A poll is being conducted asking men what their favourite female bodypart is. They are given a choice of 6 regions.

I found the results really enlightening. A few were obvious and some were totally unexpected.

Here is the poll    What is your favourite female bodypart

The statistics might have even changed since i last viewed it.

The answer to why men cheat- by Dele

Adultery has been around forever, and has always given us something to talk about. Most reality TV shows these days center on it, as do gossip mags. But we are close to cracking the big mystery: Why do some men cheat?

This one is about men, so guys i will be going into why women cheat pretty soon. And ladies, use this resource as an eductional tool giving you an insight into the inner workings of a mans mind.

All men know, at some level, that cheating is wrong and can never be justified. From the earliest age, we are taught the virtues of monogamy. “Thou shalt not covet thy neighbour’s wife,” bellows our Judeo-Christian consciousness. Yet we still do it. Ladies by he time you finish reading this, it will answer the most common question women ask after a betrayal: “If he loved me, why did he do it?”. That is simply because most men can separate Love and Sex. He might love you to death and still engage in clandestine and forbidden liaisons.

Blame it on the genes
In troubled relationships, cheating can be an easy alternative to the burden of a breakup or the agony of divorce. It’s a quick fix for the sake of the couple’s or the family’s integrity. Some of us have even gone so far as to enact the long-distance code: If you cheat in another postcode, it doesn’t count.

And with evolutionary psychologists telling us that we are wired to lay our seeds in as many women as possible to ensure our genetic survival, adultery is slowly becoming a defensible misdeed, which may explain why women are catching up to men in the game of infidelity.

Because of our insatiable appetite for sex, we men can sometimes only be as faithful as our options.

I have done some research and come up with the Top 10 reasons why men cheat!!!!

Let’s start the countdown…

10. THE WOMAN DOESN’T PUT OUT

Every man has heard that the best way to get a woman to stop having sex with him is by marrying her. Apparently, long-term relationships seem to suck the sex drive out of many women, leaving men gasping for fulfilment. With the need for more sex, some men will start “working late” more often.

Or it could just be that the sex has become boring. She doesn’t want to try new things in bed, or won’t perform MouthAction. Some men may cheat because they don’t want their girlfriends or wives to perform certain sex acts that would ruin their “good girl” image, so they get a mistress to take care of it. Like Robert de Niro said in Analyze This , “That’s the mouth she kisses my kids good night with!”, refering to why he wouldn’t let his wife give him a BJ.

9 .SHE CHEATED ON ME

So you found out your lady was being unfaithful, and the only way you can relieve your anger is by doing the same. For many men, this is the only way to get back at their cheating girlfriends and even the score. Some men might even cheat to get back at all the cheating women they’ve had the misfortune of dating throughout their lives; now that’s efficiency.

8.IT’S CHALLENGING AND EXCITING

If you consider the women you sleep with “sexual trophies,” chances are you have already cheated at least once in your life. Some men simply cannot leave behind the thrill of the hunt, the chase and the conquest. For other men, the excitement is in the variety, like changing ice cream flavors for one day after years of sticking to just one.

7. I CAN GET AWAY WITH IT

“What eyes don’t see, the heart doesn’t feel,” goes the old adage, and it still holds true, as long as there are no cameras around. The knowledge that no one will find out and no one will get hurt is reason enough for some men to grab a different helping. But be careful; as men get craftier with avoiding detection, women get more sophisticated with detecting, not to mention boosting their network of spies.

6.IT BOOSTS HIS EGO

Nothing lifts the old self-esteem like discovering that other women still desire you sexually. When in long-term relationships, men may begin to question their sexual marketability, which will lead some of them to sow their clandestine wild oats. in some cases the man just needs to know if he ’s still got it. Men going through mid-life crisis may fall victim to this need for re-assurance especially when the woman at home is making them feel less of a man.
What’s a guy to do when his girlfriend’s-a-naggin’ and opportunity comes-a-knockin’?

5 .OPPORTUNISTS

It’s an uncontested fact that most men can’t say “no” to sex except for the few like me. Although guys aren’t constantly bombarded with sexual offers, sometimes an irresistible prospect presents itself. Maybe it’s a frisky ex-girlfriend, maybe it’s a Hot hottie on the dance floor. A guy may see it as once-in-a-lifetime chance and turning it down will be criminal. Carpe diem , as they say.

4. MY GIRLFRIEND OR WIFE IS A NAG

Most men have experienced at least one woman who thrives on making him feel like crap. Constant nagging, fighting and squabbling in the right ratios is the best recipe for a headache. Cheating with another woman is a common escape from this domestic hell, and works better than aspirin(as one man claimed).

