No marriage is perfect, There's a big difference between TV series and reality.

Learn to ignore certain minor things. (Tolerance)

Learn to love, gift and forgive.

GorillaApp:

Thank you

Bro what's up, I want to visit Calabar as well next week for a short trip (2-3days)

What hotel did you stay in, What was your experience in it, what about the price range and what are your recommendations on it or another place? Thanks.

Stevenbright:


Will the signature be a forged one or the signature will be that of the person impersonating him?

Anyway, that is impersonation and if he can get a lawyer to prove he is innocent of the alledged signing of the document, you will be guilty of impersonation!

The signature is of the person impersonating him.

budaatum:


So, if a magistrate in a customary court told her it is legal, why are you here asking on her behalf if it is legal?

Is it perhaps because you know it is illegal and she or you is lying?

I brought it here for experienced people to help out or say something, I told her I didn't feel alright with it and I don't want any issues along the line. So maybe a legal practicioner or one with experience could help clarify us.

Houseontherock1:

Impersonation is a felony in Nigeria!
"Any person who, with intent to defraud any person, falsely represents himself to be some other person, living or dead, is guilty of a felony and is liable to imprisonment for three years."

budaatum:
A person I know is about to go and rob First Bank. They reckon if they kill everyone there there'd be no witnesses and they'd thereby never be caught.

That illegal!

Thanks for the info but she claimed that it was a magistrate that told her and It's legal and she could go ahead with such.

So my good friend and coursemate who is about to divorce after few years of marriage sent me this, I'd love to know your opinion and if it's legal to proceed.

"
I'm trying to divorce my husband behind his back in a customary court using the traditional marriage.
I'm told I can get someone to impersonate him and collect the court order from the bailiff and sign it.
Then not appear in court during the court hearing it will be said he didn't show up because he is no longer interested in the marriage and has given his consent when he signed the court order.
Making me the only person to appear in Court.
Till judgment is passed.
Then the verdict will be sent to him.
"

So, I need advise and clarity on this.
my question is, How legal is this? Hope it doesn't cause a problem in the long run?

by

ProjectsCityNG:
Spiritual attack 100%. It's not a.condition that is known by many. If you speak with elders they will guide you


You need to push out the spiritual arrows in your body sapping your strength

If it was a spiritual attack then what's the way forward, what's the nexy step for me?

dopedealer:
I hope you're not depressed .

If not, try and engage in early morning activities like morning devotion, if your a Muslim early morning Tahajjud. Immediately after , check out for morning jogging and aerobics for about an hour.

Exercise have been known to be good anti depressants and also helps to motivate people ahead of the day and lighten up mood .

Seems you're not working this one you sleep whole day , when you get back from your jogging , you can clean and arrange the house. After that , take a shower , eat your break fast .

If you have any activity for the day .
Pls go out immediately . Do not go back to sleep . If no activity, You can try and watch a documentary on national geographic channel or even movies .
Just keep the brain working .

If there is no light in your area , listen to an educative radio program , politics , news etc.

Another good way to improve your mood is to engage in gyming every morning .

Do this for a week and give us feedback.

Funny enough, I do home workout everyday, More of like gym and pullups. But it still doesn't make any difference asides the body changes.

I'm not depressed, Neither am I sick. But it's well, I think I'll be going out more often.

vozkined:
u thinking too much, stuff aren't coming together as u want it to that's why d thinking, the country getting harder by the day and all ur effort is looking baseless.


Try something new or add to what u doing.

And also change environment for a while.

I'm considering this changing of environment, I live alone but I think I'll have to go back to my parents house. This isn't the life a man should be living.

I don't feel alive, I lie in bed all day, I don't feel like myself, I know myself as a man to be agile and strong and having that hustler spirit. I naturally sleep around 10-11 and wake up 3am. But now, I don't even understand

I feel so so weak and it hurts me severely, I don't feel alive, I don't feel motivated, I don't feel okay, I have dreams and goals to achieve but I don't feel the vibe anymore. Just on my phone or Whatsapp or Instagram wasting away all my time, but I can assure you that I'm not addicted to any social media.

