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Family / Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by syntekelite(m): 7:53am On May 04, 2022 |
wirinet: Lol its not fabled law..its a simple fact that the man has no claim on that child if the family choose to go the route of the court room, a simple analogy.. if the said woman was richer than the man and has properties, will the man automatically inherit said property?the court recognises only valid certificate of marriage,which he has none,he is just like a surrogate who donated his sperm,thats the point you are choosing to avoid,which is why the family insists he pays the dowry if the child is important to him.. are you telling me if the woman was alive and she and the man part ways its a must she gives the child his name?? There is no link tying the child to the fathers name cos officially the mother never took the mans name.. its divorce or separation that applies to what you stated above..in the eyes of the law they were just boyfriend and girlfriend.. |
Health / Re: My Fiancee Can't Have Sex by syntekelite(m): 12:12pm On May 03, 2022 |
OluwoR: Was she a virgin prior to said first invadement?? If she was you have nothing to fear,first check her for infections like candida or staph,they make sex painful for women not sexually active.. your answer to the question above will make me better advice more. |
Family / Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by syntekelite(m): 12:08pm On May 03, 2022 |
wirinet: My friend is yoruba,the wife is from the east.. As to paternity and the constitution,sharia is being practised in kano and parts of kaduna,is sharia in the constitution? Pertaining to paternity a man who never legally married a woman has no total claim over the child in a court of law,cos the court of law respects only the law which will be a marriage certificate or registry certificate which the man has neither so why will said child bear his name? The man can only be awarded joint custody with the family of the wife cos he was her boyfriend and baby daddy not her husband and thats after the court orders a dna test.. Has it even crossed your mind that the family can deny he is the father after all they were just dating as such the woman is free to date someone else since the man never bothered to do right by her.. Not supporting the family,am a realist that knows that anything is possible and so must respect some strange and unusual circumstances peculiar to diff tribes.. in all such instances have come across,the man involved almost never wins.. you see those uncles in the east never mess with them.. |
Family / Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by syntekelite(m): 11:06am On May 03, 2022 |
wirinet: Thats why its called tradition not constitution.. trust me the child will be taken by the womans family if he doesnt do what they want at least to an extent..the main reason why it became an issue in the first place is cos she died in the mans house,there are baby mamas still living in their fathers house or their own apartment alone..if she had died in her fathers house or her own house such demands wont have come up..there is a distinct difference btw the two scenario's that you have to u.stand.. also if you read the op's thread you will sense an arrogance or maybe ignorance of the way things are done in diff cultures.. imagine someone cohabiting with a child of another man just calls and says he wants to plan burial of their daughter...someone he has a child with,lives with for years but never did any formal introduction with her family,now wants to do burial.... One of my man has 5kids with a woman he never married..they are practically married but not in the eyes of the law or God.. he just did the introduction recently,the reason... a friend from the same tribe with his wife told my man.. if your woman die for your house you no fit bury her and your children no go bear your name unless he travels to the east to do the traditional rites with her family.. |
Culture / Re: Ooni Of Ife Ojájá II Ministers At Olókun Festival In Ile Ife [photos] by syntekelite(m): 10:45am On May 03, 2022 |
danietohbadt: Lol..no mind am.. person wey hin name primitive dey form posh... 3 Likes 1 Share |
Politics / Re: Osinbajo’s Adeboye-Inspired RCCG Supremacist Bigotry Now Open - Farooq Kperogi by syntekelite(m): 9:58am On May 03, 2022 |
. Its becoming obvious that faroq whatever.... Is a paid islamic terrorist agent,he has never condemned bandits, buhari (who publicly said sharia cant be stopped), miyetti ,elrufai (who publicly said fulani will wipe out their enemies),and the chief terrorist gumi.. his only headache is osibanjo, its obvious osibanjo cant be controlled nor compromised, thats why he scares the north.. for people sayin osibanjo was vp during this disastrous regime..i ask you all pls tel me the power a vp has in any country to make concrete policies and change?? The best thing we can do for ourselves as a country is vote a neutral competent and liberal leader,hopefully apc gives osibanjo the ticket..if not we are on a long thing.. |
