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Romance / Easy Ways You Can Get A Guy To Like You by sprincoolman: 12:12am On May 05, 2015
Ladies, the truth is, getting a guy to like you isn't really hard and most times you don't have to be complicated or act complicated for a guy to like you because men aren't really complicated creatures themselves.

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Kati Blake of Binoni lists 7 easy and effective ways you can get a guy to like you.

1.Keep your thoughts zen: Guys like girls that they can understand. I don't mean dumb yourself down, but rather un-complicate things when you can. Don't play head games and don't turn everything into an episode of Oprah. If a guy thinks you're too much trouble it will be very difficult to get them to like you.

2.Be yourself (the real one): Everyone hands out this piece of advice; yet it is the one that you ladies seem to ignore the most. Don't be who you think the guy wants you to be, just be yourself. Guys can see right through the fake bit, and if you are attracted to the type of man who wants a phony then you might want to reevaluate your standards.

3.Don't be afraid of letting your hair down: Now this one can be a little specific depending on the man, but in general (myself included) we like women who are not afraid to get a bit dirty. If it's summertime and you invite a guy to go hiking with you, for the love of god wear a T-shirt not a tube top. Repeat after me, lip gloss is okay for outdoor activities lipstick is not. Know the difference.

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4,You have a brain, use it: If I have to date one more woman whose depth of conversation only includes celebrity gossip I may need to reevaluate my gender preference. You don't need to be a rocket scientist to attract a man, but you do need to at least have something of value to say. If you're interested in sports, that's great; politics, even better. Just remember number two, say what you want to say not what you think he wants you to say.

5.An interesting hobby: Everyone needs to have something interesting that they like to do. When you let a guy know that you are passionate about your hobby it lets him know that you are an interesting and dynamic person. This is also a great way to meet guys who have similar interests.

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6.Look good when you need to: Thus far I’ve avoided the superficial route; but let's face it, if you want to get a guy to like you you're probably going to need to appeal to his visual instincts. Now before you get the torches, I'm not saying dress like a LovePeddler; rather just know how to make yourself look nice when you go out whether it's to the movies, a club or just when you go shopping.

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7.Be aggressive: Look, that shrinking violet thing you women like to do sometimes? It's not cute. The majority of men are not under the delusion that they are hunters of women. This is some inside information here, so pay attention. All that stuff you've seen in the movies or read in books about how men like to be the aggressors in a relationship and make the first move… it's all crap. Most men are just as stressed out about getting you to like them as you are about getting them to like you. So if you like a guy, grow a pair and make the first move. An assertive female is a turn on for lots of men, and at the end of the day you'll be saving a ton of time that would have otherwise been spent trying to get him to notice you.

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Romance / What You Should Do If Your Boyfriend Stop Showing You Love by sprincoolman: 2:03pm On May 03, 2015
What You Should If Your Boyfriend Stop Showing You Love
Hi Ladies,
Welcome to my Blog, Am here to About This Topic Cus Lot of Ladies as been questioning me for this for long here..
Here are steps below:

1.“It sounds like the spark might be gone for the moment. That doesn’t mean you can’t get it back. Not seeing each other for a while could help. But if it doesn’t come back, maybe it’s just not meant to be if sex is that important for you (which to most people it is..so don’t feel bad for that) Have you thought of trying new things in the bed room? Role play? intimacy gadgets? Food play? Kink? It might make you more eager for sex.”

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2.“I was just wondering have u ever considered going to a sex therapist as a couple and see if that might help?”
I’ve totally been in this situation. I dated my college boyfriend for three years. At the beginning of our relationship, we were completely in love and all over each other. But then our relationship started getting rocky and turned toxic. We loved each other and didn’t want to lose what we had, even if things were bad.
I felt like it was really over during the last sixth months of our relationship. During that time, I never wanted to have sex with him. I didn’t even want to kiss him. Every time he touched me, I felt uncomfortable and like I needed to take a shower. I wasn’t willing to continue a relationship where I felt repulsed by my boyfriend. That and the other problems we had led me to end it for good, and I’m glad that I did.
I will say that love does change and grow. Sometimes you can stop being in love with and attracted to someone, but it doesn’t mean you don’t love and care about them as a person.

