Justbehave:
Your mum is wiser than you. A student with no means of livelihood that is a fashion freak is nothing but an olosho. Your mum knows but you are blinded by the free pussy she's giving you.

Romanoff:
Hmmn.

Oga, there's a difference between a married man and a single man.

A married man cannot live like a single man.

Anywhere you're looking for fun, carry your wife along. That's not to say you can't hang out with your friends, single or married but tag your wife along in your fun.

Go on date nights with other couples, see movies together at the cinema, go on boat rides and holidays, give each other tasks of shopping for each other, etc.

Marriage doesn't have to be boring, na marry you marry, no be solitary confinement.

GenAbacha:


You dey mind am.

He wants his sister to stay in a marriage full of infidelity but he can’t stay in one himself.

His blood sister we’re talking about here.

Last last enlightenment is key.

It’s no longer enough to be educated







what are you even saying? The op clearly said that her sister is a dependant ,if she quits the marriage, she and the children will suffer and more importantly the financial burden will rest solely on him and from what he said he doesn't have the financial backbone to weather the attendant storm . You are here yarning okpata as if you will come to their aid when the chips are down.



.

GenAbacha:


You dey mind am.

He wants his sister to stay in a marriage full of infidelity but he can’t stay in one himself.

His blood sister we’re talking about here.

Last last enlightenment is key.

It’s no longer enough to be educated


What are you even saying? The op clearly said that her sister is a dependant ,if she quits the marriage, she and the children will suffer and more importantly the financial burden will rest solely on him and from what he said he doesn't have the financial backbone to weather the attendant storm . You are here yarning okpata as if you will come to their aid when the chips are down.

crackhaus:


If you so wish, you could go on typing and gesticulating from now till tomorrow because you need to appear neutral and without bias.
However, it still won't change one fact and a universal truth that when it comes to cheating, a husband having a love-child versus a wife having a love-child are two very different things that can't be adjudged in the same way.

What an unbiased submission

I asked the other gentleman some questions which I feel you would have done well to answer since you felt the need to jump in on the comment, instead you went off on a tangent going on about the upcoming generation, progeny, the society, bla bla bla... Like who gives a fvck mayn? LoL

You're even insinuating that my comment is corrupting the younger generation yada yada yada...
Do you think typing comments on NL is going to stop anyone from cheating or having biases that are backed up by the reality of this world?

Infidelity in marriages that's been happening since the dawn of time and perpetuated by both men and women equally, is something that won't stop... neither will appealing to the emotions of people urging them to be less hypocritical suddenly erase the fact that a husband can get another woman pregnant, inform his wife and still continue with the marriage if the wife so pleases because he does NOT need to impose the child on her or have her take care of it.

However, if it was the wife with a pregnancy from another man and she informs her husband, how then REALISTICALLY do you expect the marriage to continue?

— Should her husband accept another man's child, raise it, spend his money on it, and roleplay daddy?
— Or should she handover the child to her side-bobo instead and continue with her marriage without the interference of the child?

You can stew on the answers to the above questions.

If you understood my thought process well enough, you would know that I have never been one to sugarcoat anything to please the gender that loves to hear lies disguised as sweet nothings just because it makes them feel good – same reason they are easily the most deceived by people who know how to game even when they assume they're in control of a situation.

So yea, of course women are cheaters and men are cheaters as well – I have never denied it or tried to change the world's perception, I don't even care to.
And yes, you should definitely fear women just as men should be feared too — There's no innocent gender as far as I'm concerned.
And then, perhaps men are really scum afterall but are women angels in comparison? Fvck NO!

My stance has always remained the same when it comes to marriage and infidelity, husbands and wives should cheat if they want to cheat... Just try not to get caught or bring the child of your infidelity to the house.

And furthermore, between a husband and a wife, who is more capable of having a child outside the marriage without letting it interfere with the union? A husband can 100%.
No woman is going to successfully do that as long as her husband is aware of her infidelity, NONE.

It's fine if you see it as hypocrisy, you can also hate it or love it. None of your emotional response to the above stated fact is going to change anything about the reality of things.

Cheers...

Unityp:
Just like Nothing will happen to the person who refuse to pay Tithes and Offerings

FORWARDEVERLY:



Lol..
I remember when I dey do NYSC for UYO..
One day I dey bus from PH to UYO..
Driver come dey drive nonsense, na em I caution am in a humane way..
Em no reply me but some young ladies started ranting that i should leave the driver to drive as he likes and bla bla bla..
Naso me blast Dem.. Dem blast me.. naso we exchange words till we reach ikot ekpene, almost close to UYO as the journey continued..
We were only 3 men in the bus excluding the driver...
The ladies were all shocked that I didn't stomach their abuse but returned fire for fire.. I cursed their mothers and fathers.. their stinky cunts and whatnots...
Lol..
E shock Dem.. just as the poster said, when you keep mute, it has a way of making you depressed in the long run, abuse of any kind do affect mental health..
And I would never have anyone either male or female abuse me..
Dem think say I go form gentle man corper.. cos I was wearing the crested polo abi na verst.. me no send.. I Sabi speak all three languages, I curse Dem for hausa, igbo, Yoruba, Pidgin and also fluent English language.. plus small Ibibio too..
I got nothing to prove to them cos I no my self worth, i engaged them thoroughly and defeated all of the ladies in the bus in the war of words.. cos my insults was So Vulgar and laced with Enough body shaming, height shaming, skin shaming and sexual organ curses.. lol..
And I use to travel with that company frequently every two weeks to UYO..
Anytime I meet some of them for park or Bus, don't even recognize them.. I no send anybody na Dem go dey hail me.. Corper Corper.. I go say, do i know you?? Dem go say.. you remember that Bus that day..
Dem go laugh come tell me say make I take am easy say my blood too dey hot..
My dear..
E come be say woman slap me..
I go kill am and go to jail with a smiling face.. Wallahi, I go annihilate am..
Nobody has the Monopoly of madness..

poshestmina:
It's simple!
Never hit anyone if you don't want it reciprocated.