I want elders in the house to please give me and advise or tips or tricks I can use to eliminate this weakness.

I'm not sick, atleast I know my body when I'm sick.
But this is just so weird and makes me feel sad or unhappy, Sometimes I wonder if it's a spiritual attack against me but even if it is so, I badly need a solution because I'm not turning younger anymore, My parents are already looking up to me and here I am lying in bed all day lazying around with a weak and unmotivated body.

So, I recently went for my convocation event and I met an old friend.
I only knew him from an organization I attended back in my first year and that was it. We only meet and greet whenever we see in school and also chat once in a while.
So fast forward to the convocation day, I met him and he kept complementing my suit, then that was all. Then he chatted me up on WhatsApp and we spoke again, then he started making unusual requests, Like he wanted to visit me. It's been long and stuff, Sure I totally understand but we weren't even close friends back then just normal casual mates. Hmmmm
I told him that my coursemates already have a planned after party hangout and I'm even part of the people in charge and I'll be super busy.
Then he said something weird again, Another red flag. He said I should just excuse myself and so we can come talk and gist then I can go back. I told him it isn't possible until I'm done which will be around 9pm or later.

I went ahead to ask him if there was any problem and he said he just didn't want to sleepover in his place and that he had small issues with his roommate and stuff. He also asked if I had a roommate, I had to lie cos I'm not ready to squat anyone, I just told him he traveled for an emergency and will be back next week.
So, after the hangout , I went home around 9:30pm and he started calling again that he's on his way, I honestly wished I had switched off my phone.
Then because he knows my lodge (my lodge is kind of popular in that area of my school) He just came and was asking for my room number.
Then we just talked about random stuffs then the next red flag was, When he asked me if he could pull off his shirt that there was heat.
Like, You're my fellow guy? Why would you even ask for permission? Something must not be adding u. I just told him sure but that question made me so suspicious that instead of being tipsy from the alcohol I took, I was at high alert and awake.
Then next he came to the bed where I was, But I was focused on my phone, I went to Instagram and started watching videos to make me stay awake.
Then he started, Anytime he talks he will touch me or rub my leg, Hmmm then he continued like that but I was keeping my cool, Once he crosses his boundary, He go collect.
Then he kept on being touchy till he touched my stomach and said I should pull off my shirt that it's hot here, Told him plain that if I was hot, I would have done that since, that he shouldn't worry. Then he left that disgusting hand on my stomach, If u see the way I flinged it away with anger.

Then instantly I noticed he was disappointed, if not that it was already Midnight and no bike around that time, I'm sure he would have left immediately. then he went on to say he wanted to sleep on the floor, I just gave him the duvet and continued watching my videos till he slept off.
Before 6am, He just told me he was going and left immediately.

Like what is wrong with some categories of humans?
Do you think every guy out there is into that gay disgusting shit?
Even if I'm a lady, is that how you'll just approach someone and want to go down with the person? E come be gay, like you dey craze?

My initial plan was to create an alert so they'll beat the shit out of him and embarrass him but something in me just kept telling me I should keep calm unless he crosses his boundary.

What a disgusting fellow! If you're gay and you're reading this, Nah beg I dey beg. Try dey respect yourself because this dirty act of yours, it's not everyone that can tolerate it, It's just like a snake is crawling on my skin.

To my readers, Perverts are on the loose again . Stay woke, be at alert always.

Spits!!!!

Terkx:
please send me his number, lemme link him up with my friend.

Tag me on a dead thread with your friends number(You will clear afterwards), I'll forward to him. He'll text her directly.

Jeon:
Very funny.
We have African Women in the US, so he shouldn't waste time.

There is a reason he decided to go for that.

