Watch the full fight video between Anthony Joshua and Francis Ngannou.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YBOWz9WgEHU

Don't know if this still helps but few years back I escorted someone close to me who used Temple's Counsel and Mind Academy's virtual cleansing AA programme for 350/2months but there must be certain things in place before they allow you into the programme.
1)Having an accountability handler who shows up for virtual therapy with you weekly until the end with no excuses. I was emotionally involved in the process and had to answer questions too.
2) Their lead therapist Temple Obike knows everyone by name but asks you to set up a zoom account with no names/pictures just numbered profiles for privacy.
3) if you want a personal session with the lead therapist or their guest local or international doctors, you pay an additional paltry sum less than 15k.
4) You can only join the programme from the beginning or wait for the next batch.
5) Medical history for the client from a reputable hospital and drug use history MUST be submitted.

It was an effective, emotionally tasking AA intervention for us after 4months with doctors,psychiatrists and more invited from time to time. . I learnt a lot during this process and saw first hand the pains drug use causes relatives of users from all over the country. Drug rehabilitation is very expensive because the government are not helping to subsidize this with providing state-owned centers. Good luck and hope you get your person healed.

Don't know if this helps but I escorted someone close to me who used Temple's Counsel and Mind Academy's virtual cleansing AA programme for 350/2months but there must be certain things in place before they allow you into the programme.
1)Having an accountability handler who shows up for virtual therapy with you weekly until the end with no excuses. I was emotionally involved in the process and had to answer questions too.
2) Their lead therapist Temple Obike knows everyone by name but asks you to set up a zoom account with no names/pictures just numbered profiles for privacy.
3) if you want a personal session with the lead therapist or their guest local or international doctors, you pay an additional paltry sum less than 15k.
4) You can only join the programme from the beginning or wait for the next batch.
5) Medical history for the client from a reputable hospital and drug use history MUST be submitted.

It was an effective, emotionally tasking AA intervention for us after 4months with doctors,psychiatrists and more invited from time to time. . I learnt a lot during this process and saw first hand the pains drug use causes relatives of users from all over the country. Drug rehabilitation is very expensive because the government are not helping to subsidize this with providing state-owned centers. Good luck and hope you get your person healed.

These people can wash their dirty clothes in the village square eh!!

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I was recently introduced by a friend to some therapist family friend of his in Lagos. I followed the guys work at tcmacademy and discovered he was homeschooled at some point and still turned out okay contrary to what i believed. It was university that had him going out of home. The couple are always calm looking like the stress of daily life never gets to them. They decided to homeschool their four kids in 2019 and it looked like heaven was going to fall. When covid hit us, their kids were simply chilling as that was their norm. They go fishing weekends, hiking, church on Sunday, all four in karate class, speak 2 foreign languages each, travel once a year for 1 week exchange programs with their mum and 4 teachers coming in daily to teach them except Fridays where the whole house turns into a game den from morning to night . From the smart TV in their house to the devices all around, everything has been turned into learning devices. Their 4 and 7 yr old's pass by shouting questions at their age-restricted AMAZON kindle fire tab. Alexa what is this, Alexa show me that. These parents are young but made a choice many were afraid to. The funny thing is that these kids can discuss topics even some of us are afraid to discuss with our kids in school.

I don't need to go too far to tell you that even when my guy showed me the overall term results they had to improve on, it could pass for excellent in some schools. Parents! Parents! be confident in your decisions to homeschool your kids, The world around you is changing. As you train yours, not everyone puts in that effort to train theirs.

She's an online hooker and he's a gigolo. Don't get it twisted.

I believe this is partly economic OP and secondly it's a discipline thing (or a lack of it). Regardless, there's no stopping it. It's here to stay until the end of time. Regardless, I read your piece and anonymously shared it with a fake account to 4people wey need am pass me.

smh

DaudaTheSexyGuy:


You just said it yourself,it's in the mind but you gotta try it to understand.

The thrill of cumming and having an adrenaline rush cos you're conquering another man's woman is out of this world

Thank you as always. This link was helpful. Was about to get into something I don't know the head from the tail.