3. WOMEN LET US

Truth be told, women are quick to forgive men for their unfaithful behavior. Maybe it’s their fear of being alone, or that women are simply the more merciful ones of the human species. Some women might even blame themselves for their men’s infidelities, and take steps to improve their relationships. The fact that many women let their men get away with murder might compel them to cheat. Just ask Bill Clinton.

2.SHE HAS STOPPED MAKING AN EFFORT

Long-term relationships have the annoying habit of making people lazy. No longer concerned with staying fit and attractive, a committed woman might lose the allure she once had. Her man may simply not find her beautiful anymore, and making love to her is not as stirring as it once was. Some women take things for granted and stop making an effort to look good and irresistable.

1. THE LOVE HAS GONE

Alas, after a long time together, you have lost the feelings you once had for her. But the relationship has remained too much a part of you. Separating seems so painful, so radical that it’s almost inconceivable. So instead of separating, you go elsewhere to get your physical gratification. Most times this does not help matters, but only prolongs the inevitable breakup.

Dele’s Final thought:

In the end, cheating is no joking matter. If you are cheating on your girlfriend or wife, it might be that you are unhappy in the relationship, or that you have issues that you should address. Look at the big picture and see your unfaithfulness as a symptom of a bigger problem.

Cheating might feel good as a quick escape from your problems, but it’s only an anaesthetic — not a long-term solution.

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When he feels like he is losing his dignity, which explains why some men back off so easily while others remain persistent until they are humiliated and disgraced.

Back in the days when i was still young and carefree , i never bothered chasing women. yes i had dashing good looks but that wasn't the reason why.

It was simply because i had a lot of pride. If i called a girl up and she acted just a teeny weeny bit uninterested, I would delete her number after that call. The funniest thing is that after a few weeks, i would receive a call from an unrecognisable number(since it's been deleted) asking why i hadn't called all this time.

My answer. Well i called you and seemed a little unreceptive so i deleted your number. I don't have time to play silly games.

The moral of the story is that they ended up chasing me instead, what a twist of fate.

Why bother liking someone that doesn't like you? save your love for someone who does.

When he feels like he is losing his dignity, which explains why some men back off so easily while others remain persistent until they are humiliated and disgraced.

Back in the days when i was still young and carefree , i never bothered chasing women. yes  i had dashing good looks but that wasn't the reason why.

It was simply because i had a lot of pride. If i called a girl up and she acted just a teeny weeny bit uninterested, I would delete her number after that call. The funniest thing is that after a few weeks, i would receive a call from an unrecognisable number(since it's been deleted) asking why i hadn't called all this time.

My answer. Well i called you and seemed a little unreceptive so i deleted your number.  I don't have time to play silly games.

The moral of the story is that they ended up chasing me instead, what a twist of fate.

Why bother liking someone that doesn't like you? save your love for someone who does.

Dejavu!! This is by far one of the oldest tricks in the book. Talking about having your cake and eating it too. I have come across women in this same situation countless times and it always ends up the same way, In heartbeak! The good old," i'm doing it for papers line". Listen up girl! A man dubious and heartless enough to string another woman on just to get his papers is not to be trusted. Such a man is capable of doing anything to achieve his goals regardless of the hearts that will inevitably be broken in this quest.

He may be stringing you along. He might even be using both of you with a third woman waiting somewhere. I hope you realise that only a very small of married men involved in extra-marital affairs actually leave their wives.

Give him an ultimatum to make up his mind or do the right thing and leave someone elses husband alone. remember what goes around, comes around.

I wish you all the best


Doctor Lovebug

http://www.doctorlovebug.co.uk - Nigerian Dating and Relationship Advice

The most ridiculous excuse i've ever heard in a man's defence is that if god didn't intend for us to have numerous partners, why do we have tens of millions of sperms?

Who can top that?

What has love got to do with it?
Just because you love doesn't mean you have to be faithful!! I could love Ferari's but could still hire a porsche or a benzo from time to time. That doesn't mean that i am not crazy about Ferari's.

Have you read my article. It will tell you whether your partner is cheating on you or not.

Here are the top ten signs of a cheating spouse

http://www.africandateline.com/articles/article26.php

Within her regular three week visits, are you allowed to visit her?
If yes then maybe you need to make more of an effort by visiting her in between her periodic visits.
If No then maybe she has something to hide.

But the truth is that you can never really be sure until you actually find out. The mind does play tricks and things are not always what they seem to be.

This research was done with a population of 1000 men picked at random and a top ten list was compiled.

You will find this very informative and interesting. Hmmm. Food for thought.

http://www.africandateline.com/articles/article25.php

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I think girlfriends need to get a job! If they don't have a good paying one then they should retrain or go back to school. These kind of women give us independent women a bad name.