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Romance / Re: Do I Tell My Boyfriend He's Not Smart ? by Study4life: 12:14am On Jun 08, 2020 |
What if you are the one that switched off from this guy? And you want him to do magic with u guys conversations? Maybe you are the one that have been avoiding his conversations because u believe he doesn't hold conversation long or his not upto ur "level"... Try and discuss this with ur guy . Maybe u dont discuss things with him rather u preferred telling ur friends so how do u want him to know his weakness and work on them? Because if truly u do discuss personal things with him u wouldn't have published such topic here. Lemme tell u, when u talk about communication in relationships is not about politics, debates rather about things that concern two of u. What I knw is that either of u switched off from each other because you stopped telling him your personal stuffs. Such a thing will affect the guy too. Always remember that a man is also a human being, maybe there are alot of issues or challenges he is facing but u maybe too erratic to give him a listening ear. Maybe he wanted u to be his best friend but u dont care about him so he switched off. Maybe u might be a little selfish towards him, he may be asking himself alot of questions about if u truly love him so he switched off. I think you have alot to work on your self . You believe you are perfect but u are not. You might be the cause of this poor communication stuff. Also be careful of those that u go for an advice with respect to your relationship. Remember what works for "A" may not work for "C" in their relationship. Hold your guy Tight ooo. You are lucky is just the issue of holding conversation for hours . My sister you are blessed to have such a guy. When u listen to other ladies what they are passing through u, will keep quiet and resolve this issue with ur guy. I knw things will work out for two of u. |
Romance / Re: Do I Tell My Boyfriend He's Not Smart ? by Study4life: 9:22pm On Jun 07, 2020 |
Here are the advice I will give u. But first Are u guys in the same country or in a distance relationship? (1) you can help ur guy to grow in the area(s) of his weakness(es) cuz nobody is perfect. There are women that got married and encouraged their husbands to enrolled into universities to obtain degrees. I dont think this is enough reason to stop loving your guy or write him off or be tired of the relationship or move to another guy. The guy u wanna leave him for are u sure tomorrow you wouldn't get tired of him too? (2) I think you want him to talk like your ex(es) or to talk like a man u admire so much but u can't be with that particular man. You forget people are created in different ways but you just wanna change him by force. Since both of u loves each other, things can work out for both of u. Dont lose ur man cuz of this. (3) Maybe during conversations you usually keep quiet and want only him to talk. And you want him to answer your questions the same way ur ex(es) or your colleagues does or to use the same approach ur ex or friends used. Why should u be comparing his chats responses with those of ur friends since u claimed to love him? (4) Maybe he is passing through alot but you have not given him a listening ear to find out what he might be going through rather u are after his approaches of engaging with u in discussions. (5) Do you even bothered to find out how things are going with him? (6)Is also possible that your friends might have started influencing u or telling u to leave him. But don't forget that in life you dont compare cuz those ur friends may not be happy that u have a good guy. (7) Are you sure u are open to this your guy or you are hiding things from him? Is funny how most women behave , if a guy asked u have eaten is it a crime? It shows that he cares. ( Maybe you are hard on this your guy, maybe you want to push him away then u are seeking the opinion of people to justify your plans or reason(s) . Dont push this guy aware cuz of his approaches of answering questions or not holding conversations for too long. I hope you didn't hurt him or made him to switched off. Find out what he likes or two of u can read books together and discuss about it. From the look of things this guy really loves you cuz I can imagine the attitudes you must have been giving him and disrespect he must have been getting from u and still he had not complained or published ur attitude on a social media seeking opinions from people. Love is patience. From the look of things I think this might be a long distance relationship. 2 Likes |