A very good friend of mine who I have worked with as well told me he is seriously looking for a wife to marry, Especially here in Africa.

He claimed he would be asking some IQ questions to test your intellectual capacity.

Physiques doesn't matter to him, but you must not have a kid.

If you're interested, please indicate or contact me.

He's a fulltime US citizen and is willing to bring you over for a serious relationship.

He's rich so money is not the problem.

Techie25:
UPDATE!!!!

I forgot to update here, After 5 days, she contacted me and I snubbed her call. Later called her in the evening for us to meet.
We met and she wanted to hug me and pretend as if nothing ever happened. I pushed her away and kept a straight face. I told her I dont have time for this, She should state what she called me for that I have exams to read for.

She claimed she doesn't know what's happening and because of time I just stated exactly what happened to her while watching her face. She kept mute for like 3 minutes and then said She didn't see me, She started all those emotional bullshits and even cried that she didn't see me. Was even swearing. She claimed if she did, She would have called me or say Hi, that she even showed those guys my place while passing by and introduced me as her EX, lmao.. dey play

So I told her it is her life and I really don't give a shit who she sleeps with WTF but really wanted to know why after claiming sister Mary AMAKA and you wanted to focus and bla bla bla, then you still go around sleeping with guys. She said she actually went to charge her pone lol (OVERNIGHT OHHHH) and nothing happened. I told her I'm not a fool and if she continue lying, I'd leave here immediately, and she began that nonsense fake cry abi fake act again. Then later admitted they did but she didn't plan it. Why wont u plan it when it is only those yahoo looking boys that have light in the whole of my area? you don't have female friends? dey play

I confronted her that I'm certain he's not the only one she has slept with and she said she has actually slept with another guy also. LMAO. Ahsawo kobo kobo

Sister Mary AMAKA, SISTER Pastoress of the most high, collecting dick upadan. Her WhatsApp status before I blocked her nah church church and church, they deceive herself. She lied she really wanted to stop but somehow she still ends up having sex with guys. Lol . I told her she better helps herself because she's heading towards addiction and when that happens, You are on your own.

Told her its her business though and I cant help her fight that fight. That she is on her own, Told her she has been replaced and so far I am living a very happy life. Lol! and I could see how disappointed she was.

Since two days ago she has given me 9 missed calls, I'm not even gonna take that fucking calls because I honestly don't know what to discuss with her again , Will definitely block her call number too. FEAR WOMEN!!!! Lol

advanceDNA Dyfynezz12 PoliteActivist fyzaila Gadafii

UPDATE!!!!

I forgot to update here, After 5 days, she contacted me and I snubbed her call. Later called her in the evening for us to meet.
We met and she wanted to hug me and pretend as if nothing ever happened. I pushed her away and kept a straight face. I told her I dont have time for this, She should state what she called me for that I have exams to read for.

She claimed she doesn't know what's happening and because of time I just stated exactly what happened to her while watching her face. She kept mute for like 3 minutes and then said She didn't see me, She started all those emotional bullshits and even cried that she didn't see me. Was even swearing. She claimed if she did, She would have called me or say Hi, that she even showed those guys my place while passing by and introduced me as her EX, lmao.. dey play

So I told her it is her life and I really don't give a shit who she sleeps with WTF but really wanted to know why after claiming sister Mary AMAKA and you wanted to focus and bla bla bla, then you still go around sleeping with guys. She said she actually went to charge her pone lol (OVERNIGHT OHHHH) and nothing happened. I told her I'm not a fool and if she continue lying, I'd leave here immediately, and she began that nonsense fake cry abi fake act again. Then later admitted they did but she didn't plan it. Why wont u plan it when it is only those yahoo looking boys that have light in the whole of my area? you don't have female friends? dey play

I confronted her that I'm certain he's not the only one she has slept with and she said she has actually slept with another guy also. LMAO. Ahsawo kobo kobo

Sister Mary AMAKA, SISTER Pastoress of the most high, collecting dick upadan. Her WhatsApp status before I blocked her nah church church and church, they deceive herself. She lied she really wanted to stop but somehow she still ends up having sex with guys. Lol . I told her she better helps herself because she's heading towards addiction and when that happens, You are on your own.

