This made me to remember Nigerian cartoon titled IWAJU where the setting of the movie is the future Lagos filled with advanced technologies.In one of the scene,tasty roasted agama lizards🦎 are sold.Na d future Lagos be dat o where people go don dey flex lizards.Lizards fit sweet wella pass chicken.Na to try am first.

Great one!
Actually,this year had really been a challenging one so far.My plan of going squarely into my musical career and my skit making this year was aborted just because I lost my job early enough wen I was about starting up and been without it for many months this year.
I really thank God for giving me another before d year ended which is a great opportunity to achieve these feats and dreams by next year.
This is a great idea to jump and dabble into.It is not easy, its all about discipline.
Nxt Year German German things on board,no time to dull

Crystalom35:
you forget school strike and covid 19?

Who counts 4 years course as 4 years in a state university in Nigeria?

For your information, this is my 6th year in school for a 4 years course before you open your mouth saying nonsense thinking you're some detective.

But u said u later moves to medicine and u are telling us it's a four years course.Something is fishy.

moski5:
she sounds like a keeper

I believe she is.But time will tell

Starboytwo:
Pls remain a virgin pls, at 34 we need men like you.

You are even Nccf president, pls sir, man of God, practice what you preach. Say No to pre marital sex.

Not NCCF president o, but a president for my CDS and Music Director for NCCF o

pansophist:


You see am. I told you to ignore your fears and shoot. Rejection will not kill you but you see regret, that one will eat and destroy your soul. In anything you do in life, always choose rejection over regret.

I hope this last. I wish you guys all the best.

Amen! Tanx a million.

pansophist:
The pain of regret is far far Far worse than the pain of failure. If you like her, then make the move. If she rejects you, then fine, you move on.

If you like her, then start a rapport with her. The family that wanted you to date their daughter must have consider you a good man, but you judge yourself far harshly than the world judges you.

You should take a leap of faith to believe that her mother should have done the persuasion in her own side, and she probably might be expecting your shot. Having said that, don't let your insecurities stop you.

She is insecure as well, like everyone one of us, and it is always like this, when we love someone, they become our judge, like a Messiah to a sinner. The feminine ideal is the mirror men use to structure and restructure themselves.

So how you feel is completely natural, it shows you have a good head on your shoulder. Having said that, start by initiating conversations, then upgrade to periodical meetups, then to frequent hangouts.

If she respond affirmatively as you push things further, then it's a good sign. So keep pushing until it becomes mutually understood that what you guys have is above just friendship.

Make sure you have your own place, no matter how small. And invite her there. You're in your 30's, you must know even before inviting her to know your place that she likes you. Animals know who likes them, what more you?

In anyways, don't let your insecurities and fear hinder you. You're a virgin after all, what more can you loose? Besides, you're the one that know if you're a looser or not, to her, you might just be a hero who treated her better than other men.

And if she have sense, which I hope, then she should know that a good man is not something material, but something immaterial, and if you are hardworking, things can always change for the good.

We have started talking o.Even last night,she told me she loves me cos a message.E shock me that I could not even respond till now. Anyway, I know she has been into me for a long time.The mum and the sister told me.

moski5:
does she know about the financial challenge

She does o. She even told me God will give me a better one.

Dyfynezz12:

My confusion is how u are a virgin at 34
Were u living in mars all this while?
Pls tell me how u did it

It's really a long one sha o. I dreaded going to visit ladies especially the ones I know will want to... From my university years to my NYSC year even till now. It's not been easy. My new girlfriend, I dey sense, won make me lose am o

okoroemeka:
I still don't want to believe that I read 34 yrs and still a virgin,how by the holy tits of Virgin Mary do you even manage to accomplish that feat,I am still trying to wrap my head around this story,it sounds so fantastic that I am also confused

That is just the way it is.And I have help positions like President(CDS), Music Director(NCCF) during my NYSC year. Still I am baffled that i still be Virgin till now. I dey sense say I go still lose my virginity to this my new relationship. Imagine,she just sent me a message last night dat she loves me.I shock wen I see dat one o.I never reply till now.

moski5:
does she know about the financial challenge

Yeah, she knows

moski5:
does she know about the financial challenge

Yeah, she knows

eniolorunfe:
You should be more focused on sorting out your finances. The reason they’re into you is because they think you still have a job, don’t be deceived!