Hee hee see model citizen. Abeg make we vote bullala for preside 2023 .

Bullala1:
You don shake table. Until you fall down there. This definition na everybody wey dey my area na. Me sef join.

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Str8 up professionals. I was lucky to join their lead therapist in one of his group self-discovery sessions. The written practical exercises that day was part of what I even submitted to my current employer when asked about my personal qualities. Try em out. I follow them on NL too @TCMA

Kobojunkie:
Any religious bullsheet with them?

If you need therapy without drama yet has real results, try Temples Counsel and Mind Academy. I personally thought it was a hype but tried their Abuja practice after reading some of their articles. I was not disappointed. .

I just tire. Relationships are draining these days.

Any sexual act that the other person is not in support of is considered rape. So yes it is possible.

Na to call the person friend and then we all become friends dammit!... ..but easier fantasized than done.

You want people to think you are all together? you then marry somebody and bring some poor children into this world. Decapitation straight.

I think that any woman or man who lies about money to their partner has experienced something bad with the person .

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I believe many of you can relate with this because you may either be a victim of envy or the one envious of someone else. If you belong to any of the categories, this article is aimed at helping you navigate this emotion. Envy is a strong emotion that can easily over-power the person who feels it.

“Many couples who have fallen in love now live with partners who went from a place of admiration for what their partners do, to a place of i can do it too (which is a marvelous thing). However many have taken it overboard to a point of envious competition”.
This is something many partners NEVER want to mention because it sounds very twisted to even begin to imagine it in a relationship. Fortunately we are not looking at this emotion from a relationship point of view but rather as it applies to living.

The Psychology of Envy and Jealousy:

This emotion "envy" has shockingly been at the root of many success stories as well. People who have accepted this emotion the moment they felt it and quickly channeled it to goal setting, planning and letting the urge motivate them towards growth and expansion turn out as better individuals.
Unfortunately, our levels of self-will differ ..
When you want something and you are willing to accept that you want it, you get envious (yes thats the root of both go-getting and hating), become motivated to go and achieve it and admire other people who are also on the path to getting it. On the flip-side, there are people who want something another person has but rather than getting motivated to go and work for this get envious, then get jealous, start hating people who are on the path to becoming and in extreme cases resort to ...
https://templeobike.com/2020/05/01/admiration-envy-jealousy/

Talk to him and God-willing he will hear you out. Many women true true are facing this.

I'm happy about this o but my curiousity is mounting because five were caught in surulere, my pal in Enugu called me that 3 were caught (how sure are you guys i asked, "ha suru yoruba" he said") 6 in egbeda and now in Gbagada. I just hope "One Million Boys Geng" has not become the carpet name for any unidentified miscreant.

Hmm, well, ..God be praised.

Thanks for sharing. You build your home slay queens and sugar boys turn up. Prayers is another weapon. No pride in trying to learn more because this is a present issue whether we like to acknowledge it or not. Good read though.

honestly, i can't imagine the guys burden.

sisisioge:
Hmmmm...this reminds me of one yeye friend I had in school then who was cheating on her bf. Each time this nice dude comes around, my conscience always made me avoid him. Eventually sha...he caught her....I forged ignorance and disappeared from the scene. It could be heartbreaking... Just mind your business. You can't even send an anonymous text to her husband now sef, she would know its you.


Pele...how dare she burden you with the knowledge of her sin! Reduce your familiarity with her biko. Good luck!