Told her its her business though and I cant help her fight that fight. That she is on her own, Told her she has been replaced and so far I am living a very happy life. Lol! and I could see how disappointed she was.

Since two days ago she has given me 9 missed calls, I'm not even gonna take that fucking calls because I honestly don't know what to discuss with her again , Will definitely block her call number too. FEAR WOMEN!!!! Lol

dkidd:
Bleached girls with green viens and black knuckles and toes like dog shiid, smelly mouth and kpekus girls, a married girl or one who's pregnant for another man, a girl that talks too damn much and any girl that wears this shitty skirt below 👇

I don laff tire

A Hoe at 40 is a Hoe forever!!!

Puss360:
Lol... OP.. please make a counter thread about the type of men I lady won't open leg for...
Coz this thread is a bit one-sided

It doesn't matter, You can comment as well since your monicker already proved you're a female.

stacyadams:
Cheap looking hook up girls in Nigeria..

Nigerian girls are useless,all of them...

The great words of the legendary mosdii

But you know most girls can hide that aspect of them? How do u detect they are hookup girl even when u are the one that toasted her and how would u feel if afta knacking the proposed gf material and u later realized she's into hookup?

I'd personally love to hear your thoughts or opinion on the kind of girls you will never have sex with no matter what, even if they keep pleading openly with you.

Let's go guys!!!!!

freeborn02:


Would she have ignored him if she wasnt doing anything with the guys?

I'm telling u bro, You really need to see her trying to shamelessly hide her face. She couldn't even look at me. Lol but That's her cup of tea. Local man ain't no simp!!

fyzaila:
Don't jump into conclusion, because you weren't there, you didn't ask those guys what she went to do there. So how did you come into conclusion that it was s3x she went to have there?

You need to see the guys she was following lol

advanceDNA:
Oga...u are just jealous....they did night vigil.... if u want to join ...tell her



On a serious note.... u are just naive...U no sabi woman way.... dont u read comment from most married men here? wife wey dem marry for house for years still form saint when it comes to sex..be using indirect moves..

Women will always pretend when it comes to sex....make it look like u made them do it...like they never wanted it...like they are doing u a favour....woman will visit u amd be saying....."i will soon be going oo" ... go naaaaa...na lie ooo...na their green light be that for off pant...

na their way.... ur own is to make a woman feel desired and let her off pant by herself ..all those i am a chorister, i pray twice a week are just mind games to make u feel she's a good girl...

saying u are helping her focus and blocking her is telling her u are a mumu or that u dont desire her anymore.... u know how many sex starved idiót dey her dm waiting for you to fvck up...she will just respond to their chat and u have replaced in a second... na husband hard to see for woman.....fvck boys full everywhere ..

Jealous keh? For someone I blocked her contact? She's already out of my life for good and I already replaced her with a more better girlie. even if she open leg. I no go enter. Just so shocked that sister mary is living a life full of deceit.

I had to use another monicker so I can be free to express how I'm feeling honestly.

(Sorry it might be long but it's a true life story and I'd need ur comments though )

So There's this girl I kinda dated, She's in my university and she usually come to my lodge then and we use to hit. But she's a christian sha (Dominion city) all this new generation church. Most times when she before she even comes around, She'd be telling me things like she doesn't go to guys house, She don't wanna be having sex, bla bla bla that it's against her faith, Her church and I'm making her commit sin bla bla bla..

Most times, I feel sad about that but I told myself I'd work on leaving her so she can go serve her God, Why I was even still with her was that after she's done saying that, She'll likely come over the following week and even be the one to enjoy the sex more than I do and that's weird for someone claiming to be a full devoted Christian.