Hmmmmmm. I will tell her how it is.If she wants to continue no problem. I am presently learning a course which I hope will help me financially in distance time.

wisdomkid:
This may sound funny, but it's the truth. I know two guys who are virgins, one is 27yrs and the other, 30yrs old who have never kissed a girl. I can swear for one though.

But my honest opinion, never rush into marriage because the mom and daughter sees you as good. What is their reason, focus and grow yourself first.

Is she your spec?
Do you see yourself settling down with her soonest?

Not that I am rushing into marriage.It is just a relationship I have never been into.At least, relationship comes first before thinking of marriage when we both are compatible.If not, no marriage o

woginid967:


Making money is simple sha, just know where the world is heading to and arrive there earlier. Get soft skills, buy a land, even if you make six figures, pls lieeee o... Lie to the lady and your folks that you make half of your actual Money, so that you can have peace and also you can see true colors. I feel you're an introvert, so you need extrovert friends.

You need real nigggaaa friends who gat your back. They can arrange from SFS or codedrunnns for you and the lady will have mind-blowing sex with you to help your life.

Dont date family friend daughter oooooo because it will Guilt trip you into marriage.


Biko run from family friend daughter. Because no matter what goes wrong.... Na beggi beggi them go use manipulate you.

If you were in delta state, i could have taken you to churches where you can straff female pastors, virgin sisters, and choir members till you're tired.

You need to master the ways of women so you can create your own technique to manipulate the manipulators.

Asides that, make sure any girl you sleep with or date is farr from your home location and not a mutual friend to any mutual person you may know. To avoid nonsense.

For me i work remotely, so i am free to bleep women easily and since i drink lots of healthy herbal drinks, even secondary schools girls are still loyal to me years after gaining university admissions because i know how to out them to sleep after making their legs shake.

You have a point der.But I don't have the luxury of time to want to be bleeping around, so help me God. I don't have much years at my disposal.Let me just try her out.

Zigzagman:


Baba, listen to this guy's story and you will figure out what to do. He was exactly in your situation. Thank me later


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sryz0jjIXlU

Tanx.I will check it out.

advanceDNA:


I asked u earlier...what if u have already started dating her before losing u your job....??

Does that mean u will break up immediately and call her back when u get another job again??

Dont carry the mentality that u must have plenty money to pay a woman to be in a relatiinship with you......its whats making u feel less than capable or insecure of going into a relatiinship now.....

Una go dey put broke women wey no get anything untop high pedestal, making them feel u are not qualified to even talk to them because u dont have plenty money to pay....

Give it a chance first naaa..she go kii you because u are searching for another job?? Abi she ask for ur bank statement??

It would be nice starting without money in mind.Let me see how it will go.I just hope she understands.

fyzaila:



See if the girl is really into you, please give it a chance and see how it goes. For the mother to approve her daughter to date means she is ok with you personality and character. Don’t let your financial issues stop you trying, infact you'll build natural love and bonding when you don't involve money spending and S3x. Just try it.

Please don't listen to those saying go and explore first. There is nothing to explore there. And where is it written in the holy book that one must involve in premarital s3x before he/she can enjoy sexual life?

All this things are natural and ordained from God to make marriage blissful and any couple who are sexually attracted to each other before marriage will know how to do anything.

Tanx for this.I am really thinking starting a relationship with her without engaging in sex, or we leave sex for now,but maybe later. May God help me o.....But she desires sex in the relationship. According to what she told me. She even said that it's not all the time.

Sonnobax15:

Being jobless and going into a relationship are two things that shouldn't be thought of . Op, don't be deceived into believing that true love doesn't matter whether there's money or not......Las las,money beautifies love..., without money,fvck love...

So what is your advice for me na?

Lvgirl:




My brother pls start with ashawo first 1k per round. That is where we great men all started from. They will teach you the basics. What do I mean. After smiling with you outside she will start shouting at u inside to do fast. Some will call u dog. It's all good , we all pass thru it. After u are done for like 3years then u can start dating secondary sch girls . This one's will teach you patience cos of too much drama. After this university girls , this one's will teach u how to spot a liar. This will happen after you have been.lied to several times. Then single mothers, this one comes with entitlement mentality. After all this process you will be qualified for married/dating Nigeria girls.
After marriage please proceed to older women. This should happen after many years of marriage. They are the PENCOM of dating. A very sure and reliable retirement plan for every dude.

