No marry. Case closed!

We go look like that when una begin look like this

1. She "prefers male friends because.......". Na lie! she likes male parts and attention.

2. She drinks more than you.

3. She smokes.

3. Her friends are known hoes. Birds of the same feather..

4. Never misses any party.

5. Her mom is a hoe. Believe it or not, they have found hoe genes.

6. She lives by herself in Abuja but no job.

Una fit add to the list for our education.

gentleheart1:
Nairalanders please help a sister find true love, I have dated few Nigerian Men in my life and it hasn't been wonderful.

I don't want to spill out much here but I know I have tried my best to truly love the few Nigerian Men I have dated.

I might just be lucky to find true love in a foreigner.

Dont bash or insult me, you don't know what I have been through in my quest to find true love.

Even white man go see your post tear race. Very shallow!

Thank you for the advice my people. I don dump am!

Just in case you guys think they are having fun, most "players" are actually suffering silently

"those who reported serious thoughts of suicide or more depressive symptoms as teens were more likely to engage in casual sex as young adults. In other words, poor mental state and casual sex do reinforce each other"

http://psychcentral.com/blog/archives/2014/06/16/one-night-stands-5-shocking-facts-about-the-science-of-hooking-up/

CindyeMerAld:

ashawo no be human being

Carry on! I see your point

CindyeMerAld:
yes u can if u truly love her...besyds hers is nt dt bad, i have seen worse cases...at least she can count how many, some gals cant count cos its 2 much

I guess the question is can you love ashawo?

most of the time, women do this because they are in a sad place and looking for an escape. In the meantime boys go dey chop the obo for free.

Cholls:
my brother ya fada!

Wetin be your problem na!

ettaetta:
I’ve always wondered how some of you can be so cold. How you can have a wife here, a mistress there, and 30 side chicks spread everywhere, yet tell someone that you only want to be with them. Does sleep come easy knowing that your promiscuous ways and playboy antics crush hearts and bruise self-esteem, causing pain and bitterness for women who love you more than you love yourselves?.

I bet it never occurred to you that you’re dogging another man’s daughter; some other man’s sister, niece, cousin or mother,
You may not realize it now, but a lot of your indiscretions are being tallied up on the board of life. And once you meet Karma, you’re sure to feel the true wrath of a woman—just like with anything else we do in life, your behavior could come back to you. I’d bet that it will. Maybe when you’re ready to settle down, the woman who vows to love and honor you will milk you for everything that you have and leave you feeling the heartache and pain that you’ve caused so many over the course of your “playa” years. Perhaps you’ll find that the love of your life is as loose as a goose, then the tears that leaked from the eyes of your ex will pool from yours.

You may not want to believe it, you may not think it can happen, but the games that you play, the lies that you tell, and humiliation that you cause will come back to you one day. It happens to everyone, man or woman. Whether it’s through your love life, or your future seeds, somehow, someway, you will find yourself on Karma’s receiving end. I just hope that the next time you decide to play with a woman’s heart, you remember that a woman just might do the same to you, or another man might do it to your daughter.
Thanks




https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0iq_pkXsMv8

No message for female "Players"?

A woman can never be a player, only a giver of free obo

nickyvil:
Ask her if we changed from pdp to apc... If she did then ask her If she have blamed someone today for her past life

Lol una go kill me.

iPrevail:
Why the fvck would I do that?

Even if she has changed?

-Multiple one night stands.
-Used to get drunk and have sex with 2 guys at the same time.
-Has slept with more than 30 guys total

But now she says she has changed.

MrsPhyno:
Yeaaaah

I personally take it upon myself to be the embodiment of every lovelorn and forsaken Nigerian woman and "do my own back"
The thrills are unimaginable


Depends on what u mean by cheat tho

You sound like you don't have a man though

Thylord:
You 14 std's not girlfrd dumbazz.

Wetin concern STD inside this matter? Abi you get personal problem you wan discuss?

If your girl tells you she has a male bestie.......DUMP HER ASAP!!! That is the first sign of Ashawo

discoprophet:


brotherly, may it touch your heart to give me six nau!

At this point I am willing to give you 12.

chiefmidwife:
Pls help a nairalander
I saw a girl I love in a flat I newly relocated
We are seeing everyday but I don't know how to tell her I love her and ask her for friendship
I called her around 11pm last night and told her that we will see today
I later text her that I love her bt don't know hw to tell her
Pls what and hw should I approach her today? Ur advice

Oboi you be gentleman o! Don't take advice from these dragons on Nairaland. Your approach is better than their animal instincts. If she does not like your mellow style, let her go.

Pheals:

This is very unfair characterization of a person in need of help. It is not like I don't know something is wrong. I am sure there are other guys here with more babes. I just see it as a major problem in my life in need of correction. Una sabi judge person o!

i am not sure how I got tangled up in this mess but as they say "body no be wood". I now hate that lifestyle and I want to do something about it, but I don't know where to start.

I swear I did not know this could ever be a problem but wahala dey. I have too many babes (about 14), all of which call me their boyfriend. I am ready to settle down but this mess needs to be cleaned up ASAP. My main problem is that I have at least 5 that I feel like will make good wives, but it is hard making a choice. This has become a chronic problem keeping me up at night. I used to enjoy being a player, but now it is causing me sorrow. Anyone with similar problems?

Beat him back

jaelz:
Okay there's this girl that i really like a lot but the problem is that i know of someone not really a friend just the oh boy how far greetings kinda friend that used to date the girl back then and men u know guys with shagging and bragging now. I mean what i have heard about the way he bleeped her and how she did snake in the monkey shadow style on the bed for her. Just restrains me from walking up to her though i really love her much, am just so so confused right now. Please my dear nairalander i need your advice.

Chop and run. It will haunt you for ever if you are friends with that guy.

armylord:
Ive been dating her for 5 months plus nd this nigga is still texting her on fb , still talking bout how he missed her? , I'm d impatient type, plus I'm bad tempered, This nigga saw us together nd is still texting, what's his problem . I'm thinking of texting him on fb to stop bothering her ?

She needs to handle her business or you need to bounce. It is not your job to take care of her EX, and the same goes for your own EXs. Those people telling you to put a ring on it before you can get mad have no clue about marriage. Problems don't go away with rings, they get bigger.