Politics / Re: Osinbajo’s Adeboye-Inspired RCCG Supremacist Bigotry Now Open - Farooq Kperogi by syntekelite(m): 9:57am On May 03, 2022 |
ogbuefi677: 39 cold thirty three for you.. you have said it all.. |
Family / Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by syntekelite(m): 9:46am On May 03, 2022 |
wirinet: Thats my point all along,it aint an argument, its a statement of fact based on my years of experiencing such traditions.. i am not sayin this based on hearsay its based on eye witness account..as for the parents thats their way,they patiently watch and wait till something like this happens,trust me they would have told their daughter to bring the baby father for introduction,some dont..at the end of it all most cases have seen they take the child and change his or her surname to the woman's maiden name.. |
Family / Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by syntekelite(m): 9:27am On May 03, 2022 |
wirinet: Seems you know nothin about eastern culture.. u cohabit with a woman, no formal introduction, no traditional wedding, and they both stay far from the woman's home,she unfortunately passed away, tell me how the woman's family is supposed to react?? What if she was used, or beaten or many other scenarios to many to list, seems you dont know the meaning of marriage.... Its why prosecutors cant compel a woman to testify against her husband thats how strong tying the knot is.. if that guy jam better eastern folks he wont even have strength to type on nairaland . 1 Like |
Family / Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by syntekelite(m): 11:09am On May 02, 2022 |
You are lucky they didnt charge you for murder... |
Satellite TV Technology / Re: Was Mermaid Caught In Nigeria As Claimed In Viral Facebook Post? by syntekelite(m): 5:46pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
I still wonder how people think mermaids are half fish and the devil has horns... |
Politics / Re: NAF Airstrike Kills Children In Niger State, Destroys Houses by syntekelite(m): 5:44pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
dre11: So they villagers know the terrorists camps...make una dey deceive una self.. |
Romance / Re: I'm Receiving Death Threats From My Girlfriend's Ex by syntekelite(m): 5:38pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
Real men dont come on social media asking fr advice abt such trivial issues..the reason??.... There are diff categories of peeps who will give you advice.. 1- the simps and romantics who will tell you to either run for your life or fight for the love of your life, 2- the alpha male pretenders who will tell you to stand your ground sey notin dey happen, 3-the rugged who will tell you to set the guy up make hin collect.. 4- the real alpha males like me who will pick the guys call and set up a meet at his location make we relate over a bottle of rum..( note anytin fit sup fr the zone..life at owners risk ) its left to you to decide who you be... |
Politics / Re: From 7 To 70: Why Are They Not Talking About This - By Femi Adesina by syntekelite(m): 5:21pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
At the end of all the venting..pls lets reserve small anger for voting out this fools taking us fr granted.yes a lot of you all made mistake thinkin buhari go be am..... Noone is above mistake.. abeg next election vote the man not the party or the tribe or the religion..... |
Crime / Re: NDLEA, DSS Burst Abuja Cannabis Party, Stop Launch Of 'Dead Man's Fingers' Drink by syntekelite(m): 5:13pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
CandyOps: Generator wey you dey inhale nkor 1 Like |
Celebrities / Re: Banky W: I Was Disappointed Wizkid Didn’t Attend My Wedding by syntekelite(m): 5:09pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
Frenchblood: Rubbish.. hin for postpone hin wedding nah.. since wizkid na hin go help am wed..i wonder how this is news |
Travel / Re: Man Mistakenly Sends 130k To Bolt Driver Instead Of #1,300 (pictures) by syntekelite(m): 3:14pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
Ademola47: Oga u get 130k and your phone dey hang?? Get a better phone.. |
Family / Re: Christland Sex Scandal: Where Did We Go Wrong? What No One Is Talking About by syntekelite(m): 3:11pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
HardMirror: Everything you said is all from your own one sided knowledge.. there is no justification for your take on ladies who twerk and whatever on social media..the issue you or we should really address is the training both physical,mental,and spiritual that parents should give their children to withstand the world while living in the world...you cant stop oloshoing, runns, yahoo, twerking, bluefilms or porn cams,they are the prerogatives of both the person who chooses to perform such act and those who chose to watch..it has been so from the beginning of time..its the training parents and guardians give to their wards that becomes the armour against such temptations..i personally have lil ones i caught watchin porn at the age of 7-9 with a laptop given to them by their uncle..how i handled the matter is a story for another day.. My point is there will always be vices and peer pressures ,no need for any blame..what matters is solutions , prevention before cure and that falls into the hands of everyone in the society... 1 Like |
