I CAN TRY MORE and give her a chance. When you call her to discuss our sex life, about her anger and bitterness, she doesn't apologise. She hardly apologise. Even when I get to explain her part on why she was wrong, she claims she's right until maybe someone hears us arguing before she would reluctantly apologise.

I have been battling a really starved sex life, full of a woman with bitterness, anger and pride who never apologise. She's quick to advice other women on Facebook, She would video call friends, give them advice and her family how they need to maintain peace with their relationship. But she never seem to give me respect in anyway in her own own. Hmmmm.

Recently, my wife brought out another timetable that she cannot cope making out with me the way she does. Which is 3 times a week. That she can only be available to make love 2 times a week. This 2 times is just 1 round each. This is how she wants it. I immediately responded to her that I feel her pain. I understand. She cannot be pressured just to make it look like she wants to please me that I would rather get a side chic. Yes, i know this was wrong to tell her, but i am frustrated. She disrespects me and starve me of sex and she's even bending the rules again. She responded that 'ok that I am free to do what i LIKE'.

i decided to bring this here to know the comments from people. I would like to get advice from persons who are going through similar things like this and advice me on what to do.

Some of you might say, call her and talk to her. I have done that several times since in the last 5years. I did it last night and twice today. I have spoken to her. She promised she would change, she would not only repeat the same thing but make things worst the next time.

She disrespects me a lot. I have sometimes left the house but come back after families get to call me. She would change for a week and return to her old self.

What do I DO? Please make your responses constructive enough.

Get a side chic!

chisomkachy:


https://www.channelstv.com/2023/08/21/coalition-merger-out-of-question-discussion-possible-lps-tanko/

Person wey wear white cloth no dey near palm oil o!!

AImiron:
BBNaija All Stars housemate, Seyi Awolowo, is trending after talking about how his sons will sleep with people’s daughters. Seyi became the number one trending topic on Twitter after videos went viral over his strange comments about women and what his sons would do in their relationship with ladies.

Big Brother All Stars housemate, Seyi Awolowo reveals his intention to raise his son in such a way that he’d cause heartbreak to other people’s daughters.

The BBNaija star claimed that he was already saving money towards it, and he has set up ‘shina’ accounts for his son and the sons of his friends. ‘Shina’ is a Yoruba slang that loosely translates to being randy in English

In the video, Seyi boasted about how his sons will sleep with people’s daughters and also run trains on them. According to Dictionary.com, ‘run train’ means when multiple men sleep with a woman one after the other, with or without her consent. Seyi also bragged about how his sons would meet him in future to ask for the key to his Benz, and he would give it to them as well as a key to the guest house so they could run trains on people’s daughters.

In his words:

“ I gave birth to a boy first, he will fxck your daughter! And I don dey save. I get shina account for my son, miscellaneous account, I dey pay money. I get that account for son, I get that account for my guy son, I get that account for a lot of my boys, their son, they will fxck your daughter! My boys! Dem go come meet me say ‘daddy I need the Benz’, I will give them the Benz, I will give them the key to the guest house, them go go run train on people’s daughters. I dey say am plainly and I know where I dey talk am from, I’m giving birth to boys and dey go dey fxck people daughters.”

He shared this perspective while chatting with WhiteMoney and Soma after the lively Saturday night event.


SOURCE

Obviously he will not train them to have sense : you can't give what you don't have!

dre11:
Concern Mounts Over Akpabio’s Utterance On ‘Senate Bonanza’




https://leadership.ng/concern-mounts-over-akpabios-utterance-on-senate-bonanza/

The senators should stop the crucifixion of Akpabio for telling the truth. To Akpabio, it is a justified allowance and their bickering makes us understand that there is more to it. Obviously they do not want the public aware of their allowances in the light of the present economy of the nation: which is downright insensitive ..their outcry is just window dressing.. . Who is fooling who?

labake1:
In a situation where you are seeing the person as a friend and he/she asked "what are we" , what is the best response to give?

We are who we are!