Domestic violence is bad irrespective of the gender.

I was in a market sometime ago ,this customer (a woman) was shouting and slapped the apprentice boy ,the boy withdrew back ,she charged towards him and slapped him again (the boy was almost in tears,still trying to explain to the woman ),the Oga came ,told him in igbo "Are you not a man ,why you dey zuzuaria" ,madam wanted to rush him again , believe me,the boy gave her brain resetting slaps and punches and none of us onlookers tried to intervene not even the Oga.

She left in shame with mostly women abusing her . Trust market women and their foul mouth .
" Na so you dey beat your husband for house"?
"You for wait fight na", "person like you no fit accommodate inlaws ,tufiakwa" .
She was even bleached so her face became really red .

Women are becoming aggressive and murderous these days.

Defend yourselves.

Your submission is apt, objective and devoid of any form of biase, irrespective of your gender . You just won me over

Ayo2004:
True..my biggest problem is that no matter how guilty the women are,they always play the victim
How many men cope in long-periods relationships like marriage baffles me,even staying with my mother gave me problems

I think I will just make money,travel round the round,eat well,have fun and when I am like 40,choose one baby mama to have a child with

No be me dem go kill with high BP

design106:

Later someone will say money is not good and that you should wait for your reward in heaven.

Taaaaah. Can't I enjoy on earth and also do in Heaven?
Abi them swear for me?

medriano:
No need to “wicked” her. She is a liar and will always tell outrageous lies and will keep lying to cover up. I’m a woman and I can tell you she is manipulative.
Imagine after marriage and you are unable to provide certain things for her, what do you think would happen? She’ll keep running to other men for assistance. How would it make you feel as a man?
I’m also sure she’ll rub it in your face that you didn’t set up a business for her but someone else did. Talk a walk.

MISSCONGENIALITY:
Come and marry me. We will be going on break every 3monthss so that you can bring in other women while I bring in other men. We won't have to be together forever. Just on and off marriage

laughitall:
I want to help 5 nairalanders with 2k each .. drop your account number below this comment

eleojo23:
What am I doing on this thread?

Oops! Missed my way

Sorry, bye

Is this you?.....aka no stress geng, minjibir

TotoNaRubber:
I will do giveaway
Quote and tell me what you need

GrammarNazi1:

The first and only day I ate it, I developed a headache.

Stricker321:

lanre88:
80% of Nigerians hate their present job yet to take a bold step and venture into something better is a big task for them. The fear of loosing your present job keeps haunting you get you know with your current job, you cannot have your mind of dream life with that job even in the next five to ten years.

While I was in the banking industry, same applies to me but I was focused and told my colleagues I would leave the industry even when my pay was much.

I found a gold mine in Networking that I hated all my life, atimes what might actually be our major success might be that thing we never wanted to do.

Find your passion and work towards it, to me networking forever.

A word is enough...

breathelove:
Girls out there, have you ever asked yourselves why men are usually wealthier than us women. We attend the same school, we have the same laptop they use for yahoo and we even collect money from them. We keep listening to the same advice from foolish friends and celebrities. If collecting money for sex or a relationship was the way, half of all Nigerian girls would have been richer than E money.
many girls have been collecting this money since they were teenagers yet their lives remain the same.
My advice, find real value guys, seek mentorship and connection, not money. Learn to give value. Don't bargain with sex. Never make sex a form of exchange or currency. If you do, like it or not, you are a prostitute.
Follow the guy who is stingy with his money but generous with his knowledge. You have been collecting money all your life yet you remain a dependent.

mosdii:
Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them

mosdii:
Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them

Romanoff:
So as educated as this man is, this is the nonsense coming out of his mouth.

So that's why they shot at protesters at the Lekki tollgate?

Romanoff:
Lol. Since media houses found a way to boycott the ban, the government is using NBC.

Those of una wey give us this government.

God go punish una and una Papa.

God pass all of una.

Tolexandre:
You mean onky 10 fully complied with the association dues

FalseProphet1:
For our lazy brothers and sisters who couldn't read the whole article.

Our dearest op played the whóre role in the banking industry 11 years ago, and although some ladies hammered heavily through that channel our op didn't, money she no see, husband she no see, now she's 34 years with no job and husband...and very sad. Please help her.

This I have seen.

Goodyness:
So they picked 99 bodies off the streets of lagos just like that? Was it a coincidence that these bodies were picked the same time the Lekki incident happened. How many bodies have they picked after that? There are so many unanswered questions. If you live in lagos, how many bodies have you seen in the streets of lagos in the last 12 months?