I wish u all the best

Na so experience dey be? Na suicide be dat. The one I dey fight against na to carry body go ashawo center. My caution for long na make ashowo no be the person wey go make me lose my virginity.That one go make person addicted to them.

blacksam01:



u shld try her out, but not before u sit her down nd explain the kinda person u are nd ur true financial position....

and also prepare ur mind sh will later dump u...thats if u dont piick up urself in 6-8 months....its normal eith ladies, they date for opportunities not for love..only men love

Tanx very much.I will try dat.Thumbs up

Draslo:

Your confusion will last for many years. Why? Because you don't have experience dating Nigerian girls. You need at least 5-7 years experience before you consider marriage

I really don't have experience,but I have been close to ladies.Anyways, what u said is a big blow o

advanceDNA:


Whats the cause of this ur panic?
Is it ur lack of experience?? Or ur lack of job...u need money to pay her for agreeing to date you abi??

What if u have a job now..and u start dating and later lose the job.....u go kii yourself...??

Low self worth is worrying you.... women eat men like u for breakfast

Not that I am having low self esteem,but I really don't know if the timing isn't right or because of my financial challenge.

Good day, my people. Pls I really need advice from u guys. I am 34 years plus, never been in a relationship. As a matter of fact, I am a virgin.
Presently, there is a particular family in which the mother wants me to date her daughter. I just lost my job,I don't have much of cash presently, and going into a relationship now, I am really confused. The girl is really into me. I really don't know if I should accept this. I am just confused.Pls help me out.

Modified

Relationship kick-started.After like three days,
She just told me last night that she loves me via a message.I have not even replied up till now.I am beginning to sense that I may lose my virginity soonest o.

I work presently as a kitchen assistant in a hotel, and I am having a little issues with my chefs. I really want to know if cooking or turning of swallows like semo, wheat...are the jobs of a kitchen assistant. The chefs were telling me that the lady that worked previously before me was cooking and turning swallows. That it is my responsibility to do such. If a kitchen assistant begins to do so, what will be the responsibility of a chef? Pls I desperately need answers. The experienced ones, please come to my rescue.

Inali:
you can download a 3rd party app for that

Tanx.i did so already.Helpful.

DaddyJapan:


The same individuals who rant and rave about a Muslim-Muslim ticket are falling over themselves to be admitted to countries like the UAE and Qatar to work as serfs.

A case of unrestrained duplicity if ever I saw one.

Pls don't compare UAE or Qatar with mostly developed and literate minds to Nigeria where even a great percentage of the Muslims are against education or even literacy. Just a single word(mind manipulation) from their heads,they move zombies without thorough assessment or being skeptical.

This phone is so cool,I must confess.But the issue I am having which I really need help is that my sound recordings keep disappearing.I don't know where to.I am still trying to locate it as I am into music.Someone with the technical know how should help,pls.

marlow1962:
Someone above said they trap men wit emotions, haha funny but true sha. Na man wer want make them use emotions manipulate am dem go manipulate (you can’t say nada about that).
There’s this gal I meet beginning of this year(we were friends but we don’t talk on phone or chat), d day I cun say make I take number, I lose interest immediately I take the number cus wertin we wn even chat self and two na another disturbance for me. I no even send her for months, but the day I text her na that day extortion start fr my side ( I was help cus it means nothing to me, na wertin I fit gv u I go gv u, u no go force me gv u too). As the tin too much, I gat tell am make she come make I teach her the online survey job wer I dy do, at least make she dy see food chop ( you can’t believe what dis idiot told me) dy tell me say the work dy stressful, say she no dy like stress. Immediately I hear am, I rest my case cun ghost her join, cus I know say no mata wertin I talk she no go hear. Always telling me how I don’t chat her up or call her again, or come see her at her workplace (I sometimes buy food for her cus her workplace is close to the restaurant I buy food from) dy say I don change, say the miss d old me ( can u imagine)
Me I save myself, no be my money u go take build house.

Good morning,bro.Pls I will be grateful if you can help me by showing me how to go about this online survey talked about here.Pls I really need financial assistance.Thanks

That's so bad, majorly, from the guy.His girlfriend not coming or delaying to come, was not an excuse at all to such nonchalant action.
If you are a guy,and you are a virgin even till your early thirties, God is just saving us from so many shame(s).Just like me.Proud being a virgin.

Tanx very much for this.You just sparked up a long awaited vibe.Bless ya