HanisahZuwy:
Today, I went to a government/general hospital to see a doctor. When I got there, I got card and waited for my turn to see the doctor. Then it was finally my turn and I went in, told the doctor the symptoms I'm experiencing, and then he referred me to the lab for a culture test.

When I got to the lab, I went to the cashier to make payments for the test and thereafter waited for my turn. When it was finally my turn, some documentations were made, instrument for the culture collection was given to me and I was referred to a woman who would handle the culture test.

When I got to her(the woman), she pointed to an enclosure, that I should enter there, UnCloth, lie on the raised bed and open my legs. So, I went in, then came out immediately to ask her if I can collect it myself. She said no, that I won't do it well, that I would just get the surface and won't go deep. So, I agreed. I went in, undressed, got on the bed and open my legs. So, she came and collected the specimen. This was somehow painful because she had to go very deep. After collecting the specimen, she then went to put it in the instrument that was given to me earlier, then came back immediately and said 'keep it up' with a thumbs up sign from her.

Since then, I've been wondering what she meant by that. Does anyone here have a clue what that could mean?

Definitely no reference to the result of the test!

Welovetruecrime:


https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2023/7/decomposing-corpse-of-engineer-found-in-his-abuja-apartment-with-blood-stained-sledgehammer-and-written-note-from-suspect-2.html

Using Alfa sister for yahoo plus!!! That's big liver o.

beerfraud:


https://www.vanguardngr.com/2023/07/breaking-police-kill-four-gunmen-attempting-to-enforce-sit-at-home-in-enugu/

.Its high time this menace is nipped in the bud. The economy of the East has suffered enough!

ganisucks:


https://twitter.com/fkeyamo/status/1676576134698344450

It does not deserve a response but an epistle follows! Applause

ganisucks:


https://twitter.com/realFFK/status/1676174014262177794

https://twitter.com/realFFK/status/1676470106015105026

No need bringing slavery into this! That was done by the Europeans and they know better now: what is being addressed in this era is an attempt at modern day slavery by Nigerians of Nigerians which in my opinion is more shameful. The EU has done what it came out to do that is observe!

renderme:


Source: https://www.channelstv.com/2023/07/05/ill-beg-jamb-if-nmesoma-come-clean-on-result-cbt-owner/amp/

The last time I checked, the allegations being levelled are of a criminal nature... So some people can "beg" so they be dropped? Just like that... Wonderful!

post=124227490:


Source: https://punchng.com/accommodation-seeker-burns-anambra-policewoman-two-children-to-death/

WICKEDNESS!

Wealthoptulent:
Kenyan lady has been seen on live internet program,Pendo Stacy, a Kenyan lady, was caught on tape flaunting a pair of boxers reportedly for Davido as evidence she has slept with Davido. where she showed David Adeleke's boxer to other participants on the program, to prove her story. "or How about I carry davido's: I got souvenir on that day,I had to carry Davido’s boxer". she was heard saying on the programme.
The other ladies who were short of words kept quiet all through ), except for the programme Anchor who further inquired about what transpired.

Many more evidence like picture with Davido, the Room card key amidst all. Its a terrific week for David Adeleke.

Davido is presently trending for the wrong reason today, as purported women with whom he has had se-x-ual relations have banded together to expose him.

In 2014, the Kenyan lady who is a video vixen, Stacy Brianar Brown, popularly known as Pendo has admitted to having a sex encounter with Davido after the rumor went viral. According to her, they hooked up at a night club, ‘Galileo’ as the ‘Aye’ singer was in Kenya to perform at the ‘Bombaata Festival’.