But when I invite her over the following week or month, She'd Continue her bla bla bla story but as long as she agrees and comes over. Then boom, Nah she go even remove ur boxers for u.

So fast forward to this year, She told me she was elected a serious position in church and she wants to be devoted, and she wants to stop having sex. (Celibate) she so much love using that word.

So I kind of felt sad and decided to end our sex journey as long as she comes to give me goodbye sex, Which she agreed and that was it.

I just wanted her to focus and probably let her be because she claimed I was the only one she was having sex with and needed to stop and focus.


She usually calls me and Sometimes tells me she's missing me and stuff and It usually arouses me but In the course of even helping her achieve the proposed devoted christian lifestyle, I had to block her on Whatsapp.

So she could avoid me and focus and so far, We haven't met or done anything since 2 months. (I, Myself is happy about that)

Fast forward to this morning, I was hungry and decided to step out to purchase food, on my way. I was shocked, infact flabbergasted and so disappointed to see this Supposed christian abi Church girl abi ashawo coming out with two (yahoo boy looking) guys from a lodge closeby to mine.

Like I was dumfounded, She was shocked to see me because of course she knew what she did, I could see it all over her face, She didn't even say Hi. She just walked past with her disappointed face and those guys.

I, myself as a man. I just walked past as if I don't know her nor know what's going on.

So Aunty, I thought you wanted to be a devoted Christian? You have been telling me this since last two years but I even decided to help you achieve your Christianity lifestyle by avoiding u and stay far away from you.

And you went ahead to be sleeping with guys(close to my lodge for that matter, No shame, Nothing!!!), Even sleeping over with them because it's very obvious she was going home that morning and was so ashamed of even raising her face to me.


I'm not that sad nor bothered sha because she's no longer my business

BUT..............


Omo I FEAR WHO NO FEAR WOMAN!!!!!!!









UPDATE!!!!

I forgot to update here, After 5 days, she contacted me and I snubbed her call. Later called her in the evening for us to meet.
We met and she wanted to hug me and pretend as if nothing ever happened. I pushed her away and kept a straight face. I told her I dont have time for this, She should state what she called me for that I have exams to read for.

She claimed she doesn't know what's happening and because of time I just stated exactly what happened to her while watching her face. She kept mute for like 3 minutes and then said She didn't see me, She started all those emotional bullshits and even cried that she didn't see me. Was even swearing. She claimed if she did, She would have called me or say Hi, that she even showed those guys my place while passing by and introduced me as her EX, lmao.. dey play

So I told her it is her life and I really don't give a shit who she sleeps with WTF but really wanted to know why after claiming sister Mary AMAKA and you wanted to focus and bla bla bla, then you still go around sleeping with guys. She said she actually went to charge her pone lol (OVERNIGHT OHHHH) and nothing happened. I told her I'm not a fool and if she continue lying, I'd leave here immediately, and she began that nonsense fake cry abi fake act again. Then later admitted they did but she didn't plan it. Why wont u plan it when it is only those yahoo looking boys that have light in the whole of my area? you don't have female friends? dey play

I confronted her that I'm certain he's not the only one she has slept with and she said she has actually slept with another guy also. LMAO. Ahsawo kobo kobo

Sister Mary AMAKA, SISTER Pastoress of the most high, collecting dick upadan. Her WhatsApp status before I blocked her nah church church and church, they deceive herself. She lied she really wanted to stop but somehow she still ends up having sex with guys. Lol . I told her she better helps herself because she's heading towards addiction and when that happens, You are on your own.

Told her its her business though and I cant help her fight that fight. That she is on her own, Told her she has been replaced and so far I am living a very happy life. Lol! and I could see how disappointed she was.

Since two days ago she has given me 9 missed calls, I'm not even gonna take that fucking calls because I honestly don't know what to discuss with her again , Will definitely block her call number too. FEAR WOMEN!!!! Lol