Politics / Re: Has Buhari/FG Actually Mishandled COVID-19 Pandemic? by Study4life: 6:04pm On Apr 01, 2020 |
Biodun556: Because they are testing more people than Nigeria. The more you test, the more confirmed cases u will get because most people that have it doesn't show any symptoms that's why WHO Emphasized on the needs for countries to test as many people as possible 1 Like |
Politics / Re: Has Buhari/FG Actually Mishandled COVID-19 Pandemic? by Study4life: 4:26pm On Apr 01, 2020 |
Thank you for taking ur time to analysis this comparison..I really enjoyed the reading. However, I dont know how much knowledge you have in statistics and science. Have u asked your self how many people US,UK, Italy , Spain, Iran , south Korea have tested? Have you not noticed the more people u test, the more confirmed cases you will get? Has it not occurred to you that South Korea started testing everybody both asymptomatic and symptomatic individuals thats why their number of confirmed cases went up. How many people have been tested in Nigeria? A country of more than 200 million with only 151 confirmed cases... South African has tested more than 23,000 people and that's why the number of confirmed cases went up. Dont forget that up to 80% of people who have COVID 19 are asymptomatic ( without any symptoms of COVID 19) thats why most western countries didn't bothered using temperature check as a means of screening for COVID 19 at their airports . The first index case in Nigeria his temperature was checked at the airport and it read normal value.. NCDC said they have up to 6,000 people that came on contact with the index cases we have in Nigeria, why can't them test all these 6,000 people? If NCDC will increase their testing capacity, it will blow your mind the way the number of confirmed cases will go up. This is the reason WHO emphasised that the best way to contain COVID 19 is by " testing! testing!! testing!!! The more people you test, the more confirmed cases u will get, the more people you will place on isolation then the rate of spreading will decline. 1 Like |
Travel / Re: Why US Is Mulling Visa Ban On Nigeria, By Diplomatic Sources by Study4life: 11:19am On Jan 25, 2020 |
Islie: This your information is not correct because the major reason that was given is because 15% of Nigerians overstayed during their visit to USA ( people that traveled with business and tourist visas) since 2018... So if they are implementing restrictions on immigrants visa ( that has nothing to do with the visa overstaying) while business and tourist visa( that has something to do with visa overstaying) are not affected, does this ur article make any sense? 4 Likes |
Travel / Re: USA Fiancee (K1) Visa Thread by Study4life: 6:20pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
Travel / Re: USA Fiancee (K1) Visa Thread by Study4life: 1:25pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
Greetings Pls is there any hotel close to the US embassy/ US consulate general in lagos, and if yes whats the name(s) of the hotel(s) and like how many mins drive to the Us consulate general . My friend's interview is in two weeks time so he can book ahead. |
Travel / Re: USA Fiancee (K1) Visa Thread by Study4life: 9:04pm On Jan 02, 2020 |
sharpman1: @ Sharpman , I was told that ONE VISIT is among the RED FLAGS. OTHER RED FLAGS ARE (1) Large age difference(2) No common language (3) Short acquaintance 2 Likes |
Travel / Re: USA Fiancee (K1) Visa Thread by Study4life: 6:13pm On Jan 02, 2020 |
Glorioussugar: If I tell you how devastated I am since I saw read your post you wouldn't believe. For him to have printed the letter and kept it on the table waiting for you to appear before him. without asking you any evidences. It most likely points toward your 2013 form your ex filled for you. Because this is k1 visa, probably he assumed you are already married based on the form you submitted in 2013. 1 Like |
Travel / Re: USA Fiancee (K1) Visa Thread by Study4life: 5:52pm On Jan 02, 2020 |