I would have reffered you to someone but i sense a need to narrate or garner traction on your post rather than a cry for help. I no be psychologist but i have one that has helped people. Besides i went through the link someone posted about your response to others. It is malicious, filled with contempt and admirably partisan in some cases.. Even if you just wrote this story to get feedback, you truly need help because i sense you have a dark mind. You've created an alter-ego you battle with and think everything is out to bring you down. No everything is not working against you. You have only self-sabotaged. My only prayer for you is.... May God help you. Rather than give you a number, i will let you go through the pains of typing.
send an email to templescounsel@gmail.com. there's a popular counselor on the other end who also helped me with an issue i had. Someone advised me to join NL and i just joined and quietly went to read about people with similar issues until i bumped into my solution on a thread. Something i battled with for years was solved yesterday with one phone call. Madam/Oga If you can pretend to be human, im sure he may help but if i can sense this about you, i suspect the guy will decode you even before you begin. Godspeed

Acmepreneur:
How do you manage to do some things when your life is filled with frustrations?
For instance, to apply for a job, I could start and just stop
I could want to learn a new thing,then I could become so down that I stop.
I have been living in frustration since in my teenage years, I'm the kind of person that strives so much, but I haven't realized my dreams at all, so many atimes I get reminded and stop what I'm doing at midways.
I might want to draft a letter and stop midway, currently, I'm helping with covid19(volunteer service), I could start doing something and stop midway
I need your advice, it wouldn't help only me, I believe it would help many people reading this in my situation.
Advice me on how you coped during frustrated period

My cohesion may not be good and there are several points missing, just try to fish out the little you can
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My story
I'm a very hardworking lady, very intelligent, very aspiring and extremely beautiful.
I'm in my twenties. In a society where many things is determined by luck, connection, I feel so lost. I do not have friends to connect me, because many people are always too excited when we become friends with stupid thinkings, I hate people trying to be close with me because they think I'm from a wealthy home, or because of the way I look so I don't do friendship and thus zero connection. Ive been trying to pretend lately though, but its very hard for me.

My struggle started since secondary school, I really do not have friends, I'm well focused, I hardly play, I'm not materialistic, I'm an extreme introvert.

I've always wanted to learn a skill since my secondary school days, because I knew that it would help me not to be broke in the future, but my mother refused to help me learn anything, but always discouraging. I struggled to learn all by myself, so I was able to learn few things like how to make caps, and some other simple things. My secondary school days was filled with reading books(religious books, Hinduism, bhudism etc) and trying to learn skills on my own, I do not fancy playing or gisting at all as a child, in my early teen till late teen. I was always reading, learning, or watching movies(I watch just one type of movies, paranormal movies, uptill now)

Fast-forward to university, I was the same, always striving, working harder than anyone I know.
Along with my Bsc, I acquired an NCE grade level of course,I was learning Tailoring same time. My life was filled with stress but I endured thinking its for the good of it. I had to drop the tailoring because I wasn't able to pay the woman as we agreed, I paid her not up to the quarter of what we agreed, and she wasn't teaching me rightly, and I couldn't complain because I felt guilty, so I had to drop it. My other two courses, I completed and came out as best student in both.
I graduated very young and even as the best student, during NYSC waiting, I decided to learn a skill and become professional again, but I didn't have money to pay the woman again, so everyday, I feel guilty while learning, It was a skill that was forced upon me by family members because I hate it so so much, and thus never earned from it,and even left the woman because I didn't pay her. All this time, I was below 20 till my NYSC, so I never had any free time, from sec school, to university immediately.

Fast forward to NYSC, I was taken to Adamawa, redeployed and this time, I was very broke, my parents were always going against anything i want to learn,so i decided to learn tailoring.
Had to redeploy to a city, searched for the best Tailor in town, and registered with her, she charged me 70k which I payed with my alawee as my parents do not support me, they wanted me to stay with a stupid relative because of free house for me to live, and she was also happy because she had a baby and a shop for me to stay with her, she lives in a big apartment, a room for me, everything comfortable but I declined because I didn't want to waste my service year. My mum was in the US then, everyone abandoned me because of this and not in support of me learning any skill. But I ignored, used my alawi to rent a house (very uncomfortable house), my PPA was far, but I do not mind and rented apartment very close to the place I wanted to learn the skill. I would come back from PPA at 5:00pm, arrived at the shop and start learning, I get home very late most times, feeding was difficult, I used all my money to pay the woman, sometimes I eat just biscuit or nothing at all. This was my life all through NYSC, very stress filled, I was learning very fast and I above all the people I met there, but after 4month of learning, this woman changed and would refuse to teach us,and this was how I wasted the rest of the months of NYSC sitting in her shop. She was later arrested by NYSC for duping etc.
At this point, Ive learnt all the theories, as we were been taught in a BRITISH way(it remained practical), to cut it short, I left very frustrated.
After NYSC, I jumped to MSC, MSC was tough and rough, I learnt so many things during this period, I was more exposed to the world. I graduated as the best student as well.

