MMotimo:


You lived together happily until childbirth and then he just changed overnight? Your story doesn't sound right.

Not saying you are lying but there are vital missing details in your story, it's incomplete. So, within the space of how many weeks, your husband became suicidal/homicidal as well as a wife beater and womanizer? Maybe if you complete the story, you will get people that can give you sensible counsel.

Actually before I got pregnant we do have our normal coupels misunderstanding Bt not like this

[quote author=cococandy post=38111318]You don't have to tell him you're leaving.
Just leave quietly.
You're rubbing it in his face that you're leaving so that he will kill you and kill himself abi?
Think of your little child first.
Thank god you have your mom to lean on this period. So just go back there and let him conquer his demons first before you bring yourself and that little baby into the face of danger.

Someone can kill another person in anger unintentionally much less when they already threatened to do so with a knife.
Whatever came over him will clear once that knife finds its way into your body. By then it will be too late.
He needs help and until he gets its and gets better, remove yourself from that danger.

You can be giving him your support from your moms place. Let him come there and see you guys anything he wants to see the baby.
Never go back until you're totally convinced that he's changed.





I think that's what I wil do, Bt I want 2 tak my baby vry far away 4rm him

taryour:




is this story real or I don't get it... its funny though but i kinda find this hard to believe. and you still remain in that house aftr the threatened to stab you? He wanted to take his own child to the orphanage home? are you both going to die soon

It's nt funny my dear

Tnx all 4 concern, I appreciate

My husband and I started dating when he had noting now he has gotten a job and we live in a house of our own with a car which he all got after we got married, we dated for four years b4 we got married, we got married three years ago we were living happily not until I got pregnant, when my pregnancy was eight months my elder sister gave birth thru CS so my husband and I both agreed that I will go 2 my family house so that my mum can take care of me because she won't be able to come over cos of my sister's health. I gave birth Jan this year and 8days later I traveled to zaria to meet my mum, my husband dropped me at home promising to b coming to check on the baby and I every weekend because 4rm zaria to our house is abt 30mins drive.
After he left I dnt c him again till after 2weeks and he didn't even stay up to an hour wit us and he left any time I call him at night he is either at club or in bar drinking so because of this I told my mum I was going home I left zaria my baby was jst 1month and 2weeks old only for me to return home and meet a dfft man from the person I married, I went thru his pone I saw dfft msgs 4rm five dfft girls his pone is now full of girls pix and porn, as if that is not enough he beat me at any even opportunity and any tym I want to leave he wil carry knife that he wil kill me and kill himself I'm so confuse I don't knw what to do pls I need advice. The other we quarrel he dragged me into his car and almost got us killed because of the way he was driving I managed to run away from him that the and the next day he saw me he collected my baby from and wanted to take my baby to orphanage home.

Hi, please I'm new here, I have a story 2 share cos I need advise but I don't know how 2 post. Please put me thru. Tnx in advance

Hi, pls I'm nw here I av a story 2 post Bt don't knw hw 2 go abt it.