Glorioussugar: @Glorioussigar I'm so sorry about that I think the issue was the fact that you were living together with OJO ( is called a common-law marriage). In a common-law marriage, the two people involved are living together as if they were husband and wife. But there is no marriage certificate or religious ceremony involved. Is a recognized type of marriage in western world That's why he kept on asking you about OJO And secondly, it might be that Ojo filled that both of you were married in 2013, And there was no any evidence to proof otherwise. |
Travel / Re: USA Fiancee (K1) Visa Thread by Study4life: 9:37pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
kunlelikeme: Wow! Congratulations kunle |
Travel / Re: USA Fiancee (K1) Visa Thread by Study4life: 11:25pm On Dec 29, 2019 |
Pls elders should help me with this question QUESTION: For the *affidavit of support form* , after filling the form ,should my fiancee submit it online or just print it and send to me? |
Travel / Re: USA Fiancee (K1) Visa Thread by Study4life: 4:10pm On Dec 29, 2019 |
Treasureprince1: I followed all the steps u listed. Probably it worked in older versions of WhatsApp cuz it seems like each time new version of WhatsApp is released, some of its older functions are replaced. |
Travel / Re: USA Fiancee (K1) Visa Thread by Study4life: 2:03pm On Dec 29, 2019 |
Treasureprince1: @Treasureprince I did what u advised, but it shows only my fiance's number , my number is not showing... Even on my WhatsApp chats, it shows only my fiance's number , instead of my number to show on my comments, it displays "You". |
Travel / Re: USA Fiancee (K1) Visa Thread by Study4life: 2:00pm On Dec 29, 2019 |
Glorioussugar: The same thing here oooo |
Travel / Re: USA Fiancee (K1) Visa Thread by Study4life: 12:07pm On Dec 29, 2019 |
Glorioussugar: For your calls that you screenshots@ Glorioussugar , did it showed ur number and your fiancé number? |
Travel / Re: USA Fiancee (K1) Visa Thread by Study4life: 12:27am On Dec 29, 2019 |
sharpman1: Congratulations @ Sharpman Pls there's a question I asked on how to print out WhatsApp call log details in a way it can show the both numbers together, is it possible? 1 Like |
Travel / Re: USA Fiancee (K1) Visa Thread by Study4life: 12:24am On Dec 29, 2019 |
Glorioussugar: Leave the staple on the police report, that's the way it comes is an official document so I dont think u should tamper it, even the birth certificate or attestation of birth... I think the issue of staple is not allowed when u use it on unofficial documents that's why paper clips is recommended to hold ur supporting documents That's what I think. I stand to be corrected Attached to this is the sample of paper clip to hold ur chats print out, call logs etc 1 Like
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Travel / Re: USA Fiancee (K1) Visa Thread by Study4life: 1:37am On Dec 27, 2019 |
QUESTION @legitbachelor , Sharpman AND OTHER ELDERS IN THE HOUSE Is it possible for my number and my fiancée's number to show together on our WhatsApp call log details? Pls what's the possible way to do that or should we screenshot our call log details separately? Since it was written on the items for inteview that one must ensure that both numbers and duration of calls must show on their call logs details.[/quote] |
Travel / Re: USA Fiancee (K1) Visa Thread by Study4life: 1:36am On Dec 27, 2019 |
@legitbachelor, is it not time for u to block this person named *SMARTKITTY*? I dont like how he uses negativity tools in answering people's questions! I dont knw whoever the guy or lady is but he/she behaves like a sadist that want people to be victims like himself or herself, forgetting that not everybody is a fraud or involves in shady things. I believe that people here are genuine people with reputable characters. Is obvious that his/her intentions are bad towards others. By their fruits we shall know them. 3 Likes |
Travel / Re: USA Fiancee (K1) Visa Thread by Study4life: 2:49pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
sharpman1: Thank u @ sharpman QUESTION @legitbachelor , Sharpman AND OTHER ELDERS IN THE HOUSE Is it possible for my number and my fiancée's number to show together on our WhatsApp call log details? Pls what's the possible way to do that or should we screenshot our call log details separately? Since it was written on the items for inteview that one must ensure that both numbers and duration of calls must show on their call logs details. |
Travel / Re: USA Fiancee (K1) Visa Thread by Study4life: 11:23pm On Dec 18, 2019 |