Family / Re: Christland Sex Scandal: Where Did We Go Wrong? What No One Is Talking About by syntekelite(m): 3:10pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
[quote author=HardMirror post=112139063]1. Are children of these days worse than the older generation? I see a lot of myopic comments claiming the world has spoil finish. This is not true. Underage children has been engaging in stupid things from the days of Adam and Eve. Children that grew up in an environment where they learned about sex early always end up having sex early. When I was still in Primary school in the 1990s, I knew some of my classmates who where already sexually active and I attended one of the best schools in Jos. The problem is the internet only makes it easier for children these days to get access to porn and things that corrupt them. Children will always do stupid things it is not a new thing or a big deal sef. They are children and need guidance. Many of us judging these kids 2ould have used our phones to watch porn if we had smart phones back in our days too. Children are curious and porn would interest them. 2. Private Schools with wahala. This Is another short sighted thought people are propagating. They think private schools are terrible in management. They are talking of Dowen collage cultism and now chrisland issue. They say private schools are over rated. Well, they are wrong. If any child trusts you and tells you what happens in their schools, You will fear god. Secondary school girls are doing runs in public schools and all their classmates know The boys are doing yahoo. They have cults too. Infact cultism from secondary school is very very old especially public schools. 3. Only girls are victims people have been one sided judging matters always against the males. If not for the video leak, many Nigerians were already out calling for the heads of the boys. Women know they can always get public sympathy and they are abusing it. They are using it unduly to revenge and hurt people they dont like. They cry rape when they need to deal with a man. Is it not a possibility that it was the girl that initiated the truth or dare game? Do we even know if it was the girl that initiated sex with those boys? We dont have these answers yet people jumped into conclusion and many even insisted that the girl must have been drugged by the boys because they believe only boys can be bad. Girls are always good 4. Where did we go wrong? Humans have always been bad, humans would always make bad life decisions. Children particularly would do things that are wrong because that is how children are. Exposure to social media is not helping them, giving them mobile phones is not helping, movies, music are all confusing them. The worst influence on these girls are Ladies. You ladies always twerking online, always taking suggestive videos. The only thing you do on tick tok is dance and twerk. You sexualize every picture you take even pictures you take in church. The younger girls begin to develop the wrong mindset that sex is the most important thing most of you girls cannot take a picture without emphasizing your butt or boobs. . The reason why I focused on women towards the end is because there is this assumption that it is men that sexually expose children. The moment a child is discovered to be sexually adventurous, the public begins to ask that all the men in the family including the dad of the child be suspected. This has been the way it has been for ages, men Are always the evil ones in the eyes of the society. That is why the mum of the chrisland girl came out to play the same old rape card instead of addressing the moral delinquency issue of the children involved [/quot Everything you said is all from your own one sided knowledge.. there is no justification for your take on ladies who twerk and whatever on social media..the issue you or we should really address is the training both physical,mental,and spiritual that parents should give their children to withstand the world while living in the world...you cant stop oloshoing, runns, yahoo, twerking, bluefilms or porn cams,they are the prerogatives of both the person who chooses to perform such act and those who chose to watch..it has been so from the beginning of time..its the training parents and guardians give to their wards that becomes the armour against such temptations..i personally have lil ones i caught watchin porn at the age of 7-9 with a laptop given to them by their uncle..how i handled the matter is a story for another day.. My point is there will always be vices and peer pressures ,no need for any blame..what matters is solutions , prevention before cure and that falls into the hands of everyone in the society... 1 Like |