I tried to learn programming, I stopped because my teacher travelled due to situations he could not manage, my two weeks of learning HTML, CSS, JavaScript was stress filled as well as I would leave class to meet him.

I'm an avid reader, I am well knowledgeable about so many things, very critical in thinking, I am well beyond my peers in intelligence, and even in strives.
After MSC, I decided to listen to my brother who has been shouting United State, that is when I wasted 1 year(last year) shading shadows, writing many exams.
This is 2020 for me.

All these while, I could not secure any job, I'm broke as hell. I applied to some places, but wasn't given any. I know how to construct a good CV, Cover letter bla bla bla because I learnt myself, and taught by many other people.

About my skills, I hope to buy a sewing machine, I can't sew with the common machine, because I never practiced with it, and I'm an excellent person, I can't manage a mistake in a dress without feeling so bad (like I killed someone), the common one gives gives such problem, I plan to buy one from the US before the corona wahala.
My beading skill, I can never do it because I hate beading, and I'm even outdated.
My digital marketing/branding skill, I just finished perfecting that to some extent and still learning, I got some few people willing to work with me before the virus wahala.
Other skills requires money to start, which I do not possess (That is beauty products making), I can't do jargons for people to use like many people do here.
I have tried so many other business, that one reason or the other made me stop.

At this point, I'm just tired, it's like I have spent most of my life learning,working hard and striving. And thus, I start things and stop midways nowadays. I looked at myself and see no growth CX I'm broke as hell. I feel so frustrated about everything
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Please I mentioned the skills to show how much I'm a striving person, I'm not asking anyone on which to pick or focus on. I have better plans for many of the skills but not now so I dropped them and now have one
Note** I'm not hungry and this is not for bragging, I just wish to see people that have been through what ive been through and hear from them.
Note**
You may notice many grammatical errors, please don't crucify me became I've written that I'm intelligent, I typed this very fast without thinking twice.

My parents here in Abuja have used Temple Obike https://templeobike.com/ an experienced, certified psychotherapist and relationship counselor and they go to his office. He has an office in Lagos too but not until i saw someone mention something about him in one of the threads here did i call him today to my suprise he answer and gave me solution However bro/sis, i doubt if any of these counselors will be interested in working with your parents o with all these demands. Yes the counselors may have what you mentioned but me i don't know o.

Metooreal:
Hi,

I tried getting some contacts of good marriage counsellors but unfortunately I do not know of any certified one.

Can anyone help? My parent are no longer together and the children are divided. Pastors have tried and it has failed. I need professional marriage counsellors please. It's shameful to me, my friends and inlaws who know them to be together can't hear they are no more together. All of the children are adults, but I can say we are enemies of ourselves because of the foundation. We can't continue this way, I want peace in my family.

All I need is link to their website and I do a background check on them. Don't drop anyone's phone line as it wi be a total waste of your mb, time and a pure indication you don't read the full text of my message.

I need few meaningful inputs on getting the best marriage counsellors.

Note: preferred age of the counsellor should be between 50 - 60, must be married with his wife, ready to travel down to my parent state of residence. Must own a car with a driver. Respected and vocal.

Thanks

Loving this NL. The topics na soap opera material. Sorry bout your pal but has he/she undergone mental examination first. Let's not rush and get too spiritual.

choi! ur head dey there..

Ola17:


If you love your friend, convince him or her to go see a psychologist ASAP! This is a classical case of mental illness. Seek help now before we have another case of a loony on rampage spraying innocent people with hot lead.