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Just because it didn’t work out for me though doesn’t mean it can’t work out for you. Couples go through rough patches all the time. I highly recommend talking to your partner about how you feel and discuss ways you can spice things up to see if that changes anything. Relationships take work, even when it comes to sex. If you feel like you’ve lost that chemistry, you can get it back with a little extra effort
I hope it helps?
Romance / What You Should Do If Your Boyfriend Stop Showing You Love by sprincoolman: 1:49pm On May 03, 2015
What You Should If Your Boyfriend Stop Showing You Love
Hi Ladies,
Welcome to my Blog, Am here to About This Topic Cus Lot of Ladies as been questioning me for this for long here..
Here are steps below:

1.“It sounds like the spark might be gone for the moment. That doesn’t mean you can’t get it back. Not seeing each other for a while could help. But if it doesn’t come back, maybe it’s just not meant to be if sex is that important for you (which to most people it is..so don’t feel bad for that) Have you thought of trying new things in the bed room? Role play? intimacy gadgets? Food play? Kink? It might make you more eager for sex.”

READ MORE: How do I know that am in love with him

2.“I was just wondering have u ever considered going to a sex therapist as a couple and see if that might help?”
I’ve totally been in this situation. I dated my college boyfriend for three years. At the beginning of our relationship, we were completely in love and all over each other. But then our relationship started getting rocky and turned toxic. We loved each other and didn’t want to lose what we had, even if things were bad.
I felt like it was really over during the last sixth months of our relationship. During that time, I never wanted to have sex with him. I didn’t even want to kiss him. Every time he touched me, I felt uncomfortable and like I needed to take a shower. I wasn’t willing to continue a relationship where I felt repulsed by my boyfriend. That and the other problems we had led me to end it for good, and I’m glad that I did.
I will say that love does change and grow. Sometimes you can stop being in love with and attracted to someone, but it doesn’t mean you don’t love and care about them as a person.

READ MORE: Some Ways To know If Your Are Dating The Right Guy

Just because it didn’t work out for me though doesn’t mean it can’t work out for you. Couples go through rough patches all the time. I highly recommend talking to your partner about how you feel and discuss ways you can spice things up to see if that changes anything. Relationships take work, even when it comes to sex. If you feel like you’ve lost that chemistry, you can get it back with a little extra effort
I hope it helps?
Romance / How To Make A Rich Girl Fall Inlove by sprincoolman: 1:32pm On May 03, 2015
How to Make a rich girl Fall Inlove
These rich executive chics really do not have time for long talk. If you know the right thing to do, and how to position yourself you will have them eating from your palms.
Most of the rich girls in town really are in search of true love. So if you are a guy who can give them the love and tender care they so crave for, here are some tips that can help you get them loving up fully.

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1. Dress smart: These rich chics really do not care about your money, but they appreciate a guy who has a good dress sense and a good shoe to go with it. Now I do not mean you should break the bank. These chics are not about the fashion brand. Guy if you have an “OK shirt, “starch and iron it mehn! Look neat and well groomed and you are good to make a catch.
2. Talk Intelligently: An empty head does no one any good. These rich chics have seen it all, so do not try to impress. Just make sense and get reasonable information on every subject you can lay your hands on. “Guy no be say you dey go do exam oh!” Give intelligent advice and do not barge in on conversations. Just carry yourself as an informed person humbly. Pride turns off these rich chics.
3. Find out what she love: Get to know what she loves and be informed about it. Love what she loves with all the passion in you, and you will reap the benefits of your long suffering. Be the person to volunteer to be part of their hobbies etc. Show interest genuinely.
4. Make her laugh: Don’t try to be a comedian. You will just fool yourself. Just have a good sense of humor. No dirty jokes please.

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5. Be busy: Do not run to them or answer their calls, anytime they call you. You sef form busy. These rich girls appreciate you when you have a vision and you are working at it. Do not just paint dreams. Work towards your dreams
6. Be independent: Never ask for help financially or in any other form. Do not even ask for contacts or connection, even when you know they have it. Be a self made man. This guy! The mistake most guys make is that they quickly start asking for help when they find out that the rich chic is in to them and loves spending. Guy, even when she gives you money, pretend not to want it at first, make her beg you to take it. Never ask for any favour. Always pay the bill when you go out.
7. Be real: If you cannot afford the hotels they frequently go to, tell them so. You can say “Right now, I cannot afford those kind of hotels, but it is a matter of time I will take you there. But today let us go to mama bose’s place” They will appreciate you for being real and aspiring to get to the top.

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8. Use Poetry: Use lovely, romantic poetic words to tell them how you feel about them. Do a hand-written letter. They get cards all the time. Be different unique and creative.
9. Be confident: Exude an aura of confidence. Never be intimidated about their cars, friends, house and all that. Do not be proud because those kind of chics cannot stand proud dudes, that is why they are not dating guys from their class.
10. Show love for the needy: Women generally love a caring man. Genuinely show concern for the poor and you are top on their list.

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