Crime / Re: Who Knows This Young Lady She's Been Roaming Around Inside Trade Fair by syntekelite(m): 2:57pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
Greatzeus: Though your intention is good , your advice is wrong.. we no get police for naija.. tell @op to find the numbers of motherless homes or the yaba psychiatric home or welfare homes..they are the ones who attend to such once there is no next of kin.. |
Politics / Re: NURTW Vs TOOAN: Gunshots As Oluomo, Istijaba’s Boys Clash In Lagos by syntekelite(m): 2:54pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
Mc wey the drummer wey dey make am dance dey lead am go hin own chiller...its all strategy from the devious strategist.... 2 Likes |
Family / Re: 15-Year-Old Boy Caught Trying To Lodge In A Hotel With 2 Girls (Video) by syntekelite(m): 9:26am On Apr 20, 2022 |
LibertyRep: No go beat person child ohhh..life no be like before community training is gone.. you risk your own life now by beating someone else child,especially the girl child.. 1 Like |
Politics / Re: Tinubu Confuses Electricity And Phone Infrastructure (Video) by syntekelite(m): 9:21am On Apr 20, 2022 |
I hope all you guys will vent your anger come election,not just online.. vote the person not the party..if someone like pat utomi contests and his party is the least party in terms of numbers i will vote him cos thats the only way we can move forward..we should remember that pdp is apc.. lets vote like the europeans and the british ..they vote candidates not parties,they vote records not party,they vote competence not party.. 2 Likes |
Agriculture / Re: A Soft Bed: What My Wife And I Do When It Rains On The Farm (Video) by syntekelite(m): 9:15am On Apr 20, 2022 |
No tel your wife mke hin dress decent for camera..na when alpha males snatch am your eye go clear.. |
Politics / Re: Nobody Will Be Allowed To Destabilise Nigeria - President Buhari Vows by syntekelite(m): 9:10am On Apr 20, 2022 |
LordviccoDaGuru: The major destabliser dey vow against himself..wonders..... |
Politics / Re: Finally, Buhari Shipwrecks The Anti-Corruption War - Punch Editorial by syntekelite(m): 9:07am On Apr 20, 2022 |
@vulturegrills pls come and pray that your usual prayer for the nation,then shout starboy everywhere,after which you blame jonathan over and over again... 2 Likes 1 Share |
Education / Re: Chrisland School Sex Scandal: Where Are The Boys? by syntekelite(m): 12:36pm On Apr 19, 2022 |
luminouz: I think you all are talking to a cousin of the girl in question.. that @bara...something handle has been repeating the same thing to all of you..sounds like her brother or cousin who is in denial.. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Education / Re: Chrisland School Sex Scandal: Where Are The Boys? by syntekelite(m): 12:36pm On Apr 19, 2022 |
luminouz: I think you all are talking to a cousin of the girl in question.. that bala..something handle has been repeating the same thing to all of you..sounds like her brother or cousin who is in denial.. 6 Likes |
Education / Re: Chrisland School Sex Scandal: Where Are The Boys? by syntekelite(m): 12:24pm On Apr 19, 2022 |
baralatie: U re right and wrong at the same time..the girl is 14..opened her page 2016... The boys are 11 and 13... Guess they all molested each other.. the real crime was the recording which is against the law..but that case is also dead on arrival cos she wasnt secretly recorded.. wizkids son clarified that part..it was recorded on her phone with her consent.. the only crime that can be pursued now is distribution of child porn . 8 Likes 1 Share |
Education / Re: Chrisland School Sex Scandal: Where Are The Boys? by syntekelite(m): 12:18pm On Apr 19, 2022 |
Hohenheim: Not that you arent right of your assesment... But pls answer me what purpose was the lil girls's likee page and onlyfans page for,what purpose is her twerking meant for,what purpose did she make a porn video for,and for whose watching pleasure does she dance seductively to trashy songs for while putting on trashy clothes.. My psychological evaluation---- she most likely was disvirgined at a tender age by someone very close to her..someone she trusts completely.. 2 Likes |
Education / Re: Chrisland School Sex Scandal: Where Are The Boys? by syntekelite(m): 12:10pm On Apr 19, 2022 |
Kdon2: He is right..like i said from the onset..boys and girls were giving diff rooms, 4th floor fr girls,11th floors fr boys.. the video was recorded as a dare..wizkids son who was also in dubai saw the video days back on his friends phone and told his mum.. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: My Father Dragging My Mom's Property With Me, how the Issue Was Resolved by syntekelite(m): 8:20am On Apr 19, 2022 |
allcomage: Wow..interesting.. 1 Like 1 Share |
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