Source: https://www.instagram.com/reel/CuC4Yp1oNq7/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

Women never cease to amaze me! You slept with him in 2014 and you falunt his boxers in 2023...🤔 And you have washed and dried the boxers for a time like this? Souvenir indeed!

benjackugo:
"I Don't Want Your Husband" — Davido's Alleged Pregnant Side Chick, Anita Tells Pregnant Chioma


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f_xfuvo0hIo

She doesn't want her husband but other things connected to the husband. Applause 👏

jaybenugo:
Minutes after an American businesswoman Anita called out Davido for allegedly impregnating her and asking her to abort it, his fans have linked it to the lyrics of Davido's popular song, 'Asssurance'

See videos below.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=57PxynK8_TQ


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f_xfuvo0hIo

2 words to describe Davido.. Indiscipline and irresponsible. Smh

nlfpmod:
Banky W's wife, Adesua Etomi, has revealed that her husband takes good care of her after he hailed her over her beauty in a new Instagram post.





https://www.instagram.com/reel/Ct6jTeTKhE1/?igshid=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ==

This is coming after Banky W trended yesterday and even continues to trend today over an allegation that he cheated on his wife, Adesua with his ex girlfriend, Niniola and got her pregnant.

Gistlover started the rumor yesterday and wrote:



https://www.instagram.com/p/Ct37_0-NuBy/

Meanwhile, Banky W and his wife, Adesua Etomi were spotted in Church today where Banky said "God is in control, the devil is a liar..."

Reacting to Banky and Adesua's exchange of love on Instagram today, Twitter user, Cici wrote:


https://twitter.com/Shez_Weird/status/1673005369675612163?t=DpPLMEjyJOoQ7HAhfM5w1w&s=08

They should just continue like this oooo... We will not have ears for complaints or podcasts on how they had to manage the situation for peace sake tomorrow!

twang414:
I have been with my wife for 11 years, and throughout this period we have always had trust issues. The trust issues emanate mostly from her. Issues like not being accountable, not being transparent and disloyalty at its core. Eg, claiming shes at location B, whereas shes at location A, like calling her and not picking, but will pick other number calls and much more.

We have communicated in ways to make things better, she would promise to make things better but will at the end of the day backslide. further issues deepened, I got tired and couldn't tolerate more of it, so I repeatedly asked for a separation, but yet she disagrees. One of the major that happened now is here in UK, as we relocated last year Sep. She had met a new lady friend at a party, apparently they got to know more of each other after the lady forgot her kids bag at the location so my wife was asked to take it that she will come over to ours to pick it up since we live close to each other.

To cut long story short, the woman is into beauty products marketing, she involved my madam in the hustle and they seem to pair along well, invites her to events held in hotels and all that. The one they went for 3 days ago, after the event, she called me that she was done, didnt want to take uber prolly cos it was expensive, so she said the lady claimed she will drop her off. An hour later she called she was on her way that the ladies husband have come to pick them up, 40mins later she said there was traffic at woolich that it might take time b4 she gets back. Because of the trust issues we always have and haven't been sorted, I checked her lcoation via her findmyiphone and lo and behold they were at the womans house. I waited at least 15mins to see if maybe it was the traffic, but it wasnt, because her movement was at a complete halt.

So I called her, she didnt pick, gave her another 3 missed calls she didnt pick, so i called my daughters phone that was with her, she then picked saying that she was on a zoom meeting with some clients thats why she couldnt pick, but that shes in the car still heading home,though i could hear TV sound, so i was like babe, it dont sound like ur in the car, she was like the ladys husbands car is a Porsche car, you can hear any sound, so i said i was going to call her on video call, I called she didnt pick, she then called me back on video while showing she was in the car and it was at that time her movement on the map started showing she was moving, this might be too much to be doing, but it just seem glaringly obvious that there is something she is hiding, but the most painful part was that she now handed the phone to her friend to defend her that she was truly in the car bla bla bla, i had to cut the call off.

I felt so embarrassed and felt maybe I would not have told her that she wasnt in a car, or that she would have handled the situation better by not handing over the phone to her friend to talk to me.

Do you guys really think trust issues that havent been resolved over the last 10 years can still be worked out?

Simply sit down and resolve the 10years old issue so it finally becomes a thing of the past.

Matrix137:
Dear Nairalanders, so I was born in Nigeria and have lived all my life in this country till this moment ( I'm 22 now). However, my aunt based in United States has offered to bring me to the country. Processing my documents already.