Pls legitbachelor, sharpman AND other elders With respect to this WhatsApp call log details, is there anyway it can show the phone numbers of the person you called, cuz normally it only shows the name of the person you called . |
Travel / Re: USA Fiancee (K1) Visa Thread by Study4life: 11:19pm On Dec 18, 2019 |
@legitbachelor, sharpman AND other elders Pls if one wants a letter of introduction from his place of work here in Nigeria, just in case, should the letter be addressed to US Embassy Nigeria OR US Consulate General Lagos, Nigeria |
Travel / Re: USA Fiancee (K1) Visa Thread by Study4life: 2:27am On Dec 13, 2019 |
Travel / Re: USA Fiancee (K1) Visa Thread by Study4life: 2:26am On Dec 13, 2019 |
Cappie: @,Edeth house ( police headquarters Abuja) OR @ Police command Area 10, Abuja OR @police office at Area 11, close to old CBN minting house.. Is #10,000 It takes between 5 to 7 business days to be ready because they send the samples to Lagos . |
Travel / Re: USA Fiancee (K1) Visa Thread by Study4life: 2:19am On Dec 13, 2019 |
LegitBachelor: @Legitbachelor Noted bro Thanks |
Travel / Re: USA Fiancee (K1) Visa Thread by Study4life: 6:46pm On Dec 10, 2019 |
@ Legitbachelor, Sharpman, sukey and other elders in the house Pls I need a clarification with respect to this medicals. Must the medicals fall within the 2 weeks of once interview? Because the available appointment dates I got when I tried to schedule a date for my medicals will be 3weeks plus 5 days to my interview. Here are my questions (1) has anyone gone for an interview with his/her medicals done up to 3 weeks or upto a month to his/her interview date (2) Does it have any negative impact? |
Travel / Re: USA Fiancee (K1) Visa Thread by Study4life: 6:12pm On Dec 10, 2019 |
disguy1: @Brownesugar @disguy1, Attestation of birth Certificate should be authenticated by ministry of foreign affairs for international purposes, you can ask people at NPC cuz my friend told me about one woman that came to authenticate her children's birth certificates cuz the Embassy told her to do that and send it back to them via DHL . Secondly, is like the authentication of birth certificates and attestation of birth certificates are done only at the Ministry of foreign affairs Abuja. Go to Facebook or Twitter and search for ministry of foreign affairs Abuja and ask them questions I think it will clarified this issue. |
Travel / Re: USA Fiancee (K1) Visa Thread by Study4life: 6:17am On Dec 10, 2019 |
brownesugar: @Brownesugar I authenticated my attestation of birth certificate at Ministry of foreign affairs Abuja. But find out if it can be authenticated in Ministry of foreign affairs, Lagos. But since some people that were born in the 80's said that they used the small green birth certificate from NPC at the Embassy, then I think u should relax. I was only advised to get the Attestation of birth since I was born before 1992 because on that attestation of birth certificate it stated that. "This falls beyond the coverage of the Act No.69 of December, 1992( which is the small green birth certificate) for inssuance of birth certificate. In the light of the above information gratefully accept this birth attestation letter in respect of...........My Names."" So based on the above information it means I am supposed to have the Attestation of birth certificate. In case u have to get the Attestation of birth certificate, you have to go to a high court to get an affidavit of age declaration that u will present at National population commission, is a requirement. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Travel / Re: USA Fiancee (K1) Visa Thread by Study4life: 5:50am On Dec 10, 2019 |
Treasureprince1: @Treasureprince, OK oooo. Noted |
Travel / Re: USA Fiancee (K1) Visa Thread by Study4life: 6:24pm On Dec 09, 2019 |
Sukey: @Sukey Congratulations |
Travel / Re: USA Fiancee (K1) Visa Thread by Study4life: 6:23pm On Dec 09, 2019 |
@ Legitbachelor, Sharpman, sukey and other elders in the house Pls I need a clarification with respect to this medicals. Must the medicals fall within the 2 weeks of once interview? Because the available appointment dates I got when I tried to schedule a date for my medicals will be 3weeks plus 5 days to my interview. Here are my questions (1) has anyone gone for an interview with his/her medicals done up to 3 weeks or upto a month to his/her interview date (2) Does it have any negative impact? 1 Like |
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