However I'm scared I may put me or her family in trouble when I get there cos America is a civilized country and I'm used to the crude ways and behaviors here which is already part of me and will likely replicate them in America which will surely put me in trouble with the law.

Behaviors like urination on the streets, throwing garbage on the road and many uncivilized behaviors too numerous to mention. So please how do I Behave myself over there. Thanks for reading.

The "urination on the street"reminds me of when a cousin came from the US with her daughter. Her 7 year old got used to urinating outside after some weeks in Naija. Fast forward, she goes back to the US and my cousin gets a call from her daughter's school over a strange behaviour . Environment is key!

IRuinUrDay:
Good morning, Nlder's. Pls, I need your advice. I created this account just now to hide my identity.

Without wasting time on this, I need your advice as I want to take a blind step because i don't know what else to do.

I graduated since 2018 and since then, I don't have a good job till now. Just surviving that's what I am doing.

Currently, I asked my mom to help me secure loan of 100k while I source for another 100k from friends and relatives and repay in 6 months time. I have planned with my wife to secure a room apartment with at least 60k for 1 year and use the balance to hold ourselves till we get something better doing. This is because I want to relocate to Uyo to hustle with my woman and our only daughter. I can't leave my woman aside and travel to Uyo alone. I want her to join me either in 2 weeks time or 3. She is a stylist and can work as Chef. She is also educated with O'level and I have been taken her through computer lesson's.

Now, I don't have any job assurance in Uyo but I have made some contacts. The 2 person's I contacted said once I relocate, I should let them know to help me get job. Also, I don't mind dropping my certificate just to do any job till I get my dream job. I am also working to get myself a driving license certificate and ID in case, I get a driving job in Uyo.

Pls, I want to know if it's wise to relocate to Uyo without any job at sight?

Also, my current state is one of the worst ever as firms here don't pay there staff good money. Like some pay Accountants here 25k/month to work from Monday to Saturday.

Your ideas will be great. My other areas of relocating is Enugu, Port Harcourt, or Anambra. Pls, help a brother.

It would be safe if your people on ground can help you get a job at Uyo before you relocate. I have a sibling living there and he says it's an expensive place. Just be guided.

Trendygurly:
If you were like me thinking Abortion will make your life feel better then you’re in for a depressing ride!!.
I terminated a 6weeks old pregnancy because I didn’t want it
Hmmmm
I was being foolish and hopeless
Now I’m so regretting my actions
I feel so suicidal and the only way I can cope is by leaving it here. I’m such a selfish demon!!!
The gentleman responsible for it accepted it with all his might and Love but because of the demon In me I went ahead to tamper and terminate my a month baby!!
I feel sorry for my darling fiancé too cause I don’t deserve him!! He begged me to birth the child and give it to his mum but i vehemently refused !!

I don’t think I can ever recover from this life disastrous act!!
My baby was suppose to be due by 28th November 2023
If you ask me why I did what I did
I can’t even explain!!

God doesn’t make mistakes.. He knew I needed this child in my life because Apart from my Fiancé nobody cares about me and then he gave me this beautiful creature to love me and care for me and I had the nerve to discard it like a piece of thrash … Ahhhhh Lord have mercy on me !!

The painful part is I don’t even know if the abortion was successful cause the blood I saw wasn’t what the quack nurse that did it for me said!! Now I’m on a cross road whether the abortion was complete or whether I’m still expecting a damaged and disfigured child!!

Please don’t be like me
Don’t follow my path
I hope I recover from this and if I don’t so be it.

Blaming yourself at this stage will benefit you nothing. What is important at this point in time is your safety. I suggest you go for a scan to determine if the abortion was complete or not... Consult a doctor to determine the next step which could be an evacuation. Try to avoid quacks for reproductive health is life. Cheers.

Islie:


https://leadership.ng/54-days-to-inauguration-tinubu-headhunts-best-brains-competence-for-appointments/

I didn't see FFK on the list... Could it be all the ass licking of recent times was for naught?

Ndimkpurummiri:
https://mobile.twitter.com/BashirElRufai/status/1642455200089645056

He would have used his small power to disseminate English Language through the years instead.